>>613808491 Jesus Christ dude, at least you talked with a girl. The longest conversation with a girl I had was about 20 seconds, only because we were grouped together in a college project, and we left the building at the same time.
>>613807859 19 this Saturday, I've hugged and held hands with plenty but have never had a girlfriend or sec. I got a blowjob from my hot stepsister once tho and we used to get naked together and stuff which was awesome. I have two jobs but I do still live my parents.
>>613809089 *sex Also I have some good friends, a couple I can hang out with and et drunk. I can draw decently, I'm finally getting money, I'm good at talking to people (yes, even girls), and I've had plenty of good hot female friends. Not anymore though, unfortunately.
I'm a slow learner though, and I usually feel really stupid. I feel like life will be a lot more difficult for me than it is for some others once I move out
im a non-pass mtf trans, ive had a lot of sex but no real relationship since i was in high school (and high school relationships dont really count). currently failing at uni due to non-attendance, i spend my days smoking everything i can get my hands on and chatting to fucknuts on craigslist. probably gonna kill myself at the end of summer when my student loans folks figure out im failing and cut me off.
>>613810126 I was bad for a while when I was first single. Not really suicidal just depressed as fuck. Now I get depressed when I spend a lot of time thinking how my parents are practically in their 60s and if I don't get my shit together soon they'll be too old to really enjoy grandkids.
Also really tall/overweight, so need to start exercising too, but never had a problem talking to people of either sex. Most people tend to laugh hysterically at my humor in certain situations and from what people told I'm easy to like/get along with.
Didn't realize this was a boarder line suicide thread don't wanna interrupt.
>>613807859 28 Live alone. No friends. Have job, but can be fired at any moment. Everything I have can be lost because of the ongoing military conflict in the country.
No thoughts of suicide though. If I wanted to end up all that, I could just return to the apartment where I am registered and wait until they come to get me to the army. Where I would die in a month because of bad health and no physical strength.
I have a giant book case, a sword on my wall, two swords leaning on my wall, 2 bo staves, a fuck load of figurines from all over the world, and I get laid often via girl from dating apps (not the best way, but still a way) It's not girl repeller, it's just his mindset and ways
>24 >not a virgin, but pretty much a POS >have 2 jobs and starting a business, but still a POS >aware sociopath who doesn't know how to stop being one >working on a 4 year degree in who knows what the fuck >incredibly kind and giving to people, but still sociopath mind and tendencies in the inside, and don't know how to stop the mind
I'm no alpha, just a "regular," kind person, but there's nothing wrong with liking "nerdy" things... you can still get laid. For the betas, I recommend using dating apps like OKC/Tinder (since they're free) and meet another beta girl and work your way up like that. I started with like 3/10-5/10 girls and worked my way up to like 6/10-8/10 girls now.
It's sad, but I think it's how people like us have to do it.
Who cares if you have carebears, as long as you're not a POS like me, you're still better. Being a POS is the lowest
>>613812629 Don't worry mate, I've gone on my own plenty of times. If anyone bothers to ask about it, I'm just like 'oh well, my friends found the film to childish'. Or some other silly excuse like that.
>>613809414 I'm 21 too >stuck at home >no job >never had a job >parents are paying for college one class at a time >no gf >no friends >no social skills >not a virgin but the last time i had sex was with an ugly crossdresser. >slowly turning gay
27yo kissless, friendless virgin, no degree, ton in debt. Took me two months to sack up and ask a grill I really like to go to a concert with me. And no, I didn't even call it a 'date'. Now it's some twilight zone shit with the friend zone just around the corner.
>24 >Med student, but parents threating me to let me down if i don't get top grades, even though i'm perfectly in line with exams, just not top tier >gf of 3 years who is a nympho, the only actual thing i'm happy for. >no problem socializing but would rather play videogames >live in a country in total decline, probably will have to emigrate to find a job, and thus break-up with gf
>>613807859 24 Work for local County 33,000 a year Car- 2004 Land Rover Discovery Diesel Conversion. I own my house with 5 acres Married with 1 child one on the way. I browse 4chan every day why can i be successful but you all can't I dropped out of high school for Christ sake.
