How do you get over your family not caring about you? I was

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How do you get over your family not caring about you?

I was never included in family photos and they post them on facebook all the time. My dad was the black sheep of the family and he and my mom got divorced. So his family doesn't care for him or my mom and I. They have money but don't invest in me really. My mom doesn't really care either. She does the bare minimum of giving a shit. Her side of the family doesn't care for me either since I'm different than them (went to college, did big community projects, traveled, eat healthy, live in a city), they literally don't include me in 'cousin' things even when I am in the same room. I'm always polite and nice but they seem to hate me just for existing. I go out of my way to visit family functions that are a long drive and I don't even get acknowledged.

I always thought that feeling of "if I died they wouldn't give a shit" would go away, but I'm 30 and it hasn't yet. My mom would probably milk it for attention and everyone else wouldn't fucking care.