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Will an escort make the lonely feelings go away?

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Will an escort make the lonely feelings go away?
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Absolutely not. And realize that lonely men believing that they share a connection with an escort are a big part of their income.
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>>18527652

No. You'll feel better for an hour, then lonely again. I don't think you have the capital to see one every day, so you'll have to deal with your loneliness in a more permanent way.
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>>18527662
>more permanent way

My first though reading that is suicide but I assume you mean something else
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>>18527667

I mean sorting your shit out. If you are lonely, try making some friends.
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>>18527652
Prostitutes are meant to get you off. That's it. It is the least emotional transaction you can have. You're lonely, not horny. An escort isn't going to change that.
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Not even one night stands make it go away, why would paying for one help at all?
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>>18527652
>surrounded by other bros who'd happily bullshit for hours about comic book movies or your latest high-score in vidya without getting bored or calling you a loser
>they still lust after the vaginal jew instead of forming a bromance that will last forever

Such sad lives they lead.
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>>18527678
I have friends. It doesn't fill the void, and I don't know what's wrong with me that I can't attract women but it makes me feel like I'm worth less.
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>>18527752
Stop defining your self worth by your ability to get a girl.
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>>18527752

So you are not lonely. You want validation, you want to feel attractive. Which is fine, I'm not judging. I'm just saing you should start with that next time.

An escort won't fix that, either. They don't have to like you. You pay, they perform. That's all.
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>>18527769
You can't just tell someone to ignore their biological imperatives and expect them to change
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>>18527773

Humans are more complex than that. We sublimate our impulses and do stuff beyond our instinct.
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>>18527769
This guy is right
>>18527773
But so is this guy

So what's the deal, suicide is the only option?
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>>18527788
>So what's the deal, suicide is the only option?

Stop using he word suicide as a buzz word. We are already helping you, no need to dramatize.

Why can't you just get a girlfriend? Can you tell us?
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>>18527799
The guy you responded to is not OP, I am.

The why I'm not really sure about. I've got a couple ideas. To give more context I have been in a long term relationship before but not in over a year. I have a job that pays well above average for my age group. I keep in good shape, and I think I must be outwardly attractive because I've been on a couple first dates every now and then but I can never seem to get a second. I have a circle of friends, and I don't have a problem socializing with them, just not women.
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>>18527773
There's a difference between having a biological urge to do something, and defining your self worth based on your ability to do so.
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>>18527810

Then you have had a GF before. Let this gloom moment pass and remember you are not so unlikable if you have already done this.
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>>18527832
What other standard is there?
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>>18527810
Sounds like you've got things pretty good. Listen, not everyone finds "the one". I know it sucks, but you've got to start focusing on what you do have, not what you don't.
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>>18527834
We broke up because she wants to be a man now, I'm not sure it counts, and I've been single for nearly a year and a half since then
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>>18527836
Here's the thing: You get to set your own standard.
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>>18527839
I can appreciate the things I have but it feels like an empty victory on my own

>>18527844
But what my brain tells me is that attracting a mate is how I can define my worth. I could say out loud 100 times that how much money I have is what defines my worth but I wouldn't believe it.
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>>18527841

Well, but that's about her. Should't make you feel bad.
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>>18527856
I don't blame myself for it, it just doesn't make me feel good to know that the only woman I've been with doesn't even want to count as a woman.
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>>18527866

Well, that's not on you. I don't know how else to say it. She (or rather he) made a choice about themselves. That's all.
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>>18527873
logically I understand that, I just don't feel like it was "real" relationship anymore.
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>>18527652
Get in shape if you can and make sure you make a decent living... That's all you need. Turn off all that desperation crap, too. Girls hate that. The answer is get a girlfriend or become so attractive that girls will want you left and right.
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>>18527652
No but it will make you feel good for awhile since they're gonna be good at sex and probably decently attractive. I sure liked busting inside a pretty girl even if I paid her to fuck me. Was worth it to me. Fuck everyone else telling you what to spend your money on and what you should feel. If you think it's worth it then that's the only person you need to convince.
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