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Hey /b/ My gf just broke up with me but she wants to be best

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Hey /b/
My gf just broke up with me but she wants to be best friends. What do I do?
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Be friends with benefits then? Win/Win for you OP
fuck her, fuck some other bitches, just have a good time
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>>683064783
this if possible

if not, then you have to decide if you can be friends with someone who just dumped you. personally I wouldnt be able to, i would need time and space to be friends again, but that's just me
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>>683064783
>>683064966
That's not an option. She told me we would never be a thing again. But this has happened twice now and it fucked up twice. I dunno what to do /b/ros
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>>683064423
Guess she wans you in her orbit, eh?
just dont be a beta, if you ever want another relationship in your life ok?
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>>683065147
Course man, I still love her though. She said we won't be a thing again but what do you think?
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>>683065293

>>683065116 I take from this post that she is impulsive/ sligtly unstable

In the end love is complicated but if she sees you "wait" for her than you screwed up royally and wont take your serious, but could be wrong thou
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>>683064423
>Doesn't want to be your gf.
>Wants the same amount of emotional attachment.
>Wants to fuck other guys and complain to you about them.

Fuck. No.

I did this, you will hate yourself and her more.

Be friends, sure. But draw a clear line and under no circumstances cross it.
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>>683064423
The only way is to go no contact. Otherwise you'll end listening to all the new dick she is getting
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Wat
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>>683065293
Stop being so beta, don't let yourself get friendzoned.
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>>683065680
This. Time time to move on anon.
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>>683064423
It's like being cucked and is not worth it. Just keep it cool between you guys, but don't remain 'best friends'.
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>>683065666
Nice Satanic trips yo
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>>683065919
tires, junk total chaos and a mothercare center in the back
I guess the government shortend the child support
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Been there, done that.

Accept that it's over forever.

If you like her company and can deal with the thought that she doesn't want you as a partner, stay her friend, for now.

From the moment she finds someone else, cut your losses and drop the friendship.
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>>683066355
Fuck off with this in every single thread.
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Tell her you need time for yourself, tell her both of you need to stay away from dating for a while, be the best man and be her friend, don't get her over your head and start looking for girls when you feel better.
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Rape her
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It's over. Move on. No point staying attached. Even if u like being around her for now, don't continue cause it'll be better later that u didn't stay around someone toxic to your mental health
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>>683064423
its up to you
you'll probably be hearing about all the dick she's been getting
if that doesnt bother you then by all means be best friends iwth her
otherwise focus on school or hobbies and let that heal your wounds
then one day you'll be out with friends and wont be thinking what she's doing
you'll look back later at night in bed
>"oh wow i didnt think about her tonight"
then you can start dating again
you'll probably see her again if you two have mutual friends
she wouldve had slept with a few guys since you
she'll have her heart broken by one of the guys
she'll then ask you to give it another try
thats when you remember how shitty she treated you while you gave her everything
you remember how the other girls you went out with were infinitely better than your ex
how the other girls never used you or walked all over you
how the other girls didnt treat their friends better than they treated you
you realize you didnt lose much
you realize you actually came out ahead of the break up
you found someone better
someone who not only has an amazing body but personality
someone who called your ex out on her bullshit to her face
someone who defended you to your ex and then tore her down
someone who then gave you a blowjob later that night but all you wanted to do was eat her out because of how incredible she is

anyways you'll be fine op
at times you'll feel like total shit but then realize how much better you are without her
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>>683064423
Go to her house and pour gas on every exit. Light them all and giggle to yourself as you walk away hearing hers and her family's screams fade into the distance.
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>>683064423
Stop talking to her asap
Move on
Take steps necessary to evolve into alpha male
Make that bitch miss you
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this >>683067753
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>>683064423
Tell her no
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>>683064423
Tell her to fuck off seriously. You'll be happier for it in the long run, maybe try to be friends way later when you don't feel anything anymore.
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There is a lot of good advice in this thread. But as always, OP is going to go running back to the girl.

