>>581791842 My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me. It's been 2 month without her. No text, no nothing. It was a long distance relationship. I was happy. I was planning on getting married. But she decided to cheat on me.
September 14, 2014; 2:37 PM was the exact time when I found out that she cheated on me. I been thinking about killing myself ever since. I remember every single moment i had with her. But she ruined my life. She is been haunting me ever since. She just doesn't get out of my head. Not a second.
>>581796307 Well I have tried alot of things. Pills, Self Harm , meditation, mental manipulation, and a whole lot of other bullshit. Im scheduled to start therapy next month but I doubt if that will do anything but give me some anti-depressants . But the one thing that has really helped me cope is philosophy. I mean it dosnt always help but there is some very interesting words to live your life by withing those books.
>>581796180 feel tough picking on people who are down? thats cool i guess, just laugh at the people who are hurting and tired? aight. this is /b/ man. dont like a thread? leave. So yeah, feel good being "that guy"
>>581796757 Killing yourself is always tempting and is technically a solution but its not vary satisfying. Instead I recommended becoming a better person. Work out , get a better job , read more, learn to cook , just do one thing at a time intill you become someone that dumb bitch wishes she had back and then with pure and utter confidence tell her she isnt worth your time. Thats what I've been doing. I mean im not that much better yet but ill get there.
>>581797358 I work out everyday after 7pm until 9pm, I have my own restaurant in which I'm the chef there from time to time. I live in USA and she lives back in my country where they can't even dream about coming to America. But yet she wanted some other faggot.
>>581797802 I know im not the person you were talking to but I am currently in a long distance relationship so i thought i might as well but in. In my case we met online through a friend. We currently try to make the long drive to see each other at least once a month and try to skype daily. But I have one thing to say before you get into one, You need to be one tough motherfucker to put yourself through the pain and the temptation that comes with one. It will be hell no doubt about it. But if you think its love, real love, take a bullet for them real love, then tough it out. Take the endless pain in your chess and the constant longing for their touch. But only if it is what you really really want.
>>581797802 >>581797949 >>581797920 I moved to USA in 2007, in 2009 I had to go back to my country because my grandfather died. We basically grew up with each other because our dads are first cousins. She always seemed attracted to me somehow. In 2009, I fell in love with her cause I never thought she would become so beautiful I had to come back in 2011 to my country and somehow we went to their house with my parents. She tried to get my attention and she was pretty successful. I told her that I loved her and since 2011 we became together. I couldn't really go back to see her cause of my schools and my dads weak heart. She cheated on me after she found out that my ex girlfriend was her best friend. and she tried to blame me for it. Honestly, anons. Its a very fucked up thing. Cause your mind is always where they are you know. What she eating, who is she with and such. I haven't stopped thinking about her ever since. cause I still love her. I wanted to get married to her. but she didn't....her love was "I'll love you until someone better comes"
>Pic related. Thats her and her ''classmate'' which she cheated on me with.
>>581797802 Long distance relationships are a hassle, there's absolutely no point in going having one. If you meet someone that's far away, being in a "relationship" is a fallacy. People tend to fall in love because of the pheromones and other body chemicals, the textures of other person and smell. Being so far away and asking someone to be faithful is at best a torture for both. Try improving yourself first, "man up", get a good smv, be interesting and hook up with a real girl, living relatively close, and see what a real relationship is like. Falling in love with someone that you meet is far easier, and it could happen to either of you two in a long distance relationship.
>>581797949 Dafeels bro, you'll have to chew up a breakup like the rest of us do, and then move on with your life and hopefully find someone who'll love you and be faithful.
