I have an inherent fear of being 'weird', unlikeable and socially rejected, probably stemming from the fact that I'm a 23 yo virgin who's bad with people. It's been fucking me up for years. What can I do?
>>18442710
stop thinking that way. Also go get laid then you wont feel "weird"
>>18442710
if you like what you like, you might as well like to like it.
>>18442821
Sure but I think prostitute won't work and I'm pretty hopeless with girls. I look pretty good but that's about it. No idea how to get laid. Tried clubs and tinder but failed because I couldn't get out of my shell.
>>18442710
Pretty sure everyone has that fear.
As common as the fear of public speaking.
You gotta get yourself out of your comfort zone.
Engage people more. Make small talk.
Dont lose hope m8. Just gotta get out there.
>>18442710
I was exactly like this but somehow i no longer am. I think the trick is to put yourself higher than anyone else you know, mom is a good cook?, fuck mom , your spaghetti is the shit. Johnny in it is good on computers, eat shit johnny im way better.
Eventually this beliving in yourself actually invokes some courage i suppose, im a great people person now.