In a couple weeks, he will make a new thread, asking us to be his personal army.
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why did you break up?
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>>683067753
starting up my feels
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get her drunk fuck her bareback 9 months from now you'll have her for 18 years or man up rape her fuck her mom fuck her friends, Tape it put on the internet profit?????
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>>683065293
You can be normal friends with her just dont text her every day. Also talk to other chicks and date, it'll drive her crazy and if not then you still get to bang the other girl. Just don't act like you care because you'll get fucked
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>>683064423
Fuck off her life for a bit, get over her completely, then you can think about being friends again.
Don't orbit around her if you still love her, she has nothing to lose but you can get badly hurt over and over again.
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Beta detected
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>>683064423
There's no reason to be friends with a girl if you aren't fucking her. Wake up already!
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>>683070307
This
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>>683072483
I think OP left us man
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>>683067753
/thread
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>>683065666

Not this, this guy's basically still an orbiter in my book.


OP, here's what you:

> Cut off contact
> Delete her number
> Unfriend her on Facebook
> However, explain in a civil manner that you cannot just be friends and it would be best to cease all contact. Be straight about this.

I had an ex pull this same line on me. Do you really want to pretend you're all friends as you meet her with her new guy? She'll get a thrill out of that, knowing you secretly want her. If you cut off all contact it doesn't matter if you see her in public; you have effectively said "If you don't care for me, then I don't care for you".

That was the emotionally difficult part. Now it is time to focus on yourself:

> To be comfortable in your next relationship, you have to enjoy being single.
> Have sex with who you want, go where you want (because, as fun as a gf can be, you have no dates to make, or anything to commit to)

Protip:
> Start hitting the gym - 5X5 routine
> Take zinc supplements
> This will do you a world of good
> More testosterone produced - you'll feel healthier and more energetic
> Builds muscle (when you're eating the correct diet - research)
> You will, in time, begin to get a hotter calibre of girl. You won't be scoring lingerie models 6 months after lifting, but it does work.
> And finally that girl who dumped you, the one who thinks so little of you that she expects you to be her orbiter whilst she fucks someone else, will see you with a much higher tier girl on your arm in the future; What a sweeter way of saying "Fuck you"
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>>683064423
OP, do you value her friendship?
The fact that you ask us of all people seems to point to no, but its possible.

Consider the good and the bad of a friendship, including the friends you share.

Consider also you may have to see her with another guy. And think about her with another guy. Who will be fucking her.
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>>683064423
fuck that OP you deserve better she knows youre a great guy but wants to be a slut.

IMO make her miss you and dont look back.
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>>683071348
this
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>>683065633
I don't really wanna wait though, do I have to wait for her to make us a thing again?

>>683065666
Alright satan, I'll try.

>>683065680
I'm considering it, but I dunno yet

>>683066410
I'm trying, but I don't want it to be that way

>>683066429
I just turned my phone off and said "I've gotta go"

>>683067391
I don't want to believe this, but I guess I should

>>683067753
Jesus christ man, that hit me really hard

>>683067958
I would, but the punishment would be pretty big.

>>683067973
I'm trying that atm

>>683068652
lol alright

>>683070057
I'm feeling pretty shitty right now and I told a mate but he just laughed

>>683070198
Bollocks, I'm here for genuine help. I'm not some beta faggot

>>683070307
She said that I was messing up too much or some shit like that.

>>683071348
Yeh, I've started talking to girls again

>>683071808
Yeh, I'm not. She keeps messaging me saying "Don't go forever"

>>683071952
Fuck off faggot, suck your dads dick

>>683072029
Exactly
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>>683072552
Sorry, i'm here

>>683073250
I've done most of it and I already go to a gym. Thanks though man.

>>683073439
I guess, but she keeps saying we'll never get together so I told her to not talk to me anymore then she got all upset about it

>>683073679
I dunno, she didn't talk to any other guys and apparently I did some pretty shitty stuff which I don't recall. But I'm ignoring her right now
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>>683074251
>She said that I was messing up too much or some shit like that.

I don't believe it. tell me more. either you're lying about this for attention, you're keeping it secret it from your fam, she's a cunt and just wanted to be done with you, or you're half-a-tard and probably shouldn't be in a relationship.
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>>683074483
I dunno if you were in the thread yesterday I made about making a joke and she got mad, apparently that was just the tip of the ice-berg. She had a pretty huge argument with me last night and said stuff like me being insensitive and stuff like that
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>>683074290
She sounds like a bitch tbh.
What are her redeeming factors?
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>>683074636
nah man, i wasn't there. this is my first time on 4chins in months. I was on my exes fb, got feels and decided to get on here and found this.

