so i fucked up >be me, 30yo >went out of town for business

Heavily demand an abortion and/or continue to deny it is your own.

>>555942894
change your phone number, change cities. carry on

>censoring the face of a random craigslist encounter on 4chan in the middle of the fucking night.

What is this post even for?

learn to use contraceptives

>>555942894
Verify

If her ex- was crazy, maybe she was too

And maybe you stuck your dick in crazy

God dammit, you're always fucking shit up, OP

if she's really pregnant man up and take responsibility. dont do adult things if you arent ready for adult responsibilities

make sure to get a paternity test dude>>555942894

>>555942894
Man up

>>555944013
kek

op run away quick

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did u cum in her pussy unprotected?

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Did it look like this when you came inside her pussy?

>>555944013
this all over the joint

>>555942894
Man up and take responsibilities for your actions.

>>555942894
man you fucked up when you typed in pic related dawg

>>555943769

This.

KEK

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>>555944535
yeah man up. fly your adult ass up there and kick her right in the stomach.

>>555943447
i don't have to demand she already said she would, she'd like me to help but understands is i don't
>>555943769
she doesn't know my last name, where i live or work
>>555943942
did the first time, sound got to fucked up, etc
>>555943972
she has issues but is pretty normal... she came from abusive relationship so she is kind of clingy, looking for approval
>>555944013
she texted me the shit from her dr office, has the possible date range that match up to when i was there.
>>555944158
she already offered it if 'we' keep it
>>555944258
>>555944345
yes

>>555942894
>>texts me tonight "you should probably know that I'm pregnant"
>>she isn't trying to get anything out of me, says its mine (i actually believe her)
>>asked me "what do i want to do?"
>she isn't trying to get anything out of me, says its mine (i actually believe her)
>(i actually believe her)

There's your real problem

really OP? 9/10? i can tell just from the pic related shes fat. way to go idiot

>>555945524
i keep thinking its pic related, dont you anon?

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>>555945564
she is thin, short and curvy,

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Change your phone number and get the fuck outta there. Make sure she doesn't know where you live.

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>>555942894

Im gonna talk to you like a human, instead of a faggot on 4chan. If you like the girl, which apprently it seems you do... Why not be with her? You think shes hot, go for it. like to be with her, go for it. Ask for a test though to make sure its yours though... could be the ex's before they broke up. but, I say go for it /b/ro.

OP If you skip out on her I will shove a dead fetus up your asshole. Take responsibility of the child pussy.

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If I was in your shoes, I'd give it a shot. Personally I want kids. It sounds like you too hit it off quite nicely. However, I'm only worried the kid isn't yours. If you decide to do it, paternity test for sure

>>555942894
Shouldn't have used your real name.
DNA tests are cheap.
If shes married instead of just a BF, then you may have a way out. Some states assume that the father is the husband of the wife.

I would continue posting pics, faggot.

abort. don't have a baby with a fling. doesn't matter if you liked her at first.

don't be yet another person contributing to literally every fucking problem with the world today. kids need to be born inside wedlock.

I call bullshit

>>555946763
Seconded but uncensored

>>555946282
>>555946446
I'm on the fence about it, if i knew her better i probably would be cool with it, i have no clue what her last name even is

ran the shit by one of my friends, after she chewed me out for an hour, told me to fly her out and see how shit goes

>>555947090
i truly wish it was.... better then this wanting to puke feeling

>>555943863
>censoring the face of a random craigslist encounter on 4chan in the middle of the fucking night.

What is this post even for?

well it IS his future wife...

>>555945564
Hay friend. The world doesn't move to the beat of just one drum. What might be right for you. Might not be right for some.

>>555946446
This. At 30 god knows you should start soon. You should spend some of your better years with children.

>>555947540
But children suck
They drain the life from you, and are annoying animals that you need to teach to be human.

>>555947952
Bullshit. You just have a shitty attitude. Children keep you young and you get to relive your childhood while they grow.

>>555946282
seconded with the force of billion suns.

>>555946982
I agree. If you wont marry her and raise the child together the best to do is at least abortion. Better have him back into whatever heave you believe, than here lacking a functional family and questioning himself

>>555948104
>implying you NEED to have kids to watch kids shows and shit
>implying childhood is anything special
Having a kid BECOMES your life, and you can't do anything else. Say goodbye to career, ambition, and other important things.

>>555948407
You're a shitty manchild and should consider suicide.

>>555948104
Yes. An 18 year (or longer) financial drain that relies on you for EVERYTHING keeps you young. Go back to tumblr, faggot.

>>555942894
Have fun raising your son or daughter, kids are a dream if you want them to be.

i told her if there is a chance its not mine, ill fully pay for the abortion so she wont have to stress or deal with some asshole
>she started crying "i'm not a whore, your the only person i had sex with in the past three months"
>me: "why did you tell me to cum in you"
>her: "you were so sweet to me i wanted to make you feel good"
>me: "it kinda implied you were on birth control"
>her: "it was suppose to be one of my safe day"

>>555948597
This is why white people are going extinct.

>>555947339

You are a fucking moron. Are you seriously considering having a child with a stranger? Tell her to get an abortion, and then kill yourself ffs.

>>555947540
Fuck that OP.

Kids are evil. You're right to run for the hills.
You're in the prime of your life. This is the time where females get desperate because they start going downhill.

>>555948729
You need evidence to support this claim.

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>>555948551
Lel, implying you can't be successful and mature if you like things marketed for "kids"
Maturity is based not on giving up kids things, but embracing responsibility. You can be responsible and have different likes.

