>>549385958 Fetlife quality depends on your locale. mine is SHIT. i usually start it as a regular relation / acquaintance, first few times are vanilla and then i talk to them about letting me lead once. as in they just obey and if they dont enjoy then we part ways.
these two: 1. is my long term sub (3 years) and one is a few months old im training.
tl;dr just meet normal people and try out stuff together
>>549387116 well if you want to be the sub, look for confidence traits. i honestly dont know much about the faggot scene (excuse the french) so im not sure how gay doms are and what traits turn on a gay sub
>>549387804 condom with the one im training as for convince them, not really much to it if you are a real dom. if they trust you it shouldnt be a problem. i just set the cam up and any sign of objection is met with a deepthroat
>>549387994 to be a com all you need to do is register the domain (hue)
do some research about domination and domme / sub relationships. there are so many levels and tiers now i just do my thing which is when we are in the bedroom, i dont want to hear anything except moaning and whimpering.
it takes alot of psychological traits as well. its relatively easy for me coz i get off on it, ALOT, the helplessness and dependence of women in bed is a big turn on to me.
as for picking up chicks, there is no one answer mang, i just dont put them on pedestal. if they are game, you will tell from the body language, until then ignore and genuinly dont give a fuck about getting laid, just have a jolly good time
>>549389129 lol i imagined cock-sword-fighting. dont ask me why, no homo
it depends on each person. again, you need a lot of confidence to do this right. i didnt develop this until i was established professionally and had experience with women which showed me that you DONT go after women.
>>549390663 confidence comes naturally. when you are satisfied with what you are doing in life.
if there is no interest at all, likely she is feminist or believes in the dominance of women, then you have no chance to dominate her. if she is a women that sometimes is clumsy and shy, then deep down there is a need for her to be dominated.
but again, it comes with a little of time. first few times are vanilla, then tell her you wana try smthn, and lead
but do some research about dominance, escalate slowly, dont go rambo from the first time
>>549391190 my standards: quite hard. not showing off, its just im 33 with satisfactory sexual experience, so i dont sacrifice on standards for a lay anymore. and although i dont have HIGH standards, few women in the western world fit the bill for me
>>549390889 Another Dom here. Just wanted to chime in about feminists. If you can manage, one of the most satisfying things I've found is to completely dominate and ruin a so-called feminist. I've met a few, and you can never tell them outright that you're dominant because it's a stigma that gets them ostracized from their man hating circle of vags. But if you listen to them talk about shit and acknowledge them, well that's more than most men out up with from them.
What I like to do is let them drone on, and if they ask me questions I'm vague like "oh yeah totally". Then after a few drinks I tell them "I'd like to tie you up and make you cum". I'd say 2 out of 3 get wet immediately from this, with a 50/50 chance that the third will call you later. Then you can do what you want to them. Sickest thing I did was tie up, whip and slap a feminist, fuck her asshole and then make her swallow my cock when I came, and pissed all over her face to "wash the cum off". They desire degradation. But they're annoying as fuck.
>>549391308 aggressive chicks get the handcuff treatment so their resistance is futile
preliminaries are basically similar to flirting. except if i want to introduce the subject of dominance, when sex comes up i say "oh if you knew what i am thinking, you would be shocked" wait for he inevitable interest and say "well i was thinking you, hands tied, pants down, one of my hands full of your hair and the other covering your mouth" or smthn like that her reaction should be somewhat of an indication
>>549392185 I'm more of a Daddy Dom, and I get asked by little fembohs all the time who desperately want a Daddy, but I gotta agree with OP. I have never seen a trap IRL that would be able to 'trap' me. It's always the chin, shoulders or hands that throw me off. If you have manly features, you're not feminine. I've even seen ones that look feminine in pics and then you see them for real and go "yup, that's a man".
who do you think benefits more from this ordeal? you or the females? first thought will be you, as they are humiliated (also filmed )while you get the ego boost . on the other hand, you both get sexual satisfaction (maybe they even more than thee), yet you put, I suspect, an abundant amount of effort in the 'relationship', while they put next to none.
