During that thread where you have to use 2 bullets to kill 2 people to make the world a better place she popped into my head randomly.
Like just for fun I almost dropped an Anne Frank lel in that thread.
people i ask advices from always tell me that "patience is a virtue" and that "just wait and maybe she'll soon notice your hardwork" well then, im still here waiting to be noticed
Yeah, it really is a long time, but I just don't trust myself enougj to let go of her. I dated a another girl and told her to fuck off, and I dated a guy whose clinginess and sexual needs basically held a mirror to my mistakes with Jenni so I broke it off with him.
I know the whole fucking problem is me, and really I think that makes it worse cos I refuse to fux the shit I'm causing myself. But outside of /b, I hold that shit in so I guess it's not hurting anyone.
Shawna. (We weren't a thing)
Had a journal where I wrote down everything I thought about her, all the things she liked, the things she listened to, little quirks N shit about her. We were good friends, texted quite a bit.
Someone stole my journal and gave it to her.
Easily 100+ pages of me pouring my heart out about her.
She hasn't talked to me in 3 months.
That's creepy as shit, are you autistic?
Fuck no man, I just had really strong feelings for her, and she knew, but she saw that and I guess yeah it creeped her out
Never meant to be creepy, I've just never felt that strongly about anyone.
Maybe I'm a fag, but man I think about her every damn day man.
Naaah, you don't wanna hear about who I'm thinking of. I just wanna fuck them.
In the span of two years of went from being so scared, Literally shaking at the mere sight of her. To talking with her every day for hours at a time.
We throw bullshit at each other all the time. Laugh over the most trivial and pointless things just because we are close to one another, and lean on eachothers shoulders when we need it.
But no matter how close I get, or how hard I try, I just can't bring myself to take that next step and take our relationship to the next level.
It's a mix of so many things. I'm scared to make a move because I just can't break this mental barrier that it will all crumble down if I make the slightest mistake.
And she is just so anxious. She was my proof that depression and anxiety exist. What if I lean in for a kiss and she has an anxiety attack? What if she gets scared and never trusts me again?
It's so fucking hard and I don't know why.
I dont think I think about anyone like that anymore.
I think I'm finally broken, no more lingering on the past, but at the same time I haven't thought affectionately about anyone in about a year or so.
I don't remember how it feels to be close, mentally, physically or emotionally.
I don't know if I remember how to feel anymore
I haven't had anyone like that in my life for a while. It sucks ass, but I got used to it, I guess. Just hearing and seeing all of my friends with their SO's and being super happy and affectionate still sorta kills me inside, though. Maybe one day. I try not to worry about it.
I lost my only real friend to his SO, it seems 6 years of being friends and always having his back on all that shit over the years, the second he jumped with this chick I'm chopped liver.
It happens, man. My friends spurn me for their SOs without even realizing it. And it's worse because my friends are all dating each other, so I'm basically third wheeling nonstop. You just don't exist after a while.
I spoke to the faggot once in the last month, I told the fuck pretty much that he cant just nigger out like this. Maybe it's time to just cut all ties with everyone in my life and ready myself for death.
I think about her all the time. She died 6 years ago in a car accident returning home from a concert. Her friend was driving but they swerved and rolled over multiple times. Her friend survived, Jessica didn't. I love you and I miss you.
Nah, man. Cut them off, but start over. There are still things in life to experience, even when you're alone. But I'll admit, I'm not even sure if they're worth experiencing anymore. Death is your last option, try everything else first.
I think I'm sick of being in constant pain every day, and nothing perks me up anymore, I am a shit to the point where making friends is damn near impossible. I dont trust anyone, or anything, death seems like the only way to finally be....painfree.
I haven't felt truly happy in life, I know I wont find that in death, but I won't find it in life either.
I've only known her for a few months, but I swear it's like someone built this girl to mirror everything I want in life. Same interests, sense of humor, ideals, everything.
I'm just not that lucky, I guess.
She's probably sucking some big black cock when your not around.
fell in love with her, sat next to her every day this semester and we never once ran out of things to talk about.
shes such a sweet girl, beautiful, tall, skinny, hair down to her waist, adorable nerdy glasses, the cutest body language when she gets passionate about something shes talking about.
shes in my major, takes interest in my interests, we talk outside of class,
Just the way she perches up on her chair is adorable, sometimes during lectures I cross my hands infront of me and lightly play with loose strands of her silky black hair that are in rage of my hand, without her (or anyone else) noticing of course.
