>not good looking enough for girls to ask me out >don't have balls to ask other girls out >introverted >socially retarded >wouldn't know what to do on date >don't know how to transition from conversation to sex >hate myself, can't hope to love someone if i dont even like myself >prefer to relieve urges with internet porn because it's easier >porn has fucked up my mind so now only hardcore shit gets me off
>>595730200 damn man, you're definitely not ugly.. slightly above average looking unless you have fucked up teeth... either way judging by your hairline you won't go bald and have a younger appearance...if only you had the balls to try
>pretty handsome so some girls ask me out >the girls who ask out r more slutty, so not really what im looking 4 >too extraverted, too alfa too sattle >internetporn fvcked me up aswell >hate myself, even thou im fvcking selfobsessed and self-in-love with myself >dunno what i want :/ shy girls r too boring 4 me, partybitches too slutty
pic related, this is what girls send me on daily basis
>>595729107 Caus I'm fat. And because I'm fat, my body is fucking disgusting; not just because it's fat but because that leads to loads of other shit that looks disgusting. Because of this, I don't want anyone to see me naked.
>>595730200 >don't know how to transition from conversation to sex Well, that's obvious since nobody actually does. Go ask any guy who got some pussy and how it lead to it, and you get most propably a different story. Usually it follows, conversation into touch into sex
Real reasons for no gf is, horrible person, ugly or just bad luck. Mostly the last one.
>>595730200 >>don't know how to transition from conversation to sex this is your problem just talk to a girl about shit that you like try to relate to the tings she says be yourself if she don't dig it then fuck her (metaphorically)
used to be fat, now heading opposite way, but still its not anorectic, human females tend to find interest in me sometimes, but I seem to let go every opportunity because I'm a fagget who can't get over my ex since she was such fucked up as I am.
>>595732250 speeddatings way fuckn work I reckon, room full of randoms all wanting the same thing , i dunno that just sounds scarier to me than asking a girl whos all alone if she wants me to fly my plane into her tower
>>595732092 I feel ya bro. Something similar happened to me, except my girl didn't cheat on me. I think there's something about girls who self-harm because they have low self-respect, and don't recognize a great guy when they have one. Anyways there's tons of girls out there who better deserve you
>>595733309 They figure it out eventually, when it's too late and all. (Not to be edgemasterBLAZE33t420) Exactly. Before her used to be the "Big Teddybear" to all these other chicks, and now that I'm single again they all want some.
Let me tell you, /b/tards. Friendzone isn't that bad of a thing, just don't wallow in it and work- or walk away from it you shits.
I work a fuck load out of town, kinda pudgy, not that good looking. That's about it, really. I'm decent at talking to chicks, I make OK money, I can play guitar pretty well, got my own place, own a vehicle.
yeah we're both in a college for automotive classes. the girls in for dental assistant/nurses are damn gorgeous but i get too choked to talk to them otherwise. this way we're there for the same reason and if i dress/smell good i figure i have a chance
I'm not fat, not repulsive looking. But I have a generally angry attitude. Unfocused, unnecessary anger that I just kinda live with. It makes girls visibly uncomfortable, they avoid me and try not to sit by me in social situations. Feels bad, what do?
>>595733777 Nice trips. Discipline yourself, faggot. Go work out when you're angry, otherwise meditate and control that shit. Was in that boat with my ex, get over it. The anger is natural, as is over-anger, but so is controlling and channeling it into something better.
Work a hobby, work out, learn an instrument. Do something to push it to better uses.
>average looking (ugly in my eyes) >sligthly introverted >would rather listen to music than talk to the girl sitting next to me >when a girl shows interest in me i give her some attention but i don't make any moves (i need someone to force me, im not afraid) >not really a good flirter at all
and most imporantly >I never go out to parties/clubs because i hate the environment >I just want sex fuck romance n shit
>>595734012 And to be honest, sometimes loving them as a friend is enough. Some chicks out there I'd never think of dating, but I see them as a sister almost, and I don't feel to go any farther. The "Just where it's supposed to be" exactness.
Considering day in and day out she tries to get me to do something by hanging off the faggot and staring at me while she kisses him, she's breaking lol.
i know a girl that i've been hanging out with for awhile. we go out, we do things, we have a great time, she'll text me constantly but then it just stops and it stops for about a week. then she comes back and we repeat the cycle.
she says she has a great time with me, she complains when i do something without inviting her, but then when i try to invite her to do something she doesn't respond. so yeah, i don't know how to answer OP, maybe i just need to move on because this one is broken?
I've broke up with her 20 minutes ago because she came to my place for my birthday on Friday just so she didn't have to come here today when it's actually my birthday since it's weekend and that would be too much work for her. I hate being in a relationship with girls who obviously don't really care about me.
>>595729107 >fucked my eyebone up getting in a fight with a giant nigger in highschool >still trying to fix it to this day >getting better but its hard to realign your own fucking face correctly >still mildly attractive/have my good days >get attention, but once I do I get nervous and end the relationship >just fucking hate myself to the core for shit I did >very self destructive >give almost 0 fucks in my social life, do crazy shit >its getting better but its hard to live normally considering what could have been >makes it hard to function normally socially
>>595735012 Nah. Not even worth /b/'s time man. She'll end up tearing herself down piece by piece, and betray him like she did me. Funniest part is she's probably only with him till her parents' cars are fixed (his pop owns a body shop).
She was 10/10 cutey loli though, real short, long-ass hair, tiny tits n all. Still, a 10/10 body ain't worth shit when you're a cunt lol
>>595729107 Eeh,I'm not sure I want one right now,even though I'm talking with an ex to give it another go.Problem is I get attached to those cancerous beings,at some point they act like autistic 12-year olds and end it for no good reason.I'm just tired /b/.
