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My girlfriend drives me fucking crazy. Everything in our relationship

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My girlfriend drives me fucking crazy. Everything in our relationship is great except for our sex life. I feel like half the time having sex for her is a task. Don't get me wrong, when she's into its great, but the other times its just like can you please try. The problem I think is she's just not very sexual. She was a virgin til like 23 when we met. We've been living together for 4 years and I'm considering marrying her one day but I can't live the rest of my life like this. If anyone has any advice for this sort of thing please help a /b/ro out.

tl;dr girlfriend not very sexual how fix
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>>575543653

You should reflect critically and honestly on your sex skills.

No, you will not learn about woman sexuality from porn.
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>>575543653
cheat on her
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>>575544052
this is not about skills, I try to generate foreplay every time and she's always like can we just have sex
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>>575543653
Maybe its something that you do that makes her into it only half the time. You should just be honest and ask her m8.
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>>575544748

Does she suffer from depression?
Was your sexual life always like this?

There are too many factors. For my ex-girlfriend it was depression that lowered her sex drive.
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>>575544234
I'm contemplating it. I prefer to stay faithful but I don't know how long I can take this.
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>>575543653
I have that situation with my wife. I found myself becoming an angry dude over it all. I then started having flings on the side. Odd how there's guilt, but there's also a really big turn-on from it all. Something about giving it to the wifey while thinking of the hottie I had been with just days earlier (or a few days hence) made me harder. . Like you, mine is great once she gets going, but hard to get going. She's enjoying the better boning she's getting. Maybe someday she can be let in on the secret.
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>>575544908
we actually talk about this shit all the time, it's like pulling teeth trying to get her into it sometimes. she always says she's tired or some other excuse. Most of the time she's just not into it .
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>>575545697
What does she do?
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Same boat, OP. Also, it's not as simple as asking her what she's into. She just shrugs it off like it has never been interesting.
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>>575543653

She's cheating /b/ro
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Unhappiness soon turns into anger and resentment (for both parties). Sexual compatibility is important. Don't try to pretend to be 'evolved' and say it is less important than it actually is. If she is like this now, it will most likely get worse. You are not married, young, and don't have kids... End the relationship.
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OP what is your approach to sex? Do you go for a romantic try-to-please her approach?
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>>575544748
Sometimes girls just want a good hard assertive dicking.

She doesn't want to be seduced all the time, it's smothering her shifting emotional state of being. Remember, women are not logical thinkers. They rely heavily on their emotions, which are constantly weaving about as their hormones change, especially around the time of her monthly period. And after that time. And oh look you're back at that time again. It's basically all the time they're unstable - and you approach her 100% of the time as a romancey lovey dovey sperglord dorkatron9000, to no avail, as she's repulsed by this static retention of emotional state of being you present to her, possibly influenced by actual feelings for the woman.

Women remain game the rest of your life. Just because you're secure in your relationship, doesn't mean you are. You have to keep coercing her.

Listen to her, understand what she's actually feeling 'in the moment'. She isn't 100% of the time enshrouded in this romantic cloud you've divined in your infatuated consciousness regarding her, she's selfishly evaluating her position relative to her surroundings in an absent minded laboring of routine daily life.
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>>575548589
This guy got it right. But should have stopped after the first sentence.
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>>575549107
You can stop reading any time you'd like.

>You can also breathe through your nose.
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>>575543653
There is no fix. Do. Not. Marry.
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>>575543653

give her goat weed and scallops(?)
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>>575549403
this. she already lost interest in you or youd still be fucking like rabbits
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Similar deal op, married 7 years and I still have condoms from like 3 years ago.

She won't change. Especially if talking is such a chore. Stay I'm control though, letting your feelings build up to explosion won't work out for you.

Sorry, still searching for solutions myself. Bettering yourself may help.
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>>575543653
Work your hand magic, fap and you won't feel the urge to fuck her that often. Lower your desire to her level.
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>>575543653
Just don't ask her for it and lay off for a while until she feels like it. Cheat on the side.
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>>575543653
Have sex only to make children, then raise your children and live a happy life
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>>575550004
>Have sex only to make children, then raise your children and live a happy life

Tits or gtfo
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>>575543653
Holy fucking shit OP, you just described my life, even the fucking numbers are the same.
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>>575550004
>Have sex only to make children

cringe thread?
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>>575550149
I am not a woman, OP is with a woman to have sex, but he is missing out on the best part of sex, creation. Nothing will bring you more joy than raising good children, it will make you want to make more.

>>575550304
That is the only reason sex exists you know
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>>575550365
>>>575550149 (You) #
>I am not a woman, OP is with a woman to have sex, but he is missing out on the best part of sex, creation. Nothing will bring you more joy than raising good children, it will make you want to make more

Don't make me repeat myself
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>>575550004

Then have sex with children
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>>575543653
Slip some aphrodisiac pills into her food fool. Or maybe she's lesbian and finds you utterly disgusting. Either way you're sick is probably too small.
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talk to her and tell her how you feel you dumb cunt

>>575544234
>>575545286
no
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>>575550365
Maybe so, doesn't mean humans can(should) exploit it.
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>>575550495
Sex is a wonderful gift from God and children are the cherry on top of the sundae. You get enormous pleasure and then you get a little you to teach? What could be better that creating life?

>>575550698
Having sex with children is a disgusting notion
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>>575549845
>>...
>> Profit!
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>>575551239
Unfortunately it does. Sex is pleasurable, so people engage in it, even when it is in there best interest not to.
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