I've been practicing extending my sexual endurance. I find

have the same problem

try not to clench ur asshole and stay loose it'll make it harder to cum

quit porn; constant keegels; masturbate without porn and have faith in your schlong.

>>593773661
the truth is nobody lasts more than 30 seconds OP, men all just lie to each other like you just lied about lasting more before.

>>593773885
Where is this from?

Its gonna sound weird but try to spread your focus. When Im having sex with my girlfriend, I let muscle memory take over and focus on numbers or hamburgers or what Im doing tomorrow, it helps.

Also, relax your butt muscles. Push out if you have to, but fucking relax them. Changing positions frequently helps with me and keeps it exciting for them (different angles and shit). Them being on top in a cowgirl position but leaning back literally blocks it off and is slightly uncomfortable so it helps as well.

Remember its okay if you are slightly uncomfortable until they finish, you're gonna get off anyway so stop being selfish and focus on them. Sex is way better when both people are enjoying it.

>>593773661
I honestly just don't stop after cumming. I thought she'd notice but I guess not. Spent an hour just fucking until I ran out of muscle endurance. Sweaty as fuck

>>593773661
I've never understood why you pussy faggots "put on weight" when you get depressed. I've had my fair share of depression, but I have keep the same weight through it. God damn learn some self control.

>>593774266
same here and when she came, I faked it

>>593774395
it has nothing to do with self control when you simply don't give a shit about your self

>>593773989
>>593774260

This. Also, take it slow at first don't go right into hard fucking. If youre about to cum, pull out and switch positions or eat her out/suck her tits. Just keep her on while you recuperate

Just nut and keep going man. If you are worried that they are not getting thier kicks, then pump away after your finished.

>>593774395
I've done the opposite, my girlfriend broke up with me, so I just had cigarettes for breakfast lunch and dinner. Lost 'bout 20 pounds.

>>593774484
What kind of depression is everyone else having? I did some stupid self destructive shit when I was depressed, but getting fat just because you're sad doesn't make any sense. If people didn't actually care about themselves why not just blow their brains out?

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>>593773661
The fix in my opinion are kegels. The post would become too long if I went in depth on how to go for a long time without cumming.
I'm writing a book which includes this you can sign up to the email list, in which I will give some quick tips before I release the book.
the link is
www.eepurl.com/bbmhjL

and BTW devercing your attention takes away from the pleasure of fucking so I wouldn't recommend it.

>>593774426
Yurp. I cum in like 15 seconds flat. Yesterday I had sex with gf before she left for college, was told I'm amazing.
Key
I wish I could last longer for my own enjoyment though

>>593773661
Hit the gym faggot

Stop listening to all these faggots and buy a fleshlight stamina trainer. It trains your dick to be less sensitive

>>593774266
that does not sound pleasurable sounds like work niggga you doin it wrong

>>593774913
You do cum again in the end dude. Well, most times. Sometimes I get too sweaty and tired

>>593774714
getting fat is self destructive shit anon, not sure why you don't understand that getting fat is something that one needs to prevent by exercising and eating healthy when you are depressed why would you care to prevent your self from getting fat.

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>>593773661
You can buy a spray for your dick called Stallion, it helps you last longer

>>593773661
sauce !!!!!!!!!!!

>>593773661
Yuu Shinoda sure has an amazing ass.

Alright op first thing first. Since you lost your virginty not too long ago. But had sooome practice. Great. Riddle me this though so we cam continue. Are you fucking like a rabbit and only trying to bust your nut?

>>593774846

lame

Man the secret is ALCOHOL, you can go for hours without cumming, even need to pretend cum sometimes... sure it's not that great [for you] but it leaves them forever wanting more, and gets you past that gone in 60 seconds shit when first going at decent girls.

Slow down sometimes. Girls dont like to get pounded fucking hard all the time, they also need variation. Pull out your dick sometimes and eat her out or finger her. I also clench my muscles (like youre holding up your piss) when im about to cum and wait a little and then i kiss her and stuff. If i do that a couple of times while having sex the extreme excitement os gone and i can go on forever and ever.

