My girlfriend broke it off last week due to "non compatibility and feeling uncomfortable around me (I think this is anxiety but not sure) and another unknown reason/feeling she couldnt describe and text me a few days with this "I hope youre doing okay, I;m sorry I havent yet been able to find the words to explain. I hope your gig went well btw. Is it okay to ask how you are? If you dont want me too do this again please do tell me eh, I really hope youre well." What does this mean? As we said our goodbyes and all and I said i wouldn't contact her again
People seem to be hard wired to assume someone who dumps them immediately hates their guts. She can still care deeply for you and not want to be in a relationship (especially if she has anxiety as you suggest).
A checkup isn't that weird.