I think my vagina is too big, or maybe it's numb Even if

>>18373934
nah mate that's normal, most of the nerves are on the outside and the clitoris. please from penetration is usually just from balls slapping the clit or vibrations from forceful slamjamming.

>>18373941
Then why are guys always talking about having dicks big enough to "pleasure" a woman?

>>18373945
Because that's a lie propagated by men for other men. Ever hear women talk about the size of a dick causing the orgasm? Rarely. And most videos of women orgasming online are from clitoral stimulation.

>>18373954
A women is still supposed to feel something though

>>18373934
no pressure or anything from penetration is certainly a concern. were you born a female or did you have a sex reassignment surgery at any time?

>>18373970
this, there's a thing called the g spot. OP, have you ever found your g spot or had a man find it?

>>18373987
I've tried finding it and one guy said he "definitely" found it but I didn't feel anything from him rubbing it, never enjoyed being fingered or fucked in any position.

>>18373985
I was born female.

>>18373934
nerve damage/impairment maybe? sounds like something that you should see a doctor about

>>18374018
I saw sex therapist and they said it was psychological bullshit. I really don't think it's psychological, I don't have any hangups

>>18374032
have you seen an actual physician though? an ob/gyn?

Yeah you should see a doctor, that sounds weird.

>>18374037
>>18374042

Yes I go to the ob/gyn regularly, they say there's nothing wrong with me medically except once when I got a yeast infection.

>>18373994
... I don't know what to do with this. I can't help you other than saying go to a legit doctor and find a guy that is good with his tongue.

>>18374046
can you feel pain? like if you were to finger yourself and scrape a nail on the side of your vagina, would you feel it? if not there's a nerve problem. and the doctors are talking bullshit.

>>18374051
But what could a doctor possibly do about my nerves? I get my vagina checked regularly by doctors.

>>18374054
I can feel my nail scraping the inside of my vagina.

Do you masturbate? If so, do you use any toys? It's not uncommon to be meh on penetration, especially with an unskilled lover, but you don't feel anything when you do it yourself? Maybe you should talk to a lady at the toy shop.

>>18373934
If you are able to cum via masturbation aka stimulation of clit, you are ok. Every girl is different. Most of them just pretend to enjoy piv for the sake of their male lover.

Be reasonable and demand your partner to eat you out. If you cum at least once, your vag should be more sensitive. Even then, why dont just finger yourself while he pounds you away?

Be creative femanon.

>>18374065
Oh God I've stuck all sorts of objects in there, including ben wah balls and dildos and g spot stimulators, nothing works

At this point I've given up on my vagina.

>>18374067
>Most of them just pretend to enjoy piv for the sake of their male lover.
That's not true.
Most women enjoy PiV. A lot of them don't often come from it, but almost all of them enjoy it.

>>18374067
But clit orgasms are so underwhelming, they're just vaguely pleasant and are over in seconds, I want the blissful orgasms that penetration gives women. But I can't even feel anything from penetration, let alone have an orgasm.

>>18374073
Ok i admit that i phrased that poorly, but still the ultimate pleasure often comes with combination of various factors.

>>18374076
OP, easy question for you:
How much do you think about things? Are you able to just lie down and think about nothing? Just close your eyes and enjoy empty head? Try doing that when your lovers eats you out.

Also have you ever felt the "love" for your partner? Some girls are unable to let go and enjoy the moment if they are just sleeping around with randon guys.

Besides you should be able to keep doing even after orgasm. Are you more sensitive after cum? Does your loins throb? Have you found out your fetishes? Tried to having your ass slapped? What turns you on?

>>18374076
Most women don't get off from penetration alone... Get a little bullet vibrator for yourself and a cock ring for your partner. But if you can't feel anything no matter the size or speed and don't think clit orgasms are worth your time (lol)... I guess you're shit out of luck.

>>18373945
Because if we're being honest here, you're a bit abnormal. Most women can feel something. And usually the bigger feels the better. To an extent of course.

>>18374076
maybe you're watching too much porn and have an unrealistic expectation of sex and pleasure in general?

not gonna lie, and don't take this the wrong way, but OP you scare the shit out of me. I have a reallly hard time cumming if the girl isn't enjoying herself, and by enjoying herself I mean on her third orgasm at least.

If I were with a woman that couldn't feel in her vagina... we'd have to create a new branch of medical science to fix that shit or something.

