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Friends are bullies

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What do you do if your friends are bullying you? They always make fun of me and it's more than just teasing. They make fun of me, my family and talk shit about my gf. There were even times where they made jokes about me killing myself. When I told them that it wasn't funny, they just mocked me. Don't say to find new friends, cuz it's hard to integrate into someone else's friend group. And whenever we game with each other online, they still make fun of me. I'm almost graduating high school, I can't wait to interact less with these fuckers
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Tell them to fuck off and ignore them til you graduate...? You do realize these aren't your real friends right?
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>>18656680
I sort of realized that when the bullying became common. And the worst part is these guys are all I have. Without them I'll be COMPLETELY alone
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>>18656686
Well you're never going to have to see any of them again after you graduate. If you're going to college you'll make new friends there, if you're going straight into the work force you'll make new friends there too.
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Do you talk back?
"kill yourself anon lol"
"after you"

"your gf is shit"
"ye that's why I'm banging yours on the side"

Since you let them walk over you verbally they might try physical indimidation, if that fails actual phusical confrontation, if that fails (the lose or you don't pussy out but show you got guts) they'll pick on you a lot less, most likely find a new one to bully.
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>>18656673
I believe who we choose to spend time with is a reflection of ourselves. Because you spend time with people who don't respect you and act without self-control I can tell you don't like yourself and don't feel that you have any control over your environment and who you surround yourself with. I'm of the opinion that you should drop these friends. It truly is better to be alone than to be around people who don't respect you or care about you. If it's just ballbusting that one thing, but malicious bullying is a whole different matter altogether.
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My friend,

My best advice is to start strong in college. Leave your dorm room door open during normal hours, be friendly, be proud of your hobbies, etc.

People will tell you take make new friends in college but these things will help with that. Start strong.

Best of luck.
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i had such problems too in my teens. problem is that your attention is probably stuck in this pattern and that's why you feel the weight of each word which in turn feed the entire verbal abuse business. pull yourself off find something intense for your attention to be devoured and you ll see how the existence of your so called friends become invisebily tiny.
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I had such problems too in my teens. Problem is that your attention is probably stuck in this pattern and that's why you feel the weight of each word, which in turn feed the entire verbal abuse business. Pull yourself off, find something intense for your attention to be devoured by and you'll see how the existence of your so called friends become invisebily tiny and all they say = garbage. Good luck ;)
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>>18656701
Where I'm from, college has no dorm rooms. We just go back home everyday
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>>18656694
If you listen to this anon i promise you will look 90 times faggier than you do now.

>>18656673
>dont tell me to get new friends

Sorry man. Thats the solution. Once you graduate its a new world. Youll meet new people.
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>>18656750
When I graduate, obviously I'll get new friends. I'm talking about right now in high school that I can't make new friends
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>>18656754
High school ends.

If it makes you feel any better, people who bully have a fuck tonne of insecurities and problems and theyre pretty miserable.

Also teenagers in general have a fuck tonne of insecurities and problems and theyre generally pretty miserable.

Highschool just sucks. Wait for it to end.

Meanwhile i dunno, go sit at the yu gi oh table or something.
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>>18656764
A part of me can't wait for high school to end, cuz of my asshole friends. Another part doesn't want it to end, cuz I don't want to grow up too fast
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It is much better to be alone than to be bullied by people who think are your friends
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>>18656673

Friends may joke with each other. But friends won't actually bully each other
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>>18656779
With me, it's more than just joking around.
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>>18656790

Well, they are not your friends
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Have some fucking self respect. A manchild bullies you and you call him a "friend" ? What the fuck is wrong with you ? Stop being a pussy and insult them. Stop joking around and prove that you are not the type of a guy who they want to mess around with. .. or are you ?

They bully you because you allow them to.

/my bullying backstory/
Back when I was 14, there was this cuck in my class who verbally bullied me. I ignored him. One day, I've decided that I'll backfire him - the motherfucker started to threaten me that he'll beat me up. He was a bit of a bigger guy back then but I wasn't scared of him, anger took over. I've stuck my fingers in his eyes, pulled him to the ground and proceeded to beat the shit out of him. Nothing too serious, just a nosebleed and a few bruises. I've had some minor troubles with teachers because of that but it was worth it, he has never pissed me off since.

tl;dr : stop being a childish cunt
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>>18656673
Man grow some balls and punch them in the mouth if they dont stop after you ask.