The only problem...and I learned this just before i worked up the courage to get her number...is that she has a boyfriend. She brought it up all nonchalant in conversation, not because i ever hit on her. She still doesnt know I have strong feelings for her, even though ive dropped subtle hints regardless of knowing she has a boyfriend.
But theres hope /b/ros. Every day when I go to the vending machines she comes with, she always waits for me to be packed up so we can walk to the parking lot together, if she sees me working in common areas she will come sit with me, always nothing but a big smile from her, and she has the most adorable dimples. ugh bros i love her and im going to atleast attempt, I just need to wait until this semesters over so if i get rejected im not sitting next to her for the next 5 weeks.
So ive got 5 weeks to plan. Any advice?
I tried. It's rough, since we work together, and now she's head over heels in a relationship. I try not to dwell on it, but late at night, when it's too quiet, she's the only person I can think of. Maybe some day.
>lel faliing for the 3d grill meme
Alright bro listen up. She has a man alright. Now what you need to do is man up and start working out. Use her and her stupid boyfriend to motivate you to get to your fitness goal. While your at it take her out sometime. Ask her out to the movies, walk in the park or even dinner. Take it slow bro you can't just go up to your crush and tell them how you feel even if she has a man. Take it slow with her and show her how much or a better man you are then her scumbag boyfriend. Worst case scenario, she rejects you but in the end your looking sharp with your new healthy and muscular look.
Kaitlin. I pushed her away because of my own insecurities, she kept trying to make me open up to her. She finally gave up on me the 4th time I blocked her on all social media.
You know what her name is? McLaren f1....I would stick my dick so hard up that auto beast my sick would have cylinder marks...I would reach under as I pounded away and romp that throttle body....idc if my dick gets burned..,Mclaren pain is mclaren pleasure...I want to hear her v12 roar as I go deeper...I want that good 93 octane squirt from the backpressure off her high rpms
You know what bro, don't even sweat it. Just like I said to the other anon. She's in a relationship and she's happy, but she is still your friend and too can also make her happy. Take her out sometime. Just the two of you. Be part of her life and show her how much of a better man you are then her boyfriend. Hit the gym if you have too.
She's a camwhore, EXTREMELY dumb, has had the worst boobjob ever, and she was single two months ago but got married last week. I don't even know why I have a crush on her.
Samantha. Sometimes, people just wander into your life that start a fire within you.
I remember the first day we met, I had just moved to this new school, and I was terrified. She didn't exactly make it any better, though. She hated me at first, actually. She'd say shit like "I'm gonna kill you this weekend" and I'd just laugh it off. She was just pissed because I was interested in her best friend.
Eventually, I got over her friend, and we started talking more. I realized that we liked a lot of the same stuff, and we became really good friends. I fell for her /b/ros, hard.
We hung out every chance we could, growing closer all the time. Sure, we had our fights, all friends do. There would be points of time where she would get mad and stop talking to me, and I would try so hard to get her back, I was nothing without her.
I finally got the courage to tell her how I felt one day, and she just saw us as friends. I got it, I wasn't fit, or handsome, or popular. I understood. It still hurt so goddamn much.
I moved about a year after, and we still talk sometimes. She thinks I've moved on, but I haven't. I still have feelings for her, that fire still rages on. I think about her every day, and I wonder if I could have done anything to make her see just how much I love her.
I'm in a somewhat similar situation, Anon.
I was really in love with a girl and got with her but shit didn't work out. Was really bent out of shape about it because I thought this was the only girl who'd like me (being 290lbs at the time). I ended up getting a mountain bike and cut down to 193lbs. Getting in shape was the best decision I've made.
Why do you think she is making you feel really happy. To blind you from the truth retard. Ever thought about that?
You should do some recon on her. You'll be suprised what you'll find.
Let's call her Ann
First woman in my life I've fallen in absolute love with and actively pursued. Inspired me to get off my ass and lose weight and get in shape. Our interests were extremely similar but ultimately no matter how bad I wanted us to be a thing that spark never happened. I ended up giving up and stopped asking her out when it became obvious that I wasn't what she was looking for and at that point was just going on dates to humor me...maybe use me for free shit? That may just be my paranoia.