>>613808273 Do this >>613808660 Seriously. If you try that for a few months you'll grow a lot. You don't even have to do it religiously - just say yes when you really don't have a reason to say no (highly illegal or damaging to your health you can avoid).
Why settle for that man? When I was in the military of all things I was saving that much a year. Especially if you are going to be having a kid, I would look into getting a GED or some kind of certs to get a better job.
Life isn't all about making money but, sure makes it a fuckload easier. Plus, will keep the marital problems down.
I'm almost 30 and have dropped out of college twice, now I work two jobs that I don't particularly like so I can keep my house, my kid is being raised by my parents because I'm never home because of work (thanks Obama), my ex-wife is happily married and doesn't really see her daughter, I haven't been able to maintain a normal relationship for close to a decade, and I'm still in love with an ex of mine that's married. I have no better job prospects than going back to delivering pizzas and I can't afford to go to school again and finish. On top of it all, I have a terminal illness that will probably kill me within 10 years.
Don't say you're a failure until you've actually failed.
>22 >successful school life >great social life >live at home w/parenrs >no car >in love with girl >girl likes me >make out/hold hands a lot >will never say how she feels about us >constantly ignores texts >fucks other guys Constantly stuck on this and can't let go. She's the love of my live and I'm just there for emotional support. What the fuck do?
>>613814289 I have my GED i used to drive tractor trailer making 220,000 a year that's how i paid off the house and cars. And your very right. Lifes not about money thats why im currently settling for the life i have. I love my life. Lol
>>613814388 Stop thinking. The thinking makes you hesitate.
Just start doing things, like you are a robot and have been told to do something. Go to a bar - no hesitation, no thought - you automatically go through the stages requiring you to reach the bar.
Shower, dress, put on shoes, leave house, walk towards bar, open door, go inside, order drink, drink drink.
Then comes: talk to girl. Open mouth, say hello, talk about normal topics, make a joke, practise social skills, become better each time you do it.
If you do everything like that for a while, you will lose your fears because you've already done them once.
First time can just be on auto pilot.
There's no consequence worse than spending the rest of your life miserable and alone in your parent's house regretting every day you waste. I was there for a long time dude - 15 years or so. I escaped it, you can too.
>>613814572 I had that too, except I didn't actually love the girl. All in all, she's gonna do whatever he hell she wants. Very manipulative girls, I'd recommend getting rid of her. What happened to me is I made her know I did the same so she'd know how I felt.
I'm married and have a great life ... except the wife is pregnant. She's happy but I'm just dealing with it. I feel like I was living the good life and now I have to go back to settling. feelsbadman.jpg
>>613814572 There are plenty of girls out there you know. If the 'relationship' (and I say that very lightly) you're in is not truly making you happy stop emotionally investing yourself in it and move on.
Wizard+ kissless virgin Live in my own house Unemployed for over a year, start a temp job tomorrow Diagnosed major depression, treated with meds Social phobic. I've tried going out to bars, clubs, parties. I can't get comfortable in any of those situations. I don't know how to act and the anxiety makes me shut down. Overweight. No self confidence. The only thing stopping me from killing myself is the thought of my parents having to deal with my death. Sigh
>>613816114 Well everyone thinks I should do it because I can do it. But I admire laying back and not putting myself too much into society and paying all those damn taxes. Sure making a living is something, but taking it easy and having fun is my priority.
>>613815696 lol, europe is going to be the world's cancer in some years. UK and USA are close to impossible if i want to practice as a doctor; i have to go where there's need and a long-term growth prospective. Italy is the opposite of that, only greece is worse.
>>613807859 my pillow fucking has evoled. i now imagine myself as my own one true loving banging myself. in other words, i pretend the pillow is me, and i'm the girl of my dreams, and i make the pillow fuck me.
if you have not reached this stage yet, there's still hope for you.
You guys need to put a lot more thought into your life plan/tactics and a lot less thought into girls. It's not surprising you can't get girls when you don't even manage your own lives (which isn't that hard).
>>613816325 Life is what you make of it, and being happy is a choice in any situation (bar torture I suppose).
I think the comment was for those who had the niggling thought in the back of their mind that they might want to move up, become more affluent. Just requires careful planning, hard work, anyone in here can do it.