>>549392798 i like this man. although havent moved to daddy level yet. socially im just a funny jerk, when women find out about this side of me, most are surprised. to get to daddy level i need to ooze confidence socially, which i think i will reach later on
>>549392970 When I was just a Dom, it was beneficial 50/50 down the middle. Now that I'm a Daddy Dom, I've found there's some additional needs that a little has and feel like it's 40/60 of D/s. The little has more needs and more emotional concerns that have to be met that the Daddy or Mommy has to put aside some things to handle that. I see some like 21-25 year olds calling themselves Daddies and I chuckle because they are the ones that always abandons their subs when they get needy.
id say we both benefit. all humans have needs. they satisfy my need of dominance and control and they get multiple orgasms and have trouble walking the next day while i giggle. as for effort in the relationship, id say its equal, its not easy obeying someone's every command
>>549393517 i do know what yer saying. i actually tried pulling her arms back and use them for areal leverage, but her tits were too heavy she said and she faceplanted the couch lol. this one took some training but she eventually learned
>>549393376 >>549393412 as much as I value your input I suspect both of you are underestimating the amount of effort you actually have to go through to FIND a girl who is into such an arrangement, and to keep them in the relationship. even after you've found a pray, doesn't it take a lot of effort to keep them around, or is it just a phonecall's worth of effort?
>>549393896 no you are right mate. i only answered the part AFTER you have one in a relationship.
as for finding one, yep its really really hard. thats why i usually start things off somewhat vanilla for a couple of weeks and then ease her down into submission.
once there is a D/s relation, it just as hard as any other relation. provide her with her needs. like the other anon said, daddy / girlie relations are a bit harder to maintain though. yet a regular D/s relation should be maintained through making sure the other person is happy. outside the bedroom for example: talk about her and your issues, in the bedroom: never stop until she has had 3 orgasms at least, through any means necessary
>>549393896 No more than any other relationship. Have had 4 submissives that started out as vanilla dates. People are much more open to exploration than you give them credit for. If I wanted someone who had years of experience in like a service lifestyle, yeah that's take some time and research. However, the teaching and training is something I enjoy. It's not that hard but it is work to get them up to your speed.
Relationship wise, it's literally no different than any other non-BDSM relationship. Same challenges, communication, etc.
As much of sex revolves around one kind of domination or the other (I suspect that sexual drive is constructed in this fashion), I wonder how doms and subs come to be what they are.
is it: 1. a person is born/grows into a sub/dom character or 2. a person has a need for some kind of domination in a relationship, and "chooses" their role by the characteristics they have (which is why most women tend to be sub as they are almost always weaker, and I suspect most dom women are actually out for the sub's money and don't get any sexual gratification from the matter).
>>549395772 Agreed. I'd also add that there's a feeling of being free for many people who decide to become either D/s. It's freeing to be who you are and to dominate or be dominated. There's some assurance and relief in either taking control or giving up that control to another person.
How did you manage to find subs who aren't irrevocably damaged in some manner? All the munches I've been to the subgirls are either fucking whales or they're looking for someone to be completely dependant on.
>>549399636 Honestly this is one reason I got into Daddy Dom. I feel like everyone is broken. Everyone has some deep emotional problem or some hangup. Girls who are babygirls or littles and know that's what they are seek out Daddies or Mommies with the intention of having them be in charge. It's a lot less flexible than with the land whales who kinda-sorta want someone to tell them everything to do but are resistant at every fucking then because they love drama (and cake). But with littles, well most of them are small and I ignore the fatties because I can't see you as little if your a hambeast. And it's kinky as fuck, and they're willing to do anything, even stuff they absolutely hate (which can get dangerous) in order to please me.
Basically though, it's the same as everything else. The ones that aren't taken are mostly duds, just like when I was dating vanillas. I do the same as OP sometimes tho, find a normal girl, tell them filthy things you want to do to them after a few dates (or the first date if you want, who gives a shit), and then do it to them. I've met some really filthy looking sluts who turned out to have never done anything more kinky than a blowjob outside of a bar. It's amazing how easy it is to blow the minds of young cunts.
>>549399875 One thing I have read about but haven't tried is the housewives. Like, the ones that are so desperate that they have one drink and are acting drunk and shit. I wanna get one of them and really degrade the shut out of her. Give her that "50 Shades of Gray" experience they dream about but actually real and visceral.
