Femanon here bored and going through shit need advice, hellp?
You need to find someone else who values you.
Also: You have to put the work into the relationship - whatever you want out of it, you have to put 110% into it. Too many women think that Sex = Whatever I want from the Man.
Gotta decide whether your need to for sex supersedes how shitty you feel to be used by your ex to get laid. Christ, you're an attractive female - you can at least meet a fuck buddy who is probably a marginally better human being than your ex is. Jump on tinder and find literally anybody else you don't have an emotional connection with.
Go for one last good fuck, and then break contact. It'll be shit but if you really need the sex later you should be able to find a rando, and once you're over him it'll be good.
Get to know new people. They will get you to realize how valuable (or worthless thereof) the people you already know are.
Source: liked somebody for 4 years. Never moved on until I did this.
Whether OP is the girl in the photos or not... Why would you hang out with your ex anyway? Fucking loser just get some new dick, if you are that girl in the photos then it'll be easy. You're not a land whale you look like an average girl, get some new dick and you'll forget about him quickly.
No dick is going to care after the dick gets the pussy.
This is the thing that women don't understand about men - it's getting the pussy that matters - once that has been achieved, it's on to the next pussy.
obvious answer is obvious. I was the love of someones life, well until she started telling herself I was bad for her and hooked up with her next. It's really all about lying to yourself, but you probably just like the easy known value dick. New dick, kinda scary.
That is why Older Men are better for Younger Women. I didn't realize this until I became the "older guy" - after the age of around 34 or so, a guy becomes more stable, and your testosterone levels drop to the point where you aren't chasing pussy all over the place.
Yes, I know it's hard to understand at 20, but it does happen. So, suddenly, you actually start appreciating women, and you also (unless you're a total loser) have established yourself in a career, so you got money (which is what all women crave) and you can afford to take care of a younger woman.
They flock to you like bees to honey (unless you are grotesquely fat or otherwise really horribly disfigured).
Young women should always fuck older men - mostly because of the stability, but also (if I'm being honest) because it means more pussy for me.
If you're always horny and he's using you for sex because he's horny I'd say you've got a pretty good thing going. The only problem is if you want to get over him you should probably stop sleeping with him, and start sleeping with other people. There's an app for that, it's called Tinder.
Go be a whore with someone that isn't him. It's not a challenge for a woman with your body to get laid.
I'm gonna fuck him one last time then be drunk for a week straight and never talk to him again. He is such a prick he used me so badly and has no real care for me
The last time we hung out I said "I couldn't imagine not being ur friend anymore" nd u know what he said " I couldn't imagine not fucking u anymore" ya fuck him. But he's always on my mind even though I kinda hate him
I say find better shit to do with your time, move on and work on self fulfillment for a while. educate yourself, more people need this. work out, good body image is important. discover what your dreams are.
Stop letting him use you for sex. End of. If you're already aware of it, why continue letting it happen? Do you love him more than yourself? If so, you're doing it wrong. Don't let someone use your body when that person has no interest in you otherwise. Cut contact with him, stop returning his calls. Don't pull "let's just be friends". No. Sounds like desperation that you stay, and no good can come of that. Make new friends, focus on you. The life you two had is over, the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can move on.
Thank you, sweetheart.
Now what other advice would you like? This guy, you need to dump him. Find another man who appreciates your mind.
Remember: Every one of us gets fucking ugly eventually - so the thing that matters most is the mind.
"I couldn't imagine not being ur friend anymore"
That's because it sounds like that's the only life you know. Get out. Do more things. Create your own friends. Why the fuck would you want that kind of guy as a friend? Love? No that's not love. That's fear. You're scared of losing him, scared of change. And that's exactly what you need to get over him and move the fuck on.
I feel like I need to get over him in my own time. I'm seeing him tmrw. I'm gonna tell him that I feel he is using me and that it's not a good idea for us to see each other anymore since I have feels and all.
You feel like you need to get over him but you're seeing him tomorrow? The fuck sense does that make. You don't owe him an explanation, you don't owe him another word. Shut it down on your terms. Don't come to some "neutral" ground where you can loophole your own verdict.
If you can't tell him NO when he uses you for sex, how the hell do you expect to refuse him when you tell him "it's not a good idea for us to see each other anymore". You expect you'll hold up when he puts on those soft words, saying everything you wanna hear?
