Do girls like being called sluts/whores over (dirty) text or am I being too aggressive? Should I be softer? I feel like I would weird them out.
>>18359525
Ask first if she's into rough play
>>18359525
It depends on the girl. Some are really into that others will be offended. Try to start out less harsh and see what the response is first
>>18359525
>Do girls like being called sluts/whores over (dirty) text
Stupid question. We have no idea what "girls" like because girls aren't a hive mind. They all like different things for different reasons because they're all individual human beings, not a species of Pokemon.
Feel out social situations for yourself and don't depend on a board full of teenage virgins to inform your decisions through wild speculation about the preferences of some girl they know nothing about.
You should never be texting about stuff you haven't done together in person. This is setting up some impossible expectations.
>>18359529
Alright. I usually do it when the back and forth gets more intense and when she seems submissive. But I guess I don't judge them accurately.
>>18359555
Clearly you have been watching a lot of bondage porn. Have a lot of vanilla sex first. Then discuss your fetishes.
>>18359525
I wouldn't like it at all. Probably depends on the girl though.
>>18359712
Yup. I find it very upsetting and I'm generally pretty freaky.
Be softer. It's not cool to be called slut or whore especially through text lol wtf loser
Literally just ask if you're already in a position where she's comfortable talking sexy with you.
Just straight up ask if she likes being talked to in a dirty way and clarify what you mean if she needs you too, just add "haha some girls seem to like it I guess" or something.
>>18359752
This could work.
Also realize most guys take what women say sexually even when it isn't.
Are you sure she's talking dirty to you? If she hasn't sent pics or talked straight up about dicking, you may be running yourself into a mortifying situation.