I'm going out with someone else now, Ann lives in another state with her current boyfriend who I think she was likely seeing while she was going on dates with me. Still get kinda bitter and depressed when I see her around online, but we're still friends I guess. Would be nice to have come closure on that whole period but we've never talked about us dating since I stopped asking her out. Would be too weird to bring it up now
Her name be Mariah, we dated for around 6 years and got a apartment together, lived with each other for almost a year, till i found out she was emailing her ex witch then turned to talking secretively and hiding her cellphone from me. I called her out on it and she lied, then when i called her through the numbers on my cellphone plan. i cought her cheating on me and i still miss her every day and i dont feel complete with out her. she was my best friend since childhood and the one person i feel is my soul mate. she is the person i think about every day and i cant take the feels.
good for you brother, thats an amazing life change. Maybe I should do something like that because the gym never works for me. about how many miles per week are you logging to get those results? I only have to drop like 30 lbs to be where I want
yeah i know, its just like i feel like she died. i dont keep in contact with my family that much and i relayed on her to be my person and because of this i feel like i cant get into a new relationship cause i still love her with all of my person
I rode about 8-10 miles a day to different spots (from Vegas, a lot of cool shit to see). I gave myself 2 day off and barely had to adjust my dietary habits. All I did was cut out fast food completely and replaced that with the usual steak and chicken. Idk how well this might work for you, but I started in June of 2015 and honestly if I portioned my meals better I probably would have lost even more weight. I hated going to the gym prior to weight loss, but after I lost that fat I went to the gym and it felt way more satisfying.
Ana, its been a year since we first met, we've never been official tho. Everytime I forget her she contacts me again. I feel like were scared to do anything because I messed up, and she has trust issues.. I want her so bad and I don't know why
Her name is Camryn. We haven't seen each other in years, and even then we were never really close. I just woke up from a dream about her though. Feeling a mix of things right now. Mostly hatred. Hatred of the self, life, God, and women.
Paula, my best friends sisters... I've wanted her for years. Shes forbidden fruit though. I remember when we were laying on her bed drunk watching horrible bosses, we locked eyes and I knew I should've kissed her, but I didn't :(. I know that she is attracted to me somewhat but she also knows it can't happen
I understand bro. I felt like shit when my ex left me because she couldn't love me the same as I did. We were together for 3 years and I didn't have any friends because I spent all my time with her and I was very distant of my family as well because I have all my attention to her. When she left me I was alone and it sucked. I told myself I couldn't love anyone else but I couldn't live like that and you shouldn't either. Get back with your family I'm sure they miss you.
Moving on takes time bro but you will be happy again soon.
thanks /b/ro, this summer im living with my mom and stepdad in a fancy town with bike paths and shit, im excited to start my transformation. Thanks for the words of encouragement brother
No problem, anon.
I'll tell you right now, there'll be days where you don't feel like doing shit. On those days just cut your mileage in half. You'll feel so much better about a shorter ride than no ride at all.
You've got this, man!
God knows why... She told me she wasn't up for a relationship at the time because of problems in her life. Months later she got a boyfriend. There are other things she did but mostly I hated that one big lie.
Bro 5 year difference ain't that bad.
I'm 23 and I'm dating this chick who is 31. Her parents are divorced but they know we are dating. I met most of her family already and they are cool with me.
Go for it.
His name was Hitler. His birthday is coming up soon. I still can't believe he's gone, and by suicide.
made me spend money on her for a year til she fucked another guy
feels bad man.
Just keep it on the down low from your friend aka her brother. I did that with my best friend. I hooked up with his little sister I was 21 and she was 18. Smoked hot and I couldn't resist. We both knew what we wanted and we kept it a secret.
I broke up with her. Felt like I made the right decision. She tried contacting me a few times over the course of a couple months, I pretty much brushed it off every time, said nothing more than the pleasantries of "hey, good to hear you're doing alright".
Now I'm starting to miss her a lot. I tried texting and calling her recently, got the cold shoulder. Looked through the bag of mementos I kept of our relationship for the first time since the breakup. Made me tear up like a little bitch.
Janeth, I still care about you. I'm sorry, I just needed a nice long break to sort things out in my mind. The way both of our life circumstances are going, it's looking like we probably won't end up getting back together. I miss you.
Didn't mean it like that. But Its the truth. Sometimes the most important people in our lives are right there in front of you and yet we can't see it and we make stupid choices like push them away and for what???? It's not worth it
I see what you mean. But honestly, form a purely logical standpoint it probably was the best thing for both of us. But from an emotional standpoint, I miss her. It's confusing.
I had to move to a town a little over an hour away to stay with my folks for practical financial reasons. She was living with her crazy parents at the time too so we weren't able to move in together. The distance created tons of tension, and she's also going to school for nursing. Her plan was to accept an offer to nursing school in whatever city accepted her, so she would have had to move anyway. All of that and there was huge communication problems in the relationship.