>>613816203 Well you admitted success in school/social life. So focus on that and realize that it could have been a lot worse. Yes it is going to sting, but you will get over it. You're not the first/only one to ever experience a loss or breakup.
Keep your mind occupied and be proactive. Do things, go places.
>19 >live with parents >top student >excelent social life >good sex >losed one grade >the most important one.(70%) >almost out uni >if before comes true no house >will be homeless and moneyless >wil lost everything i have worked for. >consider become a burglar or something to survive
Oh my god you fucking faggots. I'm 25, hugged, held hands, been in the kind of love you kill people for, with no job, living with my parents. I had a rough run in highschool but I got to do all the things my senior year and while i was pretending to be in college. It's gay. You don't remember the kiss and the little moments, just the person. If the person isn't in the picture the physical acts of affection are meaningless.
Just stop being afraid. You don't have to say yes to everything but you have to be out and doing your own thing or people don't even bother it's so stupid to live like that. I learned I like being alone, and I've been alienating everyone I ever fucking liked, because I am miserable, and nothing makes me happy, but I'm glad I can say I got there on some level, for a little while, before I realize it really is me that's the problem and I'm probably more than insanely comfortable in a life of near solitude.
If you have anxiety, take some xanax. If you have anxiety about taking anxiety meds, that's okay it goes away after you take the meds, or if you want you can do what EVERYONE ELSE IN THEIR MID TWENTIES FUCKING DOES FOR THEIR SOCIAL ANXIETY AND DRINK THEMSELVES UP THEIR COURAGE YOU FUCKING IDIOT
>>613814572 Little bruh, hate to break and all. But girl don't like ya. She might think ur cute sometimes, sweet guy, you'll do in a pinch when she needs an out. But she will NEVER go or become more than something you should relocate to the occasional hello text section. Do NOT keep ur heart in overdrive over this girl one more day dude, because it will just be worse the longer you drag shit out. You're 22 man, young buck still. You will more than likely go through 2 or 3 more loves of ur life. Let this one kinda fade into obscurity, and go get one that gives half a shit, can make up her damn mind, and is actually concerned about whether her kinda...sorta...almost GF...but not quite bullshit fucks with your head.
>26 years old >virgin, kissless, etc, never even hugged a girl >zero friends, online or irl >fat >borderline personality disorder >attention deficit disorder >failed 2 years of high school but completed it somehow >failed 2 years university, re-enrolled, failing again >thought i was a degenerate tranny >tried hormone therapy for a while >realized i will never be even close to passing, stopped therapy, plus trannies are degenerates anyway >stuck with hairy bitch-tits >tried to kill myself 3 times >was in the psych hospital and put on antipsychotics >antipsychotics made me gain a lot of weight and further damaged my ability to feel pleasure >can't focus, can't feel pleasure, shit mood >contemplating suicide or random murder
>>613814572 That's not love. You can be obsessed with someone like that. But if you can imagine a girl that treats you better, and you know someone like that exists, than it's not the love of your life. I'm sure she is attractive to you but she is mean, you are weak, and you need to remember that how someone treats you and lets you treat yourself if half the relationship.
I don't even want to have a gf. I'm forcing myself to maintain one or two friendship to avoid being a complete outcast but I don't feel the need to socialize more. I guess the internet got me in a dead end because I get that minimum of necessary human interaction here and therefore I lack motivation to meet other people in real life.
>>613817287 Exercise every day, do good quality pushups, buy some dumbells, a chin up bar for a doorframe.
You will lose the tits in a couple of months perhaps. You'll also gain some self confidence, not because of how you look - but because you have successfully taken control of your own body in a positive way.
Start writing your problems down in a list, then writing solutions to every problem - with simple, logical, step by step instructions. Then follow the instructions for each one until it is done with, and move onto the next.
>>613816771 My father's father died of brain tumor. He died slowly and painfully. My father has got two brain tumors removed, is a shipwreck of a person now. Walking around a blown up nuclear reactor does not make you healthier. As a kid I was checked every year for anomalies because radiation. Nothing serious has been found so far. Just fucked up vision, digestive system, and blood vessels. I think I'd better keep browsing /b
>>613815415 I remember what happened when i talked to girls after a 6 year relationship. It was a DISASTER. The worst part is a I thought I was doing okay. My brother had to break it to me that I was being an enormous fagget. And I'm a normal guy who had all the right experiences at all the proper time frames.