Well OP

Time to leave the country.

>>555948623
I feel terrible about this thou. I dont know man. Its confusing, she seems pretty sweet. Maybe its destiny? Go get a family idk.

>>555948729
I'm a selfish cunt so I don't care.

My life is my life. There's no guarantee that your offspring will look after you later. Hell, they could be a constant burden on you and make you age faster. I'd rather invest that time and effort into my own life and keep fucking random bitches.

>>555942894

Honestly if I were you, I would give a relationship with that girl a good shot. Also don't ask her to have an abortion. Kids are awesome and they can be really rewarding to raise. You say you were out of town for business? I assume you have at least a half way decent job then and would be able to support a family. I say go for it man.

HOWEVER, before anything is certain, have a paternity test to confirm it's yours.

No offense but this girl is on craigslist meeting people you can't exactly be 100% sure it's yours, although I sort of agree, the odds of it being yours are probably up there.

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>>555948407
>implying you NEED to have kids to watch kids shows and shit
>implying we don't all love watching blue's clues

>>555948623
Question. When did she send you the nudes? Before you met or after the sex?

>>555949397
I agreed with you until you said "fucking random bitches". Basements have no broads.

Throw a coin. Face = family, stamp = abortion. This is how you will decide

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>>555947540
>>555948621
>>555948729
>>555949220
>>555949457
To all you people, fucking this>>555948821

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>>555948551
No dude, he is exactly right. Just went through the whole thread and needed to point that out. I'm 21 and I'm considering a vasectomy. Getting a puppy was enough, but fuck kids

OP, your predicament is my worst fear. I am sorry

hahahahahah

well ask yourself if u wanna spend your life with her and are u ready for a kid. if no make her abort the kid.

>>555942894

>Fucked a craigslist whore raw.
areyoufuckingratarded.jpg

>>555949778
I disagree. Irresponsibility doesn't mean you're exempt from those responsibilities.
Captcha is: fate Rjamon, it must be fate OP.

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>>555948821
i fucked a lot of strange when i go out of town, most are your typical whores you never hear from again. maybe hit it twice if it was good.

she texted me the next day after we fucked, telling me she had a great time and let her know if i wanted to grab dinner later

>>555949457
it was the 'platonic section' was just looking for someone to grab a drink and maybe play some pool
>it was very platonic untill we drank a ton

>>555949545
after i came back, she mostly send me pic of her doing stuff, smiling, girly shit, only a couple nudes because i asked

>>555949820

You're going to grow up and have regrets when you're an old miserable man with nothing to do. Thinking you are FOR SURE never going to have kids at 21 is beyond arrogant and immature and you shouldn't make a decision like that until you are at least well into your 30's.

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>>555949820
If you think that way then die, kep your poor surgical choices out of the gene pool.

>>555948623
lol safe day, unprotceted sex, no birth control
>implying

Never sperm a girl unless she is on the pill and you see her take it REGULARLY as in ER'RY day.

>>555950079
Abortion would be responsible. Yeah, ignoring it's irresponsible, but having it's JUST as irresponsible because you're ignoring your own future.

>>555944013
Yeah. Take responsibility. Terminate the pregnancy. Man up. Pay for the abortion.

>>555949704
I ended the post in haste.

I can assure you, my apartment is on the 9th floor, no basement, but I have an underground car spot if that suffices.

>>555950194

She was probably just lonely. Take a chance with her OP.

>>555950206
>>555950303
You both know at 21 they can still do a reverse vasectomy when he gets older right?
Fucking faggotfags i swear

>>555944013
I bet every time you be had sex you've tried to conceive
>permavirgin can't comprehend how sex feels good
>fedora tipping increases
>

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>>555950194

Yeah, bro! You had dinner with her! She should definitely bear your child.

>>555948623
>she sez "your the only person i had sex with in the past three months"

FFS OP, she's setting you up.

>>555950206
What happens when the 3rd girl I bang when I'm 24 gets knocked up and keeps it? Then I'm financially responsible and have the burden of one who human being on my shoulders for the rest of my life. I'd rather never have kids than have one too soon and ruin my aspirations.

>I'm not against adoption either

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Just gonna leave this here....

>>555945159
why did you give her the unprotected sex??

>>555950865
If you're waiting till you're fucking 24 to have kids you should just kill yourself before your kids end up breaking your old ass back at 30 fucking old faggot

>>555946282
This faggot has a point. Don't be a bitch. She's probably to hot for you anyways and willing to settle on behalf of the pregnancy and being emotionally unstable from the breakup. You're set.

>>555951040
>having kids in your twenties
How's mcdonalds treating you?

>>555947952
This times a thousand
>gained 20pds since the birth of my kid.
>caused a stretch mark to form on my arm from stress related vitamin defiancy
>started going grey
>I'm 25
>I hate my life

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>>555950194
i dont know whether to say abort or not.

if your plan was to meet up with her again, the fact that she is pregnant will be there like an elephant in the room the whole time. if you wanted to give her a shot at a relationship, how much would it be out of the fact that she is pregnant?

either pay for the abortion and still try to date her, so you make sure you know what youre getting into. also will have to deal with the guilt of the abortion, but you can try for kids again later somewhere down the road if things pan out.

or date her and take the chance of her being nuts and having to raise a kid with her.


or abort and never talk to her again and wonder what could have happened for the rest of your life, since youre at that age where you are looking for something more permanent.

>>555950303
There are twice the amount of people on the planet as there were in 1950. My gene pool is well above the standard American's.