>>18374095
I can totally detach from thinking and get in a meditative state, but it doesn't make me orgasm easier or better, it just means I'm relaxed

No I've never felt love for whoever I'm having sex with, I have imagined a guy I really like/have feelings for while someone else fucked me though.

I don't have a problem "letting go", orgasms are easy, they're just not very pleasurable, they're just meh and underwhelming

My clit is more sensitive after I orgasm but not more pleasurable, just painful.

My loins don't throb.

Yes I do have fetishes, had my ass slapped, been choked and tied up and roleplay and dirty talk and all of that.

Still have never had a satisfying orgasm, only underwhelming ones.

That's why I want to find out how to enjoy penetration, as it might help

>>18374105
What exactly do they feel? What's the feeling like? What are the qualities of the pleasure?

don't give up on your vaj. I'm not going to say nothing is wrong and like another anon said... everyone and at least in my experience every woman is completely different. The very best thing you can do is know yourself. Know what is pleasurable for you and and be honest...tell your partner what works for you. Trust me most guys put in the time trying to figure out what a girl needs. Penetration isn't your thing. NBD. I know plenty of women that don't get off from it and others that go nuts from it. It's really just being comfortable with yourself and letting your partner know too. Also keep in mind sex is like 85% mental. See a doctor if you're still not sure but, give yourself some you time. It really is kinda stupid that school somehow doesn't really cover good sexual health. Most people just fumble thier way around and if you never find a good sex partner you're left wondering what's the big deal. Sex is fucking awesome. Just need to figure out what works for you. I didn't have it really down until my late twenties early thirties.

>>18374114
>I have imagined a guy I really like/have feelings for while someone else fucked me though.
why not fuck the guy you have feelings for? cause I think
>I've never felt love for whoever I'm having sex with
probably has something to do with it. in a big way.

>>18374113
Apparently I'm abnormal so you shouldn't be worried, I'm the one who should be worried.

>>18374114
Maybe you should just try anal? I mean, if you can't even feel a vibrator in your vagina, might as well explore other things.

>>18374126
They never like me back, usually

>>18374122
I've found what works for me but like I said clitoral orgasms are underwhelming

And I've explored my entire body, I don't have erogenous zones or special techniques or anything, and I've spent a lot of time masturbating and exploring my body and trying out things with people. It's so frustrating.

>>18374131
Tried anal, it wasn't unpleasant, just meh.

>>18374120
When the penis is quite large, It's usually a 'full' feeling. It can also (when large NOT massive) stimulate the interior clitoris, g-spot, and even the A-spot. The a-spot is at the back of the vagina and can cause the most pleasure. AKA the reason why most guys wish they had a bigger penis.

>>18374153
:( I feel like I'm missing out on the best thing in the world.

>>18374114
I am afraid you belong to the group of girls who needs to have stable cute manly boyfriend and connect emotionally to him and maybe even train him in order to have that
>godly animal sex with earth shattering orgasms

>>18374141
>they dont like me back
I am sorry femanon. Stop sleeping around with dudes who uses you as walking vagina. Use your energy on finding some cool guy who will appreciate you. Maybe that is your missing puzzle in order to feel good.

Casual sex is meh even for dudes. You cant compare it to having sex with qtie you love.

Stop sleeping around and try to date. Worth a shot.

>>18374162
Yeah I've been trying to date for years, would be really nice to have a guy that cares about me, but I doubt it'll happen, since I've gotten to this age without ever finding a relationship, I've lost hope.

could be the partners.... you should at least like them. lol. I mean we've all had that "your cute, lets fuck" sex but... Ideally the best sex I've ever had was with someone that I was really into. You need to win. I mean you need your confidence back. If you walk into the bedroom like... oh, here we go again... this sucks it's not gonna happen. If it does it's gonna suck. Been there too. May be shelve the idea for a bit. Try and get a guy you actually like. Let that build. Don't move to quick and lose yourself. Also.... There is medication route too. I was on it for depression once but, my understanding its a kind of cure all. welbuterin. Its the happy healthy quit smoking if you have sex problems this might fix that too drug. I'll tell you from a depression standpoint it was amazing. Talk with a psychiatrist.

>>18374169
If I could get a guy to like me back I would have done years ago, unfortunately I can only get casual sex.

>>18374167
You know, for me the best part of sex is seeing my partners enjoying themselves.

