Is it bad that I get depressed when I see beautiful and cute girls?
Also, You fall in love you lose
> It reminds me how I'm missing out on girls in their prime and that'll there's nothing I can do to fuck them...
Finally someone who can related
Here you go OP. Kill yourself.
Trust me, it was awful. You didnt miss shit. What you bros need is a girl who is into the same shit you are, now that is something to weep about if you dont experience it
Getting depressed around cute girls puts you further in "the hole" its all in your head mates. I use to be the same way. Self confidence is a paradox. You feel good you are good. You feel bad you spiral into a pit of where it is impossible to return. I was there. Just cheer yourself up. I know that's easy on paper bust just try it. Be funny. Charismatic. Charming. If you think you are. You will be. What i did for a while is i acted like the most bad ass guy i know on tv. Like James bond. Even know i probably looked like a lil shit it still worked. At least for me. This isnt a troll im just trying to help a /b/ro out
Yep alot, but then become good frinds with them is the next step bud.
Take the pic for ex. Girl i met at work that eventually became my gf. Took time sure but it all works out in the end.
Nonesense friend. Just quit caring what people think. Talk to people and if you say something autistic dont apologize like a timid boy, laugh and go well damn. People say and do stupid shit, also if you smoke weed, stop. For some weed just makes you socially awkward
Ex gf (Right one of course)
god damn this is depressing me knowing I will never have that type of passionate love and am just a keyboard warrior.....
I actually was in a relationship with a girl I truly loved most of the time between 15 and 18
Now I'm 21, single, and fucking depressed, because I know what it felt like and I know that no matter if I ever find a loveable girl again, it will never feel the same
My major problem is just that I've never felt anything for the few girlfriends I've had. I always thought so initially, but got to realize I didn't feel jack shit but trapped.
I've just more or less given up on love, whatever that really is.
Might be from me suppressing my feelings during a lot of years, because a lot of other shit. Especially a very fucked up boss at a place I worked at from when I was just under 14. I've always been quite sensitive, so that was the option to deal with working there. Now I just don't feel much anymore.
Well I can still show off about how hot my ex-girlfriends are now, how I was the first one to fuck them and how happy my teenage was and blablabla
But the truth is I'm just a bitter butthurt faggot who keeps looking back, I miss this shit and it's not gonna get any better
All ya robots need a wake up call.
>feel sorry for yourself only makes you more cringy
>confidence is easy to fake=fake it until you make it
>women are exactly like you
>young relationships suck, you are just a hormonal mess and so is she. It is nostalgia that makes you think it was good
>it isnt that hard to get the ladies, go out, make friends, make friends with their friends, etc. You will come across women
>be yourself, if youre a cringe lord, own it. Be the guy who says weird shit cause he doesnt care
You guys can do it i believe in you
now that you mention it, it might not be that big of a deal.
I never heard any of my friends talk about the first time they had sex, even the ones that usually do brag about having sex.
this right here. that is all it takes.
Fuck the norms of today where if you didn't fuck at 13 your a cuck. It comes when it comes. Older is definitely better.
Take your damn time and relax.
I'm still a virgin tho... I don't know how to sex
If I so happen to get to the point should I tell her I've never done it before, or should I just pretend to know what I'm doing
Tell the truth man, girls love honesty. Plus side i think if you say you have never done it you guys can really take your time and get to know each others likes and dislikes right away.
Its all about being honest bud.
Life does suck. I have internet friends (many of 5+ years) but it just sucks. I've got a few hobbies but nothing is fun anymore...well besides the animal adoption center I work at. The cats cheer me up.
Listen here everyone of you feeling down.
Confidence is key. Everyone has it. It just takes some time to build yourself up to allow it to shine.
You can play games all day, you can have only one friend or 1000, you can be great with girls or shy or whatever. If you step out of your "bubble" and let people see who you are it just gets better from there.
You open yourself out and others will be drawn to that and making friends is a piece of cake. That girl at work is really cute and actually talks to you? Then fucking build a spine and engage in conversation every now and then, make her laugh, help her out.
I was sick of feeling alone and when i finally said fuck it im done with this and threw myself out there it seriously got better. Hard but everything in life is. The rewards come as you go.
Hope this helps someone out there as it help me realize my full potential.
Right in the feels OP.
spent most of my teenage years smoking weed in solitude.. now i dont smoke weed anymore.. still lonely asf.
I'm learning to love plain girls with good personalities.
I've been doing this
A lot, but every really attractive woman I've gotten anywhere with has been a headache, especially the young ones that look so sweet and perfect. They stand you up, waste your time, make plans and then forget about them, and are so used to people entertaining them and trying to kiss their ass that they can't carry on a conversation.
I know it's partly sour grapes, but I think the really cute, decent ones are already married or with a great guy they want to be with indefinitely.
I want to poke her with my needle
had the same problem before OP, but i decided to try to build up my self esteem, and i no longer feel that way, now i feel like actually going over and talk to them. i recomend that you try to become more socially active, go to parties, get to know new people.
This is my crush. She's just as much of a piece of shit no-life as I am and it's great. We went on a date and two days after that she broke up with her bf. Once she doesn't feel like shit I'm going to ask her out. Wish me luck /b/ros.
Well those type who want the attention like that might not be the ones to go after. But if you really want to go for someone like that then you got to push your limits i would say. be one step ahead.
>women are exactly like you
thanks for this OP. Needs to be said, but that specific quote gets me. I'm a femanon and love your view.
This was me, just got home from work
Honestly bros the biggest, biggest thing i see my friends do with women that doesnt work and makes me cringe, is putting pussy on a pedestal. Talk to them loke they are your buds, not like they are prinvesses, and if she wants to be treated like a princess it isnt worth your time.
So what you dont get to hump, but now you have a friend, who has other friends that you can try and get with. And it will make her so mad when you hook up with her friend. You guys got this, just put on your best normal clothes and hit the town. Go to grocery stores, book stores, anywhere. Im proud of you bud, go get em.
It is comforting to know there are other people like me out there with these same thoughts. Sometimes this upsets me so much I actually stop jerking off half way through and just go to bed. If I do cum it's usually from humiliation, femdom, or chastity porn. Fucking depressing.
>be one step ahead
I've tried to chad it up a little and not put up with their shit, but so far I just get called an asshole.
Overall, I just don't think I can keep up with a woman who's a notch above my league as far as looks go. Even girls who are a little cute can't coast ENTIRELY on their looks, because there's always a 9 or a 10 that makes them look plain.
being an indifferent INTJ faggot works when trying to get girls to notice you.
Well my man, what i would suggest is to try and get ahold of her online, talk to her for a bit week or more, set up a date, and go see her. If you guys hit it off, try to move closer. Just dont come off as creepy, this is gonna be a long con situation. You got it man
Honestly looks 90% of the time absolutely do not matter. That is just icing on the cake mind you. You see it is really the character that shows up during conversation or a get together that really shows who you are.
Forget what the other guys say also. Do something she likes and maybe after a bit you can get her to try something you enjoy doing.
By one step ahead i mean obviously those others are going on little knowledge of the girl and more on looks, you need to be the guy who gets to know her but also show that you are interesting. Again talk a lot with her where ever it is you guys meet. After some time she warms up to you take it to the next level and say go out somewhere.
Obviously easier said then done but it does take time to get there. Trust me though when i say time is everything and your going to get the full scoop on this girl. that will help in deciding if this is a girl for you or not.