I really don't get it. Why do you faggots even want girlfriends?

Not afraid of being alone. But it's nice to spend time with a beautiful girl that loves you and cares about you.

>>581285792
Beta loser, confused and going nowhere.

>implying all girls are the same


I have a strong maternal instinct but oddly enough i wouldnt want a child of my own.

I get a rush when im taking care of someone.

So when i get a boyfriend doing things like cooking for him or taking care of him when hes sick make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

All i require in return are "thank yous" and random moments of lovey dovey gay shit.

But god if you overplay it then im turned off.

I like to earn affection. Not have it thrown at me

>>581285978
But why? That's what I'm trying to understand. Are you so insecure that you need caring? Are you looking for some sort of comfort because of some previous accident you were involved in? Do you dislike yourself so much that you need the confirmation from someone else, telling you that everything is going to be OK?

>>581286415
Then why the fuck are you living? If you only live to survive just kill yourself

>>581286112
Who, you?

If you want affection, then why not go to a hooker? Why waste years of your life on one specific individual?
>All i require in return are "thank yous" and random moments of lovey dovey gay shit.
I found that very interesting. So what you're saying is that you want to feel appreciated in some way? Like you're going out of your way to help this person to feel appreciated. If that's the case then why not go to a homeless shelter and help the people there? Instead of wasting years of your fucking life on this guy.

>>581285792
I cuddle and play vidya with her.

I look at marriage as a best friend for life thing.

>>581286258
‏>>58126667 This was meant for you

>>581286621
Why? Without love I'm able to live my life to the fullest and do the things I love the most. Without being hindered by a women ripping away years of my life.

>>581286712
That has to be the gayest shit I've ever heard. Do you have any friends?

>>581286415
No, find an easy prey, make it your slave, tell her you love her. But don't do shit for her.
Understand? for some reason woman like it that way.

because i'm so fucking lonely and i'm at the stage where not having a gf is fucking pathetic

>>581286837
>i'm able to live my life to the fullest and do the things I love the most.

So does everyone, except they share it with someone else.

Spending time with my girlfriend is one of the things i love the most.

>>581286837
then find a woman that doesnt do that. /thread

>>581286932

Yeah, but if you treat the person you're dating as purely a romantic partner you will end up starting to question everything done.

It's a kind of endorphin or something released in the brain to be with someone of the opposite gender doing anything, so it kind of comes down to a personal preference.

She doesn't like camping as much as I do however, so we're not exactly together all the time, she's come with me on a overnight backpacking trip or two, but that's about it.

>>581286415
I don't need anyone.

There's no reason to love and care about a girl but I would like to because I'm not a person, not a robot.

I've just pretty much accepted that I have irrational needs and stopped asking 'why'?

oxytocin.

/thread

>>581286963
Seems rather extreme.
>>581287139
So you do it merely out of social pressure and because you're not comfortable with being your own caretaker? My God you're fucking pathetic.
>>581287178
I share it with people too, I share it with my friends. Seeing as humans are social creatures, it is in our best interest to share our best moments. But I still don't get why you would share it with that one person in such a "special" manner. It seems pointless and utterly pathetic.
>>581287239
I have tried.
>>581287265
I'm still lost. Please explain what exactly it brings you on an emotional level.

As someone who is in a 7 year long relationship, OP is entirely correct. I love my girlfriend and enjoy our relationship. If for some reason I become single again after this, It'll be a very long time before I enter into another relationship...

To live life to the fullest you must witness others enjoying life because of you, that makes you feel well and it will change your life allot. If u find yourself a soul mate You will improve her life and She will improve yours, trust me.

>>581286667
It feels good to take care of people i love/care about..

I dont give a fuck about the homeless

>>581285792
OP confirmed for asspie.

>takes a fuckton of your spare time
The point is that you want to spend time with them. That's like me saying "vidya takes all your spare time". Do you enjoy it?

