Photo in next post, so only people interested in helping will see it. I'm not comfortable putting myself on the internet.
Basically I'm looking for help in how I can improve my appearance. Mainly hairstyle, since that's the only thing that you can really change.
I have some form of body dismorphia I think, although I'm pretty sure I just don't look good anyway. I've always been uncomfortable with my appearance but never known what to do about it. Also I'm very shy - social anxiety - in general which doesn't help with my discomfort.
This is what I look like at the moment. Last had a haircut about 10 weeks ago.
I'm aware I'm overweight, which I have been working on. I'm also aware I've got terrible posture, although I don't know how to fix that. But what else can I do aside from surgery?
>>18520045
I would just lose some weight and maybe get your hair cut neater and shorter
Lose weight and shave your face.
>>18520051
Yeah I prefer it shorter, although I don't know what to ask for. When they ask it's always "uhhh, shorter?"
>>18520045
Clothes you wear, spend some money on clothes and not vidyas.
Confidence makes a person shine quite literally, practice talking in a mirror to see how people see you. It builds character.
Get rid of your neckbeard, and cut your hair. You'd look like a spiffy dude.
>>18520076
Say a low skin fade, then style it at home with a comb to the side or something man. It's not that hard. It's the most generic thing it looks nice and it's easy to handle.
>>18520083
If they say how to you want the fade? Tapered on the neck and the side, clean up / trim the top.
>>18520047
>>18520081
Like I'm not even that good lookin of a dude imho but I pull beautiful girls no problem based on confidence and not looking homeless.
Whenever you see a guy with a fucked up face dating a gorgeous girl it's cause he knows hot to talk and dress. Girls eat that shit up
Thanks for the advice and encouragement
>>18520081
>>18520088
>clothes
Yeah that's another thing I need to work on. How do I do that though?
>confidence
I definitely agree there. Unfortunately it's extra difficult for me given my personality.
>>18520083
Alright thanks, i'll try that next time