Uhm I was in a year long relationship with him where we both lived each other and lived together. It's hard just changing ur mentality. U have obviously never been in a relationship. Because breakups are complicated
I sometimes think that the best times I've ever had were when I wasn't tied to someone else. It's amazing how "relationships" tie us down.
I've been "around the block" a lot, and the older I get, the more I've learned how to appreciate my own company.
You can always get someone in your life (even when you are older like me) - but to learn how to be comfortable in your own skin - to learn how to appreciate the peace that solitude can bring takes practice.
We all need sex - and with what you look like that shouldn't be a problem - but don't make any commitments to anyone right now - don't fall in love (which is a major flaw that women have, to be honest) - try to find that quiet space, and enjoy it.
Are you sure he's only using you for sex femanon? My ex broke up with me and we still see each other all the time and we still have sex and we text constantly and he still genuinely seems to care about me. Your ex may just being going through a rough patch and needs time to figure things out.
Stop playing around with this fuck boy. You need to focus on you and have some self confindence. Youve got nice tits and a nice ass. Im sure your face is just as pretty as the rest of your body. Just go out and have fun with friends. Remember that you come first, not anyone else. Good luck fem anon
No, we've been in relationships and know what it's like and what it takes to get over someone. It's hard, but it's not complicated. Not at all. You hate him but you want to hang out and fuck him anyway? The fuck sense does that make? Anon is right to call you out on that. You're perpetuating your own issues.
Your ex is using you for sex too. Your waiting on nothing.
This is the problem with women, even when they look good they have no fucking confidence. They just stick with what they know repeatedly. Hell a lot of guys here do that too, but guess what? Sometimes you just have to get your shit together and realize you need something different and you need to move forward. Your ex doesn't care about you, her ex doesn't care about her, just move the fuck on with your life. I can tell you for a fact that the OP at least is hot enough to find another dude easily.
I will never understand why people put up with this kind of shit. I've come to the conclusion that bitches, and by that I mean both men and women, need drama.
I am trying to move on with my life. And that involves finding a job. Hanging with real friends. Drinking lots of booze and listening to music. I just want to be the person I was before I depended on his shitty effection
Seems like you're more concerned with posting nudes than listening to advice. You could have just posted nudes and left the sob story out. If it's this easy to get you naked, it's no wonder your ex is having his way around you whenever he wants.
I wouldn't mind dating OP - but I'm not.
Just giving some sage advice to a young woman who followed the rules and gave us some tits and (now) vag shots.
Least we can do, as "gentlemen" (lol) is give her advice that we feel is the best we can give.
If I was in a Bar with OP Femanon, I'd be telling her the same thing, of course all the while wishing that she would find me irresistable and want to go to the nearest motel to fuck. But I'm a man, and at least I admit it...
Drinking booze is probably the last thing you want to do when you're this fucked up over a boy. You think that'll make it better? Don't be one of those annoying drunks who just cries over some guy who hates her.
I rlly don't have much confidence even though I get told all the time that I am beautiful and special. Even his friends tell me they don't know why he dsnt see that in me and that he was lucky to have me. I just need to work on myself
>I wouldn't mind dating OP - but I'm not.
>Just giving some sage advice to a young woman who followed the rules and gave us some tits and (now) vag shots.
OP has serious daddy issues. Pass.
i know you're hurting and its hard but yeah i say keep your distance when you tell him he's using you cause i know if i was him and i wanted to keep you around id do whatever i can to keep you close just so i can fuck you one last time so don't be surprised if he tries to get one last hug out of you or suddenly starts to get really close to your face just keep a distance
harsh truth but yea
Dude, they're all cumdumpsters. Just like we're all Dicks.
Ever see "Soldier of Orange"? "Generals and Whores" that's what the world is made of.
Don't disparage a girl because she likes cum. Your mom obviously liked it - otherwise you wouldn't have been born.
No you dont. Take it from a dude who used to kill himself over confidence issues. Man up the fuck up, fuck what other people say, and consistently tell yourself that you are good at what you do. Don't make looks who you are. Just man up and realize the simple fact that you know as much as anyone. Don't let it get to you so much that you gain bravado. I mean it's really simple shit.