>requires gifts and shit
Top fucking kek. If you have a gf who absolutely needs gifts then you're going out with some shallow, gold digging cunt. The point is you buy them gifts to make them feel happier, it should never be expected of you.

>The only legitimate purpose a girlfriend could have is sex
That and being able to spend time with someone you're completely compatible with.

>you could go to a prostitute and get that shit taken care of
Wait, what?
>gf requires money and gives sex
>GO TO PROSTITUTE INSTEAD

>>581287692
It's a sense of togetherness that's similar to the bond one would have with a brother or a close friend, knowing that both of you will work together for any problem that arises.

Think of the way a pack animal feels and reacts around others of it's pack.

~heh~ OP has had sex only once, as the inb4's show.

Are you gay? Or did your dick break.

>>581286837
>Claims to live life to the fullest
>Posts on /b/

>>581287692
>My God you're fucking pathetic.
i know it ;_;

I agree with OP

2D master race

>>581285792
Dont play the psychopath alpha guy OP. You must be 10 if you never cared about a girl that much that you wanted to date her.

>>581287831


>requires gifts and shit
Top fucking kek. If you have a gf who absolutely needs gifts then you're going out with some shallow, gold digging cunt. The point is you buy them gifts to make them feel happier, it should never be expected of you.


Agreed,
I hate gifts. The most id enjoy is taking me out to eat or something like that. Or hell even clothes. I appreciate things i need.

Shit like jewelry and flowers annoys me. I dont need that shit

>>581285792
Because we're not autists and actually enjoy feeling loved and going to bed with someone every night and waking up next to someone else. You also seem to have a weird idea about what a gf is and does. Gifts and shit? Lol

>>581287692
Let me ask you something. Why does it bother you that you dont get it?

>i have tried.
So youve tried to find someone else before? You must desire to be with someone like eveyone else then.

It seems to me youre just butthurt atm, because you cant find the special someone everyone else seems to have have.

And because you cant, instead of continuing to try like everyone else, you act like an emotionless robot, and convinced yourself your differnt and dont need them.

>>581288517
This.

>>581285792
Except OP actually can't inb4. Shut up you virgin

>>581288312
You're an grill I'm guessing then? You pretty much sound like my gf - I buy her dinner if we go out to eat and every now and then sometimes buy her some clothing she's been eyeing up. We've been together for nearly 7 years and we've never had a problem with the way shit works like this. Glad to see an actual opinion from an grill as opposed to the opinions of 'alpha as fuck' autists who don't understand any of this shit at all.

>>581286258
Tits or gtfo

Because it's in in our basic instincts to want companionship. I think OP is beta fag with anxiety.

Source: 4 years into a Masters Degree for Psychology

>OP has deluded himself into thinking he doesn't want a girlfriend
>clearly lonely looser who thinks he's smarter than everyone else
>OP is a fag

Whilst not having a girlfriend is pathetic, there is nothing more pathetic than paying a prostitute. Don't know why OP would even suggest this.

Paying for sex is absolutely and deeply sad. This whole "I'm so superior to those faggots and their girlfriends" thing just reeks of virgin/whore-paying sadcunt.

>>581285792
To be honest, I've been in a 4 year relationship that just ended a few months ago and I feel greater than ever. Couldn't agree more with you OP.

>>581287738
That's the same shit you people keep telling me, yet no one has explained what makes them enjoy it on an emotional and psychological level.
>>581287812
Nothing productive comes out of taking care of some slut. Taking care of the homeless or people in need is productive. Get your priorities straight.
>>581287831
I don't really play video games. I only spend my time on productive shit. Except right now, of course. If you're spending your time improving the world and making people's shit lives better, then you're doing something productive. If you're spending several hours together with some chick who you're going to break up with in a year. Then you're not doing anything productive, all you're doing is wasting your life.
Also, my ass is not a pie.
>>581287871
>knowing that both of you will work together for any problem that arises
So it is a sense of security? Knowing that you won't have to rely on yourself 100 percent? That's laughable and weak.
>>581287943
If I was gay, I would be making the same argument from a homosexual perspective.
>>581288303
I'm not a psychopath or anything of the sort. A lot of people feel and think like I do. And all I'm trying to do is figure out why that is.
>>581288517
>Why does it bother you that you dont get it?
Because 'love' is such a big part of everything. And I feel left out of the conversation.

