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Hello guys!

Can you please tell me and give some links - does watching porn have a bad influence on personality?

My girlfriend blames me for watching porn - she tells that because of that I will want try some extreme sex, she hates (like anal, group, hardcore BDSM, rape). All my arguments, that everything that happens on screen is only on screen, are being negated and meet stupid articles of some radical feminists about me as the abuser, rapist and pervert (because according to the articles, porn is a rape of women).

Also she fells jealous of porn, thinking, I prefer the "perfect bodies" of pornstars rather than her. Even if I do everything to satisfy her in sex. Even when I'm tired.

I love my girlfriend. But with all that brainwashing I become to feel permanently guilty. And I don't like that.
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>>18600368
No sources, but there are plenty of people who can watch porn that don't have a desire to act it out in real life, because they realize its fantasy, AND because they realize that seeing something on screen and doing it in real life can be a completely different experience (you can't smell anal sex in porn).

That said, if you're trying to emulate what you see on screen to get your rocks off, and aren't understanding when your partner says that they don't want to do it, then you have a problem. Whether the porn is causing the problem or not is irrelevant. You've already seen and fantasized it. You can't forget what you've already fantasized about.

As for her feeling jealous, I have a standing agreement with my wife, who only wants sex once every 2-3 days: If I have an itch, it's gonna get scratched. She always has first crack, but if she declines, then I'm gonna scratch that itch myself.
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she feels like she isnt good enough which is sorta true since instead of railing her you watch those "perfect" sluts

how does she hate it? shes probably having fantasies getting "raped" by you and lubing up her butthole as she resists, they all love it

be more wild with her, dont watch porn when you are horny, fuck her brains out, when she experiences that you get are into her just as much as into those "perfect" women, she wont care much
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>>18600368

>she tells that because of that I will want try some extreme sex, she hates (like anal, group, hardcore BDSM, rape).
Next time she watches a violent movie, ask her if she suddenly wants to imitate what's on screen.

Further, basically every modern male watches porn. That's hundreds of millions of people. You think we're all secretly wanting to rape our wives and girlfriends? Ridiculous.

>Also she fells jealous of porn, thinking, I prefer the "perfect bodies" of pornstars rather than her.
Ask her if she thinks junk food tastes nice. Next, ask her if having McDonalds will make her never want to eat that favorite dish that her mum makes.

That's what porn really is - junk food. If you eat too much of it, it will likely make you unhealthy. But having it in moderation is no problem. (Do be extra careful with the hardcore stuff though. Having too much of that probably *will* negatively affect you).

>(because according to the articles, porn is a rape of women).
Do these feminists think balet dancing is rape too?
Because it also involves mostly women often with heavy make-up, doing unnatural movements that take a lot of practice, and may be uncomfortable, for money.
What, if it involves making people feel good during the process, does that suddenly make it evil?
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>>18600368
stop watching porn on screen, watch and be porn in real life with your girlfriend (but keep it personal between you too) ;-)
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>>18600387
What if she refuses sex for now? Because after a bunch of articles she think that sex for male is about violence to woman? Yes, because they are watching porn.

>>18600413
We tried anal sex. Once. She felt bad after that and we never came back to it. A few months later she said she thought that if she won't let me anal, I will start to cheat her (that statement confused me. I never thought of such thing)


>>18600430
>You think we're all secretly wanting to rape our wives and girlfriends? Ridiculous.

This is EXACTLY what she tries to blame me and all the MANkind.

>>18600430
>Do these feminists think balet dancing is rape too?
No, because nobody forces balet-dancers to do that. It's their choise.
According to feminists, porn actors are forced to do things they don't want to do. It's like human traffiking. All my statements that actress will only do the things she signed in a contract, otherwise the pornstudio will receive A BIG FUCKING CLAIM, are refused. Because I cannot prove that.
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>>18600492

>porn actors are forced to do things they don't want to do
Even if this were true, consider, for a moment, the army -- and the insane training they have to do. You think soldiers *want* to be woken up at 4 in the morning to crawl through freezing mud? No? Well, if they don't want it, they can just not sign up to be a soldier. But they did sign up.. Because that was their choice.

So what about women in the army doing this crazy training, that they sometimes don't want to do? Are the feminists going to call that 'rape' and 'human trafficking' too? No.. Likely they will call 'that strong and capable wymyn'.

So it is with literally every other job. Sometimes you don't want to go work.. Or do the stupid tasks your boss gave you. But you do it, because you signed the damn contract, and because it pays the bills. Is that 'rape'?

Again: absurd.
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>>18600492
>What if she refuses sex for now? Because after a bunch of articles she think that sex for male is about violence to woman? Yes, because they are watching porn.
Then tell her that you're gonna go scratch your own itch. She can subscribe to whatever religion she likes, but she has no business forcing it on you.
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>>18600368
Watching porn actually helps you put all your degenerate and creepy shit into fantasy, so it doesn't leech into real life.
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>>18600903
opposite, you want to quit having fantasies b/c pornography will make it worse... worst, you'll create fetishes.
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>>18600368
Here
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

If you have gf you love, shoot your own porn with her and fap in secret to other stuff when she is not looking.
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>>18600954
>Since giving up porn and masturbation. I view women more as people, not sex objects, and treat them with respect. In pornography, women are being oppressed. They're being objectified, and seen and treated like toys. If anything, porn is nothing more than displaying a sick fantasy from evil and greedy ‘film’ producers. More than likely to be a sick vision realised by men as well. That’s the sad and ugly truth about porn.
>I started dating a crazy feminist and changing all my views to make her happy: the post
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>>18600976
Relationships are about mutual respect, trust and ability to find compromises.

If she is hurt for whatever reason by you consuming porn, either find compromise or break up. Simply as that. I personally see nothing wrong in giving up porn (at least when she is looking) for her sake.

>try porn literature, see what she has to say about it and it can more kinky than any video will ever be
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>>18600368
this thread makes me want to watch some porn
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m8 women will never be comfortable with men watching porn. You have to tell her you've stopped watching it, and make sure she never catches you watching it.
She will most likely install monitoring software on your computer to catch you, so You gotta have a laptop or some other device to hide your habit from her. Never let her catch you and you should be set.
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>>18600998
Back to your containment board
>>>/d/egenerate
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>>18600413
>they all love it
No we don't
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>>18600368
First porn does objectify women, a woman that will allow any perversion imaginable and beg for it but it's not real, its entertainment and porn knows its audience. That said many behind the camera are women now and they know their audience, know its entertainment and do it for the money. In any field including porn there are total messes and drug addicts just look at politics, Hollywood and the music business.

But your gf has some valid points. If you see a world view over and over again you can be convinced there could be some truth there. OP's gf knows that but OP pretends he doesn't. Will all men become ass hole rapist and avoid that vagina just inches away preferring the vagina the sole hole of a bbc? No, but we see everyday dick size conversations, bbc, trap, cuckold and guys wanting their gf or wife to have a threesome because she's the only female they have fucked.
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>>18600368
No idea about the other parts but I can certainly see why she would get jealous. Would you freak out if your girlfriend had naked pictures of people in her phone? If you're both cool with it that's good for you but in a normal relationship that's considered cheating.
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Watch this and see how you feel.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

It absolutely is because of porn that you want those things and its unfair to her. You may not be married but she expects you to have fidelity in your relationship. She views porn as an alternative and outside her comfort level. Plenty of guys would die to be in your shoes. Treat her with the respect and stop that shit.
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>>18601116
Exactly. If OP's gf had hot big dicked guys on her phone giving it to woman after woman and a big rope of cum to her begging face he'd be a bit insecure too.
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