>>593773661
>Think about something else entirely. If it still doesn't work, thing about something nasty like your grandma's snatch
>Keegles
>Whenever fapping, try to fap for as long as possible. Keep extending the time you fap
>Hit the gym (this is HUGE) if you're in bad shape, you will cum much, much faster. Do some endurance as well as weights
>Just keep pumping after you have cum. Unless you blow a huge load, or she was completely dry, she won't notice

>>593773661
How the fuck are humans attracted to Asians? They all look the same...not good.

>>593773661
I can semi-control when to cum.. But the first time is really hard to control myself..
Try masturbation till you get to the point and stop, and do it multiple times..
I also believe that porn makes it worse..
Shit, I miss fucking

>>593775303
My nigga.

>>593775246
This is called whiskey dick and a terrible idea

Some say to keep fucking after cumming, but it hurts a lot to keep doing it after you cum

>>593775382
Thats exactly why I'm attracted to them. I can fuck one, and think that I have just fucked most of the other ones out there. I can walk down the street and see a cute chink, and say, "I already hit that. I think. Close enough."

>>593775634
This man is a virgin

These things help

- change your pace if you feel yourself about to blow
-masturbate a lot. A LOT. constantly. Like. Make yourself able to come five times in an hour. That fifth one is almost painful to reach and not worth it, but you're not going to run a marathon without training, amirite?
- when you jack off, think about the woman you're going to fuck. It will demystify the sex and calm your dick down.

>>593775382
They only look the same because you can't tell them apart, fuckwad.

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>>593775634

Op even still in here?

>>593775878
>>593775686

Lol really? I'm the only one that has this problem then?
FUUUUUUUUUUUCK.

>>593775246
Ahahaha Whiskey dick. Done that a million times. After an hour and I still havent came I'm tired and sweaty as fuck so I pull out, take condom off, quickly tie it and toss it in the trash

>>593775634
You know how when you grab a woman's breast... it feels like... a bag of sand.

>>593775669
Mah nigga. High five.

>>593775025
I suppose this makes sense. To each their own

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>>593773661

>You don't want to cum because you want her to cum, because you're a golden find
>This makes you think about not cumming, therefore you feel like you're always about to cum

From what I can tell, the girls have been screwing with you and your head;

>Don't care if they cum, and you will still get to have sex.
>Most girls will want more sex the less satisfied they are
>More sex

>>593773661
your ex prolly drugged you and fed you some shit that completely fucks your endurance

>tfw there's drugs that can make you last really long, or incredibly short, neither of which is all that noticable when mixed in your drink
it truely is a shitty fucking world my friend.

>>593776074
You can't play it off dumbass.

>>593775246
This...
Fucked a girl for like three hours, didnt came until tomorrow when i fucked her sober, 1-2 min max. Her pussy was sore ffs :D

>>593776332
>can't cum
>it must be the woman's fault.

>>593773885
Sauce?

>>593773661
When I'm balls deep in my girl and she starts moaning and says shit like "Fuck me, Anon!" "Don't stop" and all of that is just so sexy to me and it makes me cum. I dunno why, but maybe I should invest in a ballgag

Kegels
Exercising your PC muscle

>>593776074
It's okay Anon, I'm a virgin too.

>>593776320
kinda agree with this dude, if you want one night stands, just fuck her without caring if they cum or not, you'll be less nervous and you'll last longer too.
also fuck while drunk (not that drunk) that will make you last four times more

>>593775786
gonna try that last one thanks anon.

OP

Best way to prevent premature ejaculation is to pre-game before a night out on the town. Crank out a few jerks before you go.... it numbs your dick up

Of course, by doing this, you risk not going at all. Nothing ruins the moment worse than a woman not being able to get a guy off.

I'm pretty much mastered the art with my wife - however, when she goes - I instantly cum. Its fucked up... one moment I'm not even close - just humping away and enjoying the moment. The next moment - she's convulsing and screaming, and my dick explodes. It may be the super kegal she does that makes me lose control, but its probably the best orgasm Ive ever had. No buildup what so ever, just straight up HNNNGGGGGG bliss.

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>>593774776
>I cum in like 15 seconds flat. Yesterday I had sex with gf before she left for college, was told I'm amazing.

