>used to be an actual red neck >had an old chevy truck with a gun rack >wore wife beaters and dickies shorts >smoked and drank whiskey >beat up gay people around town >used to hunt frequently >got the internet 3 years ago >found /b/ >found out about traps >became depressed >suicide attempt >in coma for month >bed ridden for 4 months >muscle atrophy >lost all my weight and mass >started watching anime and playing video games because bed ridden >started imagining myself as a girl >physical rehab and went home >hated my old life, hated who I was, hated old friends >sold everything and moved out of parents place >got apartment in the city >went to community college and went to therapy >got prescribed female hormones >grew my hair out >got into otaku and art >started presenting as a female more and more >eventually took all my guy clothes to goodwill >had name and gender legally changed >scheduled sexual reassignment operation >got degree in arts and humanities >had my vaginoplasty and a beast aug >moved into a nicer place >started dating guys >got a great job in HR >met my fiancee >he is a gorgeous man
So now I am living with him for 7 months and we want to get married soon and I don't know if I should contact my family or old friends. I have no one on my side of the isle except for my girlfriends. My family and old friends don't know that I am a woman now. What do I do /b/?
Listen OP and plz focus it's very important. You should kill yourself, i'm not even kidding. You are not normal and never will be. I would recommande the helium masque because you seem like a nice guy. You will not suffer
Yeah I did. Like I said my lips were like fucking jason statham. It didnt look very ladylike. Specially because I use colored balms not actual lipstick. Now they look better and I think its more feminine.
Well thats good that he accepts you. I've yet to find someone that is ok with my change but it doesnt really bother me because I feel happy and more comfortable with myself.
>>651167371 Oh I try, it's so difficult being a cis white male these days, lordy lordy.
Oh wait, you were trying to insult me! That's cute. I try to let you in on why I may be a bit off, but instead you seem to think I'm bragging, is your dick so small that anyone talking is a perceived threat to your masculinity?
>>651167422 It is not anger, i'm not angry with you. I'm telling you to kill yourself for your own good. Do you want to get disowned and beaten by your friends and family? Also everyone on the streets will spit in your face or behind your back. If you want to suck dick, go ahead suck dick or whatever but do it privatly no need to show everybody that you are a trans.
Honestly it depends a lot on what you want and how you want it done. Mine cost about $800 something. I had my bottom lip filled in more than my top lip. So it wouldn't be completely symmetrical and wouldnt look like duck face.
>>651167620 while I was trying to insult you, I was mostly trying to let you know I dont give a fuck about why you're "a bit off" and just wanted you to know that you're fucking retarded if you felt the need to respond to so many people.
>>651164688 Pretty much the same thing happened to me. And after going to a trans support group it seems to be a common trend that a lot of mtf's were very manly men before transitioning, like we were overcompensating. Being manly always felt so foreign to me, but I knew it's what society expected and I didn't see much of an other party in life, so I did my best to fit that role. I was a semi truck mechanic, I drove a lifted diesel truck, worked out all the time, went fishing constantly, that kind of stuff. Although I still love fishing. I think this is why when a lot of us come out to our families and friends, they never see it coming. It's very confusing to everyone. I know a former navy seal who recently transitioned. But then it seems like all the ftm's I know we're already very boyish before transition and no one is really shocked when they do it. It's all very strange.
As for your old family and friends, there is no definite answer. I can tell you personally, I've stayed away from them because being around them brings back a lot of feelings of masculinity, and they just don't know what to say or how to act around me anymore. Don't expect much from them, but doing blame them. They knew you your whole life as a man, it's a pretty crazy shift for them to deal with. Especially if they're all rednecks
>>651168135 Oh but but it wasn't fucking retarded. Why? Because now I have you to talk to, now you're clamoring over your keyboard trying to figure out a new way to insult me, wait for this paragraph, hoping I respond, here it is anon. But now that I've caught you in this little loop. Little Mobius Strip. What do you do? Retort and prove me right? Or fade off, not to respond, that would work to, as it would be seen as a "Victory" among those that browse 4chan. So please. Continue.