>>549402581 yeah ive been trying to get a hold of one of those too. London is full of working women, but they dont seem to frequent the same bars my friends and i do, so im trying to convince my friends to "check out new places" kek
>>549403294 Son, I've seen a 22 year old bimbo quiver and scream from a 60 year old 330-pound fat fuck whipping her tits while rubbing her clit for her. There's no rules to what you have to look like to be a good Dom. That'd be boring as fuck anyway.
>>549393896 While I support you cause OP, I think it's important to note that not every girl will be easily 'trained' to get into Dom. Most girls I've been with are broken in easily, but there's been several who were way to prideful/prunish to ever really suck my cock on the reg.
>>549387116 Not sure if this helps but I found a guy to dominate me a few days ago on grindr. Met up with him, find out that he's an intelligent, normal and a pretty chill guy (lucky me). Next think I know he's training me to deep throat. I'm seeing him tonight and I have a feeling that he's going to start training me to take it in the ass aswell :)
>>549404740 >>549404758 unfortunately I'm not looking for anything online. Just looking for a daddy dom in my area. So hard to move on with each day when you crave something as much as I do. I want it more than anything else in the world.
>>549404758 Weird question dude but what kind of camera do you use? I want to record facefucking my gf and she's up for it but I like having both hands to hold her head so using a phone or camera in the hand is kind of pointless but I wanna get her whole face in.
>>549405343 I'm not getting the whole thing. I believe everyone can be overreact and be dramatic through sex. It's not that hard to be violent and disrespect your partner.
What's a "dom faker" anyway? Possibilities are if I get to fuck a girl same day I meet her, she'll be easy trash and I'll probably be calling her a whore, a pet, a toy etc throughout sex. I wouldn't really be faking that.
>>549405909 >It's not that hard to be violent and disrespect your partner. >>fakers >I get to fuck a girl same day I meet her, she'll be easy trash and I'll probably be calling her a whore, a pet, a toy etc
You're not going to get it because you do to understand what a Dom is. You need to read up on that first. Anyone can call someone names, that's fucking easy.
>>549407536 I'm just saying that unless there is something that we're not seeing in these gifs that there's not much that sets you apart from any man that I've fucked, I don't see anything particularly dominating about you
>>549407941 We don't care who's stretched your asshole. I don't assume to know someone's sexual history by a few pics on 4chan. So put up or shut up: let's see your extreme sexual submission to some golden god you call Master.
well yes i do enjoy psychological domination over physical. but hey doesnt mean i cant force down these girls with my physique, been done many a times and resistance is always futile.
you kiddo seem to think doms are roided up chumps, it doesnt take much to manhandle a women, also mental domination is where most of the reward is. if you had fun being tossed around without any talk / submission from your part, i have news for ya, that aint domination.
but i can see how having sixpacks can help someone dominate a man. luckily, i dont swing that way
>>549408326 Sorry if there was any confusion, when I say I can't see anything particularly dominating about you I didn't mean to say you should drink more protein shakes and inject testosterone into your triceps, I merely meant the way you handle women.
Out of curiosity, how do you go about dominating them psychologically?
>>549395471 Actually, at least for me /sub/ it's both. How I was brought up, what to think, how to act, was all forced on me, wasn't able to make decisions for myself and I dunno as a habit it just sorta stuck.
And at the same time I enjoy in a relationship, being told what to do etc. or I don't mind so much being abused or taken advantage of sexually. It really more so depends on a persons personal preferences, I guess.
Fakes are the worst :( Right now I have a "dom" because...sex, but he's entirely trainable. I even warned him that fairly aggresive for a sub because I want my dom to work for it and yet he still didn't get it. Ah well, at least the ropes help me get off more
>>549408820 well im definitely not into the extreme / pain stuff. at least not yet. also toys and etc. are being explored only recently.
example of psychological domination: on them giggles whenever we start to get frisky (i think out of either excitement or my shift to serious mode), cute as fuck but it gets in the way of my mood. so i tell her that every giggle is one deepthroat with my fingers closing her nostrils (she hates it coz she thinks she will die). with her hands NOT tied up, until i am satisfied she has been punished. every time she lifts a hand to push back from the deepthroat, she gets another 2 added. and i wont touch her / fuck her until those have been collected. one time we did this fr 25mins straight and i came and didnt touch her till the next day.