>>581798120 That was my initial reaction at first too, tho they could have given him forced work hours, i'd help more imho. That's murica for you
> be me > be 24 > go to moms house for thanksgiving > sisters husband starts screaming at her > he lives at my moms at age 25 cause he's a loser and his family disowned him > telling her he wishes their kid wasn't his cause he hates our family > I'm standing there listening outside their room > had enough of my little sis being screamed at > he walks out of the room and looks at me > I grab his arm and throat and toss him down > proceed to kick his face and ribs > sis sees and cries for me to stop > he's on the ground coughing and saying nothing > i tell him to get up cause I'm not done >at least I gave him a chance > he won't get up > I stomped on his head a few more times > told him to get up again but he wont > I grab his 5'2" ass and drag him to the door > tossed him out and said don't come back > hasn't been back yet but I guess he called the cops like a bitch > I'm now in the next town over hiding from cops
I don't get this pissed often but I had enough. My mom and dad are glad I did it but idk about my sis. But what really set me off is the fact he called me a psychotic freak earlier, he talked some more shit too. I showed that bitch psychotic freak. I've done nothing bad to him ever. I've gave him rides out of town, loaned him money, in addition to other things. And what I get is a fucking stab to the back. It's hurtful even though I don't care. I'm done with people taking advantage of me. Also he is a controlling prick. The past six months he's had control over my own sisters phone and won't let her have it because he's paranoid when she is with friends or family. He tries to make her stay at home with no outside contact. I could have him murdered easily but I don't want to deal with the consequences or jail. And I don't want my nephew to grow up without a father because I did. That's how my thanksgiving was, just for once I want a holiday with no problems.
>>581798506 >But only if it is what you really really want. Thanks for chiming in. It is what I want. I'm not sure if it's what she wants. I'll find out I guess. >>581798565 >your mind is always where they are you know. What she eating, who is she with and such I know. >"I'll love you until someone better comes" What I'm scared of. >>581798816 >"man up?" you don't know me or what I'm like. before I started talking to this girl I could care less about being in a relationship. I had more important things to attend to. But she's different, anyway. >People tend to fall in love because of the pheromones and other body chemicals, the textures of other person and smell Then how did I fall?
>>581799015 Are there any great stories, poems, comics, etc. about the Grim Reaper, or Death personified (outside of the lame-ass Angel of Death biblical bitch), this picture makes me itch for one; death, toeing the line between the spiritual and physical world,a lone being, neither evil nor good
"man up?" you don't know me or what I'm like. before I started talking to this girl I could care less about being in a relationship. I had more important things to attend to. But she's different, anyway. >People tend to fall in love because of the pheromones and other body chemicals, the textures of other person and smell Then how did I fall?
>>581801023 Youre lucky haha, went through my "depressed teenager" phase, grew up and realized I was stupid and cringed at it, but I'm still depressed as fuck and agree with the majority of this shit, I just keep it to myself
>>581800178 Maybe you should lay off. It might help you think clearly enough to realize that your gf was just some cheating bitch. The best thing you can do is to succeed in life. How far do you think shes going to get being the cheating faggot that she is? If you want women like that to when then by all means kill yourself. Otherwise get your shit together and man up.
>>581801132 The thing about growing out of it is that you have to choose if you wanna be happy or make it in life. The first one stays with you for a bit, 'cause you have no legit reason to be sad, but the other is the most amazing thing in the world. Maybe, just maybe, threads like this are not a place to get out of the depressive shit. It just makes it worse.
>>581798565 I've been in the exact situation anon planned future with girl I was extremely in love with then got cheated on. Leave that shit alone, my ex texts me just to get my attention its what they want. You have to realize anon its just one bitch
The worst part of it all is that i am not alone, there are people who care about me- people who like me. They tell me I am funny, nice, and smart and always seem happy to see me. But all of that just makes it hurt more that on some level, for some stupid reason i hate all of them. And the more i think about how i hate them the more i hate myself because i know they care about me, or in the very least they care enough to be kind to me, never knowing that for no good reason i hate them. I know that i will just be called a faggot or a pussy for saying this, but this is the only place i can say these things because anyone who knows me personally might try to help. And then i would just hate them even more.
