Then take out the sex. And the dreams. And replace all your nights with a blur of hours of indistinguishable times of day where someone is either screaming at you for something mundane or pretending not to be angry about something you typically don't give a shit about...
In a long distance relationship with a nice girl currently. Works out because I dont have time to hang out ever anyway. Granted shes probably banging other dudes but its nice to have someone to chat with.
>>646366303 If you're a delusional cuck male that don't mind getting stepped on for pussy than you like relationships.
If you're a real man you find it very hard to identify with women and relationships are soul sucking hell. You have to constantly play games to make them happy. They need constant entertainment and whatever semblance of freedom you had as a true alpha male are gone.
>>646366303 its great for 6~ months and then you both start to be less hyper-infatuated and you start getting comfortable and find out who each other really are and either the relationship becomes the best thing ever because you found someone you genuinely connect with, or everything slowly falls apart and this is the part where i spend a very long time ignoring red flags and unavoidable issues in the relationship and waste months and/or years trying to make something work that could only ever amount to awful compromises and misery
i don't know what short term healthy relationships are like, but that's my experience with multiple long term healthy and unhealthy ones
>>646366303 unless you get really lucky, they crowd you, always wanting to be around you, then want to move in with you, their world revolves around you and it is the worst. i was very young when i started dating my gf, im 23 now and as ive grown i realized relationships like these are not for me. i dont know how to break it off with her because she hasnt done anything wrong except for being a clingy woman
shes beautiful, 10/10 in my opinion, but i just dont get excited to see her anymore when its every fucking day that we hangout, i take couple day breaks from her, but then she gets tremendously depressed. luckily she just started her new job and will be gone most of the day, i hope his will help
>>646369220 >>646370942 I already know 100% you guys will regret your decision. If you don't know how to bring it up and there is no conflict then you're not sure. There is no real problem, you just want to whore around and fuck some sluts. Problem is it won't work out if it hasn't by now... Talking from experience.
>>646369677 Been with my wife for almost 8 years, married for almost 2.
I have a great relationship with my wife, we both love anime, video games, and road cycling. She's a perfect match for me, but I no longer lust after her. Maybe every once in a while, but to be honest I don't really care. I hardly fuck her, but she's too good to cheat (as am I). I love fapping to 2D, and filthy 3D can never be a match for my 2D waifus.
I met her when I was 14, turning 23 tomorrow and I have no friends to speak of, extremely poor social skills, and I get so anxious around people to the point my palms sweat profusely. I even switched from an Engineering major to Computer Science because I prefer lonely work and I hate socializing with others. I'm pathetic, etc.
So what, you say? I don't know. Just felt like telling this to someone.
>>646371372 i dont even care about sex that much, not looking to whore around. i just want my free time back, my space. ive told her this and she gets super depressed and what seems like almost suicidal because she thinks i dont like her. Im sick of playing that stupid game i could go on and on but the real problem is, there is no real problem to pin ending this relationship on
I've had a couple of long term relationships. One for a year and the other just came up on 5 years, engaged, morderatly happy. She's into polyamory so I might be able to add another song to my playlist someday.
>>646372087 Depends how you see it. My relationship and being with her literally 24/7 for so many years made me lose my social skills and my circle of friends since I never hung out with them. However, I can't say I mind much, as I find it very hard to relate to others. I've been at my uni for 3 years, delayed my graduation by another 3 due to my switch of majors and I've yet to make any true friends.
Again, could it really be meaningless without her? Does having no social skills/friends to speak of make your life meaningless and a waste?
I don't think so, at least not for me. That doesn't mean others, such as yourself, won't see it that way though.
Depending on who the girl is the best or worst experience of your life. After being with a girl for a period of time you will start to realize either one of two things. Either she's exactly who you thought she was and the same person you originally met, or you will start to realize that she's nothing at all like the person you originally were attracted too and over time more and more things you dislike will emerge until you break up.
>>646372311 I feel you bruh. My gf is a crazy, and whenever I get to break it off, she becomes suicidal. She's a bitch, but we've worked things out recently, and she says she'll give me freedom to do shit. Shitty part is that she doesn't approve of porn, so I hide that shit from. Feels bad man
>>646373442 im sorry for you, my gf enjoys porn but only when were together, downside is shes bi and i never feel like shes actually enjoying sex, only when im fingering or going down on her. You could try fo encourage her to watch some as you go down on her or something. Idk
But i get more dopamine from marijauna occasionally than when i do with her ever and thats a problem, especially when she doesnt approve of that. Ugggh i have dug my hole too deep and there is no way out
>>646366303 Been with my gf for almost 7 years. Moved from Indiana to New York. Left everything, im a big family man so it was hard for me to do. I still find myself missing her. Built our own life we have pretty much have the same friends. We're opposites in a way we benefit eachother. I couldnt be happier. Ive learned relationships are work. They dont just fall into place and you cant just expect them to work out. You need to make plans and figure out what youre doing and where youre going. Dont look for a gf in the bar or in a club. Sorry for the faggotry. Just telling it how it is.
me and my girl grew up as childhood friends, but were dating other people all our lifes until we fell in love at 25 (after taking MDMA together a couple of times)
we have the same interests, hobbies, mostly the same friends, kinks, libido and enough history together to always have something to talk about my dick exactly fills her pussy up, with a lil bit too much (which feels amazing to both of us)
2.5 years now still have daily sex still get a blowjob every morning not a single real fight (mostly it's us vs problem and not you vs me) no jealousy or drama still think she is hot as fuck living together since day 1 and I don't feel restricted in any way
>>646370300 >always wanting to be around you how is that a bad thing? I love to spend time with my girl
>then want to move in with you even better sleeping together every night doing the household chores and cooking together
>their world revolves around you and it is the worst they can still keep their own world my girl still has her old friends, her job, her family, her interests and her hobbies and how is it bad in any way?