>>549406256 >understand what a Dom is It's not nuclear science, is it? Unless you have some actual arguments to back up your stuff, there's no point in this conversation. All I see here is guys being proud of fucking tied up girls.
>>549406246 Yea I did read those but then some femanon started posting her tits, saying how much she wants to get fucked by a "daddy dom" on the spot. Kinda proves my point.
>>549410227 >saying how much she wants to get fucked by a "daddy dom" on the spot. Kinda proves my point what she said >Just looking for a daddy dom in my area. So hard to move on with each day when you crave something as much as I do. I want it more than anything else in the world >I may be young but I do have some experience especially with fakes.
yeah im gona need you to stop whatever your smoking
>>549410893 Have you ever considered selling clips on sites like clips4sale? I'm sure you could find someone you trust to edit out/blur your face in the vids. I briefly did amateur porn editing like that for a few cam girls, was pretty simple stuff.
>>549410227 same goes to you. You can call any one night stand a slut and slap her ass but a real dom knows how to psychologically and physically control a sub to the point that she would go to the ends of the earth to please him. You don't get that kind of bond from a one night stand or from a man who has no idea what he is doing. I'm sure most men here have a hard time understanding girls....think how hard it would be to train a woman. It takes experience and time.
okay I have to get ready for work. Hope everyone has a good evening !
>>549411557 Do you think it is possible to shape someone who has dom tendancies into a good dom? He's really good in bed (hands, mouth, everything) and extremely chill outside the bedroom. I feel like that'd defeat the whole thing though
how do I get my girlfriend back? She says she needs time and space away from me, and I'm willing to give her that. I did a stupid irrational mistake, that I regret and have apologized profusely.
I don't know what to do, because I wouldn't like her to leave my life forever. She meant a great ordeal to me that I'm realizing now, but I made a stupid mistake of saying she'd be better off without me
>>549412625 We started playing ~6 months ago but I've known him for a while. I thought he was starting off slow for me to get use to him but it just seems like he's too cautious. (That's not the right word for it but I can't think of a better one). We always talk about stuff after we play and I've definitely let him know that I'm enjoying what we've done as well as letting him know he can go further with me.
Yeah, it probably would be a bit sour to have him be a made dom but the tendancies are there. It's as if, despite what he says, he's not fully invested to exploring them
>>549411730 There isn't because the book is about a soulless husk who does whatever it's told no matter how insane or retarded it is. Also plays to the daddy issues crowd and is paper thin in it's transparency.
At least know what you're talking about before you try to equate someone with something else.
too soon to contact her again. give her at least a couple more weeks.
if you want your word to mean anything to her anymore, just tell her that "although now realize you made a mistake, you will give her the space and time she needs and she should let you know when she wants to talk"
and man up to your word and dont contact her unless she does. you already weakened your word as a man when you said that and didnt mean it, so now you need to earn back its worth.
and if she asks why you said that, which im sure she will, tell her the truth
>>549413360 Chiming in here. I was raised as a typical 'sensitive 90s man'. Basically a pantywaists who is afraid to offend women and respects them SO MUCH that I don't do what I wanna do for fear that it'll hurt someone. I'm over all that shit, and learned an extremely important lesson: I can't hurt her, and everything I want to do makes her feel good, useful, and wanted/needed. It sounds like this guy is probably the same way: afraid to do what he wants because it goes against every touchy-feely thing he was taught. He doesn't wanna hurt you but doesn't realize that he's not meeting your needs.
Ideas: 1. Talk to him frankly about it. As him his most darkest fantasy and assure him you won't judge. See if you can live that out. 2. Beg for him to hurt you. You can stand a little bit of pain one time if it brings him out if his shell, but be mindful and use your words if he's going too far. 3. Insult him during sex. Some guys are into it. Ask him if he's a man or a pussy boy. Egg him on to do something about it. 4. Cheer him on. The one who made me realize I could and should do what I want said something during sex like "come on, do it, I know you want to because you're a big scary man and I love that". It made me rock hard and confident.