So I can imagine it can be dangerous to send a neet/sperg out into the world.
21, just got a job in a country wonderful pub in England.
Love a girl with Borderline Personality Disorder. I feel I make progress and then some shit happens and it feels like I'm going backwards. I'm not totally pocket-spaghetti tier, with women, but shit is complicated and it feels like I'm going nowhere, despite her telling me she likes me too. It's getting me down, honestly.
Other than that? Getting into Rally Driving. Hoping to enter the Finnish Rally next year, but I feel like I've never be good enough,
>>613813748 I seem to have a habit of friend zoning girls who are interested in me.
I realise I'm doing it, I don't want to give them false illusions, but I like hanging around with them.
Been in the friendzone myself before - dunno what this post is about. Perhaps I should be more of a man and just fuck them anyway, then cut all contact with them immediately afterwards. Hopefully leaving a good proportion of them pregnant. Need to leave something on this planet.
>>613813922 not having a gf and being a virgin re indeed good reasons to be suicidal you clueless fuck. They often hint at much deeper problems such as complete loneliness, dissatisfaction, apathy, depression. People are not virgins and kissless at 30 just because. The issues are much, much deeper than "normies" would every understand. And yes, it's unbearable.
I've had close to no human contact for the last year, and zero girl contact for at least the last 3 years. "Fortunately" my job is EXTREMELY stressful and demanding and it sucked me of all emotion, will and care. I'm not eating, I'm not sleeping, I drink daily, I hate reckless rists, even small things such s crossing the street without bothering to look either way. I barely talk to anyone... well, to be honest, I only really respond, never start a conversation myself.
>>613817377 >First girl I loved, yeah You know what they say, the first cut is the deepest. But you'll manage I'm 100% confident in it. It's easier to sort it out now, so you can start coping, than to drag it on and suffer throughout the entire duration.
Best of luck. And you can always turn to /b/ if you feel like you're stuck or can't cope; we'll listen. I sure as hell will.
>>613807859 Tbh my /b/ro, I've had plenty of sex with a variety of women and it's not all that it's cracked up to be. I LOVE pussy but it's not something that if I couldn't get it, I'd be depressed. Honestly, I'm social awkward and found a way to make it work. a sense of humor will ALWAYS get you into a girls pants, jus develop one of those and you're golden, ponyboy! But srsly, chin up faggot, don't let yourself get to down
>>613807859 im male 18 years old fucked loads of bitches already, have a perfect body and my face isnt bad at all. im typing this while i should be studing for school my grades are the best of the class and all this i do without any effort. i love my live my girlfriend my rich white family and my new car. ! :)
>>613807859 I can one up that. I've masturbated so hard before so many times to one video all in a single day that I got a ring of pimples around the shaft of my dick. Couldn't fap for days after that.
Jesus fucking Christ, are you guys serious? Crying because you are virgin or never have been kissed before? Try being homeless like I did because you didn't had money to pay your house, try living in a country where to get a job is like a miracle... and then you can complain about girlfriends.
also, read pic related, it helped me and will help you all
>23 >full time factory job >live in bachelor apt >no complaints about $$ >bike and walk everywhere to stay healthy >am still virgin, have hugged kissed talked to many girls >get told am good looking on a regular basis so heres the bad part >had to move away from friends ect last year >alone in small town, abused as a child , so anxiety is an issue >little self confidence >always seem to push people away by acting like a needy faggot, only because Im terrified of being alone any longer I guess im not completely a lost cause. I do have goals and aspirations. Beginning to hang out with people at work, and have slowed way down on weed consumption as some anons suggested. Im on the mend /b/
27, a job with a wage I can't complain about living with parents because job requires traveling to places every other week, not kissless but a virgin non the less because I was too damn nervous to get it up when she wanted me. God damn it.
>>613818859 Well I hope you're not studying philosophy, because the realization that everything you have is entirely due to the accident of birth, that you've achieved nothing on your own, is probably gonna weigh pretty heavily later on.