>age
>lost hope
Care to elaborate on that? Age, pic and location? Why do you feel like that? I bet you are doing somethibg wrong. If you are able to pull boys for sex, you should be able to make some to commit to you.

What are you doing wrong? Where do you meet the boys? And why nobody wants you?

dont lose hope in the relationship game. You'd be surprised. A good one comes out of nowhere most times. And yes... look I don't wanna be mean and I really do understand this is terrible for you but.. please please don't be a walking vagina. Guy's don't want that. No guy is ever going stay with you or even really like you if you're that way. Well, no good one anyway. May be a shit head. If you're into shit heads then.... You don't sound like you are.

>>18374174
I'm 24, would rather not post pic, and UK

I meet guys online, in bars, in hostels, in parties.

>>18374175

Yeah but guys don't know about how many guys I've slept with, so it shouldn't make a difference or hurt my chances.

>>18374159
Speaking of size, I guess I could consider what you have as the female equivalent of having a small penis, lol haha jk jk.

You have to just go see a doctor about it, preferably a female doctor. Also experiment more with different sizes, of toys of course. But it's not tightness, it never really is so stop worrying about that. You'll have to keep experimenting, and at different times to. Maybe try around or heck even on your period. Vibrators inside your vagina?.....Anal?

All hope is not lost. However, the best advice you can take from here is:

A: You're not 'broken'
B: Seek medical help. Don't be ashamed of being assertive in getting what you want. Don't take "you're just like that" without an answer as to why. Good luck.

>>18374204
>bars, hostels, parties
Sorry, but majority of people there are looking for quick sex or just to get drunken silly. Try something else. You cerainly wont meet introvert there looking for his future wife.
>online
Online is mixed and depends heavily on luck and which app/website. Okcupid?
>24
>lost hope
Lol. You are at the start of mature adult life. Try dating older guys closer to 30 than to 20. And try social events which arent designed for drunken horny teens.

>guys dont know the number
If you put out on first date or even before that, you are considered easy / slut. The girl you fuck, but not the girl you date. Nobody want easy girl femanon. Nobody. Dont trust lies in tv and feminazis tumbrl posts. Wife material gf dont suck your cock at wc on partie within first 10 minutes.

>>18374235
>If you put out on first date or even before that, you are considered easy / slut

Lol they never go on a date with me, they want sex and nothing else

>Sorry, but majority of people there are looking for quick sex or just to get drunken silly.

I know. But I've looked in other places (hobby groups, friend groups etc) for someone who wants more than sex and never found anyone

Yes I've tried okcupid

How do you get a guy to want to date you?

I go to social events that aren't designed for drunken horny teens, but never find anyone.

>>18374244
Hey girl. Don't listen to all these maleanons. They're just parroting porn tbqh.
Most women don't get vaginal orgasms. It all depends on where the arousal tissue extends to. Feeling nothing in your vagina is normal.
Remember, the clitoris is analagous to the penis, the vagina to the Prostatic utricle. How many men do you know who have orgasms from them? Not all at least.
Listen to the why factor episode on female orgasms.

>>18374244
>how
Combination of luck, attractivity and being avaiable for dudes to find you.

And remember, a lot of single dudes are shy. Incapable of talking to girls at all. Or they simply think they have no chance at you so they never try.

So help out your luck a little and ask dudes yourself. Greet them, chat them up and if they wont ask you for your phone number, give it to them without asking. If they wont call you back, dont worry about it much and ask new dudes.
>tried okcupid
And? Rejected somebody? No replies? Same principle. Browse dudes and chat some up.

Also consider giving some "less desirable" ones a chance. If you aim at 10/10 chad thundercock, you compete with all girls at london. Try average dudes. And dont put out easily.

How are you at mental capabilities? Able to hold conversation about some topics? Do you do anything else than drinking alcohol? Do you work?

>>18374291
Yeah like I said I tried, approached dudes, and I don't have high standards

Unfortunately it hasn't worked out

I have hobbies and I'm a student. I'm fine with holding conversations, usually.

>>18374326
You suddenly stopped giving enough details. That means you are either uncomfortable, lieing or dont really want to solve issue
>tfw no bf

Make up your mind. However 24 is too early to give up on life. The
>hasnt worked out
is very bland to give advice or useful output. I would guess you have been rejected / cum and dumped few times and become sort of jaded.

So what will it be? Another bland (you) or something to work with? Because some anons on /adv/ are scared to admit their own failures and move on. Are you one of them?