>>685227301 get a life you probably are ugly, poor social skills or something like that. try something some social activity like soccer which will, eventually, lead u to some social circle. be more interesting, most patients are just boring when they come talking about these issues.
>>685227945 Yeah well. After the rape thing my mom didn't believed me, I was 5 or so, trust issues with people in general since then. My father was half polish half Irish, worst person I've ever met, always drunk and mad. Abusive and violent as fuck too. I went through teenager years contemplating suicide and shit, I just didn't end it all because of my younger sister, my intention was to prevent that what happened to me repeats with her.
>>685228855 That's the funny part is you can't use all those tactics you learned in school to evaluate yourself, not accurately anyway. None of the ones I know have a clue how dysfunctional they are. You're here so I know you're not completely normal.
how about this, im not emotional, i only get angry once every few years, i rarely get upset over death, with all my family that have died i have only cried once and that was months after the death, i also dont love anyone or anything,
also i dont have much fear, been threatened and it never phased me just made me feel intrigued even though i was at knife point
to a point i see life like an experiment, i veiw it as a list of events and experiences,
also i cant get drunk, atleast not so far, and that includes amounts of alcohol; that would make most people drunk enough to get extremely drunk to the point they can hardly remember the day before, been out partying before and i drank double what all my friends did, and i barely got tipsy but everyone else was smashed and could hardly remember what happened the night before, i wonder if that's because of my mindset and how i view it or if it solely because i have an extremely high tolerance to alcohol
HI OP! Missed you! Please keep coming back in the future, you still have me as a fan. Is your email loveoverwhelming? I would like to talk in private sometime! Thank you, please come back in the future!
I'm still waiting for her to be more of a bitch... Also... I'm trying to figure out which posts are hers for sure. There's only a few intelligent posters on here.. So say something bitchy then... Be a bitch... Bitch :D
>>685234314 Knifed 5 young people at a party. Said the sun god was talking to him. Thought the apocolypse was going to happen that night and had to kill them because they were vampires / warewolves. He was a 4.0 student with psych degree. Father was police chief. Sounds like he will be getting a NCR ruling which a lot of people think is bullshit
There's allot of twisted shit on here, if I were a bored psychologist that enjoyed my job... I would be interested in all you crazy pieces of shit posting your cocks all day. Which btw, is completely fucking useless and just discouraging as a human being.... I'm not innocent but seriously... Who jacks off on pictures and what the fuck is a cock tribute... We get it... You like your cock and want to show people. Why don't you go use it and cum on real woman's faces. It's possible trust me.... Or just all your MOM. I come here trying to get the occasional funny memes.. Or dank memes... But sifting through the human shit posters out there is discouraging. I'm not complaining, just want to let you know that YOU'RE a piece of garbage and go out the house and do something. Ok losers
>>685228693 your problem is you have polish and irish dad. irish half is always drunk, while polish half is incaplable of not understanding things due to being polish and also drunk. its clearly simple anon.
>>685234414 Had read a few books of it. More to rhymes and children story book. How is that related to psychology?
When I said I was interested in books or ebooks regarding psychology, I wanted to read something that can help me understand the human psyche. I want to understand why humans have desire, why do we develop curiosity, why do we view something as it is and not as something else. Should I read books from Karl Marx or Nietschze or Freud? I really have no idea where to start. Did recently found a good wiki for psychology a week ago, but I don't think that would be enough.
WELL, I do want to go see one of these fuckers at some point so I guess I have some shit to talk about.... For the past few years I have been getting increasingly paranoid and uneasy around people, this is leading to trust issues with everyone and the smallest noises concerning me, I now also carry a knife everywhere I go (im a canadian no guns here) and its getting annoying as im sure there is nothing to worry about. I thought about it for a while and I thought that it might have come from something that happend to me as a child however I cant think of anything. thoughts?
Hey OP 26yr old femannon here, I have slept with over 3000 guys, never had steady boyfriend, am now almost finished my law degree but worried my past mgt come back to haunt me. Also sick of ppl calling me a slut. I am just liberated!
>>685226556 Went to see a psych, 3 hour-long sessions and $600 later I have a "relax place" in my head (which does about as much as thinking about jerking off) and I stared at this lady's hands move across my face ~1000 times while she asks me what I think. My answer was "your hands".