>>651167559 It's very easy if you take the route with no health insurance. I saw therapist for two months, she gave me a letter of recommendation for HRT, took it to a doctor, payed $1000 for full blood panel and then started horomones. HRT costs me about $40 all together, not too bad
>>651165264 You've basically dropped them out of your life for years. So the whole change will be much harder for them to accept because they are still thinking of the old you.
Some will likely reject you just because you "rejected" them.
Some will not know how they feel.
Some will still love you even if you have changed your exterior that much.
Which will do what, I can't tell you. But that is just how it goes.
Some in time will accept it.
The biggest hurdle is that you dropped them entirely, so it will be a super avalanche to come slamming down on them. Humans are emotional creatures. Emotions take a long time to work out and change. So don't expect much right away for contacting them but hurt and rejection (their hurt and rejection for you cutting them out and abandoning them). That will probably be expressed badly about your changes. But given enough time, there is a chance of acceptance and love. But you have really damaged or outright broken your bridges to your family, so it won't be easy to fix or make new ones. It will take time.
>>651164688 I'm gonna vote for just nice on and forget your old life. My situation is nothing like yours except that I also grew up in a redneck hellhole. And I, with nothing out of the ordinary going on and nothing to hide, utterly regret reconnecting with all the shitty people I grew up around and am now having to deal with getting rid of them again. In your case no way, no way. I think you probably have a pretty accurate idea of how it will go.
>>651168757 Just been on hrt about 7 months. I haven't even started living female 24/7. The day I get breasts next year will be day I start living female. My girlfriend has been transitioned for about 5 years though.
I'm mad because you're a woman and you're acting like a stuck up fucking cunt, unironically calling yourself kawai and flaunting your femininity at us - then you post a picture of yourself, we all see that you're ugly as fuck, and you delete it - AND you were a man, so you should fucking know better.
No excuses, you're a piece of shit and should kill yourself
My lips werent always very symmetrical length wise so make sure you get that assessed because after the swelling goes down it will look more visible. I dont have any before pics unfortunately. I didnt keep anything from before my change, I just want to focus on my new life.
You look like a man in a fucking wig, OP. Everything about you screams tranny. You have no tits, the you have fucking collar tan lines, your lips are non existent, your eyes are too far up, your jaw is too pronounced, and your hair looks like a pile of spaghetti
>>651171341 I'm going to go against the grain here, I think it's great that you weren't happy then decided to do something about it. You've figured your shit out and I'm comfortable how I was born and still can't figure my shit out. Your story is impressive
>>651171054 Why are people so miserable? Why do you wish physical injury and pain on someone who's just trying to live their life? Why do you think she's trying to trick anyone into dating her? Why do you make all the assumptions with no basis to go off of? Why can't you just live and let live?
>>651172176 Why are you even here? Why can't people just be happy with who they are instead of spending shitloads of money to live a lie? Why do trannys think guys will be okay with dating them just because some piece of paper says they're a girl. Why is OP a faggot and won't post any more pics?
>>651172073 Thankyou, that means alot on this board where there is so much hatred. But to be fair, I haven't figured everything out. Like a real career, or kids, or how to stop doing drugs. I'm trying to get it in order though. After starting transition I've begun to love myself and care about my own well being for the first time in my life, and its refreshing. It makes me feel like I may be able to figure the rest of my life out at some point.
>>651172729 But am I really living a lie when I know and accept that I am a tranny and not an actual woman? We aren't all tumblr crazy. Why does it matter if I spend my money on it? People spend ridiculous amounts of money all kinds of other shit. Besides, when it's all done I will have spent about $25k(not getting SRS), what are you, a poorfag to think that's a shitload of money? And there are more than enough guys willing to date a tranny, and plenty who would prefer to date is over a bio girl.
