my boyfriend climbs climbs on our fridge/oven very often! I have caught him five times now, even made a photo of him once (pic related). He always has flimsy excuses like he saw a spider there or he thougjt something s up there!
I know for a long time that my bf is hiding something from me and i dont know whether it is in connection with this!
/b does anyone of you know what he might be doing up there?
>>685269591 Ok. He's hiding something. Big deal? Ask him about it. Don't ask him to tell you what it is. But ask him about it. Ask if it's anything you should be concerned with. If not, respect him wanting to have something apart from you.
You might not be able to provide everything he wants/needs, or he might not be ready to share that with you yet. But you might provide enough to make that aspect worth it.
> 34 year old marriedfag,10 years > lots hidden from my wife (not surprisingly, sex toys and porn stuff) > she knows. she respects it. she doesn't ask (probably doesn't want to know based on all that I already have shared with her!)
>>685269964 >>685269964 Sure i asked him but he always claimes that evrything is alright and said his standard excuses why he was on the fridge.. I just want him to know that he can talk to me bout EVERYTHING and whatever he s doing in kitchen ill help/paticipate/whatever!
Of course he can have his privacy and stuff but its really kafkaesque to climb on the fridge ! Im just wondering what he s doing there
>>685271349 Did you call his bullshit? Same excuse every time. But after getting caught five time with shit excuses and being confronted on that fact and making sure that he knows you REALLY don't buy it, maybe he'll fess up. Ask him specifically if he's hiding something up there and, make sure he knows it's ok if he is and you won't go up there. But you just want to know wtf is going on.
His insanely degenerate mind is collapsing under the strain of sucking so much dicks he subconciously feels guilt and hides from his shame in what he feels as private, small, comfortable and secure.
Your mind will behave in ways to counter your own Anti-Natural Degeneracy and force you to do this on impulse, in repeat cycles. You will most likely judge the appearance of others and their fashion sense, you will impulse buy on things you think other people might have and you find an excuse to need that particular item of clothing or useless object.
Degeneracy is aptly named. It degenerates the mind.
>>685272927 thats really sad! My boyfriend is suffering and was to dumb to notice anything! Even worse, i thought he has drug stuff or other secrets before i considered that my fuckbuddy could me mental sick! Omg i feel like a monster! A very stupid monster
>>685273049 Probably how often does he do this and how does he act when doing so? Does he act sad or kind of shaky in his response? Or does he get mad at you when you try to stop him? This is just an example of course.
>>685273160 i fucking hate ugly bastards like you! You know when people would stop posting in /b/ than /b/ wouldn exist anymore?? Be fucking glad of funny random stuff like this u cocksucking piece of shit or u prefer trap and pedophile stuff?? Stuff like this should be more on /b/ i hope u die ugly faggot
>>685273375 Well it's a possibility sure but that's what it sounds like to me I've seen people do some weird things before because of anxiety or a number of other medical conditions so that wouldn't surprise me. Specially with how frequent you said he does it that's what makes me think that it's something mental a lot of people have weird tics that range from a plethora of different/weird things.
>>685273445 Ive caught him five times but that was a total cooncidence like when i came home earlier or something like this! He acts really like caught and nervous, natting his strange excuses! I dont know what exactly his emotions are cuz he s actin normal and stuff! It mostly was like, me: "ehm what are u doing?" N he: "ou nothing i just thought something crawled up there!" *climbs down quickly* Me "u sure?" "Yes? What else should be?" "I dunno but its not normal to climb in the kitchen around?" "As i said, there was an insect" and so on and on
>>685274279 Well the best thing to do would be to hide a camera and see if he stays up there or if he actually does have something hidden. That and talking to him about it is the only way you would know but in all honesty it's just a very strange thing to do.
>He hides drugs there. >He hides a cell phone in which he texts his side chick on up there. >He has a sex dungeon up there. >He hides and takes creepshots of you up there. >He has a hidden camera up there that takes video of you. >If that is an apartment, he is peeking into the neighbors apartment. >He's autistic and he likes it up there.
>>685274000 Thank you! I will talk to him and let him know that ill always support him no matter what! But when u re right i feel qualmish that i didnt shared this to me, i thought i gabe him the feelings of security and that he can talk to me... This turned out really bad, thanks for help anon
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