>Yesterday I had sex with gf
>I cum in like 15 seconds flat.
>was told I'm amazing.
> she left for college

Nigga you betta start cheating on that fraulein

>>593775246
wtf is whiskey dick?

>>593775030

lol fagot

I dated a 8._/10 for 5 years and sex was pretty good. Broke up three years ago and hadn't hooked up with anyone while I was an undergrad except this one fatty. Got soft after like 10 minutes. Total regret.

Started talking to this new chick who is awesome and sexy. Started making out a few days ago and it progressed quickly into having sex. Was a bit worried the first time we hooked up. Ended up not busting a nut the first time, but shit lasted an hour and a half. Hooked up again and came buckets.

>>593774247
http://tiny4k.com/video/double-trouble

>>593777100
When you dip it in whiskey and she has a little suckle.

>>593775030
Lol, what the fucknis going on there.

>>593777519
you better not be fucking with me.
people realyy do this?

>>593776775
hah!

>>593776074
pro tip anon.... It just gets really sensitive, and then goes soft... nothing you can do about it except start fingering her or eating her out until you "reload".

Here the deal, /b/ro... If you are with someone who really cares about and accepts you, and by that I mean someone who doesn't give a fuck how long you last and is totally cool talking about it and just experiencing whatever happens, you'll naturally fucking relax and it'll be like it used to be with your first fuck. You won't have to think about large prime numbers, or hamburgers, or dead babies. You'll once again be able to fuck your brains out while focusing on fucking your brains out and cum when you're damn good and ready.

You're welcome.

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I have seen a video that helped with premature cumming. it was an instructional video with two people fucking and someone commentating on positions and whatnot.

anyway when the guy starts to feel like he is going to cum he pulls out and pinches the head of his dick and he fingers her while he does it. he hold it until i starts to almost get soft then continues to fuck her.

I have never tried this. because im a 27 year old wizard apprentice.

>>593777677
you never heard of dipping your dick in whiskey to last longer?

lol faggot

>>593777677
If you were an alcohol you would know.
Fucking pleb.

>>593777677
dude why do you think it's called whiskey dick? The alcohol in the whiskey decreases the amount of blood flow in your dick. (Blood flow is the thing that makes your dick hard btw) By reducing the blood flow it makes it MUCH harder to cum.

Just fuck more than once, takes me forever to cum after cumming like 5 minutes ago

>>593777954
xDDDDDD

BUMP FOR KNOWLEDGE

I'm talking to this girl. She knows I'm a virgin. She mentioned something about waiting, but theres still a lot of sexual tension between us every time we see each other.

I'm scared I'm going to nut fast.

>>593777677
Get your girlfriend drunk on not just cum.

>>593774874
yeah, that's the point

>>593773661
It's pretty simple and complicated.

It's almost sure that's somthing neurotic/psychosomatique you just have to think about it, why it's hurt yourself, why you were so depressed. Ask you the right question.

Like a blocked gear, you have to unblocked it / or a bug in a program if you prefer.

You can do it by yourself, or you can see a psychologist.

>>593778550
you probably wont nut at all, you'll be anxious as shit

>>593778550

Also shes very experienced sexually.
I saw her Sunday and was rubbing the shit out of her outside her pants. She said "Stop, I'm trying so hard not to have my way with you right now"

We're going drinking tonight, shes treating.

Hopefully theres still some alcohol in her system when we get back and we fuck.

>>593777677
You really are a virgin hey. How have you not heard of this before, you must not have any friends either

>>593778636

You think so?
I'm nervous about that, not to mention probably will suck at fucking her or not get her off. Especially since shes so experienced.

>>593778835
As long as you're using a condom, otherwise its fucking blast city. Your brain literally shuts the fuck off and is like I NEED TO DO THIS FOR HUMANITY

>>593773661
I have a bit of a different issue, but help will be appreciated. inb4 manlet

I'm 20 years old, pretty healthy, I play hockey for my university team (study business in said university), played for my national team U18, currently in army reserves, good looking, so whats the issue you ask? I can't seem to get a 100% erection most of the time, or I quickly lose it... What the hell?