>>613819086 dont feel bad bro, that happened my first time too.
>freshman yr >me and super hot but super crazy chick date >gonna lose virginity >shes got awesome tits but im too nervous and cant stay hard >she doesnt mind and actually thinks its her fault
I realized I just have to be comfortable with the girl, as beta as that sounds.
I was actually kinda intimidated of my next gf but was super hard for her. We just had to ease into it and it was natural. If you guys go from couch kissing to HXC BANGING ORGASMSS YEEAAAAH you might get nervous
Don't worry about it at all dude, will take some practise - focus on the sensations, don't think about it, imagine your penis as another finger and kind of 'feel' through it like that. It will take your mind off bullshit and allow you to feel the sensations instead.
Also, stop fapping for some weeks/months and stop porn permanently - first week or two is difficult, after that it becomes easy.
In the future, just fap using your fantasy to a first person perspective of having sex with your girlfriend or a girl you know in life.
I had this when I started out some years ago - practising sex and dropping porn (and fapping for a while) solved it.
>>613817287 Jesus dude, not to kick a dead horse and all, but you kinda just jumped on the train straight to "completely fuckurselfville". Instead of wanting to hurt yourself, and even worse, some random human being, why don't you just live without rules (barring others harm now, don't get nuts) and just decide ur gonna start being the decimator of depression, or the bitch slapper of boohoo'in, and just go FUCK SHIT UP. Go do an epic dose of LSD, schedule an open house appt for some badass million dollar home, and smoke some buds laced with dust right before then, leave ur phone record the entire event. Find a legit feminist on tumblr or something, and go fucking rupture a dumb cunts ovary. Coat ur dick in axle grease, and go bareback some nasty hookers, name it "Penzoiling". I do stupid crazy shit lands me in jail prolly 2 or 3 times every few years, and I fuckin love life. I would ANNIHILATE life if I didn't give a shit. And plus, the whole hairy boob thing, I bet if u could make cash with them puppies bro. Ten bux says if you took ur shirt off, clenched two fists together, and bent 90 degrees at the waist, you'd have a pair of fucking HILARIOUS saggy gorilla tits that couldn't keep a straight face on ANYONE. That prolly be a fucking insta-classic right there.
>24 >15k in savings > IT field tech, growing my education >no college >good amount of friends both in and outside of work >single for 6 months, but have a fwb >smoke weed almost everyday >play vidya >study for certs >go out every weekend
I still feel down, idk why, kinda want to do something else other than the 9-5. I feel like my life is just a record on repeat. Anyone feel the same?
>>613814875 >>613816555 >>613821560 Wow that movie changed my life too, glad to know it wasn't just a phase I was going through, putting that movie on a pedestal. But if you take the right message from it allows you to teach yourself how to entertain yourself and be open to other people's worlds.
>>613807859 >23 >last semester of medschool >hot skinny gf >several close friends (help you bury a corpse in the woods close) >rich parents hooking me up with large inner city apartment >starting job as physician this june >depression for 10years but seems to be getting better
Advice to everyone in this thread: LOWER YOUR STANDARDS! If you have gone this long without any sexual contact with a female, you very likely not worthy of the women you are trying to achieve. Set your sights low (fatties, 2/10's, amputees) and you'll be amazed how far you can get. Added bonus: This can potentially raise your confidence and allow you to mate with higher ranking females.
>>613807859 >20 >kissless virgin > dropped out of high school due to anxiety and depression >spent the last 6 years in my room (as a super introvert,i kinda enjoyed it,though) the few times i leave home are mostly to go to the psychiatrist appointments >no job >no prospective of a future job,cause i'm in italy and here even finding a job at mcdonalds is difficult as fuck >very high chanches i have a severe and possibly fatal genetic condition that could kill me at any moment.
>>613823512 You don't want to change. That's why you don't have the motivation. It's like, I would not mind changing, but I don't want to put any efforts in it. Stop lying to yourself. Your life is not that bad if you don't want to change.
