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Self Doubt

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Do you ever think you would be a terrible person to be in a relationship with? I can't find any reasons that someone would love me, I'm like a robot, which explains why no one ever has. I'm riddled with depression because of this revelation and loneliness, which only makes me further undesirable. Did any of you believe similar then have it proven wrong?
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>>18514370
Everyone has problems.

Focus on your issues and bettering yourself as a person before seeking companionship. If you don't love yourself, don't expect anyone else to love you.
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>>18514370
I felt similar for a long time, especially because in school, the girls would, if at all, only speak to me when we had a group project to do.
I feel like I didn't have it as bad as you do, but I felt like I was completely undesirable for any girl, even the ugly and desperate ones, until I met a girl that's very similar to me online one day, whom I could talk to a lot easier than any of the girls in school. We've been together for 4 years now, and I am still very happy.
What is important though it that if you are generally unhappy, a girlfriend will not suddenly change that, not for a long time anyway.
Good luck to you though
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>>18514370
I believed similar and was proven wrong..... But then the person I trusted most proved me right that I have no value. People hate those like us or use us sorry to say.
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All the damn time. I have a fair amount of friends and people I talk to, and they all say that I'm fun and great and that "if they didnt want to spend time with me, they wouldnt", yet I cant bring myself to believe any of it because I have this extremely fucked view of myself that is probably legitimate hatred. Working on it, but the self-depricating thoughts never go away
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Thanks for the replies. I was hoping that a person who does like me could help me realise the good in myself, but maybe it was never there. It's good to know I'm not the only one who has thoughts like these though, it makes me feel a bit more normal.
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All the time, I am a bad person though.
As for you OP, don't worry, being depressed doesn't make you a terrible person. Find some one with a bit more life experience who atleast attempts to understand your struggles. Have a good one OP.
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>>18514370
>Do you ever think you would be a terrible person to be in a relationship with?
yup
>Did any of you believe similar then have it proven wrong?
nope
after numerous relationships of varying lengths, i just stick to bootycalls. its much easier, and i prefer to be alone most of the time anyway. if i found someone that was compatible enough, i might give it another go, but my standards for compatibility are pretty high
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>>18514370
Yes all the time, especially right now as I get over a breakup. You're probably selling yourself short, but regardless, the best you can do is work on yourself OP
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Most certainly, and I'm stuck obsessing over a oneitis that probably doesn't care about me. We talk a little but whenever I try to get her to meet me she's always "busy". I get the feeling of giving up on her sometimes but then I realise that she's probably my best shot as she shows some signs of liking me. But even then I don't think I'm good enough for her.
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not gonna bother with any serious relationship until i can live with myself
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>>18514370
You never know until you try!
I tried it and it turned out I was a massive piece of shit but who knows, you'll probably do better
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I think I would be an amazing person to be in a relationship with but that doesn't help me to be in one.
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>>18514370
Domo arigato autismo roboto
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