I don't understand why this normie likes me

>>18440827
>fuck
>observe

>fembot
No such thing. All women are normies.

>How do I tell if he actually likes me or wants to pump and dump me?
Who gives a shit? It's probably your only chance to get a dick slide in your pussy so just take it in

>>18440827
The part of your mindset is that you are super insecure.

One easy solution is to ask him on date, buy condoms and later let him fuck you. It will probably be terrible experience and he will left you after few months of fucking (maybe if you make him eat you out, you will start to like it) and this way you will get rid of fuck ton of your insecurities. So you will basically let him do whatever he wants and hopefully gain some confidence and experience from it.

Other way is to ask him on dates and persistently denying him sex until you know for sure he likes/loves you or ghost you.

Eitherway, work on your insecurities femanon. Good luck!

>>18440840
I agree, think of it as jumping into a pool.
at first you don't want to do it because you know it will be cold, but once you do you will be fine and probably not want to get out, inferiority complex is a hell of a things to get over. gl

>>18440840
>It will probably be terrible experience and he will left you after few months of fucking (maybe if you make him eat you out, you will start to like it) and this way you will get rid of fuck ton of your insecurities.

lmao are you retarded?

>>18440827
I'm sure you're a catch. just be careful because a fembot just admitting to being pump and dumped getting knocked up and has herpes after just one time of having sex.

you are a virgin, thats about it, fresh pussy to conquer
hes nice because he learned if he appears non wanting youll spread your legs willingly

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>>18440859
Probably, but you are for certain.

Ops biggest problem is how she feel undesirable. Seeing random boy going crazy for her body and orgasming from her pussy can give her significant confidence boost. Also she will no longer have label virgin, which for some reason give mentally weak people nightmares. Just look at all the threads and post
>i am X years old and virgin, is there any hope for me?

And next time write something constructive or dont bother replying summer child.

>>18440879
>Ops biggest problem is how she feel undesirable. Seeing random boy going crazy for her body and orgasming from her pussy can give her significant confidence boost.

no, it won't, not after they ghost her after they get what they want. your advice is biased.

>>18440827
I'd be interested in you as well assuming you're decent looking. The idea of a virgin that hasn't been soiled and is a loner is appealing to me, someone to start a family with and not the used rags who will seethingly reply to this.
If for whatever reason he does end up caring about you he'll be fucked because you're so fucked in the head you're probably a terrible type to build a family with but he's blinded by the idea of purity
Mine has only had one other before me and she's showing me more and more she would likely not be a good mother and certainly not a caring wife

>>18440891
He doesn't care about purity. He didn't know I was a virgin until yesterday. He did know about my social anxiety/mental problems though.

I'm not completely fucked in the head.

Why do you think I won't be a good mother?

>>18440875
well it's created by a fembot, no surprise

>>18440897
>Why do you think I won't be a good mother?

Not the person you responded to but there's no such thing as a "good" mother, there is about to be a global economic meltdown, you think this guy has a bugout bag prepared for his whole family? No he's a fucking LARPer

>>18440883
>biased
Do you have better advice? Having sex with that guy has imho a good chance of improving her insecurities. What is your suggestion? To remain afraid of boys forever and become cat woman?

What can she lose by giving him a chance?
>virginity
Virginity is social construct.

>>18440910
>Having sex with that guy has imho a good chance of improving her insecurities.

I'm saying there is a 50/50 chance it can make her insecurities better or worse. Nobody wants to be used anon, unless you're a sad sack of shit with no self respect.

Virginity is social construct.

Right, so what's the rush to lose it with someone who might not really care about her? Two sides of the same coin.

It's because you're a virgin. As a woman, being a virgin significantly improves your sexual market value.

>>18440910
Most of the advice in this thread is terrible. Be wary OP. Probably the best way to know his intentions would be to keep seeing him for a while. If he tries to pressure you into having sex, he probably isn't looking for a long-term thing. Then you can just wait until you're ready, and understand his motives better

>>18440915
>used
Did you know that sex feels good for both girl and boy when at least one of them knows what they are doing?

You are looking at sex as some sort of bussiness. And i dont blame you, society is conditioning boys that they want sex in order to prove themselves and girls in order to squeeze every resource the boy has.

However it can be just fun game adults like to play. And all posters here about virginity are the same: they view it as something super negative, something to be embarrased for. So yeah, if she is one of them, having sex should help.

Anyway we need ops input and it seems like this is just another bait thread made by bored immature anons for entertainment.

Peace out!

>>18440936
it's not about resource milking, it's about not being used as a notch in someone's belt, no matter how good it feels in the present

these distractions are what keep girls from fully enjoying themselves to begin with, which is why only jaded sluts can fully let themselves go knowing they can get the same thing from another guy later.

