And now my folks want me to forgive him for it becasue, wait for it........he shat out a child.
This happened years ago, and it was drug related.
long story short i was supposed to double my cash, it actually went up his fucking nose.
so Am i being unreasonable by not allowing him or his new family into my life, am i doing the adult thing and just leaving well enough alone? I'm tired of my folks always showing me pictures of this fucking kid, and "accedentialy" having me show up over at their house, and wondering why i wont go inside, i don't deal with fucking thieves,
TL;DR BROTHER IS A SHITASS THIEVING FUCK, HAD A CHILD AND WANTS FORGIVINESS, WITHOUT SAYING HE DID ANYTHING WRONG.
>>18599574
Seems like your whole family is manipulative as fuck.
Stay the fuck away from all of them.
Just straight up tell him you will forgive him when he pays you back, and when he does just dont lol
>>18599574
Your parents desperately want you two to get along because they know they will one day die and they expect you two will need one another for support and familial ties. This is a normal expectation and hope that parents feel. This also makes them blind to the real-life things that can fuck that ideal world up.
Things like the siblings just flat out not getting along. Or not wanting a relationship. It's not that bizarre for you to not want anything to do with him given the circumstances. From an objective standpoint, anyway. But your parents can never be objective. You are never going to get them to see your side of things.
But the good news is that you don't have to. You don't need to have a relationship with your brother if you don't want one. Just don't go out of your way to be a dick about it. By that, I mean don't purposely miss holidays and things like that, because then it hurts your other family members more. Just don't go out of your way to interact with your brother, either. Shrug it off and go about your life. Tolerate his presence at functions or places where you have to be around one another. But other than that, stop giving a fuck.
>>18599574
actually falling for a double your money scam, what a retard dude you deserved to lose the money. never give out, lend, or loan money you expect back.
>>18599574
Your brother was a fuckhead, but really you never lend an addict money or bring anything worth cash around them. He's your brother. You'll never get another.
Learn to forgive bro. It hurts but losing close family hurts more
>>18600206
No. Not this.
Money back or no go.
>>18600206
I see you haven't actually had to deal with a family member who is an addict. Forgiveness rarely happens depending on how bad their addiction gets.
>>18599574
Don't invest any money anywhere that you aren't comfortable losing.
Not going to comment on anything else.
>>18600246
Yeah I have. My dad was an addict. At one point I was as well. As long as their shitty behavior didn't put you in physical danger and they're willing to make amends forgiveness can be worth it
This is a poorly explain piece of shit that was apparently mashed out my an autistic child with sausage fingers. How about you explain what the fuck actually happened, how much you lost and why you were retarded enough to think that your brother could double your money.
ok look guys is it weird I have an folder for ever nude and selfie my girlfriend sends?
>>18600272
It's only weird if you don't share it.