>>590894041 What's at fault? The friends knew he liked her and didn't intervene when cousin and girl hooked up. If op wasn't too beta he'd have made her his gf before any of this happened. The cousin just wanted some young pussy and the girl just wanted an escape from her shitty life.
Fuck that bitch man, move on. Leave her alone. Don't even fucking talk to her and avoid that bitch. It'll be a rough start in the end, but since she's still doing this shit man, fuck her. I had the same situation with an ex, now she's all suicidal because she continued with her bullshit. Move on, plenty of other girls who want you op.
>>590894041 Its hard shit but a learning experience. Life is a bitch, but now you know how cruel girls can be. She wants to hang onto you for emotional support and will say the right things to keep you around because she can. You just need to split up from these so called friends and make new friends that will treat you better. I've went through the same experience with a girl. >Be in highschool, have crush on manager at store I work at. >Me 17, her 21 >Go out a couple times, talk, grow close together, eventually comes to my house to hang out and stuff while I do homework. >Have great time just talking. >Eventually first kiss while hanging out at my place. >After couple of weeks start getting heavier, feeling up and dry humping and all that good stuff. >Goes on for weeks but never any more than dry hump b/c i was too big a pussy to lose virginity and wouldnt make the next move. >One night tells me that we shouldnt do this anymore and that we should take it slower. >Still comes over ever night and we talk alot, almost like nothing happened. >A week later we are back to making out, but never going out. cont...
>>590896282 > I ask her why we never went official, she tells me because I am too young and that she doesn't want to hurt me and all the bullshit excuses. >We hang out from friends with work, and they have other friends and always party all the time. >Start getting jealous because the girl always dances with other guys, nothing big though. > Go to a party and she starts talking to this guy. >Think nothing of it at first, but keep my eye on her. >They go upstairs for like 5 min, I start freaking out. >Eventually say fuck it and go up there to see wtf is going on. cont...
>>590896360 >>590896779 >Get there before anything happens, she is just wearing his hat but they didnt do anything. >Tell her we are leaving to ihop. >In parking lot waiting for other friends to show up. >Start making out until friends show up. >Couple days later she goes to a party and I cant go for some reason, cant remember why. >Getting kind of suspicious but I have a good friend at the party as well. >Next day my friend tells me that she was dancing on other guys and giving mock strip dances, but no fucking or anything. >Get mad and fight for a couple days. >Start hanging out again. >One day tells me that she has slept with guys when we were still talking, after a time where we fought for about a month. >I ask her how many >Mfw she tells me 4... Thats a guy for each week... >Pissed but don't say anything bc beta 18 year old at this point. >Hang out with highschool friends one night without her. >My prom date shows up. >We have some drinks, and I lose my virginity on friends couch. >Days later tell the girl I have been talking too. >She says that she is jealous.. Fucking bullshit. >Ask her why she slept with so many guys. >She said that she just can't say no because of some fucked up shit in the past. cont...
>>590897232 Agree. He needed to get up and put a boot into the side of oldfags head, or at least crack some rubs and walk away. Probably would have lost girl (still), but there would have been some satisfaction of putting some hurt on the shit eater.
>>590896282 >>590896779 >>590897482 >Weeks later start getting heavier again. >Start making out and dry humping and feeling each other up. >This time I say screw it, im going for it... no more virgin. >Start moving hand slowly down her stomach into her pants. >Get past belt and into panties. >Hand slowly goes down pubic area as she moans. <Holy shit this is it!> >Stops abruptly right before i get to the pussy and gets up and says she has to leave. >We don't talk about it.. Hard to say no my ass! >Still make out the next day and everything. But nothing further. >Eventually go to work friends place to hang out. >We start drinking and dancing and stuff, I cant dance to mexican music, so she tries to teach me then says fuck it and dances with another mexican guy. >Get a little jealous but dont think much of it. >We all laying down watching a movie, she chooses to lay down with the other guy. >WTF in my head.. But could be worse. >And then it gets worse, she starts making out with this guy like 2 feet away from me. >Pure shock! >Get up immediatly and leave. >She was like oh ok, bye and went to give me a hug... >I feel like a fucking idiot beta for doing this but I hugged her back like a dumbass >Extremley pissed..
