>>565376005 I was making this thread just now! Thanks based god OP
I can't do that.Playing something requires knowledge of an instrument.Singing isn't something you do quietly and I would like my wife and my 2 year old to stay asleep.I can't write unless I actually want to and have an idea or else it's forced shit and makes no sense.
To have a decent income, without having to spend my life working. I don't care for being a professional. I'd rather just, have the time to live life while i still can. With a family, leave my mark, not by my profession, but by my lifestyle. Maybe find something sort of like a profession in a field i enjoy. They do say that when you enjoy what you do, you never work a day in your life after all.
>>565376358 >How can understanding your emotions be beneficial?
By understanding what you feel, you can begin to understand what you should attract, and what you should avoid. Where your passion lies, where your weaknesses are. Emotions describe everything you go through in life to your brain. They are the essence of every action, and the effect of every cause.
Having a solid backup plan is a good one. Or atleast making sure that whatever you think you might fail at, will be an equally valuable lesson and not scar you for life. Or by having nothing else to lose.
>>565376809 *sigh* Well when someone hands you their heart, you don't dissect it, U have to cradle it, keep it safe, understand what it makes, not what it's made out of. Just don't take someone opening up to you like it's nothing.
By having emotions worth understanding. I already understand the depression i feel daily. Once i overcome that and start feeling differently. I can proceed to analyze them the same way i do my depressive thinking.
>>565377195 Q. HAve you ever let your lust get the better of you? A. Yes, yes I have. I got together with a girl who seemed to genuinely like me, but I was only out for pussy. After the one night stand. I refused to talk to her again. I still think about and it makes my stomach turn. Rolling for red again.
>>565377424 I think I'm addicted to masturbating. I do it at least once a day. Sometimes more. If I don't in the morning, I spend a good deal of time thinking of when I can next. A little more self discipline would help but I always give up.
>>565377435 Yes, I have let my lust get the better of me. A few times actually. Most recently, a mother of two met me at a wine festival. I thought she was married, but kept sending obvious advances. After sex, actually tells me she is married. I had suspected, but never asked, which shows I am content to be ignorant if I get laid....
>When did you struggle with an obstacle, but overcame it.
Despite wanting to roll over and die after the break up. I managed to push through and atleast get a job, and write out a vague path of things i want to accomplish. The drive isn't there yet. But i succeeded in not giving up. And that's half the battle.
I've only got one question left on yellow. So i'll answer it and roll for green.
>When have you adapted to unforseen problems?
Pretty much now, everything was pink and rainbows before the depression. But i've adapted rather well all things considered.
>>565377826 It really doesn't bother me to have someone decry my belief. I was raised christain, but now I just ascribe that "there is a god". I've read up on Taoism, Buddhism, and even wicca, and because of Tao, we're each on our own path; I can't say i know what is best for you, because i'm not on your path.
>>565377748 Q. What can you do to be more creative? A. I guess going out and experience as many things as I possibly can. Immerse myself in different cultures and remain open to new ideas so that my own mind can be stimulated. Rolling on Orange.
>>565378072 Q. Tell about a time you physically hurt someone. A. Well, Seeing as how I'm pretty much a coward, the only time I've ever hurt someone was kicking them in the balls and running away. Rolling on more Orange
>>565378053 >Anahata >Tell about a time someone you love did something horrible, yet you still loved them.
I have an ex girlfriend who has taken advantage of me in just about every way. She dumped me to be a lesbian, and within a month (we were living together) had met a childhood friend of mine living in Chicago and moved there to date him.
Yet despite that, I still care for her general well being. She is one of the few people I have ever comfortably been myself around.
>>565378426 >Vishuddha >What Keeps you dependent on others? How can you break that dependency.
The thing is I"m not very dependent, Almost to a fault. I don't call family as much as I should. I don't ask for help, but instead wait until it is offered. I'm not sure why, but I may just not want to bother others.
>>565378212 Tell about a situation you avoided. Why did you avoid it?
There have been a few times where I had the opportunity to ask out a girl I was working with. I never asked her because there was always this nagging question in the back of my mind, "What if she says 'No'? What then?" As a consequence, I've never been on a date.
>>565378379 Q. What makes you angry and why? A. A lot of things make me angry, irrationally so. I'm most of all, I'm angry at myself. I'm angry for being a coward whose to lazy to go find a job. I'm angry that I pretty much quit school and now I'm probably going to be stuck working in a factory for the rest of my life. I'm angry that I'm 22 and still living with my parents. These things make me angry because I feel like a failure for not meeting up to the standards my father has set. He says he loves me, but I think deep down he must hate me a little for what I've become, A lazy, fat bum. Rolling for more fucking orange
>>565378886 Im nothing but a sad sack of garbage without others. I need to start being useful, and helpful to society. >>565378837 Come on man. Focus on seeing the world. give it at least a minute or two.
>>565378751 >How can you show more compassion towards others.