>>581289258
True, if anything he should just buy an onahole.

>>581285792
I can't speak for the many, but my gf was my best friend for a long time. She has always stuck by me, through thick and thin, and her loyalty nor compassion has wavered once.

We love each other, that's more than you could get from any prostitute or porn OP.

>>581288910
Good guess there anon


And yea not all girls need that stupid material bullshit

I only crave things i actually need....and a big ring aint one of them


Im starting to feel like its pointless for anyone to explain this shit to this troll/autist OP

>>581289397
Some slut..? Im talking about taking care of a man.

Damn are you that retarded to not realize ive been implying im a female this whole damn time???

true, I'm about to dump my 9 months gf.

>>581289397
You talk about spending your time being productive and the altruism of helping the pov but can't see the point in developing a good relationship with a woman. Herrrr it's the most productive and altruistic thing you can do; you make someone else happy whilst securing your own future and theirs simultaneously.

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I have a cat to love.
And
I also have porno and a hand to fuck.

I don't even need a girlfriend OR a prostitute. My existence is fucking amazing.

Why do you faggots even want girlfriends? What does a girlfriend do? She takes a fuckton of your spare time and requires gifts and shit. The only legitimate purpose a girlfriend could have is sex. Which is ridiculous, seeing as you could go to a prostitute and get that shit taken care of.

>Gf is someone who knows me and still loves me for who I am. Someone I can be my utmost self with and vice versa.

>She doesn't take any time if we give eachother time willingly and know when to give eachother space.
Dat time and space continuum

>lel we don't give a fuck about gifts

>sex is great

Are you faggots that afraid of being alone? If so, then please kill yourselves. Sincerely, a concerned individual.

>Best part is that I can be alone with her besides me, though I like to keep to myself from time to time. Which I also do.

>Being alone with someone > being alone

>>581288321
>actually enjoy feeling loved
Once again, you fucking faggots keep using that word without explaining what you mean.
>>581288663
Well, I just did. Blow me.
>>581289202
You're 100% correct. Yet, it still doesn't explain anything regarding my question.
>>581289227
I don't think I'm smarter than everyone else. I know I am, and it's pretty obvious.
>>581289516
How lovely, good for you anon. It still doesn't answer my question.
>>581289767
It's pretty early and I just woke up, give me a break you shit eater.

>>581289883
Post pic of cat so we can judge it

>>581287573
unjugrated schmost

i feel bad for you op

go get a hug from somebody, seriously. it sounds like you could use one

>>581285792
Guys we found a fucking sociopath.

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>>581290108
You don't judge my cat, my cat judges you.

>>581285792
I like being a pretentious dick so also this:

your first statements are all fallacies in "Non sequitur "

your second statement is "proof by intimidation" which is also a fallacy.

so fack you and your flawed logic

>>581290214
>guys we found a kid trying to be hardcore.

ftfy

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>>581290467
LEAVE OP ALONE!
LEAVE HIM ALONE!

ego boost

you could be the richest person in the world but if no one has any loving feelings towards you, you may as well be a lump of bird shit.

>>581289397
Laughable and weak maybe, but you can't face every problem in the world alone.

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>>581290461
I'll hate to meet your cat in a dark alleyway.

>>581290061
Ever looked across from you and seen a perfect face? To have felt crushing joy when you hear someone's laugh? To have yourself in a bottomless pit of misery because you've heard someone cry? Have you ever loved something more than yourself that when you see it in pain it saddens you worst than anything you've ever felt before?