>>651172739 I never got started. I had kids too early, I had drug problems that got worse after my first wife left. Then it just went downhill. Got a good job and ruined it by not being able to stay awake due to nods. Started picking up the pieces 4 years ago, and still haven't been able to get a real handle on getting ahead. I have a decent job but I'm only person working in my house. Household of me, wife, and four kids
>>651173414 >Btw I'm not including all that xe/xir/hir/shitself stuff because even I think that's stupid it's literally the same shit and why should i have to go out of my way just because someone else isn't happy with who they are?
>>651173136 >Why does it matter if I spend my money on it? People spend ridiculous amounts of money all kinds of other shit. Besides, when it's all done I will have spent about $25k You can spend your money anyway you want. We just think it's fucking retarded because it doesn't change your sex and just mutilates your genitals, therefore we will call you a retarded faggot for it. Don't do stupid shit if you don't want to get insulted.
>And there are more than enough guys willing to date a tranny, and plenty who would prefer to date is over a bio girl. Yeah, those are called faggots and betas who can't get a real woman and have to settle for a fake one.
>>651173136 Yes you are living a lie when you distort your body with surgery and hormones so you can pretend to be something you're not. I don't have to be a poorfag to know that spending 25k to get your dick cut off is stupid, sorry your parents never taught you about the value of a dollar. The majority of guys will get the fuck out of there when you tell them you used to have a dick.
>>651174370 Do you not know how to read? I clearly stated I'm not getting srs. And I'm not sure if you know this, but we have the internet nowadays, most trannies don't just go out, find a guy, star dating them and then tell them we have a dick. That's how you get killed. Most of us meet people online first and tell them, then go from there.
>>651174188 You people have no idea how to read. And I know it doesn't change my sex, stop making assumptions, you look like an autist. Why insult over something that has nothing to do with you? Are you upset that I'm happy and your life is so pathetic?
Are they betas because they like something different than you? You know thats a pretty retarded argument, right?
I will agree with the faggot post because unlike a lot of other trannies, I don't think it's straight for a guy to date a tranny. I think gay/straight is defined by the chromosomes
>>651173606 >>651174359 >>651174976 Not the same thing. I just think the madeup names are stupid and people getting upset because the average person doesn't know them and which are the correct ones to use is 1000x more stupid. You'll find a lot of us trannies hate nonbinaries/genderqueers
>>651174991 Shit dude, I thought you were like 45 or some shit. You're still young. You've got at least another 40 years to make something of yourself. Don't get down, dude. You could be like aunt who works at kfc at 50 years old. It could always be worse
>>651175359 >You people have no idea how to read. And I know it doesn't change my sex, stop making assumptions, you look like an autist. When the fuck did I say you thought it did? And you call me the autist. kek.
Why insult over something that has nothing to do with you? If someone acts like a retard, people tend to call them a retard. That's how it works.
Are you upset that I'm happy and your life is so pathetic? kek, yeah, I'm so sad that my dick isn't mutilated and that I'm actually normal and not a tranny.
>Are they betas because they like something different than you? Trannies are easy because very few people want them, so they take what they can get, thus betas go for them knowing this fact.
Some guy does something to make himself happy and that qualifies for negative repsonses? How many of you actually have done shit with their lives other than be here and shitpost about how "big" their cock is or why you are alpha. When in reality constantly being here makes you lower than half the population, including the niggers because even they get shit done with their rioting and race wars. I'm actually happy for OP because not everyone can or will take the steps needed to make their life better. If it was turning their sausage to a clam.
I should correct myself I meant blacks, they arent the same as niggers.
Yet there still scholarships and programs being created in present day. Why? Because blacks continue to cry fowl and manipulate that guilt. As whites we cant tell them their "suffering" (qoutations because half of them are just getting a free pass) is enough because they have ingrained racism so deeply its wrong to do so.
This is why its hilarious to see them "stand up" and fight against the system because they only loot and trash their own neighborhoods making them worse. They want all the nice things that whites have but they dont do anything but wreck shit
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