>>590898194 this. Everything a woman wants is based upon how they feel. Since emotion isn't constant, what they want changes constantly.
This is the hardest lesson for boys to learn, because their entire childhood they were taught that sort of flaky behavior is weak and shameful and aren't accustomed to interacting with girls who were never punished for engaging in it.
Whenever a woman makes a declarative statement about what they want, a man instinctively adds the words "right now" to the end of her sentence. A boy takes her declarative statement about what she wants at face value.
>She comes over next day to apologize and whatever. >Being beta 18 I accept apology but never really hang out as close as we were for at least another year. >After some time of on and off talking, I quit my job to get away from her for awhile. >But that year passes and we start getting close again. >Make-out and stuff >This time I am like fuck it! are we doing this or not? >She tells me that I'm too young again and she doesn't want to hurt me, even though she already did. >I see where this is going and tell her that we cant do this anymore.. >Hard conversation to have being beta, but needed to be done for my sake. >Were still friends, but every couple of weeks start making out again. >Decide fuck it and move out of town for college, because at the time i was going to community college. >Make new friends and text her less and less every day. >Eventually come out and tell her everything that was on my mind and how exactly I felt about everything that happened between us to get closure. Also way easier to do over the phone than in person... I know. Beta but whatever at this point. >Talk once every week, then text once every month and eventually stop altogether and forget about her. >Hurt at the time but going away was a great decision in my life. >2 Years later. >Come back into town for the summer and get a job. cont...
So the girl thinks it's okay to openly cheat on OP, nuh uh drop her she isn't worth it, I know you love her but you can find better, and cousinfag is married right? Wtf. Not OP fault he is trying to be a good bf. Cousin fag is somewhat at fault for taking advantage of the girl, the girl because she didn't know right from wrong. Friend was being a teenage boy
her reluctance to reciprocate your affections should have been a red flag as far as honestly goes, furthermore sounds like you weren't assertive enough and like most young girls she jumped on the first dick that was. Also girls like to fuck older guys, so the ofds were against you. Your fault for being beta Her fault for being dishonest Friends faults for not having your back. Cousins a piece of shit. Anon, learn to detect and drop dishonest people.
All of your situations have one thing in common; women who don't respect YOUR boundaries and expect you to respect THEIRS. When this happens, make it clear that you are willing to walk away if they don't shape up, and if they don't, do exactly that.
For future reference, it's best to find out if a girl is like this earlier on before any emotional investment. This minimizes the heartache/break when the relationship ends. It's either that, or literally enjoy it for what it is while it's there, no matter how it evolves on its own.
>>590894041 As someone that has been in the Cousin's place, it is hands down the betafags place. If he stood up for himself, it would never have happened, or it would have been ended afterwards. I specifically do it because the idea of fucking some pansy faggot's crush when he knows it's happening is basically the only thing I can cum to anymore. This image always reminds me of the first one I fucked, except she had slightly bigger tits and her hair was brown.
>>590899395 >Talk to some friends that i used to work.. >They tell me that she had gotten pregnant and married. >At this point I am super relieved to have gotten away, Dont care about her anymore. >But dont believe my friend. It just seamed ridiculous, i thought he was messing with me. >Be at work and she comes in the next fucking day, no joke, Belly out, full on prego. >Most awkward couple of minutes small talk. >Husband with her, young guy. >Comes to find out that this guy is younger than i am... Get to thinking about all those bullshit excuses she fed me back then. >Dont really think about it much though, she was out of my head.. Besides I was working on a college degree, and she worked as a manager , her husband worked under her, she had a baby, So Im just glad i didnt get stuck in the life sucking trap. .. Now im almost done with my college degree, havent talked to her since that day. But It was a good learning experience. Deffinetly broke me out of my beta stage. Now I know how to seal the deal without being a pussy. I know now not to get worked up over bullshit like this. Ive learned not to take shit like this.. And as for the op story. From my experience, the guy should drop the friends for not having his back. He should break it off with that girl because that is the best thing he can do, she will never start liking him all of a sudden. Just like my girl, theyll keep you around for emotional support and say the right things just to keep you there on the hook. Best thing to do is to move on with your life. Learn from the experiences you've had and make better relationships with people that will actually give a fuck about you and not use you for their own support. You don't have to take all the bullshit.