How you should approach this depends on how old you are. if you're < 25 then she's probably a selfish cunt. if you're >25 then she's still probably a selfish cunt. it's a lose-lose situation. if you can provide more insight into your relationship we may be able to help. Things like age, duration of relationship, race, background, etc
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>>683073250
this is what im currently going through. just got over the "emotionally difficult" part. now over the past month i've been picking myself back up. it's going good so far
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>>683064423
no one fucking cares stop being a beta ass faggot and figure out what to do on your own like a man
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you know what op
if you still have feeling for her just know that she dumped you in order to be able to get other guys in her and making you feel worthless because she knows you still want to be with her

instead, man up cease to exist from her life by cutting off cantact and moving on to other things or even find a new girl
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>>683074639
She's pretty hot. She has a really nice personality, really nice when she's not angry and made me happy I guess.

>>683074959
I'm 20 and she's 19. We've been together for a year, she's Indian and I'm Australian. No real background that's worth mentioning other than the fact that her dad left her

>>683075411
Fuck up cunt
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>>683076073
Yeah, I thought you were young. you going to school still?
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>>683076131
I'm in university and so is she
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>>683076301
yeah, let that girl go man. you need to get a lot more pussy, and she's bound go take a lot of dick. they're either on track for school, or bangin' all the time. Either way, you should get new pussy.
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let her go. if you "wait" for her, she wins.
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>>683065293
Don't count on it. I was in one of these. I dated the girl for 4 years and gave her a 2nd chance when she cheated. Fuck that bitch, it's never worth it. Man up and tell her to fuck off.
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>>683064423
move
the
fuck
on

obtain
new
pussy

enjoy
life
again
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>>683076814
I'd really rather not think about that but you're probably right. Maybe it is time

>>683077034
Yeh, you're right

>>683077084
I don't want it to be like that, but I wish that we could still be something. Jeez man, I'm sorry. You alright?
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>>683064423
Hahahah yeah you need to say okay we can be best friends but you need to let me have sex with you whenever I need you. Like 3 or 4 times a week is fair.
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>>683077084
I was in the same boat, and it was y best friend. Gave that bitch a whole 'nother year from the date. Before the break-up was official she was walkin' around with some guy smelling like his cologne. fucking sluts. Even whores make money doing what these bitches do.
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>>683074290
>>683075139

Nice one lads. You're on the right track.

Also OP, if she got upset by saying you weren't going to talk to her no more, just explain, in a calm manner, that it is for the best.

You've basically defied what she was wanting; a platonic friend, an orbiter. You've showed her you're better than that. No go enjoy your life without her, you'll remember these days fondly when you have a prettier, more loyal girlfriend.
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>>683064423
Become acnekun.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=mJ36huw50yM
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>>683077870
Thanks man, I dunno if I can find prettier but maybe more loyal. Thanks though
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>>683078135
lol wtf is that?
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>>683077405
Go live your life anon. You'll never have as much freedom as you do right now. Don't obligate yourself to someone who won't do the same for you.
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>>683064423
Install tinder and get laid. Forget ur ex, it may feel good at first to be with her cuz you are used to it, but after u get new pussy its all in the history
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>>683078251
I kinda don't want to be with anyone else after this. What do I do?
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>>683078135
lmfao I just went and watched the real video and it's garbage compared to that webm. whoever put the subs about anal made that shit hella funny
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>>683065116
leave her in the dust, move on
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>>683064423
Protip, she dosn't actually want to be friends. She just dosn't want to feel like a complete slut.