Well if you really loved him then its gonna take a while. I was in a similar relationship, living together etc., and it sucks having to break it off but youre way too damn young for all this bs. Have fun and live life to the fullest. Dont forget that not a single person on this earth is promised to wake up tomorrow. And try not to take it all too hard, take it all with a grain of salt. If it hurts you or disappoints you then brush off that shoulder and keep going. No one but you will stand on your own two feet, if you get my meaning.
Oldfag here, requesting sharpie in pooper. As demonstrated
>I'm always horny and have needs
So you are also using him for sex . Both of you are using each other for sex.
You are not a victim. Stop thinking like he is abusing you. Either come out of the closet or just shut up and enjoy your sex session .
You are also using him and his penis.
Amazing how many responses a Femanon can get on here.
Reminds me of Periscope. You could have Mahatma Ghandi on there discussing how to create a world of Peace and Harmony, and he'd have 4 viewers, but a chick with a low-cut blouse talking about 5 Seconds To Summer gets 1000 viewers...
Fucking dudes are so horny, their dicks make all the decisions for them...
I do want to fuck himm.... Ugh I do. I'm not saying that he's abusing me I just think he's a giant dick for leaving me telling me he dsnt even want to be my friend he just wants to fuck me. I want to fuck him but I also care about him as a friend
>this anon got it
>also check 'em
The pattern goes like this.
1) Hot girl has a hot mom that daddy fucked to make hot girl.
2) Daddy was dick to get to fuck her mom
3) Girl grows from little darling to young woman as hot are her mom
4) Daddy gets fucking crazy protective keep assholes in the neighborhood from fucking daughter
4a) Daddy kept girl from fucking and killed or chased off local cocks
4b) Daddy only let beta boys with hot girl that didn't fuck her
5) Hot girl becomes of age and wants to fuck
6) Only man in her life was daddy that kept her from fucking and was an asshole over it
7) Hot girl dates asshole that act like daddy
8) Hot girl becomes a abused woman refusing good men away just like daddy turned away good men since good man made more money that asshole daddy.
9) Hot girl complains to mommy as asshole daddy died from (a) murder, (b) alcoholism, (c) capital punishment
10) Hot girl is 30, married to asshole just like daddy and regrets her good looks while seeing geek girl with a good man that makes a lot of money.
Do something bold. Pick a random dude from 4Chan - meet and fuck, and post pics on /b/.
It would be a first. Would teach your ex a lesson in using sex as a weapon, and would make the life of some /b/ro happy as hell.
Hell, I'll videotape it for free.
I just want to say thank u to the people actually giving advice. Having tits and an ass really gets u a long way in \b\
You are really very pretty. Enjoy your youth and your feminine allure.
Don't waste your time on useless relationships - treat them like you would any other transaction in life - i.e. how much do you want, and how much are you willing to invest to get what you want.
I need to fuck someone new. There's this guy who has been chatting to me and I've had a crush on him for a while but I don't feel like I'm ready to start another kind of relationship. I just want to fuck
Do you really love someone who just treats you as a sex object whenever he wants to? He doesn't even want to be in a relationship with you. He's just praying on your vulnerability. Live your life outside of him. Think back to happy times before him. If not, then just go outside the house and go to events and bars, meet new people. There WILL and I repreat WILL be better men out there. He doesn't love you at all.
You know it's really ironic how I'm giving relationship advice yet I can't even fucking ask a girl out that I liked for a couple of years. I hate myself for it. Don't be me and take initiative. He'll keep treating you like this if you don't change.
But it's ok if you're HIS low life whore? Lol what the fuck am I even reading. You're letting him fuck you when he wants nothing to do with you. At least have the decency to get paid.
No fuck u guys. I take the advice and thank u for being kind enough to give me some truth. But for me as closure I have to get everything off my chest and tell him that I don't want to be used by him anymore and that he has lost someone who genuinely cared for him. It will be fucking hard but I guess I need someone new to preoccupy my mind
yup, gotta do that sometimes. It's then that people finally realize that very few people really cared about them. Sometimes they realize it much later and wish they could have it again.
Go on with your bad self, baby doll. You have followed the rules of /b/ admirably, and hopefully got good advice from some of us.
Check back here after you settle this matter and let us all know how it went.