For not actually producing anything tangible you people sure make bank. Ya, I'm sure you can do some good but how many hours and thousands of dollars will it take? Fuck I could get half decent life advice from 4chins for free, just won't make blow the crystals again.
>>685238219 Anxiety and depression. Ultimately I think I need to fix it on my own, but it's difficult. In a way it's like I'm trapped in it, And I don't want re-uptake inhibitors as they will turn my brain into swiss cheese.
>>685226556 Ever consider any other field of science to work in?
I'm exploring my options and considering going into psychology, specifically cognitive neuropsychology. Research into changing perspectives, religious experiences, and corresponding brain activity seems really interesting but I am so unfamiliar I'm sure I don't have a good picture of the field. Wondering if you have any off-the-top-of-your head info you consider important for these interests. Really I like a lot of social sciences, just not sure what to specialize in: history, psychology, anthropology. Hell, even evolutionary bio and philosophy are part of my interests.
Know anything bout psychology and complex systems research?
I've been struggling with whether or not I'm trans or not for years now. I'm 21 and have thought about being a girl since I was 13.
I feel like I want to transition but there is also a part of me that feels like it wouldn't be worth it. (alienating my family, possibly ruining my chances at getting a job because of not passing, whether or not my trans feelings are legitimate or if they are strong enough to actually go through with it.) For example, I don't mind my penis but don't really use it for masterbation and don't desire to, I don't have much of a desire to wear women's clothes but I wish I was 5'7 and had boobs and a slim waist and be seen as a woman.
When I was in high school and a year and a half in college, I was very depressed.
Now I'm feeling better and think about transitioning but a little less.
I don't know how much is suppressed feelings, how much is legitimate trans feelings and how much of it is (and I hate to say this) possibly because of horniness or due to a fetish?
How can I be sure that I'm "trans enough" or trans at all and if transition is right for me?
That treatment is largely used for trauma. I could see her using it if your symptoms are related to trauma, but honestly it's not the best treatment method out there anyway. You paid $600 for a bogus, hyped up treatment method, a lot of research out there says the hand movements don't do a single thing for you.
Here's my advice op, find a community lcsw or lpc who works on a sliding scale so you don't waste your money, ask em what type of therapeutic approach they utilize and research it a little yourself and see if you're up for it. I'm partial to cbt myself, but it doesn't sit well for everybody
I'm not able to go about my daily life because I have disturbing and angry thoughts about a horrible event that happened to somebody very close to me, which I cannot do anything about. Also I lost that person (sorry for being so vague). What can I do? I'm worried that I'll get drunk and act violently because of this event.
>>685237273 your repressed memory theory is bunk science. it just doesn't happen. many psychological symptoms don't present themselves until the early/ mid 20s. If you're feeling lucid yet slipping down the slope of sanity, seek help now. Don't wait till you're already on the toboggan with the full force of gravity at your back.
>>685239235 you don't tell her. She doesn't want your advice nor will she listen if you give it. If she wanted you, she'd be with you. You can't make her want you, move on. It will hurt for a while then you'll forget she ever existed. That's life.
I'm fairly young. Not teens but very young. I want to live a straight life style but 4chsn showing me traps brought me to a point where bisexual porn is the norm and I spend an equal amount of Time fapping to guys and girls. Stil love traps though. I stress I do not want to give up my identity to gay culture as I feel like it's a relinquishing of freedom.
I have an addictive personality and my mother always confirmed this. As a child it surrounded being held by women caretakers in my life, which were many as my grandmother ran a daycare, and chocolate. I was a fat kid. Better now but still overweight. In recent times I've become addicted to playing guitar(started so I could woo current gf and continued when I broke up as a means to preserve self worth) and tobacco (pipe mostly but in the last couple months the occasional cig has become the every other day cig). I have always been able to feel the effects of low psychoactive drugs like nicotine and pseudo ephedrine and recently I've been stressed because I'm in training for a telemarketing (morally repugnant) Job. I feel more addicted than ever. Also love alcohol and weed for obvious recreational purposes.
Finally my Libedo is crazy low. It raises when I work out but it was way higher two years ago. Couple this with my active mysogeny, which comes out of being manipulated by multiple women and seeing their consistently irrational behavior, and my love life has been real bad lately. I can't trust women so I can't romantically bond with them and their looks aren't enough, but I want more than anything to want a relationship again and to feel that passion. What do?
