Help, I want to keep a guy as a boytoy and I don't know how to approach the situation.
We've fooled around, and we hang out sometimes, but I think he wants something beyond friendship.
I'm okay with being fwb but I'm mostly interested in him as a pet/boytoy. I just want us to fuck, have fun, but have him listen to me then it comes to sexual things.
I've told him I'm not interested in a real romantic relationship, which he was fine with. He been treating me differently now, though. He's linking fingers with me when we kiss, or he'll kiss my forehead after we get hot and heavy.
I feel like his body language says he had feelings beyond fwb and I just want a pet.
What do I do?
He might think your a slut and doesn't want dick breath or if you just swallowed his kids he doesn't want to see them ...or demand that mofo that he will fuck you at your command
>>18370406
You type like English isn't your first language. I'm looking for legitimate advice.
Probably that guy love you so your better option is to find another toy
>>18370483
Please stop giving advice if you literally can't type
Someone with feelings for you is easier to turn into your pet, but low self esteem helps.
>>18370560
I like him as a person, though, I don't want to hurt him
Talk to him about what is on your mind.
Or find a new fuck boy. Should not be difficult to do.
>>18370583
He keeps insisting he isn't feeling anything, but he does stuff to be that only my long term ex did.
I've hung out with dudes that just wanted to fuck me and they don't treat me the way he does.
I'm scared he's lying and I don't want to break his heart.
Also, he's perfect for what I want, it would be hard to replace him
>>18370591
Then it's on him for not being honest.
Wouldn't be your fault.
So I guess you just take that risk or try to find another dude.
>>18370599
Alright, thank you
Another reason why I'm having trouble with this is because I'm older than him and I'm now his first everything. I don't know if that makes it worse.
>>18370591
You say you just want him as a sex toy yet you talk about him like he's your SO.
Found the problem, your slut armor broke and The Feelings TM invaded your body.
I'm just trying to be funny not mean but seriously it sounds like you aren't 100% opposed the way you speak of him.
>>18370571
If you think you can make him happy as your pet, you aren't hurting him. But some people need to be manipulated into happiness.
>>18370394
dont worry about him having feelings for you lol you are older, it's not gonna last. Now he's sexually satisfied, but sooner or later another girl will come along and he will leave.