Girl became suddenly uninterested in me and I wondered why. She told a mutual acquaintance it was because I emailed her for her number. I did because it was the only way I could get in touch with her. Why is this a big deal? Not like I was shy around her or was going to sit around and text her cat pictures or whatever the implication is.
>>18362831
sounds like bs
>>18362831
Hilarious. I have an unusual flip-flopping problem instead.
>coworker was flirty and kinda interested in me
>then she's not
>then she was again
>then she's not
I will never understand.
>>18362831
idfk, I once gave a woman that consistently would just like make contact through other people, my number so she could actually contact me through a method I actually use. then just never heard from her again. good either way I guess. who fucking knows OP.
I used facebook to get like 3 girls numbers, but I never did it in a "hey anon can i get your number" sort of way. I always started a conversation like
>hey do you know what we need to study
>umm i think just chapters 1-10
>cool. did you start yet
>not yet haha but i will soon
>wanna meet up tomorrow we could just go to library beforehand
>sounds good
>cool whats ur number i'll just text u mine
how did you do it?
>>18363028
basically just asked her for the number
>>18363056
she's being weird and dumb and you should stop caring OP.
>>18362831
>Girl became suddenly uninterested
Was she interested before, though? Maybe she was just being friendly and when she finally caught on to your intentions she decided to back off.
>>18362831
>Why is this a big deal?
We have no idea. We don't know you, we don't know her, we don't know anything about the context of this situation other than the 3 sentences you provided us.
She doesn't like you anymore. Who cares why? There is no point in speculating.
>>18362831
Seems like she wasn't interested in the first place
>>18363074
>>18363066
there was definitely initial interest but I guess not that much if a fuckin email destroys it
>>18363109
Sure. Don't you see the problem in your own logic? UNless you e-mail had a dick pic attached, she couldn't havel ost interest just because of it. She probably wasn't interested from the get go.
>>18363109
Explain how you know she was interested
>>18363113
>>18363131
She used to be flirty/touchy and nervously initiate interactions when we saw each other but it means fuck all now.
Why would you wanna be with a girl that loses interest over an email? It's not worth the hassle OP, dont blame yourself over it. If you feel like you can't let it go then just tell her what an immature bitch she is being (maybe phrase it differently) over something small and from then on act like you dont know her. Dont think how much that will change anything tho
>>18363444
you're right, anon