>>685243597 I feel like I would be more confident and comfortable in my body. I feel like I wouldn't be fundamentally wrong or feel like I had to lie to people in some sort of way because they expect something different of me since I am a 5'10 guy with big hands and whatever.
I don't really know how my life would be different. I'd still be shy. It''s like when I'm doing physics homework or materials science homework or at work, and if I mess up I just get so angry and it's like a cascading effect like nothing is right even down to my gender.
That also scares me a bit because when things are going just fine, I don't think about it much. I sometimes do but it's more rational and mild.
>>685241101 You fantasize about being trans and think it will solve all your problems... spoilers: you will just have different problems. Confront your problems now, don't try and run, just to find that you can never escape them and have now mutilated yourself.
>>685245198 I don't know about that I feel like I don't have many problems The only one I can think of is "what am I doing with my life? (career wise)" Also the general feeling that I'm not smart enough to do anything with my life. Those and worrying about money sometimes but everyone worries about money, I imagine.
That's basically the only problems I have besides the trans thing. I'm otherwise fairly comfortable.
>>685244656 Listen you little self pitying cunt, you don't have an addictive personality. You have an obsessive personality. Just like right now how you're obsessing over the minutiae of your life and missing the big picture, which is that you are a FUCKING NORMAL HUMAN BEING. Everyone has problems, they just hide them so you cant see them. Hide your problems deep down, and voila! you're normal!
So in some ways having those features would make you have more confidence in yourself? But it's also not something you think about often when things are going fine... when things are going fine do you feel confident in yourself?
>>685244933 they likely stem from a desire to break the norm. Taboo has always had a strong pull. That you know it's wrong is a good thing, but also what probably draws you to it. Likely your desire for the taboo stems from a resentment of authority. Accept yourself as no better or worse than the society you resent, ans the desires should pass. If they persist or become stronger, please seek help in person, because raping a kid isn't worth getting assfucked by bubba for the rest of your life. And trust me, you WILL be caught.
>>685246155 >when things are going fine do you feel confident in yourself? Not especially. But maybe marginally. I second guess myself a lot even still. But since everything is going fine, I just have a lot less stress and don't get so angry or emotional or frazzled.
>>685245718 That IS the problem, anon. Existentially, you're unsure of yourself. You want to escape to a defined role, like how you view the rigidity of femininity. Again I will repeat, escaping your problems in this way will only lead to new problems later. Out of the frying pan into the fire.
Also, I suspect these feelings of uncertianty come from contact with negative family members of friends who are trying to tear you down to fir their own definition of who you are. Define yourself, don't live by their expectations of you. You ARE smart enough, you ARE good enough.
What's the difference between times when you are contemplating being trans often and The times it is not as often? How are you feeling when contemplating it? What's going on in your life when you are. Versus when you are not?
Also anon, the difference between a therapist and a keyboard warrior is the therapist doesn't tell you how you are supposed to feel and what you are supposed to do
>>685247719 those aren't really your feelings though. They're a defense mechanism to deflect criticism because you don't feel as though you're good enough now. I'm telling you that you are good enough now.
>>685247480 When I'm thinking that I am trans and really contemplating it, I am more depressed. Not ambitious at all. Extremely worrisome and feel 100% incompetent in everything I do down to getting out of bed. No hope. I usually don't have a whole lot planned in my life. (No job or school or ambitions) I don't know how much is just straight up run of the mill depression and how much is the trans issue.
When I'm not thinking about it as much, I'm VERY busy. Golfing, working, reading, exercising, tending to my dog and general research into subjects that pique my interest that day. (Those are usually unfocused and change) It could be coding then thermodynamics, then mechanical systems in cars, then how to properly detail cars, then chemical science into paint...
But during this time, I feel like I'm in control of my life and have hope for transition. So it's not like I never think about it, it's just I'm not worried about it as much? For example, when I get like this, when I exercise, I do butt and hip workouts and go for runs to stay lean and hopefully get bigger hips and a bigger butt. I feel good after I do those types of workouts like I'm on the right track I guess.
I don't know I'm not good enough though I am a college dropout and don't know what I'm doing with my life. I'm worthless to the workforce besides being able bodied enough to throw a shovel into the ground.
Fundamentally, I don't understand what you are saying... I'm good enough because I exist? Everyone is just good enough just...because?
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