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I need help... My SO and I haven't had sex for a month now

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I need help... My SO and I haven't had sex for a month now and that's very hard on me because I have a really high sex drive while he doesnt. I've tried everything. But for the first 2 weeks he just explained to me that he was just under a lot of stress and was tired a lot because of finals so I understood and I told him I would wait and respect him.

But now 3weeks have passed we have no more stress, we are on vacation and he still doesn't want to have sex. I never pressure him into anything but I do try and tease him, send pics, and sometimes tell him straight on that I want to fuck but...he just doesn't want to never. It's always he's to tired and not in the mood or it's too late. It's now been almost a month and 2 weeks with no contact and it's making me really horny and frustrated I tried porn to not bother him and to give him his space but I can no longer take it. I need some dick ffs.

Anyway I don't know what to do hes known I have been horny I have made him aware of it and he knows I have a higher sex drive yet he never puts the effort to even just satisfy me or any effort at all to try and fuck me. It's become really depressing and frustrating.
Just needed to vent
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>>18440102
He's either depressed, cheating on you, or you got fat, or some combination of those three
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>>18440116
No I've been at my same weight since we started dating. But maybe he is depressed he's very negative about life sometimes
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Masturbate in front of him, moan
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>>18440102
Men's testicles produce sperm regardless of ejaculation. Every moment of the day, there is sperm being created. Since balls don't expand, it needs to come out on a regular basis

If he isn't coming in his sleep, he's letting it out in another way. Since he obviously as a warm, wet, and willing fucksleeve ready to go, the problem is you. You are why he isn't fucking you

I can't say anything else. I don't know why. But I can say that his balls need to release. And there's an easy access and he's not taking it.

Shit did his family die or something? Is he about to kill himself due to work? That's the only reasons why he's not ploughing your field
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Ask him if you can fuck another guy just for sex until he wants to have sex again because you have such a high sex drive hell understand you
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>>18440170
Yeah we talked about it as an "if" he didn't like that at all
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>>18440154
Well I mean his job is stressful he does programming and constantly complains about it but he isn't getting as much work atm like last week
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>>18440139
>But maybe he is depressed he's very negative about life sometimes

you should ask him and see if he will open up about shit that might be fucking with him.
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>>18440102
Maybe he just doesn't want to tire himself out, if you just need a dick inside you, hey a bj under his work desk, and then ride him before bed?

Granted you'll have to be happy with a very one sided sex life
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>>18440203
Look mate, I'm really drunk and I'm in a foul mood.

My gut is saying that he just isn't attracted to you.
His job does not seem that stressful (though stressful it is, but it's not like he's ordering bomb strikes on children).
Not getting work is a huge thing.
A very fucking huge thing for a man. An unemployed man is halfway to getting his balls cut off. So that may be a factor, but I've been in that position before and that just makes me want to fuck more in order to forget.

I'm just some drunk cunt who knows nothing. So what I say means nothing.

Don't put any significance into what I say.
Through if he won't fuck you, it means something major is up. That means you got to talk to him. I just don't see a man rejecting good pussy without a real good reason. Either you're a repulsive blob, or there's something bad in is heart
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>>18440102
I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm scared he's just not attracted to me anymore(even though he assures me he is). I just hope we get out of this rut soon.
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>>18440228
I'm sorry we share a same pain
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>>18440102
My bf and I haven't had a normal sex life in almost a year. We have been dry for months. He can't get it up because of how extremely depressed he is. Sometimes a guys dick just breaks when his life is shit.

My advice is to stop talking to him about not getting sex. Talking about it puts more pressure on him and will give him performance anxiety and cause him to not want to have sex with you even when he is horny. I know how bad it feels to have your partner not want to fuck you but you're just going to have to use the STFU method until his dick works again. Don't make the same mistake I did, my BF won't fuck me at all because I made such a huge deal about it for months and months and now he's afraid of sex and we have to go to therapy for it.
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Get a Hitachi wand.
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>>18440540
This. He may has performance anxiety. If you pressure him to perform he'll take it the wrong way as though you won't be satisfied by him.. which you aren't, and is what you're expressing..

you say you don't pressure him but you 'tease, send pics, straight up dtf' baka
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>>18440198
>Yeah we talked about it as an "if"
That poster was making a joke. If you seriously talked to your boyfriend about fucking other guys then he's probably not all that invested in you anymore.
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>>18440154
>Since balls don't expand, it needs to come out on a regular basis
That's really not how human physiology works.
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