It sucks but you need to get over it, bruh. She's now dead to you. Don't ever talk to her again. Don't take any interest in anything to do with her. She is dead to you.
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>>683078586
This
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>>683078586
>bruh
>not black
>more ignorant than an actual nigger
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Make yourself a better man improve yourself that's the best kind of revenge. Put away the negativity in your life and do positive things. She just wants you around as a crutch. Don't be used by people like that and only surround yourself with positive people op
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>>683064423
She wants you to watch her fuck a nigger.
I am calling it right now. You drop that bitch asap op, and get yourself checked for aids.
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>>683078725
You seem mad, friend.
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>>683078352
Take time to heal. We all go through a period where we think we won't love again (unless the relationship prior was fucked up in some way). Just dedicate life to yourself for a while, don't think about getting with someone if you don't want to. There's no need to.
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>>683078163
OP The only real decison nis to dissapear from her life. Its the action that will most likely allow you to heal or alternatively send her back to you. Condensing all advice in this thread that is the clear answer. It's always the answer. Emotions will often irrationally tell you that there may be a chance that if you stick she'll come back. This is a lie. I've done both and its the better decision. Both courses of action are painful but at least the one is on a path to less feels and even thicker skin against the feels. Do the right thing son. Don't be a cunt.
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>>683064423
your the dude that got his gf mad right ? by making a joke ? sad to hear she broke up mate.
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>>683064423
Ask yourself some questions.
>Do YOU still care about her? She does not about you, this "best friends" bullshit is just to feed her ego.
>Can you manage being "best friends" with someone who just ripped your heart out(considering you cared about her)
>How deep are your feelings?
>Do you want to get back with her? If yes, then no, fuck her, DO NOT GET BACK WITH HER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. She'll dump you again. Unless she's begging you, like realy serious and actually WORKS for getting you back. Words do not mean SHIT.
>Can you handle her new relationship considering her breaking up with you? There will be one sooner than you think

I am in your place right now...i did the exact oposite of what I told you and now I kinda feel like shit about me. Don't repeat my mistakes /b/ro
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>>683064423
In my homecountry we have a word for people like you OP. The word is ''Tøffel'' and means slipper. Why do i call you a slipper, well thats because that girl wears you everywhere, steps on you, treats you like shit and you can't do shit about it. leave her OP, or else you will forever be a beta faggot.
Also, leaving her makes life better, and if she were to find a new boyfriend, you wouldn't have to watch her make out with that guy, and thinking about the thought that she is fucking another dude
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>>683079070
>>683079070
He's rite you kno, OP don't be a slipper.
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>>683079070
>>683079166
OP there's nothing worse than being a fucking slipper.
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>>683078541
I want to

>>683078586
I dunno, I still have feelings for her man

>>683078804
Nah, she hates niggers. She's an Indian

>>683078965
Yeh, we aren't talking anymore

>>683078971
I'm not talking to her anymore, I hope she does but I highly doubt it
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OP, you can't really be friends with an ex. It just doesn't work and it's too much of a pain in the ass for everyone involved.

Move on. Tell her no thanks and then just ignore her. Either she comes crawling back or she fucks off entirely.
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OP is a slipper
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>>683079482
This
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>>683067753
Immediately go out and have a blast with your mates and plaster it all over facebook - she'll find it through friends as you've unfriended her. Nothing is less appealing to a woman than a simpering man waiting for her to look his way. Make the bitch wonder what she lost. When she comes crawling back tell her you're having a blast and you'll call her when you're done.
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Anon, I suggest fucking one of her acquaintances. Not a friend because they'll be too well informed of the breakup. Make sure she is hotter, make sure it is within a week from now.

If you can't find someone like that with in a week, hit the bars/pubs and find one, make sure that it's with in the first week though. Hotter is good, hotter and younger is best.

>Will drive her crazy thinking she made a mistake
>When she comes crawling back you say "No"
>Be Alpha as fuck
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>>683079053
Yeh that's me. Thanks man. I guess it was for the best though

>>683079068
Thanks man, this makes a lot of sense. I'll consider it all

>>683079070
I wasn't going to be her friend. I messaged her saying "If we aren't ever going to be anything, there isn't any point of being friends"

>>683079482
Yeh I agree, thanks man
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>>683076073
you're fucking children - get out there and fuck bitches until you're 30 and then think of this 'serious relationship' bollocks.
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>>683078971
>>683079387
Good you're doing Gods work. But it's gonna get so much harder trust. Think that pang of pain you felt looking at her facebook was intense? Wait my son. Fucking delicious waves of near unbearableness are coming your way. Put a playist of adele and linkin park on repeat and sadly masturbate to the fading memories of the good times you had. Don't worry though it will get better and the sad state you're in will eventually disgust you so you wont go back. I hope I dono I'm still waiting for my next tasty soul crush I'm fucking excited to degenerate.
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Consider moving interstate before the false rape/beating accusations start.
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>>683079699
Great, then you are no slipper, also check'em
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>>683079166
Don't be a slipper!
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>>683079699
I'm going to add, OP, that you make sure this ends as amicably as possible. It's nice and all to fuck her over for breaking up with you, maybe making her hate you, but the long-term consequence of that can sometimes blow up in your face, and sometimes in unexpected ways.
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>>683079908
NEW MEME ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>>683078135
I just watched this movie last night - she was a fucking disaster. Her and the joking nigger ruined a great franchise. Plus the terrible plot, which was basically the originally movie. So glad I torrented it
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>>683079679
I'll try going out tomorrow with some mates

