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>meet girl on dating app
>profile says that she's not interested in hook ups or a relationship
>hang out with coffee
>get drinks after
>really hitting it off
>her hands are always in her lap, and she's always holding them, so I don't make a move there
>read poetry to her
>exchange phone numbers
>walk slowly to the car, just talking
>we talked a ton, non-stop
>no kiss or hug, just goodbye
*fast forward a couple days*
>hanging at my place and watching a movie
>dont see an opportunity to make a move, so I don't
>she sits in the middle of the couch
>same thing, plays with her hands in her lap, no opportunity to hold them except for grabbing them out of her lap
>she goes home
>"hey anon! Got home safe! I had a lot of fun! :)"
>plan on dog park as the next hangoug

How to tell if a girl is into you as more than a friend? How to get a girl to be into you as more than a friend (No PUA shit, please)? Did I fuck myself here?
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Forgot to say... She's a weirdo like me. Seems nervous/anxious, talks quickly, has trouble holding eye contact
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>>18520382
>profile says that she's not interested in hook ups or a relationship
You read the label and decided to expect the opposite thing.
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>>18520382
>How to tell if a girl is into you as more than a friend?
Make a fucking move.
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>>18520389
Really didn't though. Went in expecting friend-feels, but I'm starting to harbor more-than-friend-feels
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1. you didn't fuck yourself

2. if she's socially awkward, then make an effort to make things as relaxed and easy as possible. she sounds like she enjoys your company, so she's likely just as nervous about making a wrong move as you are. if you keep in contact, make an effort to spend time with her, and don't come off as flaky or ingenuine, everything should play itself out.

3. dog parks are great spots for dates. enjoy the time you guys get to spend together, and when/if things seem right to hold hands or kiss or hug or whatever, take advantage of the opportunity
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You can either make a move or let your feelings grow and curdle within you until you can't take it anymore and get hurt. Either way you probably can't remain as just her friend.

Maybe she's just shy and nervous with the hands thing. At least get yourself into the hug-zone so you are escalating things even slowly. So she gets used to touching you. Then you can go for handholding later on.
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>>18520399
>2nd date
>hello hug is one armed
>goodbye hug is both arms and a full embrace

we're both mid-20's lol
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>>18520393
then you picked the wrong girl for that. go back to the dating app
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>>18520414
You're also both shy af
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>>18520455
I turn into a prepubescent boy around women I see real value in, at least when trying to seduce them. I've had my share of hookups, and I can put the flirt on when I don't care. I just get in my own way
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