Afternoon everyone,
I'm a 19 year old guy, and I can't finish during sex. I've been having sex for about the years now, and this has always been something I've dealt with. Normally I just keep going until the girl is done, I've only actually finished during sex a handful of times. Is there anything in particular that may be causing this? I'm not on any medication, and am fairly active, physically.
>>18601420
Your gay?
>>18601420
do you watch a lot of porn?
>>18601420
>>18601420
Stop fapping for 2 weeks and dont have sex until then
>>18601420
How often do you masturbate? If you do, there's a chance you're being too forceful, which desensitizes your dick to the regular piston motions from sex. The best cure for that is not masturbating for a couple weeks, but apparently exclusive use of fleshlights can help too.
It's too late for me, I can finish in 2 minutes on my own but if I use a fleshlight it takes 2 hours.
>>18601443
Nah, definitely not gay
>>18601445
I don't actually watch porn, I never found it to be appealing for me
>>18601484
I jack off about once every other day, depending on how early I wake up.
I'm in the same boat. I don't masturbate, I'm not into dudes, and I definitely fantasize about this girl, but I only cum like 1 in 5 times that we get intimate (whereas she has maybe 2-3 orgasms each time, because she's ridiculously sensitive). I thought she was just bad at sex.
Could it be a stress/performance anxiety thing? Let's share notes.
>>18601579
Op here, not sure what it is desu. My last session it'd been 2.5 hours and the girl started feeling self conscious. Performance anxiety does sound plausible though.