>>613819057 >>613819184 >>613819427 >>613819917 >>613819085 Ah my older /b/ros i know you are a little bit angry now but just accept that life isn't fair:) I have all the good that you could have in this Earth and you.. youbhave nothing.. sucks doesnt it? well can't help it I would like to "share" or "donate" some of my luck but i just can't.. And guys do you already know that you never be truly happy becouse you will remember me and know i'm doing better or anyother normal person.. well feeling bad for you!
>keep working hard maybe uou achieve something ones
>32 >complete virgin; never so much as touched a woman other than by accident >fired from my last 2 jobs at fast food joints >fat as fucking shit. I haven't weighed myself in years but I must be closing in on 400 pounds >tiny 6 inch dick
>>613823835 >>613822589 forgot to add > depression > life is pretty good you are fucking lucky that you don't have real depression if you cried that daddy didn't buy you a car and fucked you afterwards in the backseat won't make you depressed you fucking faggot
>>613823292 lel you actually think everyone in this thread's problem is because their standards are too high? you need to imagine people who are absolutely frightened to even make contact with a girl, no matter what standard. your advice doesn't apply.
>>613822589 If this isn't a complete and total fucking fantasy, you mean you start fucking RESIDENT INTERN, which is assume is what you meant by "job" hehehe as a physician. And no, life is going to start to suck more dick than elton john at that point. Which is fucking awesome. But, bait anyway. Luck n Stuff Dr. Faggot Puff. MD.
>21 >kissless virgin >not ugly or fat though >live with mom >social problems >hate going out in public >not even seeking job >have only had two jobs, both dishwashing >both only lasted a couple months >first one I quit due to depression >second one I got fired >smoke weed, play vidya, browse 4chan, fap to cp >everyday >hate myself >know the steps to change but take none >started seeing counselor but not sure if I'm going anymore >just another person to disappoint with my shittiness >why am I like this? >how the fuck do I change? >giving up hope >i want to die
>>613824132 so, you're addicted to heroin, right? or pills. Addicts always like to distinguish the HUUUGE difference between the two. Then they go online to brag about their rich, disappointed parents.
:) good luck dying lonely with a full wallet, the universe will be unbiased
>>613824329 That may be so, I only read the OP and assumed it would be applicable to someone. In any case, you have to start somewhere, and ugly bitches is probably a best bet. >>613824406 I'm very aware that these are not desirable human beings by any stretch of the imagination, but neither are you. If you still won't just close your eyes and drop a fat load in some bitch's snatch, well it' no skin off my bones.
>>613817169 This is a defense mechanism because of feeling insecure. you're not actually a sociopath, you're just so afraid of rejection that you trick yourself into believing that you don't care about the people you emotionally invest in.
>>613807859 I'm not gonna top this out at least now. 21, sexualkissless virgin, no job, living with parents, fatass, thinning hair, no friends.
The thing is I could achieve pretty much anything above and I've been a higher tier person before but I don't want to achieve anything "of value". I lost all my motivation. I simply don't think there's anything more to life and don't want to commit to generate a false sense( i.e gf/ child/ job etc.). I'm a big walking failure waiting for nobody knows what. I'm semicomfortable being a hermit.
>19 >Bilateral Hip Dysplasia (Cant walk more than 30 mins without my hips becoming super painful) >Virgin, high school dropout >Cant even smoke weed cause my anxiety becomes too much >Very intelligent, just no common sense/motivation
Am recently changing my mindset, getting my GED, and trying to wedge my way into medical school at some point in the future.
Anything is possible, /b/ros. I tell myself if I can do it, anyone can.
>>613814289 I only wish i could make 33k€/y... Engineering master's here... Italy is such a sad place (for working) that on newspapers journalists celebrate our low labor cost (i mean engineering workforce) who earns 50% less than other EU countries...
I'm in the purgatory between two different social worlds >spend all of my free time in front of my computer >go to parties once in a while and not a complete idiot with girls >I don't like how my situation is atm >I'm confused about my sexuality. I don't want to suck a dick, but there's something compelling about dick I don't understand >sexed once, though fingered a couple other girls >I'm confused about girls that like me >girls I feel are worth my time, I friendzone >girls who really just play me, catches me completely >I'm confused about what my ACTUAL problem is in this world >sometimes I'm depressed >sometimes I'm hyped >fuck everything, though I've sworn to myself never to kill myself >see no final goal in my life..
