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I'm pissed. My girlfriend was supposed to visit this weekend but has to bail because of a family thing. This is the second time. She said she was afraid to tell me so it wasn't new info when she told me last night. She also spent yesterday with a guy who generally treats her poorly and is romantically interested in her. I also heard very little from her, only once around dinner time and then late in the night when it would generally be past her bedtime. We've seen each other a grand total of 30 mins the last 3 months, we don't even live that far apart (1.5 - 2 hr drive). Now surely if she knew she couldn't come she would opt to spend time with her boyfriend instead of this other guy who's into her, especially considering how little we get to see each other (she is legitimately busy most days). The whole thing has me pissed off. Am I wrong for being uncomfortable with her spending time alone with this guy? I wouldn't be upset if it was just one of her guy friends but the combination the radio silence, his interest in her, and the way he treats her makes for an unhappy combination in my eyes. I guess I should say what I said here to her and see how it goes? I'm considering breaking up seeing as she's likely either too busy for a relationship (or a relationship with me...) or I'm just not a priority to her. Obviously I would like to avoid it if I can but I don't know...
This whole thing is mostly just ranting/venting but input would be appreciated.
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Ask her wtf this guy has to do with her family thing
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Yeah she's definitely getting dicked by that other guy, or at the very least you're simply not that much of a priority to you. Tell her you feel underappreciated in that relationship and if she doesn't try to give you more of her time, just break it off.
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Women are going to tell you it's okay that she's hanging out with him to make themselves feel better about doing the same thing in the past.
It could be innocent, but if it's known he's actively trying to fuck her, then you have reason for alarm.
How about you just drive up there one day and force a visit? LDRs need good communication and effort on both ends. It does sound like it might be time to move on.
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*you're not much of a priority to her
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>>18601274
you should start seeing other people and when she gets around to telling you that she and the other guy have been hooking you can tell her its not a big deal because you've been screwing other chicks the last 6 months anyways.
May as well move on. You can start looking for a new GF now and get that going while you wait to see if your current girlfriend admits she is cheating on you.
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Been there
Unfortunately she dumped me some weeks after that shit
I am now realizing that I wasn't wrong, she didn't care anymore about me and wanted only to hang out with her fucking friends
I'm sorry man, i hope this is not your case
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