>Fucking midgets have like 4 kids. And my gene pool is to question

Wouldn't you rather be practical than play into the norm? Hell, in 20 years they may figure out a way to harvest my semen

>>555951482
I'd say give the relationship a fair shot, give them ALL a fair shot(be willing to break it off if she cray cray), but FUCKING ABORT.

>>555950725

>Reverse vasectomy

That's not how it works. It's not 100% guaranteed that he'd be able to have kids again.

>>555949964
it was raw the third time we fucked, wasn't really worried about it, went down on her, pussy was 'like new'

>>555950770
she has a good job, she isn't sure what i do for a living, nothing to set me up for

>>555951482
if i met her in my city i would have dated her from day one... that the problem.

>>555950206
Implying he will be miserable. Kid loving faggot detected.

>>555951040
Every ounce of my being is blaming you for the problems of modern first world society. People can't fucking AFFORD to raise children when they're 24. The kids suffer, and the parents lose their 20's to raising children. The fuck is wrong with you?

>breaking back at 30
Or, and get this, OR I could just be in fucking shape without children and get pussy and have fun and make money?

>>555950194
It's a setup. Cut and run. You met her on CRAIGSLIST for fucks sake...

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>>555942894
OP, serious response here from someone with a brain.
Test if it's your kid, just to be sure. If it is, raise it and settle down. You're 30, if you're going to have a kid at some point now's a good time.

Also, never come onto fucking /b/ for advice ever again. Most of these people don't know shit about responsibility and getting someone pregnant, let alone sex.

Pic unrelated, hopefully.

>>555951953

Yeah I do love kids and plan to have at least 3. How could you not love kids is the better question? Miserable bitter cunt.

Also, once you get older, you really start to wish you had more of a purpose. Going to bars and partying can't go on forever. Most older people feel like they need a higher calling/purpose in life and kids often fill that void. You will be bitter and miserable.

>>555952468
Purpose? I'm 30 and have had two women in my life get abortions. Best decisions ever. Whenever I get the opportunity to sleep in, get drunk, go out, or even jack off without having to worry about anything else but myself is enough for me. Fuck having to raise a kid.

>>555953024

Good luck when you're 50 you humongous faggot.

>>555947529
I JUST got that song out of my head. Fuck you

>>555952451

That crab

>>555953137
I'll be 50 and able to do everything I just said without having to worry about a kid. No one moves out of the house at 18 anymore. I'll be damned if I want to support some fucking parasite until they're 30.

been in the same situation.

tell her its up to her, and you will support her decision no matter what.

then just dont talk about for a week or so, let it sink in with her.

and this way you kill the drama if she is a needy dramaqueen that is just bullshitting you.

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>>555952468

>CALLING OP TO THIS POST

I'm 21 and already over partying and was never into bars to begins with. In fact I work in a bar on the beach. The fact is, I see the world for what it really is. And kids aren't my salvation, now or ever. There are things that I can do with my time to stay productive. I'm glad you have the mentality for them and can enjoy them. I, however, am too into my own life and happiness to bring another human being into this world to complicate that.

The question is, is OP ready to give up his aspirations in exchange for a child. Will he ENJOY raising a child at all? If the answer is no, he should bolt. If yes, then he should try it with the woman and raise the kid regardless of how their relationship works out. Kids aren't the end of the world, but you have to want one. They're not a meal you can just scrape off the plate when you're done with it.

>>555953487

You already sound like such a bitter faggot.

You're 30 and on /b/

Congratulations on failing life.

>>555952468
I can not love kids because I love my ear drums. I can not love kids because I love my career. I can not love kids because I can not love frustration. I can not love kids because I love life.
And how does having a kid give life a purpose? It gives you just another goal to work towards, one which sets you back SO much.

If you are seriously considering having kids with, pay an investigator to have a background check on her. If everything checks out, go back there and try to get to know her better. And if you are SURE that you can live with her for the rest of you live, then keep the baby.

If else, talk your way out of it

You met up with her to fuck. If it was left at that then cool, no worries, fuck a pregnant slut. But you got attached n shit so you gotta at least go halfsies on that abortion.

>>555951850
>been drinking
this is what fucking sucks, we been talking about her coming out here to visit, maybe meeting somewhere.

i would have dated her, if shit went good, probably found a way to make something work

i know if i tell her to abort it will end any chance of anything

on the other side there will never be any of the 'fun' relationship time

fuck my life, actually meet a pretty cool girl who likes me for me, right amount of clingy i need and we get along with great, shit was really natural between us, didn't have to try and impress her

i played my life down around her, was slumming it that trip, she has no idea I'm an vp or where i work, she actually just enjoyed spending time with me.

>>555953965
Yep, that sucks, but you've got to be objective, and look at your best option available, not what you wish could happen.

>>555950206
>implying I'll have nothing to do later in life
I'm pretty content and have loads more things I'd love to do in my life. Raising a child isn't one of them.

>>555953965
Find some way to have her get the abortion and carry on the relationship?

>>555953676

Well then, you're basically a useless sack of flesh and your genes will die off. Well done.

>>555953487
Woah! Are you me?

I'm 31, earn enough now to not worry about raising some little money sucking shit to look after me later in life. I know loads of people that have followed the same path and are happy. Children are so commercial today.

>>555953965
so it sounds more like your torn between not having enough time to get to know her and raising a baby with a stranger who you get along with very well. it could be worse. atleast you liked her, and let her keep getting to know you for you.


at the end of the day man, its up to you whether you see this thing through or not.

definitely do the paternaty test, but how much worse would this make your life if you decide to stay with her? i think that is the real question.

