how do i overcome the burning desire to fuck a wet soft pussy.
I feel like it takes way too much effort either maintaining a gf or pay hooker. I want to spend the effort in other ways building business etc.
But i when i do nofap (im on day 2) i get a crazy burning desire i stop functioning completely
I am able to get a gf easily BUT i cannot.
- I only like people in my inner circle I actually connect with, who is like me personality wise + has ambitions, intelligence etc.
Realistically this means it can take years to find the right girl who I would love to allow near me (emotionally)
- I am religious so I want to save sex for marriage.But becasue of reason 1 and no financial stability yet (still in university) I will have to wait at least years.
If i have sex i will regret it and will push away the girl and hate her for being an acomplice in my sin.
Only solutions I can think of are:
1. The best and guilt free option is
I find a way to get more income so I can marry while still in university, but I would still have to find the right woman
2. Overcome the desire to fuck. Really it seems silly if i logically asses the situation.
I stop functioning like a human being not able to think at all just because i long for a wet and puffy piece of meat.
How can it be so hard to overcome this desire? I do not even want any emotional affection right now.
tldr: Getting real sex is not possible for unchangeable reasons, for at least the coming 5 years
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>>18599526
I'm in a pretty much identical situation, OP. I was even considering making a thread like this.
I don't really have any input since I'm having the same problem, but bump I guess
too much can't
not enough dick in my mouth. we're out here, forget your fake god and come fuck us instead
>>18599535
interesting, I hope someone shares some valuable ideas
>>18599539
shut up faggot
>>18599526
Cut
off
Your
Balls.
>>18599526
Get a fleshlight and use your imagination
>>18599576
No fapping is bad. It tricks your homone system that you have settled. You stop producing the dopamine, testosteron, etc and generally removes a huge driveforce, initiative taking ability in your life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4j2d7iLWsw
>>18599579
I don't find that to be true for myself, I'm much more focused and productive if I blow a load in the morning. I'm like OP, I get really distracted by my libido if I don't take care of it, and just think of sex all day.
I don't really have a problem pursuing girls I actually like, fapping doesn't take that drive away from me. I don't think it's necessarily a good thing to be SO horny that I'd fuck anything that moves, though. I'm at a point in my life where I'd honestly rather fuck my fleshlight than have a one-night stand or something
>>18599579
Get this ancient Taoist gook horseshit outta my face.
>>18599526
Jack off. Just do it. Nofap is snake oil, it's fucking voodoo, the placebo effect.
Better yet, stop being conned out of normal and healthy human development by a meme fantasy book written over the course of 1000 years in Greek, Hebrew and Latin.
>>18599680
Being healthy is not jerking is 4 hours a day
>>18599680
this post is so fedora I don't even know if it's bait
>>18599695
no the guy your talking to but he is right
unless you have extremely unhealthy porn habits (ie. hurts your career/relationships) your probably are fine. When in doubt cut back.
Saying the only way to live is to NEVER masturbate AGAIN is just dumb.
>>18599721
> edges for 4 hours
> cuts back to 1 hour
> Doesn't feel as good
Well fuck
>>18599526
i cant imagine anyone would want to be with you, You sound dumb as fuck,
You're short though???
>>18599761
no im huge 6 ft and swole