>>590900665 >>590894041 And to answer who is fucked up in this... Op fucked up because he couldn't seal the deal just like i did. The girl is fucked up for keeping him on the hook with bullshit promises and playing around with cousin after having talked The cousin was fucked up for continuing relationships with her when they were going out. The friends are fucked up for not having their own friends back... So E.) everyone fucked up.. Find new friends and dump the old ones. Life is too short to be stuck with a group of assholes for any long period of time
>>590900508 He has a wife and kids, and hangs out with high schoolers when they're gone. He has committing adultery, statutory rape, providing alcohol and drugs to minors, and according to the story actual rape since she was naked and groped when she was passed out (not to mention fed alcohol).
If this is your life, too, you win /b/'s biggest faggot of the day award.
Congrats! You're /b/'s biggest faggot today! Here's your cake. Try not to choke on all the dicks inside it.
Well, I'm not married, but my gf is well aware of it, and is cool with it. Statutory rape is nonsense, although at my age, since I live in a soft line 3 year state, it isn't for me anyway. Providing alcohol and drugs is also nonsense, neither should be illegal, but you sure are cool upholding that law sonny. She wasn't passed out, she was "half-passed out," which doesn't mean fucking anything, especially since betafag is hearing it third hand from someone trying to make it out as not as bad as it was (meaning she was probably completely conscious). Nor is sleeping with someone who's been drinking, when you yourself are drinking, rape, which isn't even what happened.
What was her named? How long did you let it go before you grew enough balls to break it off? Or is it still happening? Betting he's fucking her right now.
>>590901661 Thanks... Hope you get your situation figured out. Just remember that making a decision like this will be hard at first, but in the end it will keep your life moving on and you will look back and thank the gods you kept moving forward
>>590902295 LOL! I never said he's not beta. I never said it's not the kid's fault he lost the girl. But that doesn't mean all liability is off the 37 year old. He's more than twice her age. I'd like to see a 37 year old make what went down public information and see if he gets away with it. The story isn't real, so nobody has anything to worry about here... but if you're 37 and do the same shit, that shit will catch up with you son.
OP Needed to stand up for himself, not physically but be more vocal when these things happened.
The girl is a bitch. Plain and simple. Look, if she likes the cousin she shouldn't be stringing OP around like that. It's plainly a shitty thing to do.
The Cousin was a shithead. He has a wife. He's hanging out with some fucking kids and he's 37. He's a loser, cheating on his family, fucking around with people half his age and just being a selfish prick. Also, providing drinks to kids seems like he's trying to be cool which is pathetic. Swooping in and taking advantage of some underage girl is pretty lame.
The friends are shit. I wouldn't even consider them friends. At least Dave was somewhat decent, but still didn't do much and continuously wanted to go the cousin's house.
The answer is fucking E. They all fucked up, the cousin the most.
>>590903388 Thats the spirit, I wish you goodluck.. If you want more information about meeting girls I would recommend torrenting Mystery Method. Helped me meet alot of girls in college and understand the psyche of women
>>590904336 You dont need college to meet girls.. Life teaches you lessons by beating the shit out of you. You gotta just go through with your head up and remember what you've learned. I would also suggest reading "Think and Grow Rich" by Napolean Hill.. Much to be learned from there, especially mindsets
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