>>555954315

You won't feel the same when you're 60.

>>555953965
Here's the deal OP. You said you are 30 and that isn't a bad age to settle down into. Look at it optimistically. This might be one of the best mistakes you ever made and you might live happily ever after. Of course there is always the chance of being ass raped in court for child support as well.

>>555954948
I don't give a damn about my genes. My genes can go fuck off, I wanna be happy.

>>555954974
ouch, i should have worded that a bit better.

i meant, if you continue to see her, dont tell her what you do or how much money you make. just let her like you for you. that stuff will come later.

>>555953735
her phone was having issues one night so she used my laptop to look something up, left her self log in to her personal email, i was noisy and took a peak noting there, she replied to a couple ads that night we met (she already told me that), other then that just girly and family shit.

>>555954961

>I'm 31
>on /b/

Fucking hell

>>555955289

Pathetic.

>>555953965
If you think you could be happier with her than with what ever your current situation I say go for it. Feel things out and talk abut whether you guys should abort or not. You should really be talking to her about this and not a bunch of bros so you can see how you guys feel. If you dot think it'll work, abort and move on with your life.

>>555954315
True. I'll feel older and wiser. I don't want a family. Never had. I have a great circle of mates who are 100x better than anyone in my family.

How many 60 year old like hanging out with their family? Maybe they do, but they look bored as fuck at get togethers, so much so they fall asleep in the first hour.

....yeah I stick by my choice.

>>555955636
I think it's pathetic that you devote your life to anything but yourself, that you have this deluded idea that you're making humanity better by passing your weak ass genes down. You wanna improve humanity? Kill yourself.

Well, she's 27, her looks should of started to fade.

Ask your self:

>Is she hot as fuck? at 27?
>Could I fuck this for the rest of my life?
>Did we have dat soullink connection?
>Is there a skeleton in the closet? (It's a metaphor)
>Will she bug the fucking shit out of me in a few years?
>Can I support them?
>Can I do better?
>Is this 8/10 QT good enough? (She looks aesthetically pleasing to me.)
>Have I got this shit tested to make sure it's mine?


If you answered yes to everything then you are on the track to be her bf, she looks like a nice trophy whore, and if she was "having unprotected sex" to "make you feel good" she obviously wants to please you and would make you a sammich, or get back to the kitchen, which she already brought you food so this is a good sign you have a good partner.

You have the upperhand and could potentially have a gold mine here.

And remember:
>For every hot girls out there, there's always a guy sick and tired of listening to her shit.

>taking advice from virgins and guys who have never held a girls hand
OP get the fuck out of here fag

>>555955909
This.

20 years ago I would have agreed that having a child was a worthwhile thing. Fact is, the genetic argument is stupid. Humans have changed the selective pressured in life. It's now money for fucks sake.

Nothing else matters. Accept it. Every industry comes back to money. It's the one main selective pressure today.

Do you think this agrees with nature?

>>555955909

>Devote your life to anything but yourself.

I am enjoying my life very much and I have many goals. For instance, I'd like to become a doctor and I am working diligently on achieving that goal. Another goal is to take a flight to space which costs 250k, I'd like to travel Europe again, meet new people, have wonderful experiences and live life.

However. When I am in my mid 30's-early 40's, I want to settle down. I want a family and a wife.

I think it's pathetic that you hold the views that you do, especially at your age.

What a fucking piece of work you are. Fuck off.

>>555956529
>Implying there's non-virgins here.
Buddy, it's not that hard to get fucking sex you know?

>>555956639
>has dreams and aspirations
>wants kids
Pick one, faggot.

>>555955131
>best mistakes you ever made
i respect the fact that she told me i can loose touch now, she wont try to find me and not to find her. she might keep it or not. but i dont have to have anything to do with them if she keeps it

>>555956841

>Implying I can't achieve my dreams and fulfill my goals before I have kids

>>555957116
>implying you can

>>555957183

I know I can.

How old are you again?

yo man, i know a guy who dated this girl for 9 years, broke up, got her knocked up when he was drunk, had a kid, and now are only in good relations because of the kid. he loves his child, i can see that. and i do not think he regrets it even a little bit, even though it did change his life. kids dont really destroy life, it's your decision to see it that way.
if a person who dated someone for 9 years and breaks up, whats it to say that someone you barely knew can be your future wife?

>>555956639
I am a medfag, faggot.

Let me give you a little pointer anon; the younger you are the greener the grass appears. I used to think exactly like yourself. As you grow up, you realise the guy that pays you, as a doctor, didn't study anywhere near as much as you have. He earns a truckload more. The world is an ugly, ugly place anon once that green grass starts to turn brown. Your outlook on things starts to become more realistic instead of all these bullshit pipe dreams your led to believe as a student.

I don't really give a fuck what you think of what I've just said. It's my observations and experiences. You have your own and I respect that.

>>555957290
26, just finished college. Heavily in debt, not making that half a mil to a million anytime soon.

>>555957290
I'm pretty sure that they're old enough to know that you're fucking delusional.

>>555957865

I don't care about the money and I have a good idea of what goes on behind the scenes because I have physicians in my family.

You're bang on about everything you've just said and I agree with you 100%.

Still doing it though.

>>555950206
Tell that to all the 18 year old pieces of shit pushing strollers down the mall corridor with their baby daddies.

How the fuck is not having children, if you don't want to have them, immature?