As weird as it sounds, by showing myself more compassion. "If you can't love yourself, you can't love another" it's very true in a sense that, you block yourself by giving your best when you dislike yourself.
>>565378952 I've already answered 2 so I guess I'll move on to 3 Q. Describe a time you were physically hurt by another person. A. Outside of scuffling with my brothers when I was younger, I haven't really gotten into any fights or been hurt. More Orange
>>565379386 I've already done 6, so I'll go with 1. >What can you do to feel more secure in life?
Get a job. Find a girl that loves me for who I am. Go to college and get whatever degrees would be required to become a psychologist, then get a job as one. Start helping unstable people through their problems (starting with /b/).
>>565379281 Q. Tell about your first love, even if she didn't love you back. A. Well, I went to a very small elementary school, so I was with the same kids all the way through K-8 and most of them 9-12 as well. My first love was a girl named Sarah. She was tall and tan and had beautiful blue eyes and blonde hair. Out of all the girls, she was the most popular and I was the quiet short kid who didnt talk much. I also pretended to be a goddamn dinosaur during recess so I'm sure that didnt endure me to her. So I was with her all the way from kindergarten to the 11th grade. Of course once High school and hormones kicked in, she started hanging with the upperclassmen, who I have no doubt fucked her silly. Then she transfer out and I never saw her again.
>>565380264 My worst addiction has to be porn. There's no two ways about it. I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day, sometimes more if I feel like it. As for how to overcome it, I don;t know. I guess try to find something else to fill my time with. God know's I've got plenty of free time.
>>565380609 Already did 9 so lets do 5. Yes, I've given into temptation many times. I'm thirsty, get more soda. I'm tired, let's leave job-hunting for another day. I'm bored, let's fap. I could've avoided all this by having more self-control, more willpower. But I was too weak. I'm still weak.
>>565380417 Q. Tell about when you were the most afraid for you life. A. When I was 15, cowering in my bedroom, trying to console my younger siblings as my drunken, alcoholic of a father destroyed the entire house.
>>565380976 1. get a job 2.move out 3.stop coming to 4chan 4.save up enough money to go back to school one day 5. Find something, I'm passionate about. Something that makes me smile and that makes me want to wake up in the morning.
>>565380989 Q. What makes you angry? Why? A. Well there are plenty of little things that just tick me off like SJWs and the like but something that gets me truly angry? I guess disrespectfulness in a way? I'm not sure. I'm not really one who tends to get angry.
>>565381295 did 5 moving to 7 As idiotic as this sounds, I'm most excited for game releases, movies and things like that. Things of a material nature. I'm also always excited to talk to my brother who is in Spain with his wife while serving in the Air Force. Moving on to yellow
>>565381372 Q. How can you overcome the fear of failure? A. I guess to recognize that without taking risks, there's no excitement or true enjoyment out of life. I decided a long time ago, that I'd rather live my life "on the edge" than piss it away in front of a screen. Sure, you might fail, but if you don't try at all, that's like just failing right off the bat.
>>565380103 >Describe a time you were physically hurt by another person.
I would go back to the elementary bullies, but a few other times come to mind. One in particular springs up every now and then.
>be me, 7th or 8th grade >be extremely geeky and antisocial >be in gym class, in locker room >at the time, I had a Fly Fusion pen, pic related >was basically my best friend >nigger thinks it would be funny to fuck with me by tossing it between him and his nigger friends >call him one >whatthefuckdidyoujustsaytome.exe >proceed to get the living shit beat out of me >breaks the pen >I get extremely depressed after losing my "best friend" >go home >be nervous to say nigger in public to this day
>>565381837 I think people defend their opinions so vehemently because opinions are a part of ourselves that we put on the table for everyone to see. When those opinions are attacked, it's like being personally attacked and that makes people defensive
>>565381748 Q. In what ways can you enhance your mental well being? This is a bit of a confusing one. Does it mean your actual mental health? I'm going to assume it means more "intelligence"-wise. I personally kind of have this thing where if I'm not changing or improving myself in some way, I feel unsatisfied. Stagnation is death as they say. But I figure that education shouldn't stop after college, y'know? Right now I'm 18 and I'm not going to college quite yet, I've decided I'd rather try to lend a hand in Africa instead partially because I think that would do more for me than just sitting at a desk all day. But to digress a bit, always be reading something! Always be looking for a new way to improve or broaden your horizon! Yeah.
>>565382106 Like I stated in the last answer, opinions and beliefs are an intensely personal thing and when they are decried, it feels like the person disagreeing with you is attacking your very being, your mind, your intelligence. It feels horrible
>>565381753 Just did this one, so I'll go with 9. >What makes you angry? Why?
I absolutely HATE it when people interrupt me when I'm talking about something I feel is important. I normally don't talk a lot, but when I do, I feel I have to get it out in one session without interruptions.
>>565382392 I overcame temptation once years ago. My mother had left her purse out after going to bed and I had sneaked downstairs to steal money from her wallet. As I was about to pull her wallet from the purse, an intense feeling of guilt and sadness overcame me and I realized that this woman had already given me so much and here I was stealing from her like a thief. I'm really disgusted by my younger self.
