I'm bored, so I'm making my own thread for you all

>>18516002
What's the worst shit you've been through?

>>18516002
How do you deal with boredom?

>>18516013
Literally do something that captivates your attention.

>>18516012
That's a hard one.

I've been through some tough times, did things I should regret, but the worst things I gotta say happen in my dreams. Real life isn't that bad, just boring, waiting for the next thing to happen so I can wait for the next, but in dreams, the logic found in real life doesn't apply, and freaky things can happen.

I used to be able to swim well, and loved the water, now I can barely go near it.

I've seen people beaten and abused in worse ways than physical, and I myself have fallen victim to these circumstances as well.

I think another one would be realizing how alone I really am. But that isn't the worst part, the worst part is how I dismissed it, said I didn't care, and forgot about it.

But enough about me, I'd like to hear y'alls problems.

Cool,I feel like I have no purpose. I have nothing I'm particularly good at. I honestly suck st about everything I do, from writting, to music, math, drawing, in uncoordinated,and forgetful, and horrible at communicating. What should I do? Should i just give up?

>>18516002
I made a thread like this and they deleted it.

How do you pursue relationships when certain obscure weird kinks define your sexuality (and identity to an extent), but you also don't care for sex outside of a loving relationship?

>>18516013
That to me is a weird question.

I've never had a problem with boredom. I've never really felt "bored". Recently, I went to a water park with some friends and after 2 rides, realized I couldn't enjoy this, so I sat down under some shady thing and just sat there for 7 and a half hours, waiting for everyone else to finish.

I guess it's because I'm a natural daydreamer. Or I'm insane. I can spend an eternity just thinking about stuff, and even longer talking to people about it.

If your asking how should YOU deal with boredom, do what >>18516027
suggested. Find something that stimulates your endorphins. Read a book, vidya, talk to the people around you, walk, run, ride a bike, eat, drink, sleep, practice something, drawing, all things you can to do keep yourself occupied. You just gotta find the one that lasts the longest.

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>>18516002
>I'm bored

>>18516055
>I've never had a problem with boredom

Wat

>>18516035
My worst fears is slipping back into the black abyss of emotional numbness and disconnection with reality. I'm also a complete loner. At first I took comfort in it. But now day by day it's chipping away at my sanity. Also trying to keep myself from slipping into depression. I'd have to say the worst pain I've felt is when I was completely hallow inside. So hallow to the point were I couldn't reach any emotional state. I wanted to cry but I couldn't, I wasn't sad I was nothing, it physically hurt more then anything I've felt. It all seemed like a grey hell that was cynical and happiness was just a lie. That was my childhood growing up. Now I'm trying to recover from that.

>>18516045
You should never give up, that's what death is for.
Take refuge in the fact you eventually will be relieved of whatever burdens and duties you have eventually.

It sounds like you lack a motive. Or, your motives are twisted. Your focusing on the wrong things. Most people want to be happy, but they either don't know how to do that, or don't really know what happiness is. That's because they hear it, and people talk about the idea and how everyone needs it, including you, but that's them, not you. You have to find what you want, what you enjoy. That doesn't have to be happiness, it isn't for me. If you want to be good at things, and you think you aren't, you have some options. Either lower your standards, or practice excessively. The latter isn't a good option all the time, because sometimes certain people feel like there not working hard enough to attain what they think is their best. If you want a purpose, I could give you a few. You could help others by volunteering, helping the elderly, feeding the homeless, you could learn how to garden, (which isn't that difficult to learn, it's useful, and it's literally helping create life) or you could take up a sport, maybe a hobby. You don't particularly have to be good at those things, you just have to enjoy them. Hope that helps.

>>18516045
Make your purpose to find a purpose.

>>18516054
You do what I do best.

Wait. I still am.

Or you could just ask said person you happen to be hitting it off with about the concept of it. Maybe learn to read people a little bit better to find dominant/submissive kinds if that's what your hinting at, or if it's like a bodily excretion or mutilation thing, your gonna have to look in very "specific" places. If it's a furry thing, there's a surprising amount of people interested in it, and it wouldn't be hard to find an actual relationship with someone at a convention seeing as it's pretty much an activity you both enjoy a lot. If it's something else, or a specific thing you want me to tackle, go ahead. Hope this helps though.

>>18516069
You do realize he's dealing with his bordem by doing something like making a thread right?

>>18516079
What would count as a hobby. Right now I am learning Japanese and usually messing around on the piano. That is basically all I do besides come here

>>18516069
I don't see your point.