>>683079734
Fuck you, not all people get married at 30 years old you fag

>>683079809
She's an Indian, she doesn't care about that stuff

>>683079814
Thanks man

>>683080012
Yeh, I tried I guess. Although she was pretty mad

>>683080266
Thanks guys
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Tell her to fuck off
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Rape her until she loves you again
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>>683080383
kek
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>>683064423
If you still have feels, GTFO, dude. Not worth it. If you don't, then hey, do it. But don't kid yourself into thinking that you don't like her. Honestly reflect.
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>>683080347
I like her too much to do that, she was nice as well.

>>683080618
Of course I still do, I love her. But I can't make her happy so I did what was best for her and me as well I guess
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>>683065116
Murder-suicide obviously
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>>683079482
this, OP you know what to do...

don't be a slipper.
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OP, once upon a time I was presented with the same spot you are now. Me ex left me high and dry, I got no say on it, I got to say nothing to her, nothing. I was devastated. The next few weeks were batshit crazy for me. I Neely died in a nasty car wreck, I lost a family member, and then she came crawling back. I took her back, and then everything repeated. I noticed every little thing she did and quite frankly they made me angry. We split again because I woke up and realized that things just weren't as good as I thought they were. This time I'm at peace, I just wish I had taken time to evaluate my situation beforehand. It's time man, assess where things are and make that call, don't let anyone else make you act in any way until you're certain.
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>>683080825
I'd recommend getting away from her until those feelings have vanished. Then re-evaluate being "friends."
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Hey dude, im in literally the same position as you! thinking the exact same shit, in the end you just gotta do what you gotta do to get by. chase if you want, but dont get down if shit doesnt work out
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>>683080911
FWB or nuthin.
Either come out on top or burn the bridge, being a "just a friend" is giving in to her bullshit.
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>>683080955
Dubs of truth
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>>683080904
I'm good with that

>>683080911
I'm no slipper

>>683080955
I fucking hate this y'know? Like the girls have all the say in the relationship. I mean I don't even know why she was like that. She just said, we are done. I feel for you though man, hope everythings going okay

>>683080956
Yeh, I'm doing that at the moment.

>>683081092
Thanks man, I don't think I wanna chase it anymore but I hope everything goes well with yours.
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>>683081436
Things are fine for me because it ended on my terms. It sucks being just kinda thrown into your spot, but this could be a chance to build something bigger and better. Just let everything you do be on your terms /b/ro.
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>>683076073
>Indian
When she says insensitive are u making regular jokes and she's feeling sorry for any group or subject targeted and taking it too seriously?
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>>683081649
yeh I will, thanks man. Means a lot

>>683081657
Indians are hot man
Nah, we got in a fight once and we were both pretty insensitive. But I never really make jokes other than the one yesterday. I guess it all just built up.
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Just make a trino account and play league of legends for tge next 3 years, maybe even become the new world champion?
Then go you'll feel like a new man ready for a new relationship.
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>>683064423
No she doesn't, she just doesn't want to hurt you.

If she's wants to be best friends, why did she break up? She found someone better but has no real reason to break up with you so uses the friend card.

Tell her to Fuck herself op. She's playing with your emotions. It would kill you being friends with her when u still love her
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Definitely not, I had the same thing happen to me and I told her there is no fucking way and she got pissed off and told her how I'm not going to sit there and listen to your shit after just leaving me but then saying hey, I still want a certain amount of control over you along with supervision. It's definitely not worth it
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>>683082086
I tried league, didn't really like it.