feeling pretty shit so im just gonna dump my feelings here
>be me >dad won a battle with cancer and can't talk very well due to sinuses taken out >be close as fuck my only friend >wake up at 5 due to crippling depression >stay in bed till 7 >dad finally gets me to go to my sisters house today for thanksgiving >about to walk in and dad said "mom's already here" >ohshit.png >mom is bipolar and schizophrenic and won't take her meds >doctors wont keep her since she's "not a harm to herself or anyone else" >walk inside >mom won't talk to me >after a while she gets up from her seat and tells my dad to sit down >before he even says no she says "I guess since I don't have a seat i'll just leave" >sigh.jpg >she "leaves" and sits right outside the door >have a pretty good time with my brother and sister >she comes back in sometime throughout the night and just sits on the floor the rest of the time >dad and i get ready to leave and mom goes first >right as i go outside hear mom scream "fuck you" at my dad >dad just laughs it off >mom says "how many of your whores did you have up there" >dad just laughs it off again >get in car and drive home >mom doesn't talk the rest of the night >make some popcorn, play farcry 4, and go on /b/ the rest of the night >feelsbadman.gif
>>581819676 >Be me >Sophmore in highschool >Beta as fuck >Bandgeek >Play percussion so it's okay >In drumline >At marching band festival >Decide to talk to cute flute girl >Pickup line is "90% of rape starts with a hand on the shoulder" >Don't say too much more until bus ride home from festival >She asks if she can sit with me because her friend is bony
>>581819927 >Say ok >2 hour ride home >She is sitting inbetween my legs (one of my legs is up against the bus seat, the other in the foot area) >Take 30 minutes to work up the courage to hold her hand >Trace little hearts, a bunch of beta shit >Get back home, don't even ask for her number >Get home, decide to not give a fuck and ask her on facebook for her number >Acquire number
>>581820092 >Fast forward 2 weeks >Ask her out >She says yes >my first girlfriend >never kissed a girl >never done anything >Wait a whole week to kiss her >End up going to a party the night I kiss her >Play with them boobies >End up going to another party the night after >Fun under blankets >She freaks out at the end of the night and gets mad at me >I shrug it off, don't see it as a big deal if she wants to slow down >She constantly pushes me to go farther but then tells me to slow down >Breaks up with me after a month of us going out total
>>581820253 >End up getting her back a week later >Still beta as fuck >Turns out i was supposed to be a pickmeup guy but she actually started feeling for me >Turns out she was pretty slutty her freshman year (she was a jr) >Lots of BJs and handjobs, never any actual sex though >Ended up getting raped her freshman year and it ruined her >Spend 3 months helping her through the worst part >Eventually end up having sex, but it's constantly ruined by her having flashbacks of her rape >Continue to help her get through it >Fast forward 3 years >In college, just started sophomore year >She's in a sorority at a small college 30 minutes away >I have no problems with it, small college and her sorority actually isn't super slutty or anything >My grades start slipping since I'm not so sure about what I really want to do anymore >Start getting depressed >Play a lot of video games >Never really texted people much, more of a talk to them irl kidna guy >6 months pass with us not really texting much, but in person everything is great, i see her every weekend
>>581820629 >Tells us she needs to talk >Call her on a Wednesday >We talk, she wants me to stop being so distant >I say I'll try, start to text her, she wants to talk more about this in person on Sunday >It's only ever bad shit that she wants to text about >I don't really know what to do other than say "Ok" or "I'm sorry" (she hates advice) >Sunday roles around >Plan out a nice diner so we can talk >Haven't taken her anywhere nice >4 year anniversary is in just under 3 weeks, have a really nice gift planned >She comes in the door >Instantly gives me breakup speech >Talks about how we barely know each other anymore >Sits in my room for 10 minutes >I ask her why she hasn't left >She says she is waiting for me to tell her to leave >I ask her why she thinks I hadn't told her to leave yet >She responds that I'm just trying to hurt her >I tell her to get out of my apartment (I was trying to figure out what to do to keep her, not just hurt her, comment killed me a little inside) >Instantly regret >Call her to ask her to come back >She refuses >Fast forward a month to present day >She wants to talk, but doesn't know how to say what she needs to say >I already know it's that she doesn't want to get back together >I have extremely conflicted feelings cause I've been talking to a ton of other girls that seem nice >Have a friend that's a girl that I am really attracted to >Feel extremely guilty every time I think about trying to get in her pants. >Dunno what to do now >Feel crushed and still beta like always
