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I know this sounds defeatist, but I think I should give up on women

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Hi, I've been thinking about doing this for quite sometime eventhough it sounds very negative.

The thing is that women simply don't like me.

I'm not sure if it's because of my different attitude for someone of my ethnicity, or the way I talk or act.

The thing is that I have never gotten any girl to actually like me.

This might sound silly, but I also chose to go to an escort because being a virgin (early 20's) started to get to me.

I just got sick and tired of seeing happy couples every day and everybody talking about sex.

I can honestly tell you guys that I've been rejected over 300 times in the past 4 years.

My life basically consists of going to work, sleep, play guitar (complete beginner), play video games, talk to women, help parents pay bills, talk to a few friends and driving lessons.

Lastly, I think I can achieve some happiness by forgetting about women, get better at playing guitar, get my drivers license and go to college.

I'm not looking for a perfect girl nor one who is a virgin.

I've been looking for a girl I can actually enjoy talking to about (for example) books like Clockwork Orange, The Invisible man or even Biology, food, movies and a few other things.

Do you know a guy who gave up on women and has chosen to solely improve his life ?

How's he doing ?
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the problem is you believe you need to 'give up' or 'commit to' women as a whole.

you are so over thinking this its giving everoyne else a headache, and you spacing every single line is pretty frustrating. why 'commit' to anything? if you want to just chill and enjoy life, go chill and enjoy life. if that doesn't work, start hitting on women again. its a myth that you need to 'commit' to the idea of chasing after or being single.
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>>18370803
https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-18
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>>18370803
>I'm not sure if it's because of my different attitude for someone of my ethnicity, or the way I talk or act.

You seem to focus on ethnicity, that's usually turn off.

>I can honestly tell you guys that I've been rejected over 300 times in the past 4 years.

How did you meet and find a 100 girls a year that seemed compatible with you? Or were you asking random girls?

>I've been looking for a girl I can actually enjoy talking to about (for example) books like Clockwork Orange, The Invisible man or even Biology, food, movies and a few other things.

Why wouldn't there be one? Those topics are pretty normal. BUt can you talk about what she likes, too? Or does she have to be your clone for it to work?
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>>18370836
>You seem to focus on ethnicity, that's usually turn off.

Yes, these girls might see me as a weird/slightly nerdy guy just because don't act like most guys who are of the same race as me.

Maybe I shouldn't say this on 4chan, but I think all the girls I've spoken to/hit on see me as a weird black guy instead of usual cool, strong, chill or even stoic black guy.

>How did you meet and find a 100 girls a year that seemed compatible with you? Or were you asking random girls

The vast majority are random girls.

>BUt can you talk about what she likes, too?

Honestly, not really.
I mostly ask her questions about why she likes this or that, most of the time they get bored and walk away because I don't know how to keep her interested.
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>>18370900

oh boy you're that guy. how many of these threads are you going to make? go ahead and quit girls.
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>>18370803
What kind of work do you do?
How often do you spend time with friends? What are your friends relationships with women like?
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>>18370900
>The vast majority are random girls.

That's why you have so many rejections dude. Your thrist must be so obvious by this point. You have to chill.

>Honestly, not really.

Then why will she want to talk with you?

>Yes, these girls might see me as a weird/slightly nerdy guy just because don't act like most guys who are of the same race as me.

No, no. The fact that YOU focus on race is the turn off.
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>>18370908
Who are you talking about ?

I know I don't have any proof,but I'm new here, believe it or not.
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Im in the same boat man. I have actually got a few girls to like me but i always fuck it up without even knowing it. I think i am gonna try going gay for a bit just to see where i stand. I think maybe i am gay because everything I get intimate with a girl, I cant get hard, no matter how hard i try. I get hard while we are making out and stuff but as soon as the pants come off it goes limp. Its so frustrating because that is usually when i never see the girl again. I figure i must be gay or something.
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>>18370803
>>18370803
You are shallow, self centered, short sighted, insecure, racist, and immature.
Your interactions likely come off forced and desperate.
Fix yourself before you try to drag someone else into your shitty existence.
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>>18370803
https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
READ IT ALL FRIEND
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>>18371189
I know this feeling, I'm sorry anon.
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>>18371189
Lol just do nofap and no porn
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>>18371496
I have been. it doesn't help. I went 96 days then relapsed in Late March. I am now on day 64 and I still suck at everything.
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>>18370803
>I've been rejected over 300 times in the past 4 years.

I don't believe you and even if I do you must be doing something horrifically wrong. Probably to do with fundamentals.
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>>18370900
>The vast majority are random girls.
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>>18370803
The thing is.

>Are you at least good looking?
>Are you a creepy fat fuck?
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>>18370803
Improving yourself is what makes you an attractive individual. Being someone with interests, passions and professions is what makes you a dateable and sexworthy person. "Giving" is just silly and absurd. You should definitely take some time away from your negative beliefs about women for sure, but you also need to exert a great deal of effort into your interactions with women and developing a great sense of self-awareness. By the sounds of things, it probably is likely you have been repeating the same methods of meeting and attracting women an extraordinary number of times to dismal results. Where exactly are you meeting women, if I may ask?
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>>18372364
I meet most of them at shopping malls, outside of my workplace, walking down any street and sometimes outside of libraries
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>>18370803
I tried to and it doesn't work. Women are like drugs for men, we cannot quit then unless we get castrated or take drugs to remove our sex drive.

Just pay hookers and be done with it. Some people are fundamentally undateable and unlike able but we can just pay to substitute the feeling we crave. After a while you even forget you're paying for it and it seems genuine.
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>>18370803
I know a guy like that he ended up fine but is kinda afraid of women


I would say give up finding a girlfriend but treat girls like mates
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>>18370803
My best advice I can give you is work on yourself. Go to the gym. Study hard. Have hobbies. Be confident. If you exert success women will be attracted to you. Don't bother chasing them. It's a waste of time. Be the best version of yourself. I have known guys who put all their energy into women and got fuck all out of it.
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>>18370803
Stop trying to find women so desperately.
Pick a hobby. Get more friends. Stay out more. Meet new people.
You are much more likely to find a woman without looking desperately for one.
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>>18370836
He mentioned it once and depending on his race it might be vaild. If he's black for example then not acting hood, the way white chicks who want to piss their dad off expect, would be a turn off.
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