>>683082107
I told her that, I told her being friends would hurt me more than not talking to you and explained all of that but she just got mad. So I said "If we're not going to be more than friends there's no point in talking". I'll always love her though
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>>683082221
Yeh, I'm in the same boat. After I said this she got mad though
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>>683082330
Well based on how she reacted to you looking out for her then this is definitely for the best. That kinda "fuck you this relationship is about me" attitude is poison. If you ask me, it would've ended on far worse terms at some point. Those kinds of people always run others into the ground.
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>>683082521
The thing was, we were really happy the day before but then all this shit sprung at once and now it's all gone to shit.
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>>683081931
I'm not denying a little pussy masala is nice
All I'm saying is that Indian girls are bitchy
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>>683064423
cut all contact, let her know you can't stay friends because it would fuck things up for you, then wait for either some other chick to come along or for her to change her mind, by cutting contact all her memories of you will be the good kind, you together etc, if you stay friends you allow a version of yourself as only friend to build up in her mind
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>>683064423
Listen to everyone who is telling you to tell her to "kick rocks while you eat a bag of dicks"

She's probably just trying to fuck someone else. Either a coworker, classmate, guy friend, whoever... you probably know who he is. She's probably introduced him to you. She's probably at that age where the grass is always greener on the other side and this is how she covers up her selfish bullshit.

Do yourself a huge favor here

Tell her to eat a bag of aids ridden cock and never look back
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>>683082641
Really? She wasn't that bad until she got mad

>>683082824
Yeh I said that to her. Now I'm talking to like 6 other girls and not talking to her so I guess it's for the best. I guess she'll be happy now
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>>683064423
She has no respect for you. Tell her to fuck off, show her that you are not to play around with.
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>>683082944
she should be, it is what she wanted after all, be sure to tell her that if she try coming back
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Murder is the only answer!
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>>683082917
I told her this in a kinder way I guess. I don't want to think of her with someone else but I don't want to think of her at all, so. I honestly don't give a shit anymore,

>>683083136
I guess that's the way she feels now

>>683083187
I've said that to her about twice already and her response was "whatever"
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Don't do it OP. She wants the benefits of your relationship- your time and emotional support without having to put out. You will only grow to resent her for it. If she wants to be single, cut off all contact.
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>>683083869
Yeh, I'm doing that. Thanks man
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>>683083597
why are you still talking to her then?

seems like cutting contact is overdue
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>>683064423
Does she have a sister? Possibly a best friend? Bang one or both of them. Provided you are not a total neckbeard faggot it's not terribly difficult to get a woman into you, with enough effort.
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Straight up no.

Will cause way more emotional anx, and infringe on everything in your future. Just say "yeah cool, whatever" and never make any effort to talk to her first. If she text you, be polite, ask about her single friends etc.
She has dumped you because she feels she can do better. If she doesn't after 1-2 months/ gets fucked around by the guys she thinks are more 'her speed' she will come back, and you being the beta for letting her stay your friend will take her back(Because you've made the choice to still care) and the cycle will repeat in a few months, or after some more of your emotional financial investment etc. And this will continue to repeat until you share a mortgage and she takes half your shit.
Move on, I have plenty of girl friends, but would drop all of them in a heart beat because THEY BRING NOTHING BUT EMOTIONAL SHIT, that have no interest in entertaining. And replacements are literally everywhere.

Advice - If you're as beta as you seem to even ask this questions. Get yourself over to /fit, get yourself in a gym. Get yourself a copy of Neil Struass' the Game. Get yourself some self respect.
This will change your life.

Have had plenty of ex's who have wanted to stay friends after breaking up. Most have tried to come back, all have kids by dead beat now, and tell me they wish we had worked out. Fuck every one of those cunts.

TL;DR - Move on, there are plenty of other girls out there who will have their shit together, there is plenty of money to be made in the time in takes you to meet a girl. And Plenty of sluts about to fill any spare time.
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no no no no no no no why are you even considering this
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>>683065293

She wants to be "friends" in order to fuel her insecurity. Having a guy around her that she knows definitely still has feelings for her will jack up her ego while she's fucking other guys.

Fuck her "best friends" proportion, she's in it to use you as an emotional crutch whenever it suits her. Guarantee she'll never be there for you as friend when you're down on your luck.
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>>683064423
If you are a grown up, be friends. It can be done. I'm still really good friends with my ex. Doing anything spiteful makes you look like a petulant child. Grow up, be a man, let it go.
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>>683084586
this man speaks the truth.