>>555955919
>Is she hot as fuck? at 27?
yes
>Could I fuck this for the rest of my life?
yes, she also told me she is bi, lot of potential there
>Did we have dat soullink connection?
we really hit it off
>Is there a skeleton in the closet? (It's a metaphor)
my ex gf still lives with me (broken up for about a year, roommate thing, cool woman, nothing in common, i always talk shit to her bf)
>Will she bug the fucking shit out of me in a few years?
we got fucked up, had sex, then cuddled and she put adult swim on
>Can I support them?
yes
>Can I do better?
its all relative
>Is this 8/10 QT good enough? (She looks aesthetically pleasing to me.)
i like girly, short, thin waist and curvy
>Have I got this shit tested to make sure it's mine?
she ifs insisting on it

>>555958020

How am I delusional?

Explain. I'm all ears.

Further more, you say "they're". I am only asking one guy how old he is. Learn to fucking interpret information you fucking faggot.

>>555942894
Well you're 30 so you may want to keep the kid. If shes that hot and has that much in common with you shes surely a keeper. Plus if you're half descent looking your kid should be pretty good looking too. Or if you do not want kids propose an abortion or adoption. Cause I mean by the time that kid graduates you'll be 48. My parents were 39 when I graduated. You want enough time to live your life, but you also dont want to start so late in building a family that you're old as dirt before they even graduate college.

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Probably a troll thread. But if not, you can always get out of this situation using V.A.T.S to kick her in the abdomen and terminate the pregnancy.

You're welcome. :)

>>555958275

Because most 21 year old's don't know fuck all about what they want in life and people's mindset and views are changing constantly. He might think he doesn't want kids at 21 but 15 years into the future he'll it'll start to appeal to him more.

>>555958446
So what's the question OP?

>>555958446
Speaking as, I'm 29 also, so not some young faggot.

This would seam like an opportunity, to start a family, she seams pretty compatible for you.

Here's a fun story:

>Live with a housemate
>He broke up with his gf
>They got back together
>I left to go on a trip
>Come back and he got her pregnant
>They're now realizing simple shit doesn't matter, and matured up.
>He was against kids, but really doesn't mind it, it's not the end of the world.

>>555958478
I had to use a plural pronoun with a singular antecedent. Sue me. I don't know the fucking person's gender. Do you? Fucking pleb.

>>555958723
And some people don't think about what would really make them happy, refuse to acknowledge that they can't do everything, and live their lives in misery because they misjudged shit.

>>555958478
Why are you delusional? See
>>555956639

>>555959059

I wouldn't sue you, I'd fucking throw you into a cell with Tyrone. You like chocolate logs in yours ass, gay boy? Maybe you would love an injection of vitamin Dick.

>>555959186

If you're trying to tell me a 21 year old knows what they want in life and are 100% sure they will hold the same views as they do now when they are 40, I'm sorry but you need to be liquidated.

She's faking. Run.

>>555959015
just comes down to i spent a had full of time with her, barley know her.
>if i was dating her or friends for like 3-6 months id probably be okay with it all... the fact of thinking of starting a family with a stranger

>>555959321

>Becoming a doctor

Realistic and very possible.

>Trip to space

Very possible, Costs 250k. Space tourism is a budding industry and Virgin Galactic does sub orbital space flights that last 2.5 hours for 250k. You get experience weightlessness, see the planet from space and it's amazing.

>Travel Europe, meet new people

Realistic, have already traveled to 2 countries there.

>Settling down and having a family

Realistic. Happens everyday.


You're an idiot, congratulations.

>>555959515
If you're trying to tell me anyone likes poverty, you're delusional. Hence what we're trying to explain to you. I may not want the same career then as I do now, but I can say with the utmost confidence that I'll always want to be at LEAST semi well off so that I can do more shit I want to do. Having a kid at any time costs you a fuck ton of money, and limits EVERYTHING you can do. You trying to tell me that at 40 you'll have the same views you do when you're 55? Ohp, what's that, you wanna take up fencing? NOPE, KID

>>555958446
I'd say go for it man and settle down or atleast try it. Just insist you wan't a test, so it's certain it's yours.

>>555959943
Yeah. That stuff happens. With money. With time. Both of which the last one deprives you of.

>>555942894
Marry that SHIT
>DNA test
>??????
>Profit

>>555955636
Fuck off, natalist. The earth, as a whole, would be better off if people were having less children

>>555960072

>Having a kid at any time costs you a fuck ton of money and limits everything you can do.

It doesn't limit everything you can do. It's called a fucking babysitter. But kids are cute and fun to raise. If it's an issue of money, then fuck off, poorfag who is in debt.

>>555942894
Stab her in the stomach and blame it on her ex. Simple.

>>555960295

Fuck off you misanthropic faggot. Go cut your wrists and listen to black metal like the little pessimistic homosexual you are.

>>555960317
>implying you can simply dump your kid on someone else every night
>implying that if you do, you're not better off just having the kid and giving it up for adoption

>>555942894
why the FUCK ARE YOU ASKING THIS QUESTION YOU STUPID USELESS CLUELESS AUTISTIC FAGGOT, YOU FUCKING ABORT. BITCH GETS PREGNANT YOU RIP THAT LIFERUINING LITTLE SHITHEAD OUT OF HER BODY AND STOP ON IT. ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT FAGGOT, HOLY SHIT.

>>555960454
Pfft, Earth's running out of resources with our population where it's at right now. And we're STILL exponentially growing.

>>555942894
Looking at the situation, the other guy was and very possibly still is banging this girl. You know how women are with ex's that they are still in love with or recently were. You were probably a bench mark to see if she could actually leave him. I'd say 10 percent to 20 that its yours. Think about this also, she obviously makes bad decisions....bangs a guy without a condom that is from out of town, cant make a hoe a housewife man. Just make sure you get the test no matter what, kids probably black. lol.

