So i've been talking to this guy on xbox, pretty much everyday. lol i have a bit of a crush on him, which is obviously why i'm here cuz i'm stressing. he told me he's bad at flirting. ANYWAYS 4chan help me out - after days of not talking to me, he sends me a facebook message saying that he won't be able to be on xbox for awhile. i thought it was strange he would even tell me this at all. why not just go? also today he sent me a youtube video with no explanation, sam cooke's "i ain't got nobody" song with lyrics. WHY??? i don't get it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O8m0mMDpHw
is he trying to say something?
>>18436565
Dont know the song but by the title i believe he wants you to support him through the things hes going on right now.
>>18436565
He likes you! He wants you to be there for him, pretty obvious
>>18436565
Well first of all, did you even ask him if something was bothering him in RL? If you truly liked it him... that question would have came naturally to you.
>>18436565
He probably just got anxious about you not returning his feelings and tried to distance himself from you to save his own feelings. Either that or he's getting grounded.
he did talk to me about a concern for a family member, and we talked about it. he knows that he can talk to me, he said so himself...
>>18436607
Initiate the conversation and ask him in a polite way. If he's still not cooperating there's nothing else to be done I guess.
>>18436565
Well considering the facts... your profile picture and the music video he sent you and the type of song it is.
He thought you might like that song also it made him think of you.
He likes you, at least as a friend, he admitted he's bad at flirting and probably a lot of other things. If you aren't brave enough to admit your feelings maybe just tell a story about "how your friend had this guy she liked and he liked him but he didn't admit his feelings and it all went to shit, and that you feel if a guy has feelings for a girl he should definitely admit them to her no matter what!!! Matters of the heart can't be ignored!! What do you think about if you were in that situation, you'd have to admit your feelings" kind of bullshit and see if he takes the bait.