>>613823512 Alright - you're 19. You've got lots of time, but now is the time to get started. 290 pounds is overweight but not insane - you could lose a lot this year.
Here's the thing. You've conditioned yourself to crave instant gratification. That makes doing anything long term like losing weight really fucking difficult.
You said you can't find the motivation. You never will, motivation is complete bullshit. It comes and goes, it's not under your control.
Start building habits with baby steps. If you need to exercise, find a workout plan you can manage in your room without special equipment. That'll help you avoid any self-consiousness about doing stuff in public. Then on week 1, do just the first exercise in that workout plan once. So if it says do 10 sit-ups, you're gonna do 1 sit-up. Every week up the game slightly, do a bit more of the workout. All you're doing is building a habit, the results will come later.
Make a habit tracking chart and put exercise down as one of the habits. Every day you do that habit you get a green sticker. Sounds childish but I know millionaires who still use this tool - it works. Your goal is to not break the chain, you want to get a green sticker for every single say.
Finally, get some accountability. Set stakes for a months work. If you don't do the habit every day for a month, you have to donate money to a charity you hate. Sites like Stickk are great for this. You'll need an accountability partner who will keep track of the goal and order you to pay of you dont manage it.
This is just the start - using these techniques you can set up your life to do anything you want.
>>613826214 as males, we see dicks and we feel a sort of "competition". When we see a good-looking dick (better than ours specifically) we feel the need to compete and often that leads to slight sexual arousal.
you just sound like a typical teen actually. chill out bro. Find some role models and don't be ashamed of borrowing from others style/life/interests to feel complete yourself.
During my HS I was a very promising individual. People kinda liked me, especially adults because being an eloquent A student, that's modest, honest and good for people is a pretty sight I suppose. I don't know when it' happened but I've lost any drive. Something'd burned out, died out.
I'm a husk of my former self and it's sad when I think about it. Probably it was my(?) ambition that's killed the cat.
>>613807859 >30 years old >lives at home >have job so I'm good with money >kissless >handless >hugless >Ask my work crush to an event >she ends up going with me >swooped up by an alpha at the event >makes out with him in front of my while her eyes lock on to mine. >they go home together
Should I kill myself or wait for another opportunity with another chick
I am this tall strong good looking guy, had a bunch of girls in my life and I'm doing great. All this came to me just because I look good. To be honest I enjoy all the priviliges i have because of it! and ofcourse the feeling that girls are atracted to me.
Here comes the fun
>you are goodlooking or not and it will never change, >the is no life after this one were you will be goodlooking nor happy
imagine that you are the person that everybody adores and every girl want to fuck that you and now know you will never be him.
>the only reason you are not killing yourself is because you are afraid.
>>613827555 If you live in the US like me it's common to feel so hopeless.
>Our school systems ONLY care about standardized test scores >Our teachers are only there as a Plan B job >Our politicans are the most corrupt they've ever been >Our parents blame their own children for the way they turned out (blaming it on phones, video games, etc) >Our 24 hour for-profit news stations often report sensationalized, fluff news that stands on NO ground
We're all here with you man. Find something that makes you happy.
>no father, havn't seen him since i was 1-2yo so I cant remember him, but my family says hes a cunt anyways >mum got with my stepdad when i was 10, but he was pretty beta so i never learned how to man the fuck up >got sent to his old private highschool which was boys only >lost contact with all female friends and only had male friends >fast forward to 18 school was over >get a job that paid well for what it required and started going to tafe (community college) >4-5months into the job something triggered a panic attack that causes me to feel like i had to constantly piss/busting to piss >my job as a check out bitch made me feel trapped and increased this stress >eventually I couldnt even ride the bus to Tafe as a result of it being an hour trip and again i felt trapped >doctor gave me "panic attack/anxiety meds" that had the sideeffect of making me drowsy >they didnt really do shit to my panic attacks so I was taking more than I was prescribed >couldnt concentrate in class as a result so failed a course >between being tied as fuck and having a voice in your head saying "better go take a piss or youll piss your pants" outside life was hell >kept withdrawing further and further from the outside world >dropped out of tafe to work more hours at work, but it wasnt stuck at a checkout anymore so it was better but still hell >after 3 years of working I couldnt take it any more >quit my job >slowly got better with everything as there wasnt stress at home >now looking for work as im much better >23yo kissless virgin living with parent
>i literally have no idea how to talk to women >ive never had a father figure to learn from and as a result i took separate parts of different men's personalities from around my childhood
pretty much the only reason I don't kill myself if because I refuse to let my little brother to grow up to be a failure like me
>20, almost 21 y/o eurofag >had a job for a 6 months, 400$/month, got fired because lazy and can't work properly with tools >living with my family, hasn't been truly looking for work last 5 months, just gaming and fapping >never kissed a girl >slightly overweight >whenever i try to do some actual stuff i always stumble and fail at some point
Though my family loves me, so I gotta keep trying again, heck I might be of use someday.