>>18440910
>Virginity is a social construct
Sure, and the milage meter on my car is also a social construct. "Hey guys, I'm selling my car but you shouldn't care about its mileage it's just a social construct!"

>>18440946
it is in fact a social construct, doesn't necessitate that you treat your body like a dumpster, just show some fucking discretion

>>18440946
If you ever find some qtie gf, you will HAVE TO BELIEVE (or want to) she isnt cock carousel because there is no other way around it. Until you get rid if this mindset, you can go back to shitposting
>tfw no gf
because contrary to the memes, pussy is designed for fucking and no matter how big or how many times dick enters it, it heals itself to its former look.

And the mileage of your car is comparable to her age.

Op i am in a similar situation except the other way around. Been talking to girl who told me she has severe depression, anxiety and is khv. I actually like her and want to go out with her, I think mainly because we have so much in common and i admire her intelligence.
What would make you more comfortable in this situation? I think she might be like you and scared of being "pumped and dumped" but I want to assure her that i actually like her. Sorry i don't have any advice

>>18441013
Put in your time, don't rush, treat her like a real person, ask her what's up from time to time so she knows you're thinking about her, there's no real advice other than to wait. Most girls feel like they have to make a decision or else the guy will decide his time is better spent elsewhere. So it's a race to give up your convictions for instant gratification or lose an opportunity. Once she doesn't have to deal with that mental conflict she'll open up to you. She needs to know you'll stay.

>>18440936
It's not bait. You guys are just arguing about virginity which has nothing to do with my issue

It's about me wondering if he just wants to pump and dump me

>>18441053
You have to trust your gut. What is his personality like? Any red flags?

>>18441053
>>18441071
For fuck sake you need to make that judgement yourself at one point. Just go on a date. It's too early to tell and you can't remain a coward the rest of your life. You have nothing to lose by going on a date with this guy. You don't have to fuck him, and if he persists after you made your answer clear, then you know he's a fuckboy.

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>>18440827
He's going to pump and dump u, pre-roasty op. Like u said u told him ur a virg, and he wants that cleanest best pleasure. After he fucked ur virgin pussy, he's going to throw u away like a cum rag

>>18440827
please be my gf instead. London?

>>18441053
Yes, I'm more or less sure this is only about good old pump and dump.

Even here on 4chan you don't come across as a particularly likable/positive/clever person, so I'll just assume that you are rather mediocre character-wise irl too. When we add to this mental problems and issues with normal socialising, well - you don't seem to be a good material for a gf. Of course you probably have some redeeming qualities, but again, from what you write, it looks like negatives outweight positives.

You are however a virgin and that is appealing enough for this guy. I assume that he was nice to you even before he knew that you are a virgin. Out of pity or out if decency, but unless you are 10/10 or he is 2/10 or a desperate virgin himself, I doubt that he sees you as a gf material. Generally speaking, smart people tend to avoid entering relationship with someone who sports a plethora of different issues. So unless this guy is an idiot or truly desperate, he knows that gfing you would be a dire mistake.

>>18440827
Normies are mainly assholes and look for weaknesses in others that they can use to their advantage. Don't give in. For your own good. Find someone who is genuinely nice to you and doesn't know that you're insecure, a fembot and all that jazz (not easy but it's the easiest way not to just get pumped and dumped).

>>18440827
>>18440827
NEVER ADMIT TO A GUY YOU ARE A VIRGIN

Maybe after 3 months of dating him I guess. Arabs legit pay 100000 US to sex a virgin no joke, you might as well tell someone about your secret gold safe.

Its not quite the same for guys because our dicks are always the same virgin or unvirgin.

>>18440827
Tell him you are afraid of a pump and dump

Also no guy is going to put up with a basket of mental problems for months just to get some bad sex. How long have you been going out? If he wanted to pump and dump there are girls that can provide that in a weekend.

>>18441634
How to get pump and dump from a normie 101
Step 1. Tell them you're afraid of pump and dump
Step 2. Get pumped
Step 3. Get dumped

1. Get in relationship.
2. Don't do anything too sexual for a while (like a month or two)
3. Start being sexual, but no sex yet.
4. Everything goes well?
5. If he haven't dumped you after like... 4-5 months or so, he's probably good guy and you can let loose.

>>18440898
They don't exist, so I'm not sure what point you're trying to make.

>durr I'm a girl why is a guy interested in me?
Why do we get such stupid fucking questions here?

>>18441497
Yeah, you judged me over a few posts lol
>>18442028
Ill do this

>>18440916
Hahaha you're retarded that's so not true