>but i just dont get excited to see her anymore when its every fucking day that we hangout do exciting things? go outside, play video games, take drugs together, hang out with friends, etc
my life is basically the same, except that I share it with another person
>>646370942 just tell her you aren't in love anymore? how hard can it be
>>646366303 It's a fucking time and money sink. You have to remember each fucking event so you can have an anniversary for it, and boy oh boy don't you DARE to put more thought than money into a present, because you'll be written off as cheap.
If you want to cuddle with an individual who has an unconditional sense of attachment towards you get a pet, and if you are horny pay a whore, it's cheaper, less maintenance, and the rewards are the same!
>>646368533 Why are you even together with such a person?
Just break up with you are unhappy. Or are you really that desperate? In my opinion being single is way better than a shitty toxic relationship >can have sex with whomever I want >can have amazing one night stand sex twice every weekend >more free time >can concentrate on improving myself and my friendships
There are literally billions of girls out there and there must be one that fits together with you.
>Imagine having the same sex (dream) every night. Why would you even have the same sex everyday? Bring some fun into it.
Buy toys, bondage stuff, candles, etc maybe invite other people or have outdoor sex roleplay a bit
>Then take out the sex learn to initiate be sexy and do sexy stuff talk dirty and sexy to her and make her want you also smoke weed or get drunk together
>You're always wrong. You're always wrong. You're always wrong If you weren't such a doormat you could have mature talks with her and not only >oh yeah it's my fault
don't treat her like a little kid that can't do anything wrong tell her she's being a stupid bitch
>spooning and cuddling gf >suddenly warm feeling on my crotch >lift up the cover to see what the fuck is going on >rancid stench hits my face >realize the bitch farted right on my nutsack and is now giggling because of it
>need to pee >gf grabs my dick and gives me a sloppy kis >u wot m8 >"lol I know you can't pee with a boner"
>ruined 3 of my sheets with her period >wonders why I refuse to put my black silk sheets on
Wanna rest? Nope. She wants to hang out, or make you clean, or some shit.
Wanna spend money? Nope. She thinks you're squandering your money, even though she's thousands in debt on stupid shit like shoes.
Wanna eat whatever you wanna eat? Nope, you're eating what she makes. Don't wanna eat that? Then eat something else. But it can't be anything else. So it's either this or nothing.
Want sex? Nope. Only when she wants sex. She wants sex and you're tired or chillin'? Too fucking bad.
Wanna hang out with your buddies? Make sure she knows them. If she doesn't, you'll be barraged with texts the entire time. When she hangs out with friends, you can text her all you want - chances are she'll ignore you, and if she does respond, it'll be to tell you some nonsense BS long winded story about something that happened to her that nobody cares about.
Pointing out something? Got something interesting to say? Prepare to be interrupted. But do not interrupt her. Ever.
Wanna go to sleep? You can't until she's ready to go to sleep. Wanna wake up and get to work? She ain't waking up with you - to her, alarms don't apply to sleep patterns. It's your job to wake her up asshole. And if you don't, you're in trouble.
Terrible, she turns up at my house unannounced and bring all of her stupid friends. Can never be alone anymore without her clinging on to me. Not to mention the over reacting to everything negative and hearing to her ramble on about shit that just turns into noise after a certain amount of time
also imagine a person that taked all the shit that makes you insecure and then uses it as ammo against you when she wants to hurt you. men are physically stronger than women, and they are well aware of this fact. so they have fucking PERFECTED the art of emotional violence. only a women can fuck you up so bad mentally that you question your whole being.
>>646372938 Well you just think you can't function as an individual because you haven't thought as an individual the entire time being with her. >If you ever broke up and you kept the mindset you had now you may be a wreck. >If you broke up and got a grip immediately realizing you are a whole human being not half of one whole flesh covenant marriage situation you'll be fine
>>646366303 I just broke up with mine, basically like having someone that gives you pointless pointers everyday. Say I failed a test and I'm depressed about "well you should have studied more" , she goes out with friends and everything is ok but when you do " omfg are u cheating on me wtf!?"
>>646372952 Fucking this. Girlfriend for 1 year broke up with me last week.
Happened like you described. It is a really shitty feeling, don't really know how to handle it right now, she said she doesn't feel the same way like i did. only thing you can do is to distract yourself whenever you can.
I guess the best thing i can do now is to ignore her, not writing her anymore and see if she will regret it maybe. But i think this will be the end...
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