>>549414443 yeah that might be kinda it. emotions, especially anger are healthy sometimes.
id say give it time. but you can drop more subtle hints. next time he does something leaning to domination / or something you really enjoy, be vocal / loud about it. as in moan extra when he hits the buttons you want and simply ask for more
im not gona pretend i have a one stop answer for ya. but communication i think is always key, be it overt or covert communication
Well we already kind of arranged to meet a couple weeks from now so we can talk in person. I still have her as a contact, and I apologized and told her I'm willing to give her space and time to have more time with her friends. She felt guilty when she was with me if she spent time with her friends, regardless of me telling her its fine.
I didn't want to break up with her, there is more to the story on my side. Depression, and suicidal shit. I've gotten help, and I'm going to doctors, and I have a much more positive outlook, just even after speaking with some therapists.
I mean every word that I say to her now, I did in the first place, but when I made a stupid mistake by telling her that she'd be better off without me, I made a decision for her, and acted idiotic about it.
So I would understand that she didn't want me back, but is there anything I can do, or say when I'm talking to her in person?
>>549415581 i see mate... first i hope your depression issues are sorted. that shit is not easy
second, dont contact her till that date if that is what she wants.
third, on that date, she will have plenty to say im sure, so hear her out completely, dont interrupt her and actually listen to what she needs to say. then say your peace based on what she says. there is no magic solution, just be honest in what you say and mean it / act on it
>>549416213 she is usually unavailable due to travel / work. not seeing anyone other than me as far as i know. she has been ringing some bells for exclusivity, which im fine with as far as she isnt travelling.
>>549415148 I think part of the problem might actually be that we started off being fuckbuddies but we're semi transitioning to an actual relationship, so it's a bit bumpy with how the d/s should be outside the bedroom too. I'm pretty open with him with what I like. >>549414948 1. He's really relucant with openning up about his fantasies so I've kinda let that slide a bit. I'll talk to him about it more. 2. Oh I definitely do. I can take quite a bit, far more that his past lovers, and he hasn't even reached my peak yet. Proud of that fact 3. I've never done that before... I can definitely try. He won't actually be insulted? 4. Definitely going to try. I tend to lose my ability to speak when we go at it, but I'll definitely try >>549415581 On the thing with her feeling guilty: let her know that you're both adults so you have lives outside each other (you are a part of her life, not her entire life) and that it makes you feel happy knowing she's going out and doing something she enjoys. Let her know that it makes your together time more special.
>>549416563 >I've never done that before... I can definitely try. He won't actually be insulted? You'd be the only person who can say that. Is he usually thin-skinned about things like that? If you're unsure maybe try 4 first.
>>549416916 He's not very talkative emotionally. I'd assume so but it's actually pretty difficult for me to tell when something upsets him. >>549416851 Thank you! So...Tell me a story about something you've done with your sub?
>>549416507 Don't fuck with a good thing. Keep it off as long as possible before you're tied down. Only other way is to agree on an open relationship because you WILL feel the need to dominate another creature someday.
>>549417440 Stick with #4 then. Wait for your moment. Beg him to do something. If he's not forceful enough, beg him for more. Don't stop until he opens it up. If it happens and you both want it enough, it's going to be a defining moment for both of you.
>be in Bath visting >hey anon lets walk about to the Alexandra park peak (or smthn like that) >walk is 30mins long all uphill through wilderness / secluded stairway >idea >on way down, tell her i need to water the plants >she carelessly follows me behind bushes to a more secluded area >grab her and start kissing frisking >pull out dick >force her hand on it >she is very hesitant (we havent done much in public) >grab her hair and pull her down to her knees >blowjob.webm >she says dont come on her face please because we still need to train ride back to london >cum down her shirt and tell her that if she doesnt wipe them i will reward her when home >that smirk
>>549417443 yes indeed my thoughts as well. im not pushing any agendas, my motto to her has always been roll with it, and whenever she says why, i say well hasnt it worked so far? and she just huffs kek
>>549418482 thanks mate, there are some more, im not good at writing them erotically though lol
the other sub is carefree. she knows she is secondary so she isnt too pushy about schedule / meets / commitments. although she is a great woman, she was a dom before me lel, so i am egging her to see other people just so she can discover her full potential. i think she recently started going out with a guy but too soon to say if it will work out
>>549418838 Any dominant woman (sexually) I've met has been a switch. And the ones that are "Dommes" are just in it for easy money. Kinda weird how that works. I've always been curious about ordering around a couple to do things and be their Master/Daddy.