Just because I don't have a problem with it doesn't mean I'm never bored.

>>18516093
that means your boredom is not intense or even very significant. sometimes boredom is really extreme. extreme boredom can be so intolerable that people cut themselves and do heroin over it.

>>18516086
It's both a furry thing and a bodily excretion thing, so they both have their communities, but the communities are sexual communities, so generally people who are in them are going to want to be having sex with the other people they meet. Or at least that's my pessimistic perspective, but I think it's pretty true. I kind of want to stay away from hook up culture, and meet someone who feels the same. This is probably a challenge for a lot of people, regardless of kinks.

>>18516091
Those are good hobbies. I wanted to play the flute, piano, or violin, but I got stuck with percussion and rythem keeping skills, so yeah. I think I'm gonna learn japanese, but then again I'll probably just zone out and not learn it.

If you want to expand on those things, you could find a Japanese club maybe? Not to make annoying assumptions, but if it's a japanese culture thing there's plenty of clubs for that, if not, not really sure. I mean, you could just go to japan.

As for piano, if you think your getting good at it you could go ask to play somewhere. Maybe a bar, or restaurant. At first ask to play for free, people usually say yes if they don't have to pay. If your good and make a name for yourself, you might even be able to get gigs for money. That doesen't have to be a full time job though, my dad did that with a guitar and some friends occasionally, made some money too. If you have a keyboard, you could play on the streets for people, maybe make money off of tips.

You've got some stuff going for you already. Also you should pick up gardening. Or at least try, it's not for everyone. I'm fascinated by it, so I gotta recommend it to everyone.
Hope it helps.

>>18516104
I feel you on that.
The furry community isn't all sexual, regardless of what people might think. There's a large sexual aspect, but not all of it is like that. If I were you, I'd just go to the conventions, maybe try to meet some people at them to do stuff next year, look online for events near you (might have to drive a while, never really "near" you), and see if you hit it off with someone. The excretions thing, that's pretty difficult. The interest usually forms because of porn addiction, or starts developing from trauma with a mix of that, so having a casual relationship mainly involving that is gonna be hard to impossible, especially if your looking for a furry part somewhere in there too.

All in all, I say try to meet someone who happens to be a furry too, maybe at group events you might hit it off with someone, but that's about as far with it as I'd go. There aren't really places you can go to meet up with people into bodily excrete, so if someone in the furry community you meet happens to be into that, (which you really shouldn't get your hopes up about) then good for you. Also, I should point out a good half, maybe more, of the furry community is gay/bi, so regardless of your sexual preferences, you should be fine.
Hope it helps, best of luck.

Come one people, I'm still here, hopefully you all are too.

>>18516103
It might be significant, it might be the worst boredom ever experienced by man in the 21st century. That doesn't mean I don't have a problem with it.

I lay to rest, this thread.

R.I.P.

>>18516127
Thanks man, and that's actually about where I'm at. I'm gay and already know a number of furries. I still feel like it's a pretty sexual community, but then I hang out with my relatively "normie" friends and all they want to do is meet people on tinder, so it's probably not too different than any other community. Yeah, it's a shame I won't likely meet anyone into scat, but I'll see how it goes, and I don't mind dating.

I don't think either fetish is related to porn addiction or trauma though, because I usually don't look at any porn and those sexual interests developed in me well before any attraction to people themselves or romantic relationships, for what it's worth

>>18516184
Hey are you still on? i have a question. Can someone force themselves to feel gay? I think at least I have been attracted to a guy before but he also looked like my brother who molested me. Idk I'm having very contradictory thoughts about they issue. is there a way to be 100% sure?

>>18516352
>is there a way to be 100% sure?
there isn't. sexualities are just things people identify with that clarify or give content to how they feel. Not to sound too stoner, but it's just a construct maaan. This is factually true too, cause even stuff like gay/straight doesn't relate to a specific gene, but relates to a lot of genes that could vary in lots of ways, and also relates to environment and experiences like yours.

I think time and experience generally clarifies what you like and want, though.

>>18516447
you think i should pursue male partners?

>>18516468
not if you're uncomfortable with it, but you shouldn't write it off entirely or suppress it if it's there. if you're single and down with stuff like dating apps and hooking up, it'd be easy enough to experiment. if not, you at least shouldn't be so concerned about finding a label that fits you right away. lots of people are uncertain, and that's valid

>>18516478
yeah I think I'm willing to experiment, thanks