>>595736071 Not that guy, but i don't even want to tell them about me. I'd even love to hear about their lives and shit, but i can hardly deal with my life myself, no chance in hell i'm going to tell anyone how shitty it actually is.
>Bullied my whole youth. >Academic failure my youth due to severe emotional problems from bullying at school and at home getting beaten. >I turn around slightly JR and senior year HS. >Gain momentum in uni. >Now I can do very, very well for myself. >Chasing future constantly, dad still controls me since he is manipulative and domineering towards everyone. >I only know my future and resent my past. I have no present.
What I tell them:
>I like hobbies X,Y and Z. >I intend on doing ____, already have programs that will take me. >I've done activity ___.
I limit my personal information since most of my life isn't shit I'm proud to say in public.
DON'T TELL THEM THE SHIT PARTS? lol fuck man come on. Tell them the good, focus on the good. If you two talk about the bad, then bring it up, console, then move the conversation out of there. Seriously
>>595736503 nobody actually thinks youre autistic for using a computer most of your day. most people wouldnt even give a shit if you just told them and werent a pussy bitch about it. besides, what other option is there?
Chronic pain and a number of resulting, as well as independent mental / health problems. No job, no vehicle, no license even. Walk 35 miles to the nearest town and back (round trip) whenever I need anything. About to embrace homelessness. Hopefully I can just drift, but the moment you're out of money and out of food, see how much drifting you can really do. Nonetheless, it's the only option I have. Don't know anyone. Couldn't get long with anyone if I did, people make me feel trapped and miserable eventually. And it's half or more my own fault.
21. Don't know how long I can keep going like this. I used to tell myself until I was dead, but the moment you hit your early twenties, something changes.
I could get one. Women (some) find me attractive/funny/whatever. have dated before and had sex but no real commitment to speak of The thought of have a girlfriend is both exhilarating and terrifying - but I can handle both emotions pretty well these days. Baby steps.
>>595729107 >have a short interaction with a qt 3.14159265 >immediately fall for her >spend weeks musing over her >too much of a pussy to talk to her again >hope some impossibly unlikely situations brings us together >Either I stop seeing her or I find out she has a bf >start hating myself
This happens to me all the time. Part of me wants to never even talk to a girl so I don't go through a period of depression after I realize there's no chance will be together. only gf I ever had was for like 7 hours.
I've been friend zoned the past 7 times I tried to date a girl. Im not going to be dating for a while because I know it will happen again and im tired of having my emotions fucked with. At this point I dont even feel love anymore.
Im an emotionless shell of a man now, my self esteem is deep in the shitter.
>>595741170 I'll try to explain what happened >Junior high school >20 lbs overweight >start talking to qt in one of my classes >decide i'm finally gonna drop the weight for her >workout for 4 months and eat basically nothing >drop most of the weight >finally ask her out and she says yes >after school she sends me a text telling me she changed her mind >she had a reputation as a really nice school girl so no one criticized her I had low self esteem to start. This just made it way worse. I hate her fucking guts, but I still feel like shit.
>>595742747 It's more about how long you last, and if you can make her cum, the first time I fucked my gf I made her cum and lasted a long time, if you're good at finger fucking and willing to go down you'll satisfy her.
>>595729107 I had one last year. lasted 4 months until i realized i did not had the capacity to give a fuck about other person. So i dumpt her in the most sensitive way i could. it did not work very well, she kind of hates me right now.
20 lbs overweight? There are people lurking right now who WISH they were only 20 lbs overweight. Now don't get me wrong, almost the exact same thing happened to me:
>Also Junior High >50lbs overweight >Started talking to a girl in my class >Finally build the courage to ask her out (Her friends pushed me into doing it) >Say yes >Seemslegit.jpg >Dumps me 4 days later >Tells the entire class I dumped her so another boy would feel bad for her and date her.
So trust me there man, I feel ya. But you gotta get that shit behind ya. If I never shook that off, I'd be right where you are.
I had a girlfriend and she was fucking perfect. Then shit happened where we couldn't see each other and now she's gone. I would love a girlfriend, but I take relationships seriously. Relationships as I see them happen are so superficial. Go there, eat that, watch this movie together. People break up like it's fucking nothing. It's just some bullshit game people use to get affection and sex. It's so ingenuine. Sure there are other girls but they're all the fucking same. Love will never be the same, it wont even be better. I fucking miss you Adela.
>>595743497 On the bright side, it's just high school, fuck people in high school, they think everything plays out in the fucking movies. Chances are you'll never see 99% of those fucks again once you're out of school. If I had realized this I would have taken way more chances during those four years.
>>595743553 I guess I just need to cool off a bit. It didn't happen that long ago. Plus I'm still in high school so I'm surrounded by people who know what happen. She also has a boyfriend whose a lot uglier than me. I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, but he's 5'4 and looks like a fucking 40 year old man.
friends tell me the same exact thing. Some have even tried to set me up on a date. I have no desire in investing any kind of effort anymore. After a few weeks or months I end up with the same speech from the girl
"Anon, you're a really sweet and great guy but...." (you know the rest)
Yeah, it's tough sometimes, but just get to know yourself and learn to like yourself. I know that sounds like some gay shit right there. But if you are looking for a healthy relationship (not just a bunch of hookups here and there), then love yourself.
Also, if she chose that guy instead of you, fuck that and fuck her dude. Yeah, you can be friends with her if you want, but you don't need her in your life, man.
Building off what you said, you can use the interest mismatch to grow your own interests. Then, if that relationship doesn't work out, you can at least take that experience and maybe it will help you in the next one.
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