Most girls 20-27 are the worst.
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>>683084020
I did, we aren't talking anymore. She said "Don't talk to me anymore, bye"

>>683084246
I don't wanna be a cunt about it, I mean she made me happy before turning into a bitch.

>>683084490
I don't want to lose her for good, but she already made that decision. I hope I can find someone else like that. I already go to the gym, thanks though man.
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>>683084559
I'm not anymore

>>683084586
For fucks sake, why are girls like this? It's bullshit
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>>683064423
lol, OP is a cuck.

She broke up with you but wants to be "best friends" means she's fucking somebody else and his cock is better.
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>>683084773
Unless you are prone to being emotional and impulsive. Sometimes just saying "I don't think I can handle that" can be the sensible thing to do. Just don't do anything rash or spiteful.
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>>683084887
many people are shallow fucks. you just have to learn how to spot it earlier so you can cut your losses before you get too heavily invested, no other way around it
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>>683064423
Funny how they want to be friends after they rip your heart out through your ass, huh?
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>>683084887
You will look back at this situation in a month or two and laugh. Things are looking good for you now.

https://youtu.be/TIubYIe5qAo?t=4
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>>683084887
You will look back at this situation in a month or two and laugh. Things are looking good for you now.

https ://youtu.be/TIubYIe5qAo?t=4
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>>683064423
jerry seinfeld her
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>>683084887

When you're raised in an environment where everyone tells you you're perfect and beautiful and amazing, you're of course gonna grow up to be a pathetic weakling that has to be on emotional life support most of your sad existence or you'll crumble.
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>>683085152
well, technically they are not doing it to fuck you over but to protect themselves and their own interests, as in, they feel they would be happier or their life better if they did something else with it, to suggest that they should forget their dreams because it would hurt your feelings if they were to attempt realizing them.

your life is about you, their life is about them, love and relationships are fantastic when the two interests align but you can't expect or demand it. like you are suggesting one should.

Most likely one of you will end up losing the feelings before the other, why is the person this happens to first somehow evil?
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>>683085458
that explains the whole millennial generation sure, but how is it relevant here?
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I'm in a very similar situation. Dating girl for about 3 months and she says she thinks we should take it slow and go back to "talking". She said she's ruined every other relationship in the past and feel like she would this one. Sounds like bull shit to me and she said she would like to date me in the future. Should I give up because I really like her but I feel like she's just doing this so we gradually talk less to the point to where we don't at all
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>>683085462
to suggest that they should forget their dreams because it would hurt your feelings if they were to attempt realizing them *is pathetic*

forgot to add the last word.
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>>683064423
>rape her
>ask her to be best frends after
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>>683085517

Women are perpetually coddled and their precious feelings put on a high pedestal.

When a woman breaks up with a guy, she's no longer able to consume that emotional support she's been getting from him for years.

She doesn't like not being his centre of attention anymore even though she's not interested in him, hence the "friends" proposition - it keeps him in orbit, a shoulder to cry on, exploiting him because she knows she can due to him still having feelings for her.
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>>683073250
/thread
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>>683064423
Nah, she's keeping you as a backup to crawl back to when things don't work out with jamal.
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>>683085533
tell her that if anything is ruining the relationship it is this kind of pussyfooting around

cut contact and tell her you can't picture the two of you in the future if you can't make it work now, tell her something like "I don't want to waste your time or my own, if you are not interested just let me know so I can spend my time and energy elsewhere"

if she want to talk about the future laugh and let her know that the only people that might get to have a say in your future is your current partner and family, a group she does not belong to
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>>683085533

You're plan B, anon. If she actually liked you, you'd be dating right now. She's full of shit, wants to try her luck with guys she thinks are superior to you and if that fails, THEN she'll come to you.

Until the next Chad turns up, that is.

Don't ever allow yourself to be someone's second option.
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>>683085888
nothing you said there is gender specific though but something that fit the whole generation IMO

it is also something that happened in the past too, just not as commonly, I mean, we have all heard about the dude who kept his ex around for a easy fuck by playing her feelings, same shit. you just think it is gender specific because you have not experienced the other side
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>>683064423
Maybe grow up?
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>>683086310

I have mates of both sexes and from what I've seen this bullshit of keeping an ex as friend around to feed one's ego is far more common among women.
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