Senior in highschool. I want to get with a girl that is outside of my social group. She hangs out with the people in band, and I only have one or two mutual friends in that area. Now I'm not a complete retard, I had sex Soph year and have been with three girls, but I guess I'm retarded enough to come asking here.
How do I introduce myself without looking like a dumbass? She is always with other people, and I don't want to stalk to find out when she's alone. Since freshman year we have all had our own social cliques so would it be weird to abruptly join theirs after four years? (and only do it to meet a single person?)
I have mutual friends there but we are not too close. Do I strengthen my friendships and hangout with them and try to meet her that way? It seems like a pretty far off chance.
Or should I just forget it?