>>549394628 Not OP, but another Dominant chiming in. I would say that BDSM oriented relationships tend to need even more open communication than vanilla relationships. There's such a great need for trust, especially with some of the riskier edgeplay options out there (blood play, waterboarding, some rope bondage)
here is one during the night in London, the other sub
>out for drinks with her and some friends that dont know we are hooking up >all night subtly touch her, waist, thighs, boobs, back >finally at table >she was sitting across me >she tries to footsie >ohnoyoudidnt.jpg >i ask the guy next to her to get me and him drinks (bit bossy i know, but i have a beard so why not) >i move to sit next to her >start moving my hand up her thigh >she is wearing a dress >jackpot >she gives me a look of "are you fucking crazy?" >look away and tell her friend "hey did you know Soph got an XX on that paper?" >now everybody looking at her and talking to her >she is holding back moans, biting her lip >tell her im surprised she didnt ask me to stop >she says she doesnt want me to stop >so i stop >she visibly hates me now >im laughing so hard >we then leave >walking back to my place and she is being witty about what i did tonight in her sexy british accent, i suddenly grab her hair and pin her against the wall in the alleway right in front of my door >i tell her that if she says one more word i will stop and not touch her tonight >proceed to fuck her in front of my bldng door >came in her ass and let them drop out on our way up the stairs
>>549420079 Very nice. Did the same thing in Munich at night with a sub at the time. We took a vacation and I'd cum in her somewhere in public and let it run out of her when we walked somewhere. Most fun was the gift shop after we fucked in the Black Forest.
>be with sub and her friend >talking about sex, friend is smart and already picked up we were running around behind everyone's back >we are drinking and things start to get intimate, questions / talking etc. >friend asks sub how it is with me >she looks at me as if to piss me off and shrugs , or she was shy about answering >didnt care which it was, ego is dented and must be repaired. within 2 seconds reply well you and me both know that is bullshit and im gona prove it >get up, walk over to their couch, grab her by the hair and lunge on her between her and her friend >making out / frisking, she obviously hesitates and tries to say ok but not here and in front of suzy >tell her this is the only way to make up for it and if suzy minds she can go to other room >mfw suzy just sits there speechless >we proceed to have sex on that couch as suzy is at the other end of it curled up and probably shocked / drunk >included facefucking and gagging so she teared up to make sure she wont pull that shit off again. >didnt last long though, around 15mins or so coz i was so mad. but i didnt make her scream sorry. pushed in while asking her to say sorry after orgasms and to the guy that cares about where i cum, > i came in her hair just to spite her
I don't get it, looks like every relationship I've ever been in.
Many you've replaced the word "Girlfriend" with "submissive" but they are basically the same... After a certain amount of time, your girlfriend becomes submissive to you and you do naughtier things in need and dominate her because that's how men and women usually enjoy sex.
>>549422574 Exactly. Many women can't let go, but most want to once they're introduced to it. As it's been said before, it takes an enormous amount of trust. It's no as simple as doing what you're told. Any dog can do that. Doing it because it's what's right, what I demand, and desiring to please Me above all other things is what makes this dynamic different.
>>549399636 Because they're the easiest ones to notice. That said, I've seen quite a few really hot men and women come through the 18-35 kink group in my area.
>>549403773 This. One of the group mods in my area is a fucking planet. He's at least 300 pounds, easily. But he's friendly? He gives amazing massages, and he's a pussy magnet. You don't have to be this amazingly muscular guy to rock a bitch's world.
>>549404529 With a body like that, you will invariably find yourself the target of predators in the BDSM community. But if you put yourself out there, you will find someone who will rock your world. Be careful, take it slow, and see what you get. Find the /bdsmg/ thread in >>>/d/. There's a lot of great resources there.