>>555942894
take her to the abortion clinic and pay for it yourself, if shes cool with it then you have nothing to worry about, hell of a lot cheaper than 18 years of child support

>>555956639
Different people want different things. You'll understand when you grow up. Personally I want kids. I can't see how someone else not wanting kids makes them pathetic.

>>555960498

Kids take a little commitment, but it's perfectly possible to have a fun life and marriage and balance your time well. You're being a gigantic faggot, anon.

>>555960454
Fuck it, I'm tired, and I'm going to bed. I'm tired and I have to work tomorrow. Because you know, responsibility. Which you'll never understand
If you want me to keep arguing, imagine a "kill yourself" after everything you post, it'd simulate my presence aptly enough.

look, here's something to consider. everybody has all those good feelings about romance in the beginning, right? you think she's fun, she puts on adult swim, you guys clicked. but assuming that will be the relationship now and forever is just a little foolish.

you'll get tired of her, but now you'll have a kid.

you don't know her, just keep that in mind.

OP post more pics and then we can give a better answer, preferably any doggy style or full body pics.

thanks

>>555960650

>Earth's running out of resources

I always hear this fucking argument. My response is,


SO WHAT? We run out? We'll just get fucking more. Planetary Resources mother fucker. There is always a way.

>>555942894
20% chance of miscarry within 5 weeks

>>555949457
>Kids are awesome and they can be really rewarding to raise.
>>555960317
> It's called a fucking babysitter.

Kids or babysitter. Which is it?

>>555942894 man up don't be nigger. The fact that you actually got along with her will make her come to you. Duck it might actually make you happy

>>555958446
imo, get the abortion and then date for a year then think about trying it again

>>555960919

>Which you'll never understand.

I'm responsible enough not to put myself in debt like a stupid faggot. Piss off, spineless coward.

>>555961040

I don't see the issue in getting a babysitter once a week or 2 for the evening so your wife and you can go out and have some fun. Many parents do that.

>>555942894
>>555946080

i just wanna see some more tits.

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>>555942894
Post pics. then you should kill yourself

>>555942894

well if she's a 9/10, you'll have pretty kids

i guess it's time to settle down, op

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>>555960454

You're really starting to power up your inner faggot.
I'm out of here before you unleash super sayan faggot on everyone here.

>>555959910

1. have an abortion but talk with her first. Tell her the truth: that it's too early to start a family but that you really like her and wanna see her more

2. depending on her reaction and the time that follows you'll see if she's a person worth starting a family with or not. Make your choice later, not sooner. If she's worth it she'll want to keep seeing you.

>>555961519

Hahaha. You have the guts to call other people faggots even though you lie about being a medfag online and post anime on the internet.


Hey everyone, point and laugh at this misanthropic man child.

>>555960094
we haven't even spent the night together, i haven't seen her at her worst... its like you know you really care about someone when you seen them when they first wake up looking like shit.

i think im going to fly her out here this weekend, have her stay with me for a few days.

>>555960659
i'm not being optimistic, i really doubt she is seeing him,. i can get a hold of her all hours, she moved back home, fucking called her cell once had have a pretty cool conversation with her father (oh, your anon i heard about... blah blah happy blah), she was in the shower.

>>555960454
Misantropic? Hardly. But the way I see it, making the decision not to have children isn't hurting anybody.

If you can't find satisfaction beyond a linear path such as fatherhood, I truly feel bad for you.

>>555961920
i would like to see how this turns out. its like the story you will never see the end of and always wonder about. good luck to you man. hope whichever decision you make is the right one.

>>555960454
"the earth, as a whole, would be better off if peole were having less children."

so wanting not just humans, but all other life on the planet to be better off is misanthropic? either you dont know what that word means or youre a bright eyed 16 year old christian. youve got lots to learn about the real world, lil guy.

>>555961751
google image is pretty easy

I've been working in paediatrics. I deal with kids. Hence why I'm strongly against them. Doesn't mean I hate them. I don't want to raise a child. What is hard to comprehend there?

Calling people "faggots" is an observation I'm making based on their comments and views. No guts required there. Just honesty.
Faggot.

>>555962219
>>555962264

You have children, you raise them well, they become hard working, productive members of society that strive towards making the world a better place.


If you can't do this then you may as well off yourself now. In the animal kingdom, it's paramount for animals to have offspring to continue their species. If you can't pass your genes on and raise good offspring, then you're useless.

>>555962565

Yeah you're totally working in pediatrics. Piss of you fucking lying sack of shit.

>>555944013

There is just this Option.
/thread

>>555962632
>then you're useless.

>implying that working and contributing to society is being "useless"

even if that does make me "useless" in your eyes or society's eyes, i really dont give a shit. im here to enjoy life and then die, fuck having kids. oh, and meaning is subjective, christfag.

>>555962632
"You have children, you raise them well, they become hard working, productive members of society that strive towards making the world a better place."

>Nature vs Nurture. Even under ideal circumstances, there is no guarantee that they will fit that mold.

"it's paramount for animals to have offspring to continue their species"

>God, you're a dipshit. Look around you. Does the temporary condition illustrate a paramount need for more human beings? Thousands of years ago, maybe. Today, not so much.

Be a man marry her and provide for her

Do it op. Roll the fucking dice. If it's yours ( which you'll find out after the test of course ). You won't regret it. It will be hard at times. I'm sure. We both know that. But based off what I've read from you. I say give it a shot.