>>593777954
THis sounds ridiculous

Your best bet to prevent cumming too quickly is to jerk it before fucking. Jerk it 2, or 3 times if once is not enough.

What's happening, which is completely natural and evolutionarily advantageous, is you're busting your nut quickly so as to get the female pregnant. To prevent this you're going to need to put yourself in a happy place in your mind while fucking this girl where you aren't thinking about her hot, sweating form writhing beneath your loins. You will need to ACTIVELY remove yourself from your physical feelings and mechanically fuck her.

A couple of suggestions:

1. Get her to ride you (cowgirl position)
2. Buy a dick-ring vibrator and use it during coitus (she may feel a bit embarrassed/wary, just try to talk her into it.
3. Finger her clit to the point where she is near cumming then fuck her.
4. Have her finger herself while you're fucking her.
5. While in missionary position attempt to press the top of your shaft against her clit while fucking her. This will require that you shift your body upwards, toward her head. Be wary, your dick may pop out of her in this position, but if you can stay inside of her and put pressure on her clit then you can be assured that she will cum much more quickly.

Notice how most of my advice revolves around the clitoris?

The clit, in my experience, is more magical than the g-spot. It's easily accessible and incredibly sensitive. The g-spot, while aiding in the female orgasm, is difficult to stimulate and sometimes impossible to find.

Clitoris=success

This is coming from a man who has made every sexual partner cum multiple times.

This is also coming from a man who has ejaculated in 30 seconds while fucking his long-term SO.

>>593779007
I want to stick it in without a condom for the first pump, I wonder how shed feel about that haha

Imagine I 1 pump chump her...

>>593779250
Well shit nigga, at least you got something wrong with you.

>>593774606
That slow and painful suicide attempt
I respect you my good sir

>>593779007
I know that feeling... i remember the last girl i fucked came like three times and was like..no stop i need a break..all i could think was bitch i'm gonna fuck you until i put a baby in you.

>>593779250
do you feel pressure to perform?
cause i have a similiar issue sometimes ...what helps me is just being comfortable with the person, i can't do one night stands and shit.

>>593779478
It's so hard, you're just yelling in your head SLOW THE FUCK DOWN BRO but nah

>>593778723
You should drink a ton and she should only drink enough to not be disgusted by your smelly drunk ass.

Jerk it several times before attempting to fuck her.

Don't dry-hump or let her jerk you off. Focus on her first and foremost. She she's moistened fuck the shit out of her. If she's not down to fuck then eat her out or let her give you head.

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>>593779681
for real! its the exact opposite with a condom on, its like...am i ever going to cum jesus fuck i'm bored.

>>593778835
she's not that experienced
you'll either finish quick or not at all, just enjoy it

>>593778723
also don't be scared to eat her pussy, suck don't lick.

>>593779834
Seriously, my first time was with a condom, I was thoroughly unimpressed. When that jimmy hat came off though, I understood.

>>593779961
LIKE A PEACH, GET DEM JUICES

>>593779834
Word

After having condomless sex I can assuredly say I prefer barebacking.

>>593773661
sauce

>>593773661
just beat off a lot and when you do, hold off on cumming for like 20 mins. I've gotten to the point where I can hold-off ejaculating and basically hold onto that feeling of right before orgasm for a very long time. feels fucking awesome, then when you finally blast your load it always has more pressure.

>>593774266
Ever had a hard on that would not go away after multiple ejaculations, and your dick is sore? On a related topic, I don't get how people can go past 2 hours. After an hour and a half and every position in the book, I'm bored as hell and just ready to cuddle/watch Netflix with her.

>>593773661
do you even foreplay?
kids these days just dump in dick first without getting her all riled up first.

rub the easy one out, spend as long as possible teasing her, she wont last any longer than you do if you are good at it.

>>593773661
Maybe fap a bit more often and then your dick will get numb. Like twice a day or smth. May help, also practice edging.

>>593779475
:)
btw if anyone here thinks about suicide just do it man its not that hard

>>593779653
>>593779250
>>593779250
>>593779250
>>593779250
I legit feel like I have a case of ED coming on at 20 years old. could it be porn? High Blood pressure?