Also, tried my luck on Omegle, and found an actual girl with timestamp who wanted to fuck in relatively short time; then when I showed my pic to her, her connection must've crashed somehow suddenly
Might as well give my 2 cents. >19 >In college >Hate it >A couple people know I exist but don't talk to me much. >Afraid to initiate social contact >Kissless Virgin >Jealousy problems >No motivation to do anything >play vidya for escaping reality >Slowly not working anymore >Live with my parents whom I have a good relationship with (the only really good thing I have going) >Don't do drugs because afraid to reach out to find some >I still love her even though she stopped talking to me >Therapy has helped only a tiny amount >Don't know what to do with myself so I browse /b/ How fucked am I?
>>613807859 fuck it. u guise gonna b mad. >come from a wealthy family, but parents actually came from nothing and knew their shit in raising me. was never handed anything, very strict upbringing >excelled in school, uni, went on to do pretty well in law school. Currently I am an attorney that makes a pretty good living. >Lucked out in life in almost every possible way: good genes, fast metabolism, excellent figure, 7.5 inch cock, sociable, likeable. I've lost count of how many girls I've fucked/ relationships I've been in. >Do have shortcomings though: some substance abuse issues, I am very intelligent but have ADD, so I lack focus on work and when I was in school. Probably didn't reach my potential, but it was also by sheer willpower that I even got to where I am. >Currently in a relationship w/ a beautiful Asian girl. The look of despair some of the autist/weeabos give me when I walk past them w/ her is almost enough to make me feel bad for you guys. Almost.
>>613827803 And just how the fuck did you bitch out so bad you let some other swing dick snag ur fuckin piece dude? You literally bury ur head in the sand and hope he would be gone when u came up for air? Damn, fucker started encroaching on ur potential shit dude, why didn't you throw out the "aint gonna tolerate but a few seconds of this horseshit" lazer eyes? That didn't work, if making him look like fuckin dumb aint ur thing, then for god sakes fuckin say something. "Hey chief, mind proceeding ur ass out the zone I got occupied with my lady friend here".
>>613827624 You're probably right. Hopefully someone in this thread cares enough to read through.
I was in a similar space a few years back. For me it took finding a goal I cared about and learning everything I could to get past my own bullshit.
Now I'm running a business from home that makes me $5K a month, I'm much fitter and I have an awesome girlfriend. I sti struggle with my head, have days I dont want to get out of bed for hours and weeks I become a complete slob again. But it doesn't stop me for nearly as long as it once did, and I get shit done in spite of that.
Full time job Live with 8/10 gf She makes roughly 50k usd more than me a year I pay no rent Attractive nice hair clean Woman like me I'm fun to be around My coworkers like me >still as unhappy as basement dweller virgin neckbeards
>>613807859 I get very tiny to 0 orgasm. I'm 7inches long, over 5 inches thick. Have a decent stamina and no health problems. No previous drug history. Sometimes I get a libido rush when thinking/watching at some fine women.
Maybe I need a real stimuli from a woman, but I don't think it will help. It was always like that. No wonder I do not seek a human contact when I feel so little and so rarely.
>>613829306 There is hope for every one of you dumb little fuckers who actually wanna do some work, get ur life rating vastly improved, and can learn and listen from people and mistakes you make. There is every hope for you, you little cry baby. You gonna get some moxy and actually do some shit to make it better tho? I kinda doubt it.
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