Of course you haven't or else you wouldn't be asking the obvious. You've may have loved a girl, but you've never been in love. You've never had a best friend who you could hold, or vice versa. It doesn't make you any less human to never felt these things. Some people never do. But when you meet your lover's eyes, when you feel sparks dancing around you when she laughs, pure ecstasy when you hear her honey voice, depressing waves shower you in despair when she cries, you'll know and you'll have your answer Anon.

Id rather get aids from my girlfriend who i know everything about, including where she lives, than a hooker who can get her pimp to help her disappear before i kill her ass. Plus it would be nice having someone cute around

This faggotry is beyond me. I've seen shitposting, but this is something different, as though shitposting somehow evolved. The worst part is this looks legit. Actually reading this made me sympathize with theist who pity atheist that may never have had a "religious experience". Please, for the love of everything that's worth living for, and for your fellow /b/tards, never post this level of unadulterated drivel on here again.

Sincerely,
a concerned /b/rother

>>581290461
>A sociopath is often well liked because of their charm and high charisma, but they do not usually care about other people.
I care greatly about my fellow humans, therefore I am NOT a sociopath.
>>581290467
I don't understand what you're trying to tell me.
>>581290586
If I were rich I would still have my family and friends to rely on. And with a lot of money comes a lot of women.
>>581290649
I'm aware that YOU can't. I on the other hand can. Seeing as I don't rely on someone else to hold my hand and wipe my ass.
>>581290980
I've seen plenty of perfect faces, but have felt nothing but lust towards them. Whenever I hear a friend of my mine laugh, or someone I care about laugh, I feel happy. When I see someone I care about cry, I feel sad. And yes, I have loved something more than myself, my religion and my family.
Also cut the bullshit please. I see what you're trying to do. You're trying to make me feel bad about myself for rejecting your idea of investing yourself in another person 100 percent. You are nothing by yourself, you're a fucking weak piece of shit who would crumble at the first real obstacle you encounter in life. Me on the other hand, I provide for myself and is perfectly happy doing so. I feel joy being empowered in such a way.

>>581285792
>mutual love

Love

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>>581291917
You quoted the wrong guy bro, I was talking about my cat and didn't say anything about you being a sociopath.

It happens.

>>581291343
And thereby condoning this level of never-had-a-gf gayness. This guy is a full blown fag.

>>581291131
And I would rather use a condom and prevent aids all together.
>>581291343
copypasta/10
>>581292017
Hehe, I'm sorry.

>>581291917
I'm trying to tell you you're not as smart as you think you are.

>>581288312
>>581288910
Not crazy Op but it still seems liek you want/require stuff.
Like food cost money and things you need cost money.
Ask yourselves if you would still be with your partners if they had never bought anything for you, or demanded you paid for just as much as they did everytime

you wouldnt date a guy with no job, so obviously you are a gold digging whroe to some extent

>>581285792
It's a natural urge. /thread

>>581292261
All your posts are idiotic drivel, I genuinely feel sorry for whoever raised you, that you turned out to be a buffoon.

>>581292261
Your gonna trust a prostitute with most likely a bad drug problem? Shit i wouldnt be surprised if she shoved money and cocaine bags up her vag to hide from her pimp.
Your choice if you want papercuts on your dick i guess

>>581289258
>implying you do not pay more actual money and infinitely more time/energy getting a real girlfriend

It's all a road to sex buddy, one is looked at more highly by society, one is way cheaper/easier.
>caring what society thinks
>ascribing to societies beliefs

>>581285792
We have a word for people who break away from their natural biology. It's called a faggot OP. The desire to be with a woman is a trick of the mind thousands of years before our time designed to make us procreate. I wish your dad was as much of a whiny bitch as you are OP, that way you would have never been born

>>581292724
did you just learn the meaning of the word drivel or what the fuck is your deal dude

for someone who wants to front that they have an expanded vocabulary, you sure are going total autist about it

>>581285792
prostitutes are expensive and you have to use a condom. So, your argument is shitty

>>581293019
>implying the urge to fuck is the same as the urge to create relationships

I'd argue that wanting to fuck is the greater and only endallbeall urge.
Wanting to create relationships and bonds is something that came about alot later and most likely holds less weight or importance to our survival than the need to fuck.