So our lives were just going in different directions. It's shitty but it had to happen. We were only together a little over a year, but a lot happened in that time period so it feels like we have a lot of history and shared a lot together. Sucks man.
That was my thinking too, but it really sucked not having those spontaneous "hey wanna order a pizza and watch netflix?" nights.
And it was closer to an hour and a half, not that it makes much difference.
Had a beautiful relationship, was engaged and almost going to get married.
Found out after 7 years she'd been cheating on me with another guy.
>Now considered her "best friend"
I literally got cheated on and friendzoned by the girl I was going to marry.
Met her in college. Never got her actual phone number, but we ran into each other everywhere. Randomly. At an audition, at a party, between classes. We matched on Tinder, somehow. We'd see each other, talk for a few minutes, catch up. Every time, there was this shine in her eyes and a grin to her smile- she was always excited to see me, no matter how long it had been. It never went anywhere... but I wish it did. Oh, how I wish it did.
Her name is Jasmin and in my fucked up existence she is the only person that has been there for me through thick and thin. She could be married happily and I'd still go out of my way to do good by her and put a smile on her face. In a world of darkness she is light at the end of the tunnel, she is everything I've wanted in life and then some. One day she will acknowledge me.
I don't even know if she remembers me. Even if she does, it doesn't matter now; I'm back home, halfway across the country, while she's had at least a year now to get involved with other guys.
The best I can hope for is that she's still there when I go back.
You can't think like that, man. The more you want a girl, the more likely you are to push her away. Just focus on yourself as a person and keep putting yourself out there.
A bird sitting on a branch doesn't worry about the branch breaking, because its trust is in its own wings.
Well, don't let her forget. Send her a friendly message on facebook; just a simple "hey, how ya been?"
She may have gotten involved with other guys, but maybe not. As long as she's single now that's all that matters.
Girl A is a good girl who I should probably wait for but is really dragging me down by being back and forth about a relationship.
Girl B is a younger and more bad version that I would plow into the next town. Also mentioned she's "not into relationships".
What do I do /b/ros?
Seduction is all about deception friend. The moment you spill out your emotions is the moment she becomes jaded. Everything you do will be tainted with the "he likes me" vibe. You have to play the game and lead them down the path without revealing the destination.
Its Janet here. Just wanted you to know you never pleasured me, ever. You are literally nothing and I have been having sex with your friends and father. You are such a sensitive little fag. I'm sorry not sorry. Wasn't a cold shoulder I was just riding another guy because it warms me knowing someone else is inside me rather than your needle dick.
I checked her Facebook. No signs of any relationship, past or present.
Still... she never really knew me. It's been over a year since I last tried to contact her, and it'll be a year before I'm able to go back to college at all. I don't know if I can keep her interested for a year with just text messaging.
Exactly what I was thinking. Girl A is "focusing on her school work" as if anything with the word "studies" after it means anything. We hang out like once a week if we're lucky. Girl B I just met a few days ago talks like typical millennials but her body is just fucking unbelievable plus a cute face to go along with it.
I'm twice as sad because I don't have a HER
... A year ago it was grace. I never worked up the nerve to talk to her. A year and a half ago it was ash. I barely held a conversation with her. 2 years ago it was Sam. I still talk to her now and then but it's been a few months at least.
I really fucking hate this song for some reason, and I don't really know why...
Maybe I need a girlfriend or I'm just really fucking demented.
Should I merge them all together for you? No I would rather have another gangbang with them all and maybe this time you can come and watch.. sit in the corner crying watching me get railed and passed around your friends
Pic related, because I'd love to stay good friends with her because we're both into similar things and share some nice ideas, i don't particularly lust over her and already have a gf... instead i develop a schoolboy crush on her and i can feel shit getting awkward. i'm not gonna dump my gf for her and i want to stay good friends with the other one without this awkwardness that im getting now. im glad i can think rationally about it, but the feels still hit me whenever im around her, GO AWAY FEELS YOU FUCKERS.
I'll give it a go. Here's hoping I get any kind of reception at all.
Any advice for maintaining long-distance relationships, though? I've always been a face-to-face guy, so the only time it's worked for me in the past is when they're into gaming and I can do stuff with them over Skype. She's not into that, though.
There was a redhead girl that lived near me as a kid, her name was Marie.
We were always playing together.
Then one day she simply moved away and I never saw her again.
Over 20 years ago now. I'm now married and life moved on.
But every now and then she resurfaces in my memory and the loss still hurts a little, she was so here then she was not.
Marie, from Sydney, just let me know you turned out ok.