I had one guy in my friend group as a kid who wouldn't stop giving me shit so I slapped him around in his own house and told him if he did it again I would put him in the hospital next time. It worked, and his older brother said I could stay when that fat little fuck tried to tell me to leave.
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>>18656846
That must've been satisfying
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>>18656691
Does /adv/ not care about clearly underage posters?
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>>18656937
What do you mean?
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>>18656937
Cmon, even a brainlet kiddo is worth of dropping your 2 cents, this is not /b/ after all
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>>18656949
He's a high schooler who is "just about to graduate" even though the year just started so he's probably 17, and for all we know he's not even a senior.
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>>18656959
I am a senior
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>>18656965
And 17
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Take the chair and crush their fucking skulls. How do you even manage to tolerate their shit?
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>>18656976
I wish..but that doesn't seem pragmatic
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>>18656983
So what's pragmatic to you ? Being literally the king of betas ? Lemme give you a beta tip : record them on your phone and go whine to your teachers about it lol

..or stop being a cunt and return the fire
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Get a personal life.
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>>18656673
i gotta tell you,there is no "making them stop" they see you as a person to make fun of.I have been in both sides and I can tell you for sure,its better to be alone than to be in bad company,cut ties.
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>>18656686
being alone is better than being bullied. sack the fuck up and ditch these faggots
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>>18656754
you realize that it's way harder to make friends after high school right?
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You don't want to lose them? You're fucking up, but i might as well help you.

Change your body language to be more aggressive. You probably look like a twink. Fuck that shit.

Don't suppress your anger. When they insult you you either insult them back or don't say anything, don't smile, show that you're pissed off and they will eventually apologize. Make them regret what they said.

Start training a martial art, I recommend boxing. Dedicate yourself to actually training, don't go on 2 workouts then pussy out. Fuck you if you do.

Don't avoid conflict.
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>>18657318
That's what I do. I never say anything back, I don't smile and I always keep quiet. I even look pissed off. But that doesn't stop them
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>>18657429
Then insult them back.
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>>18657551
I highly doubt that will work. Won't it escalate the conflict?
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One day you're going to realize these people enjoyed making fun of you and aren't your friends.

Are you masochistic enough that you'd rather be repeatedly hurt and insulted than just sit by yourself?
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They're jerks, anyone would feel bad around them.

I would ignore them if it doesn't bother me. Or tell them to stop with my real feelings, not just "guys stop".

p.s. don't let your happiness come from others view of you
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>>18657629
Whenever I tell them, they just mock me
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I don't think they'll stop if they don't respect you and find it enjoyable.

I was bullied in school and they did it more because i didn't react, it became violence just to show dominance.
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>>18656673
>Don't say to find new friends, cuz it's hard to integrate into someone else's friend group.

>new friends
They aren't your friends
>Don't give me good advice, magically fix my problem pls

I'm in with a group that have a guy like you. The poor kid. I don't know why he sticks around. They bully him really hard, like it's the culture to do so. They bully each other (except the group leader) too, but it's extremely. The groupchat has a bit that spams several gay porn gifs when his name is mentioned, and another bot with his name that just posts about being a faggot etc etc.

I've never heard the guy complain and he's actually quite shy and docile so I feel bad for him. But he's never asked for advice so I won't say anything.
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>>18657860
You don't stick up for him? I'm sure he would greatly appreciate it
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>>18656830
This. Grow a pair and ditch them, OP. They're not your friends. Don't be a pushover, it's a bad habit to get into.
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>>18657927
I said something once, directed at the head of the group suggesting he act like an adult regarding the situation. I was banned for months. I also spoke with the kid privately and offered advice. He isn't too involved there anymore but his mockery is the most action in the group still.

I'm not his real dad and I have no desire to participate in a toxic environment. Fuck them.
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>>18657927
Forgot that I meant to say that you can't help people who don't want to help themselves.
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