I'm at a crossroads. To change myself and become better, I must make my life miserable, although others will like me more, and I might get laid a bunch.
I can A: Stay the same and be somewhat happy
B: Change for others and be outright miserable
TF do I do? Happiness or acceptance?
The best thing is to do what you like.
You only have one life, have to be selfish and thing of yourself.
>>18437138
i mean if you are surely going to be miserable whats the poitn of acceptance? isnt acceptance supposed to bring happiness? whats the point of it if you're not happy? explain
>>18437188
>i mean if you are surely going to be miserable whats the poitn of acceptance?
Because I'll be a much more financially successful person. Although the sacrifice it'll take to get there is really losing out on my youth. Honestly my success isn't even guaranteed, but just more likely. I'll hate everything that I'll have to do, though.
>>18437138
I have a hard time believing those are your only two options.
>>18438312
it sounds like you've decided that life is divided between 'suffering but rich' and 'happy but poor'
this isn't true. there's plenty of middle grounds to happiness.
You can do the hard option and still be happy. Learn to look at life in a different way.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PJSxDv4XrY4
>>18438312
>Although the sacrifice it'll take to get there is really losing out on my youth.
Life happens wherever you are.
cheat the system.
you CAN have your cake and eat it.
for example, work out how to find a job doing what you love. classic example.