Went on a second date with a girl, made out, had a great time, but wasn't really feeling that strongly attracted to her despite her being really cute. Today she's been texting me about how she keeps thinking about last night and can't wait to kiss me next, but I'm really not feeling it as much as she is. I did break up with my ex of two years about three months ago although I had thought I was over her.
Why am I being such a faggot and not reciprocating affection?
>>18600282
I don't know, but if I had to guess, I would say because you want the familiar, rather than the new. I'd go ahead and push it anyways. You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take. Maybe this time, get to know her. I find its the little quirks that I fall for. I first fell in love with the woman who became my wife when she played Bloody Tears on Piano in front of me.
>>18600296
Great advice, Anon, thanks.
>>18600315
Glad to help.
In your situation, if you were a girl instead you would ghost him. /adv/ always says girls are allowed to ghost guys because they might be crazy stalkers. But if you're a guy, you can't ghost a girl, that would make you a heartless monster.
>>18600363
Girls are attracted to different things than guys, when painting with a broad brush. That said, I would never say to ghost anyone after a single date that they didn't hate.