>>593779788

Here's the thing, I tried to get her to give me a BJ in the past, and then Sunday night things got hot, and I grabbed her and was going to eat her out, but then she said she wanted to wait.

She told me like a week ago, that she thought BJs and getting eaten out were more intimate than sex, and if anything sex would come first.

I usually massage her through her pants, should I go to unbutton her pants this time and see if she stops me?

>>593780487
It could be porn bro, I have this weird hting where i can fap but sometimes i have trouble getting it up during sex. Do you watch freaky shit?

>>593779868

No she definitely is experienced i'm pretty sure.

She was in a 4 year relationship from like 16-20. And then since then shes just "seen" guys.
She admitted to me that she was also in a sex only relationship.

That is, unless shes lied about that...I don't think thats the case though...

>>593780487
same thing happened to me in my early 20s, although iwas drinking a lot and smoking cigs a lot...prob didn't help. I don't have issues anymore, I have quit both drinking and smoking (except weed).

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>>593780709
So I want you to picture a woman like a winding mountain road right.... So yeah you could of just driven throug hthe tunnel to get there, but sometimes you gotta take the scenic route.
I knew this one girl who damn near came when i kissed behind her knees, I don't know if its a secret erroginous zone or what but the point is, don't go straight for the prize man, explore her body, treat it like a temple with your fingers, mouth and tongue.
If you get her riled up enough she will practically beg you to fuck her.

>>593779961
>>593780018

Exactly!!! I'm all about fucking eating pussy.

Heres the deal. I'm a virgin. My last girlfriend, we were both virgins and were waiting a year, but I ate her out all the time and she was always giving me BJs so I was satisfied.

In any case, we broke up before the year and I didn't lose my virginity.

Now this girl, STILL doesnt believe I'm a virgin....I'm not fucking prude, Im just inexperienced with intercourse.

I can't believe that she turned down me eating her out the other night, blew my mind.

>>593780742
>Freaky
I dunno, I watch like 5 girls on one guy, or lesbian gan-- yea I do watch some freaky shit ahahaha

>>593773661
Try men.

>>593780487
Your dick maybe isnt sensitive enough, like you beat it off to much, I had to ease on using hand when I got my gf and then it kinda fixed it self eventually. Also, your dick might die because you are worried, nervous. First time I got in a bed with a girl I couldnt get it up, like it got hard and then died or when I was putting it in it soon after died, the cause was anxiety, It happened like 3 times in a ROW ! every time I tried but later I got more comfortable, eased up on hand and bam something just clicked and wambam I could fuck. Probably you try to impress girl too much, what helped me was : I though of the girl as some sort of sex toy, I dont give a fuck you like it or not, I dont care if you like it or not, I am fucking to cum, I am using you to get an orgasm and I focused more on MY SELF. Try thinking more about your self like try to be more selfish about sex, I want to fuck and cum bam and just go in with that aim, dont be like damn I have to put that bitch in all kinds of positions go deep inside make her cum shake moan whatever. Just fuck for fucking.

>>593781150
you got to eat the pussy.
also "makin sex is like a Chinese dinner, it aint over til you both get your cookies"

>>593774220
False.. I jerkjerked off for 45mina once.. long slow strokes.. I was sent to the emergency room for dehydration when I came.

>>593781142

Thank you anon, I will continue what I'm doing.

I feel like I get her turned on when we're together although I've never felt her downstairs area outside of the pants.

When shes ready, shell probably beg me to fuck her.

>>593781142
This. A incredibly horny girl is hard to stop.

>>593780425

go away

>>593781228
This Kek

>>593773661
SAUCE?

>>593781384

lol

>>593773661

watching porn also sets you up for unrealistic goals once you get to actually having sex with someone. so try and stay away from that before going into it. And try wacking off once or twice a day or two beforehand (if you think chances are good it'll be going down soon). Use your imagination and work at relaxing yourself and thinking about each detail. Instead of speed beating and cumming instantly

>>593777954
/3DCG/ get out

>>593773661
> there are no forums dedicated to this type of thing
https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/68863-edging-premature-ejaculation.html

>>593781264
Are you me ? Same thing happened for me the first time I had sex

>>593784579
>not fapping to her porn vids instead

>>593777777