>>555962632
>implying the selective pressures that nature intended are still relevant

We keep people alive for way longer than they "should" live these days. Survival of the fittest isn't about finding food and shelter. It's about finding money.

You seem to have a small piece of functional grey matter remaining, even after whatever traumatic head injury you received in church.

>>555962262
i really get the feeling she wants to be a wife and mother, she seems very domestic, send me pictures of stuff she cooks, when she gets her hair or nails done...

i was texting her, she going to fly out Saturday morning and go back Tuesday afternoon, she is excited to see me,

she probably is the best mistake i have made... shake and bake family

>>555964050
>>555963305
>>555964354

:^)

>>555964501
Have faith bro. I feel your making the right move

>>555964501
Fucking promise me you'll get that paternity test though homie. Don't be a fool.

>>555964501

Aw

Best of luck OP

PS I'm a gril

If you are 30 be a fucking Man. What has the poor kid done to deserve this mess?

>>555964501
Good job OP. The world works in weird ways. At least you'll have a cool story to tell your children how their parents met.

>>555965187
>Implying the girl that let him bareback after 3 days isn't carrying the bastard son of her ex or some other craigslist hookup. Everything about her sounds like a textbook whore until proven otherwise.

get the test O.P.

>>555942894
some of this has been said but just to reiterate.

1.paternity test
2.actually learn something about her ->criminal record check background check whatever
3.probably meet her parents to see if they're decent people
4.Does she have a decent job?

Mostly I feel like this is not a good situation. It just cries fucked up. But if all the above came out okay and I got along with the person and she was bringing me lunch and she was hot and I had a lot in common with her and I was 30 I might just go for it. But honestly you have no idea what this person is like apart from several days of meeting.

>>555964501
Go for it OP. You really seem like a cool guy and you deserve to have a good woman at your side.
Just get that paternity test. Play it safe.

Do it, op.
Just settle down. She seems like the good girl.

>>555965570
Read the thread faggot

can you like make a blog or something tumblr. I want to find out what happens.. I hope for the best.

Get that test nigga

If she aborts I'd stay in touch. She seems really down to earth.

>>555964668
>>555964908
>>555964917
no matter what ends up happening i know id feel better at least trying.

worst case having a kid with a good friend isn't the worst shit in the world compared to half the fucked up situations i see

she almost seems like she was holding back any excitement that she was pregnant, i really think she wants to be a mother

ill get the test, i want to get it done while she is pregnant if we go that route (i know risky and expensive) maybe a lie director test to see if she was fucking anyone else... but if its mine i would want to be involved with what she is going threw

even if its not mine i would still probably date her

>>555942894
Your 30, she's cool
Get in a serious relationship

>>555964501
No lie I would actually want to know what happens afterwards. Update us when you can OP.

>>555966225
What he said

>>555966225
this

>>555966098

Hey OP, do you have skype or a throwaway email account? I want to stay in touch and hear what happens.

>>555942894
So you got a 9/10 pregnant, could be worse. Do the right thing now, be a man.

>>555966098
So she's not a trap?

>>555942894
she sounds like a bit of a head case man, tell her to shit the fetus into the toilet.
Move on with your life.
solved.

>>555942894
I never really had issues...I mean, socially or mentally.
I was always smart, but everyone was a two-faced prick to me (my family, my classmates, my teachers), so I've had on-off depression for years.

They justified me in those classes because when I was born they vaguely said parts of my brain did not work correctly or fully, and after I learned how to talk I became mute for a while.
Was probably because of my mother's wonderful boyfriends and their bordering-on-abuse aggression towards me.

-Panda

>>555965570
she is a manager of some kind of equipment supply company, i talked to her father once, ex army, cool guy, knew all about me, wants to grab a drink when I'm out there. told me he happy she is hanging out with someone who is not a piece of shit like her ex, said im always welcome at his place

>>555966889
Oh and if you're wondering, Panda is my nametag, it helps identifying in long discussions.

-Panda

>>555967007
Does her dad know she's pregnant?

This is probably your only chance to have regular sex with a girl you didn't inflate first
>implying every woman doesn't need some prior assembly

>>555953965
reading this, maybe you better just get in there and really think about it. I think you should talk to her about it. Also you're fucking 30. You've had your fun time. at 27 she's had hers too. Time to be grown ups.

I'm 34 now. what I feel is 30 is that time you should be thinking about a family if you're going to do it. That is prime time. IF she's actually a good person you somehow stumbled into, the fun relationship stuff will still be there but you gotta squeeze it out of the daily mundane. My main concern your commitment level is basically a thread and having a kid essentially ties you to someone forever.

BTW she's french canadian?

>>555943769
/agree (hopefully she doesn't know much about you) -- she's either lying (and there's really no reason to ever talk to her again because she is crazy) or telling the truth (and there's really no reason to ever talk to her again).

If you really want to be a gentleman -- have her pee on a stick in front of you -- drive her to an aborting clinic (in a rental) and make sure she gets it done.

You're talking 18 years of a shit ton of money -- worth it if she knows too much about you.

>>555955919
man, you don't get it at all. choose a life partner like you'd choose a tag-team partner. covers your back, tags you out when you need a break, picks you up off the mat when you get body slammed and you do the same.

>>555966225
[email protected]
>trash email

>>555942894
>>555942894
I'd say keep it but take into account both of your situations. what is money like? do you both have consistent paying jobs? would you consider your current jobs "careers"? you're 30 and she's 27 which is definitely getting towards the "settling down" age. I say if you think you've got the funds and you've got the time, and you've got the BALLS. then do it.