>>549422785 lol this one is the original sweety sub. cute, bubbly but sometimes pushes me to make her ass red from slapping. here is one of those times
>B says she is coming over for weekend >i am at Camden town, cyberdog women workers are hot as fuck >drop down to the sex shop and pick her an outfit (the one in OP) >back to mine and waiting for her >she arrives and starts kissing etc. i tell her i got her smthn >show her outfit and tell her i want to have a photoshoot of her in it before we do anything (pic related) >go for a cig while she changes >come back and halfboner achieved >start ordering her around, she complains a bit about being excited >oh really? drop my pants and tell her she has to dance / pose for me until i get all the way hard without any manual stimulation, then we can get to it > i know its bull and wont happen unless viagra, so as soon as she turns around to dance get up, bend her over and start slapping her ass while pulling her hair with the other hand > she is scared lol > she starts to touch me after a few seconds > tell her since she was in a rush, she wont taste it > throw her on bed, move the bottom bit of the lingerie and proceed to fuck her for 35mins in various positions (i think no foreplay did this) >cum on her coz was too tired to be any meaner
>>549413360 Unfortunately, way too many men are groomed to be like this. He needs to know that it's okay for him to treat you rougher than he is, and that you really like it when he does. He's going to have to wrestle with his conscience in the process, and that will take time. But when he finally steps up to the plate and takes a swing at your ass, he will either love it or hate it. And that's a gamble you have to be willing to take.
>>549423084 her reward sexually are orgasms in numbers and types. usually, there is one orgasm while she is down on me manually, and 2 more during sex. which reminds me i need to work out new positions. ive been stuck on snail and tummy for a while
>>549423609 yes that is in my top 3 gifs as well. it shows so much of the psychological and physical submission from her
>>549423657 if you are good at it then you are on the right track mate
>>549424970 Depends on your kink and how you want to present. I've seen people at parties in shorts and flips flops and I've also seen them in biker boots and full leathers. A lot of parties the dom "outift" entails something black.
>>549416563 >He won't actually be insulted? Tread lightly. This can backfire if you bruise his ego too much. He may go full sissy and then you're out a fuckbuddy and a shot at getting manhandled like the bitch you want to be.
There's nothing wrong with taunting him to go further. Poking the sadist can yield painful and fun results.
>>549424970 Denim jeans, work boots if I feel like it, and shirtless.
For male dominants, there's not really anything that screams "I'm a dom" out there. You just show it in whatever you're wearing by how you wear it.
>>549424476 He's spanked me but his medium is like a soft to me and I've told him so. I'm going to try to be more verbal about what I like instead of just moaning and whatnot. >>549424371 I love when we play dressup. Have you had her wear a constricting rope corset out yet? It is the most delicious thing ever. If I was near you guys, I'd offer to play the third for a bit :( >>549424970 My dom doesn't have any special outfits. He's normally welldressed anyways though
>>549426051 Next time he spanks you, tell him, "is that all you got?" Poke the sadist, and get fucked. ;)
It might not be a bad idea to find a local kink group, depending on your location. Perhaps a mentor for him might not be a bad idea. If you're not on fetlife, finding groups is probably the one good thing it does. Also, check out http://www.findamunch.com and see if there's something in your area.
>>549426051 daww no need to be sad. corset is on the TOP of the list. i am trying to find one that fits her, she was average / small hips and large boobs (pic related) so i want to make sure my favourite boobs dont get squished
>>549426051 Is he a reader/intellectual? Sometimes a different approach can help him better understand and allow him to help you get what you want. http://www.amazon.com/review/R2AS6FNJZL504K/ref=cm_cr_pr_cmt?ie=UTF8&ASIN=189015900X#wasThisHelpful
>>549426331 I tell him when we are doing the aftercare talks and whatnot. Because I can be very vocal with my moans, part of our play does involve me trying not to make a sound during certain things. >>549426575 it's a rope corset, meaning you tie her with it. Pic related. I have to ask him if I can share the ropework ones but yeah, he has us going out while I was wearing something similar to that. I had a sweater over it but it was a huge turn on
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