What time are you meeting him tomorrow? You should do a follow up post and tell us how it went. If you failed, don't even bother making another post unless you've got sharpies on hand.
Thank you so much. I like heating it when people say that there are better guys out there. Because I just wasted a whole year with an Asshole, who I actually loved. But he hurt me pretty bad and I now realise what a piece of shit he is
You need to preoccupy your mind with yourself. Don't jump in with someone, and if you do, COMMUNICATE that you don't want a relationship right now. Fuck, sure. Relationship? No. Don't even bother until you're ready. Don't make the same mistake everyone makes, thinking that "someone else" will complete me. It doesn't work like that.
>It will be fucking hard but I guess I need someone new to preoccupy my mind
Any guy that acts like your father will do. Find a less abusive one. A guy that makes money with the same drink, food and clothing styles as you father works. Then marry him, fuck him and have babies.
my advice for you..go fuck your gay self
Actually there aren't better guys out there. There are beta-whiteknights who say there are better guys out there who hope you will pick beta-cucks like them. And then there are guys like me postyourfuckingvagyouattentionwhore who want to use you like you want to be used.
Well thank u for the help. I will be back with an update and let u all know what the fuck went down.
trust me when i say that youll move on and find other assholes to deal with until you're just tired of looking and then find your happy place.
been there, done that.
28 now and just absolutely enjoyed my life thus far and just travel.
After loving someone for so long, you kinda lose sight of things that used to be important to you and miss all the bad qualities. My advice: stay single for a year or two. Travel or do whatever you want. This is >>653766791 btw. Just rediscover yourself during this time.
>Actually there aren't better guys out there.
Correction, there are better guys out there that you can't be a real woman to and have their back. You are a fucking princes bitch that just wants presents and shit. Thus, you don't put out in AND out of bed and you get losers you date. Bitch!
just take a break. trust me, its worth it. i'm much better now that i was able to enjoy myself and find what i like to do alone. everyone else just became an additional afterwards.
this was after a horrible breakup with my ex. honestly, the best move that ever happened. now i just fuck her occasionally with no remorse.
>just take a break. trust me, its worth it. i'm much better now that i was able to enjoy myself and find what i like to do alone. everyone else just became an additional afterwards.
OP does porn and dies of a drug overdoes.
I'm not a princess bitch. I paid his rent. He never took me on a date. For my birthday he got me a phone charger and I cooked him food everyday. Even if I wanted ice cream he would make me pay for it all myself . u fuck
Jesus christ. You need to learn some serious self worth. No one should be taken advantage of like that. You lived with him for a YEAR like this? Why the hell did you stay? If you say "love" you have no clue what love is. That's called abuse, and he had you thick in it.
I want to date chicks.. But I know this is vain as afuck but she would have to be beautiful and not a bitch, cute and sexy. There for I will never be able to date a girl.. Standards are to high
well, I can honestly say, that I wasn't actually looking for someone when I tried again with someone else, it just felt like things clicked when I came across them. Just didn't work the way I'd hope.
>I'm not a princess bitch. I paid his rent. He never took me on a date. For my birthday he got me a phone charger and I cooked him food everyday. Even if I wanted ice cream he would make me pay for it all myself . u fuck
You will either end up doing porn or have his baby. Either, you are a fucked up loser.
Draw a mouse on your nipple.
>I'm not a princess bitch. I paid his rent. He never took me on a date. For my birthday he got me a phone charger and I cooked him food everyday.
This worst than a daddy's girl.
You are a fucked up mommy's girl. You have become your mother!!! You should find a good man to have children and then baby the children.
DO NOT child care a fucked up man to be like your mother!! Move on now!
try to date an outdoorsy chick - they're decently cute and not that bitchy.
but seriously - it sounds like you have some messed up relations with guys, so it'd do you well to find intimacy with a chick for the time being. that way you can learn to be intimate without being walked all over on by some guy who subconciously reminds you of your father
>And I would love to do porn haha I deffs have daddy issues and know that I am only good for one thing sex.
Be a stripper and cash in on rich men twice your age. Take the best sugar daddy deal you can find and have his baby.
Well thanks to the kind souls giving me solid advice. This has now turned into a bashing threda. I realise all of these things about me anyway. All I can say is I was a really good girl to him and he has lots and lots of his own issues.