>>581819676 Well, i'll just type my story for the sake of it. Got nothing else to do, I won't green text it. My story is about me and some girl in a Long Distance Relationship I had. >Inb4 can't green text
Me and some buddies played Counter-Strike Source, constantly played this one server. Shit was cash, had a great time with all the banter. We all got along and shit, never had a good time in my life as that before. (Tough upbringing, not many people liked the way I was an such. I'll leave all that out though) There was some girl that played as well, people didn't really tend to like her. I had her as a friend on Steam. We started to talk, one day she removed me. I couldn't remember having her before the time she removed me, she claimed she had me as a friend before hand, and a few of the people on the server started taking the piss out of everyone. I was included in taking the piss out of everyone, had a bit of banter really. This girl, in particular the one I ended up loving, was targeted for it all. We just said all sorts of shit, afterwards she went off. Her sister told us she was crying her eyes out, I added her as a friend and told her that it was just all a joke. She said okay,we started to talk more and more after that. Soon enough we started to like each other. She got her friend to tell me she liked me, I got that person to tell her that I liked her too, I then confronted her about it all. We got together, shit was brilliant for a long time. Soon enough, we started to argue everyday. I mean Every. Fucking. Day. There wasn't a time when we didn't argue. Would be over pathetic shit. I asked if she wanted to meet up in person, see if that will fix the problems we had between us. She said sure, but it would be tough with what we was doing at the time. I was working and a student, she was working everyday. It was gonna be pretty hard for us to get together and have a blast. After a while, she started to just drift away, not care as much anymore.
>>581821247 Shit was just falling apart between us. We tried talking about it all the problems that was occurring, she would bring up the old problems and just went down hill again. Eventually she wanted time apart. We stopped talking for about 1 week. In this time, we took a moment to think things through, she had decided to end our relationship. That was last year, today. After all the effort I had put into the relationship, all the horrid shit I put up with just to make her happy because of "muh feelings" just wasn't worth it. I feel emotionally destroyed because of her. I do miss her, she won't talk to me anymore. She is in a new relationship, happy and probably living her life to the max. What am I doing? Thinking of all the memories between us.
TL;DR Me and some girl was together, she broke up with me after 1 year. Damn I miss that girl.
>>581821227 It's normal that you're feeling this way /b/ro, it has only been a month that's a very short time compared to the relationship, it will get better man. The guilt will fade away, but you have to wait, don't go in a rebound relationship with that other girl, never ends well, unless you're looking only for sex ofcourse.
>>581821580 Dunno what to say man, you said " Thinking of all the memories between us." Aren't you missing the memories more and not actually her? It's an easy thing to 'overpraise' someone who you've had a relationship with.
>>581822772 I miss her but I wouldn't want to go through the constant arguing again. It's not worth the hassle. The memories that was actually good between me and her are the things I keep remembering. I love the girl still but I wouldn't want to go back there. I doubt it would even make me remotely happy again. One thing I think I forgot to state was the fact that she cheated on me. I can't just forgive her and get with her again if she asked because of those kind of reasons. If you do have a LDR (Long Distance Relationship) then be careful. They can cheat on you so esaily and you wouldn't know about it unless someone told you or they told you. She told me after we ended so yeah... It just all came rolling downhill. After a while, I thought I was over her. She just keeps coming back into my mind and it just haunts me now.
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