Does lube help penetration if she doesn't get wet at all

>>18357918
Short answer: yes, lube helps. It's a godsend.

Long answer: if she doesn't want to be penetrated, she doesn't want to be penetrated.

>>18357918
sounds like she's could be a he and had surgery to invert her penis. they look like real ones if done properly.

>>18357921
She says it's ok as long as it doesn't hurt, just the problem is that it does.

>>18357923
She's 5'6 and has an obviously female skeletal frame and no surgery scars anywhere.

Unless she got some issues (hormonal etc.):
No arousal = No natural lubrication.
Why that is, is for you two to find out.

>>18357975
She just doesn't. That's the whole story.

Then yes, use lube, That's what it's for.

Protip: to avoid yeast infection, use a lube that has no flavors or sugars. Parabens can cause bad reactions in some people, too.

Water-based feels more natural but dries out faster. Silicone lasts longer but can mess up silicone condoms or toys.

>>18358062
Always use water based.

>>18358062
We use condoms so water-based it is.

>>18357918
>if she doesn't get wet at all ever
you're doing something wrong.
maybe she's into something kinky and hasn't told you.

>>18358160
I've asked her again and again and she says there's nothing. I've checked her internet history, too, and she honest-to-god just does not watch porn of any kind.

And she's very open about everything.

>>18358176
Ask her if is she is asexual. I bet she is the kind of girl which doesnt even masturbate or never had proper orgasmus.

Some girls are like that. Hormone imbalance, abused as kid, raped, unable to relax and enjoy herself or just born without libido. These girls do sex only to keep boys hooked up. Sex is more than often only tool to manipulate boy into marriage / relationship.

When they go to internet and search on sex, everything suggest it is the best thing ever. But for them it is annoyance at best.

My only advice is:
Make her lie on bed, close her eyes, hug her, cuddle and whisper something into her ear. Wait like this for 10 minutes or more. She has to think about nothing and not be scared.

Then you eat her pussy. Google some guide. Try various moves and ask her for input. If nothing, try something else.

If this doesnt work, she is broken in mental or physical way. Then just tell her about asexuality and find new girl.

Fucking her with lube will feel bad, because starfish syndrome. It is like fucking doll or corpse.

Use lube.

If she's on any sort of medication or birth control that can cause vaginal dryness.

if she doesn't like sex, then you need to stop that being a shit and tring to get some.

>>18358176
so even after having sex, she's not wet at all?

two things I want you to do, three actually.

1. dunno how big you are, but push on her cervix. regardless of her arousal this will cause her body to produce lube. this is a biological process that should work.

2. maybe ask if she wants to do some roleplay, or get some handcuffs out, get kinky with it. if it's a mental thing, something she wants isn't being fulfilled.

3. if that doesn't work check real close for >>18357923 you know your vaginal anatomy right? you know what a clit should look like? if it doesn't look right you might have a problem.

she can't not be producing any lube, thats how the vagina cleans itself. no lube = medical problems.

>>18358220
oh also, if she's on birth control that can cause problems, maybe check and try changing contraception methods?

>>18358220
>push on her cervix

how about we stick a tube in your urethra.

>>18358225
>change contraception methods

how about you fuck off?

>>18358241
what's your problem dude? someone gives you advice and you act like a fucking retard?

>>18358245
do you have a cervix?
it's really uncomfortable if it gets bumped.

did you know that the pill is take for other reasons other than not getting pregnant?

so yeah. fuck off.

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>>18358251
stop projecting you mentally ill cunt

>>18358219
She just doesn't like it at all.

The problem is making it as tolerable as possible.

>>18358220
She doesn't let me do any kind of foreplay. Says it's a waste of time.

>>18358225
Not on any pills.

>>18358241
Shut the fuck up.

>>18358245
That's not OP.

>>18358251
Make your own thread for your own problems.

>>18358251
could just be you. my last gf liked when I went as deep as I could and just gently pushed on her cervix. I'm not saying smash that shit like a like button or something, geez. but if you tickle the cervix, lube will be produced. or it should be.

>>18358263
basically this lol. wtf.

>>18358300
>She doesn't let me do any kind of foreplay
well then of course she's not wet. lol I see now that you are young people. there is not really an easy way without writing you a book that I can explain what you need to do. the tldr is that you need to do some foreplay. you need to get her hot and bothered. women are not just wet all the time, and they don't get wet as fast as you get a boner.

she gets wet with chad

>>18358312
She literally won't let me. She gets mad if the sex takes any longer than it absolutely has to.

>>18358329
Sounds like you need to find another girlfriend.

There's a reason that people need to be sexually compatible. It shouldn't be a major issue in a relationship.

>>18358329
man then idk. you're gonna have to do some real complicated work on getting her to open up sexually then. that or she's not all that into you.

either you spend several months being romantic and physically affectionate without sex to get her to open up to just being touched, and also teasing the shit out of her until she's basically yelling at you to get inside her... or you break up cause she doesn't seem interested and I can tell you from experience, if you're not having good sex, ever, the relationship will not last. it is a necessary part of the triad of relationships. trust, effort/caring, and passion.

>>18358359
also, protip. if you've got a gf that is screwing you on all three of those fronts and no amount of talking about it and trying to work through it fixes anything, don't stick around until all three are broken at the same time.

effort into the relationship will be the first to go, most often because you've made it clear you're serious and that means you should be taken advantage of cause you're not going anywhere. then they'll stop putting in effort in bed, or stop sex entirely. then they'll break trust.

just some marginally related advice.

>>18358359
She SAID she's fine with sex as long as it's painless. The issue is making it so.

end the relationship immediately
having sex with somebody who's "fine with it" or "gets mad if the sex takes any longer than it absolutely has to" is going to fuck your head up. hers, too.
you'd seriously be better off with a realdoll.

>>18358445
This.

Sorry op, your gf is broken.

>>18357918
doesn't get hard = sexual arousal dysfunction
doesn't get wet = sexual arousal dysfunction

Don't waste time on a woman who has female erectile dysfunction - she will just blame it on you and make you feel bad when she is the one with issues. You don't deserve being insulted and having your masculinity attacked for her shortcomings.

you gotta get her turned on
try rubbing a live octopus over her body

>>18357918
Maybe she's not attracted to you but still sticks around as many girls do?

>>18358867
FUCKING. KEK'D. great visual
>"are you turned on yet babe?"

Have you talked to her to find out what she likes?

Also, it might be good to get her used to touching without expecting (or in her case dreading) sex. Get naked and take turns touching each other in all kinds of ways. The only rules are that you can't touch boobs, butts, or genitals, and you can't have sex afterwards. That'll help her get used to enjoying physical touch without worrying about the sex part