Hey /adv/isors. I'd like to ask for your help on something, usually stick to advising others but here it goes.
Been out of a rather emotionally intense 2-year relationship for 8 months now, and at the start of the new school year the thing I thought would never happen again happened: I fell in love. I met the person in question through an introduction camp, where we ended up talking literally -through- the night because we clicked so well. Our backgrounds and past experiences were the same, as well as our mindsets and all that, you know how it goes. I was amazed someone understood me this well and instantly became intrigued. Over the weeks I noticed this feeling was mutual for her, and she'd been actively expressing that as well as we talked on and on about all kinds of mutual interests. We met up a couple times and had great fun, after which the complimenting and flirting started to get a bit more.. intense?
Either way, since she quickly became the #1 person lowkey on my mind throughout the day, I decided to just straight up tell her how I felt about her, and that I started liking her in a way I hadn't experienced in a long time. To this she quite surprisingly responded she noticed she could very well like me the same way and basically felt the same way as well (hence her increased kind/flirting words) but was actually already dating someone at the moment which she hadn't told me about, and they're in the 'about to get into a relationship' status. I couldn't help but feel rather led-on after all the things she said and the connection we'd built up, especially since the other guy only appeared in her life a week or two ago.
I'd like to know how to interpret this. Do I just move on (like I'm planning to) and disregard the weird contradicting situation, and do you have any insights on what's going on here/ possibly tips?
She really gave me vibes that I didn't quite experience since the last time I was in love. Letting go is hard I suppose~
>>18712427
Not much advice one can give, personally id sit around and see what happens. If shit goes south for you and the girl. Go back to incognito mode. If she likes you more than the guy, let her know you still like her like a normie loves its normiebook.
Glhf and join the marines!