>>565382543 Describe a time you were physically hurt by another person.
Ive never been beaten up at school or got into bar fights or anything before. My only experience of being physically hurt is through martial arts i have done and nothing is particularly interesting about any of it. I guess im lucky but i feel like im missing out
>>565382979 Surround yourself with people. Friends, family, co-workers, it doesn't matter. Be around people and for God's sake don't stay cooped up in your room by yourself. Its a sure way to lose your mind.
>>565382968 How can understanding your emotions be beneficial?
I think by understanding your emotions you can better your own reactions and encounters with people and be better at socialising. For example, if you knew when you got angry you couldnt control it, you could make sure you leave the situation and calm yourself in isolation rather than put yourself into an awkward situation
>>565382924 Q. How can you learn to think with clarity more often? A. The only way I really see that happening would be through experience. You can be told as more times than you can count to look before you leap, but it's not until you get hit by a car because you darted out into the street that that really sinks in. So basically my point here is that you have to learn that yourself and then you kind of create it. Meditation is a good way to practice clarity of the mind and all that. Sometimes my mind gets so loud that it's hard to tell it to shut the fuck up for a minute or two so I can focus on something spiritual. I don't know. Dumb question.
Explain your obsession with an object or other person.
I'm obsessed with women's clothes, and the thought of wearing women's clothes. Something about them seems completely comfortable, and I've always wanted to be able to wear them around my house. Specifically panties and thigh-highs. The only opportunity I did have to wear them around gave me some of the best sexual pleasure I've ever had, I'm hoping that my current girlfriend will be open to this.
My most memorable encounter would be one of the few I had with my best friend at the time, in elementary school. At the time neither of us were able to orgasm, but we touched and sucked each other all night at our sleepovers. Sadly he is straight now, or I would be having sex with him non stop.
>>565383391 I'm not sure. I tend to think I'm a lot more compassionate than I was before. I always try to help those in need when I see it. I don't antagonize people needlessly. I always try to talk things out if theres a problem. I'm guess I'm just a peaceful guy nowadays
>>565383471 How can you show more compassion with others?
I guess I could think about how others feel more, especially online. Instead of blind arguing and insulting people I could think more about how it makes them feel or if i could be more educated and friendly with my responses
>be 14 >want to try morning glories >think because i tried weed i'm ready to consume 15g of morning glory >Notice the high starting after waiting forever, feels goodman >Watch Austin powers while waiting for peak >Peak starts >See shadow puppets, writing on the walls, etc. "holy fuck I'm dying" I thought
>>565383891 Did 1 moving to 4 My goal is to get a job. Go out and fill in some goddamn application forms. It's the easiest thing in the world and yet I still have trouble finding the motivation to do it.
My first love was a simply stunning girl my junior year of high school. We spent a summer dating, but after a month she stopped telling me she loved me, and eventually we broke up. It was devastating to me at the time, but she moved on quickly.
To become more creative I could always try to work on any artistic skills I have. I do a lot of photo manipulation, but any drawings I've tried to make on my tablet have always turned out poor at best. I wish I could be a drawfag.
>>565384021 Answering 5 Ha. I once asked a girl I was pretty good friends with out in class in the most pathetic way. I basically said, "Hey, you don't have a boyfriend. I don't have a girlfriend. Do you want to get together?" Needless to say we didnt talk much afterwards, which is a shame cause she was a nice girl
I've been addicted to smoking cigarettes for a couple years, there have been many times that I have turned down a cigarette.
More importantly, though, I recently turned down an offer of casual sex from a 9/10 smoking hot chick I stared at all through highschool. On a graduation camping trip with some friends, she asked to have sex. I turned her down to remain faithful to my girlfriend.
>>565383846 What keeps you dependant on others? How can you break that dependancy?
I feel dependant on other people doing their work because i feel awkward going up to them and telling them to do it (i dont have a managerial role so its not required anyways) and i guess what keeps my dependancy is a slight paranoia that people plan things behind my back to spite me (although its never happened). To break the dependancy id have to break the paranoia but im not sure how to do that except maybe just trusting people more and forgetting about it? Im not sure.
>>565384251 Answering 6 One time at a party, one of my friends had gotten pretty drunk and had gotten into a fight with a mutual friend. I'm not much of a drinker, so I made my way over to where he was sulking and I asked him what had happened. He told me and I said look man, you can't be getting hung up on something like this because lifes to short for that kind of nonsense
>>565384885 Answering 8 By staying active. Talk to people and remain social.. Don't stay cooped up in your room playing video games and eating funyuns while typing at someone you'll probably never see.
>>565385221 I determine what is right and what is wrong from what my parents taught me. I also infer from my own personal experiences. I think everyone else bailed from the thread, so I think I will too. Besides its 3:30 a.m. where I'm at and I'm tired as hell. Good luck to everyone before and after this post
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