The guy I'm dating who was my ex for five years just told

>>18600403
Move the fuck on. He's making it pretty clear that he doesn't want to get back together with you right now, so find someone that DOES want to get with you right now.

Think of the end game in this.
>just told me that we don't belong to each other.

He clearly has no intention of spending the rest of his life with you. Leave him and find someone who does.

the getting back togather will never happen, you cant be this stupid, girl

It seems like he isn't committed to you and takes you for granted. What makes him think that you will still want to be with him in the future? This relationship is not gonna be healthy for you. Why be with someone who has a different outlook? Find someone who like you thinks that sex is emotional.

>>18600414
How do I move on? I doubt I'll find anyone else that I can enjoy my time with..

>>18600441
sigh. I just don't get it. He's giving me mixed signals saying on one hand that Im the only girl he cares for and that he doesn't want me out of his life.. and that he wants to become a better man before getting back with me but then he does this shit..

He has insisted that he still wants to get back together and I've agreed but I said I'll be patient.. I just don't feel comfortable knowing he wants to fuck other females.. I clearly don't want to mingle with anyone else

Also so far, he hasn't done anything to anyone else. He just talks to me and not really any other girls so I still think this is just my anxiety

>>18600530
>How do I move on? I doubt I'll find anyone else that I can enjoy my time with.
If you honestly think that, then you are honestly very stupid. If you live in a town of 30,000 (not a very big town), I guarantee you that I can find 100 guys that are similar enough to where you won't care.

What is it about him that is irreplaceable? His interests? His way of treating you like shit?

>>18600530
There are lots of people on earth that you'd probably get on with very well. When that happens, you'll hardly think of him anymore. Date other people. You'll feel a temporary ego boost, but even more, he'll realize that you aren't something that can be locked in a safe for the future.

>>18600403

Move on, he sounds like a fuck boy

>>18600530
>We don't belong to each other
>We should fuck around
Nothing mixed about that.
He just wants to fuck and he's stringing you along.