>>581292609
>Yeah im kid so fucking what?
So you clearly lack the life experience necessary to form any kind of worth-while opinion, and your ideas can easily be dismissed. OP isn't a "fucking sociopath" for being able to live his live without a girlfriend. At best he's just as naive as you about how different people have different desires and experiences, and at worst he's an "internet troll"

>>581285792
Are you really asking /b/, den of slightly off normalfags, this question? Even the people on the other end of the spectrum, like you, if they're on /b/, have a really shitty approach, like the way you typed this up. The core of your shit is fine, but you're come across in a negative way, especially to the aforementioned normalfags.

>>581292878
Let's assume OP has girlfriend which he spends $100 a week on (gifts etc). One could could expect OP to get sex at least 4 times a week (assuming OP had different personality)

Therefore, sex with gf costs $25 a week.
Much better deal than prostitutes except for extremely disease-ridden ones. And no condoms with gf equals more pleasure/value for money,

tldr gf sexy time cheaper

>>581293250
Okay dipshit. The urge to have a girlfriend is in no way linked to our primal urges to recreate. You're so intelligent. "But but relationships came later. Yea faggot go ahead and be a cave dwelling rapist like the rest of you losers.

>>581293151
>for someone who wants to front that they have an expanded vocabulary

kek, what a load of bullshit. Is that the best line of attack you could come up with? Making up stramen easily torn down is a telltale sign of the moron that has no argument.

I stand by the word, it most accurately describes the intolerable verbal diarrhea OP has inflicted upon this thread. All he has posted is mind numbing drivel.

DRIVEL

>>581285792
I agree with you, OP.
Who needs a girlfriend? You just get fucking responsibilities and can't focus on what is important and what makes you happy.

If you want sex, you can always call hookers, or if you are attractive, get a friends with benefits relationship.

But a girlfriend? No, thanks.

>>581293151
Drivel seems an appropriate word. Just sayin'

>>581292878
You're leaving out the other aspects of a relationship that you can't get from a prostitute.
You also seem not to have noticed that you're ascribing to a few societal beliefs yourself, such that you should explain your opinions as to inform or dissuade others, or that you shouldn't just rape people when you want sex, and that you should engage in capitalist practices even for such primal things as sex.

>>581285792
I like your honesty. And if prostitution was safer it would be a great option. Physical bonds (even 39 sec ones) might very well be all the relationship a person might be. Think of all the boring emotional wreckage avoided. Kudos for being selfaware. Lol all the posters trying to impose their values on you. Best luck. I wish I could find a mate so straightforward.

>>581285792
I'm kinda with you OP.
I don't really see a reason to be with someone, except to boost your own sense of acceptance in the world, seems to me that many people want to be loved by someone else and therefore do whatever they can to have that sense of fulfillment in life.
Others tend to want someone like themselves, but with differences so they can enjoy someone who has the capacity to know how they feel, but still can learn at the same time.

I don't really care about being loved or not by anyone, that be friends/family/a significant other. I'd rather live alone and work for myself to advance myself while I live.
That being said, I'm unlike you since I can easily grasp why people tend to love, if you can't observe others and make your own assessment, it's not something that can be explained to you. Since you're too dense to understand it.

>>581292385
Shows how much you know, for the 1st 3 years of our relationship neither of us had any money and split everything equally. We didn't have enough money to buy each other gifts either, and we're still together. I know paying isn't expected of me - my gf makes a point of paying for stuff now because she actually feels bad that I pay for a lot of our stuff - but it's a nice extra to make her happy.