>>555967964
Thanks OP. Propably will email you after Tuesday haha good luck though.

>>555961920
thought. heard bill murray gave this impromptu speech at a bachelor party. Went along the lines of if you want to marry someone, go on a long trip with them. If you are okay with them by the end, marry them at the airport when you arrive home. Best advice I ever heard. Go on a trip with her and see how well you work together.

>>555966098
>lie director test to see if she was fucking anyone else
you just went full retard.

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>>555968040
i don't want to sound like some privilege douche, but i'm the VP of IT for a large medical company... not privileged or anything stated off working maintenance there when i was 22
>i can fully support her, family, whatever and before someone calls bull shit... paycheck

>>555968771
just a thought

>>555969442
I'm not saying a lie detector is a bad idea, but it's not a socially acceptable idea. I think she'd be more likely to see you after an abortion than a lie detector test. Whether she slept with other people at the time is more or less her private thing in the end but having a kid involves you so that's fair game, see?

>>555969442
well there you go. you obviously have the money. if you like her keep the kid and put a finger-leash on that bitch (ring, for those who can't draw connections)

>>555946080
> thin
>curvy

Pick one.

>>555942894
it's simple if its wife material you take your responsibility
if she's not, abortion

>>555970668
thin waist, thin face but tits and hips

>>555970374
her personality seems kind of submissive, i think I'm probably the only guy who has been truly nice to her.

>>555970408
she thinks i have some regular blue collar job, nothing fancy,

>>555969442
can i... get 10k, i am in debt from motorcycle accident...

>>555944013
> dont do adult things if you arent ready for adult responsibilities

Fuck off with your rules of life bullshit.
There are no rules.
Do what the fuck you wonna do.

>>555971191
she might be the perfect host if you want kids man
so if you want kids might as well get them with her

>>555942894
Man up, take care your bastard; don't be a dead beat. First do the right thing, sit down with the bitch and talk about it responsibly. See where you all are at in your life, can you handle a kid? (Consider: Time, Effort, Money, Living Arrangements, Food, Babysitting Arrangements, Relationship, Schooling) Stop taking dumb ass advice from dead beats on 4chan. If you decide this is all worth it, then step up to the plate and make this bitch yours. It aint a bad thing if she looks good and you can tolerate her ass.

>>555971209
shit do you realize my mortgage and hoa is about $2,600/mo, car payments are about $1,500/mo... my ex who is now my roommate is a freeloader...

>>555955467
/b/ is a place for all folk and trans folk.
I'm way older than that :)

>>555953414
ikr

>>555972174
dumb your ex have the kid with this chick and enjoy being a dad with a woman you like being around

>>555972174
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>>555972119
Also yes to reiterate, Paternity Test or if you trust her then skip it.

>>555972710

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0li-wH3W5Yo

>>555944013
omega

>>555972174
From what you've said all I'd want to know is if she was a crazy and if she was not and the kid was mine then I'd fucking roll with it.

Plus you will have to do a roll 69 to name my kid thread.

TL;DR what meds is she on?

>>555972790
TROLOLOLOLOLOLOL
KILL YERSELF OP THATS WHAT BABY= THESE DAYS SPECIALLY WITH SOME CRAIGLIST HOE

>>555973137

Edgy.

Fuck off.

>>555942894
cool story mate

>>555973258
BE EDGY ON THE TIP OF THIS DICK FAGGOT

>>555973440
Nah

>>555972558
my ex and i dated for like 5 years, she isn't a bad roommate she does the shopping, cooks and cleans. her bf is kind of a douche and i make fun of him every time he is around... the prego girl knows about her and my ex is looking forward to meeting her.... my ex was a good friend but we were just different people, she been going back to school and i cant just abandon her... plus she never pulled the common law bs with me, she just asked to stay while she was in school

>>555942894
> block number
> continue life

>>555944013
given how incredibly hot she is i agree with this guy, you possibly just pulled off the best reverse trap ever

>>555973575
you are the biggest fucking faggot I have ever run into. I will kil you with my samurai sword faggot. you HAVE BEEN REPORTED

>craiglist whore

> 9\10

Riiiiiiiight

>>555973934

0/10

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how much does she know about you? kinda seems like she might see you as her golden ticket and opened her gift of parenthood on purpose.

you seem relatively successful and she is on the end of her prime, would explain why she was tell her parents about you.

>>555974391

so eager to*

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>>555972174
What kinda car?

>best mistake
U got that right. She seems like a keeper from what was said. You don't come off as a bad guy either so best of luck to you two. Reminds me of this story but circumstances are different

Also, she looks like Audrey Bitoni lol.

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>>555942894

Call him Craig

>>555947339
>, if i knew her better i probably would be cool with it
triple facepalm
not for you, for the child
what a great start, promising of a stable family
you fookin moron

>>555945159
>she has issues but is pretty normal... she came from abusive relationship so she is kind of clingy, looking for approval

You sure she isn't bullshitting you? Do a paternity test. If you go through with the abortion make sure youre there though. Just the decent thing to do. Especially if it's yours

>>555948623
LOL
op is either a full on retard or a decent troll

>>555967007
>someone who is not a piece of shit like her ex
and why is her ex a piece of shit?
why did she have a relationship with him?
she's just as shitty

THATS WHY YOU DONT FUCK CHICKS ON CRAIGSLIST YOU IDIOT!!!!!
There is only one way to save yourself, tell her you want to get to know her better, ask her to hang out with you, then if your realy really sure that she is pregnant with your kid.
FALCON PUNCH!