I would like some tips on how to become a bad boy that women lust over.
I know that confidence, assertiveness and a sense of humor are essential, but I don't know the most appropriate social situations to deploy them, or if I've gone too far in using them on a woman I'm attracted to.
Also, how significant is looks in being a "bad boy"? Does a male model have trouble attracting women if he's insecure and needy?
I am white, 5'9", average face, started lifting recently and wear well-fitting fashionable clothes btw.
What are you after? You're asking contradictory things. Do you want to become a bad boy or popular with girls?
>>18355254
I suppose a man who successfully flirts with girls would be popular among them. Not popular in the sense they're always coming to him to solve or listen to their problems, but popular in that women enjoy and are aroused by his mere presence.
Have money. Pick up the bill. Try having a boat party. Nobody likes a cheap jerk unless u got a big dick
>>18355362
>Have money. Pick up the bill. Try having a boat party. Nobody likes a cheap jerk unless u got a big dick
I don't have that sort of money, and if I did I wouldn't blow it away- it would be clear I would be covering up any insecurities.
I have known men who had very little income and no education but who could easily pick up (educated, cultured) women for a night of hot sex.
Though I don't know how big their dicks were.
>>18355245
You are pretty screwed in the looks department by the sounds.
Essentially you are really left with the option of generating an incredible charisma, improving your looks and body and getting wealthier
They pick up lady's because they know what their dick can do. Pop a Viagra to give confidence. Have you ever seen a rich guy with no girlfriend
>>18355245
Most girls don't like "bad boys". It's a fucking stupid meme that needs to stop.
Be interesting. Don't take people's bullshit. Be self confident. Smile. Make people laugh. That is it.
>>18355451
be yourself, its the only real way that you'll be happy in the long run anyway. sex is meaningless and short libbed. you find something real when you're yourself.
>>18355463
"Be yourself" doesn't mean "don't do anything or try to improve yourself ever".
You can be yourself and try to improve your self confidence, your ability to set boundaries, be more interesting or such things.
Dude women dont lust over bad boy.
I tried dating my good girl crush but she kept refering to me as a bad boy/player and lost interest in me. Fken still hurts desu
On the other hand chick in my class wants the D, but she has a bf that is in same class. Im p much bad boy to this one.
If you want tips, here it is.
Look like one and act like one. Tease girls about stuff in a fun way, talk about her body, talk about sex in a testing way. Also dont be considerate, do what you want and she can tag along mentality.
Dont give a fuck pretty much.
Id swap my personality if i couldve gotton my good girl crush but fuck it, shit happens
face and money
you become a "bad boy" by not caring about them and they wanting you, so you do things that are hurtful/inconsiderate yet they keep coming at you
>>18355245
Wearing "fashionable clothes" will deffinetely not make you a badboy. Try to give yourself a trademark. Opt to wear only plain black or t-shirts with very simple designs on them. For a long time in highschool I rember for whatever reason that a good bit of guys in the school started wearing very complexly designed shirts, think Ed Hardy or affliction. Any way, the whole thing made me think, should I really conform to this shit just to fit in, so I got an idea; I would go to goodwill or wherever and buy a bunch of simple clothing that would in actuality make me stand out from all the overly complex garbage. I rember my favorite shirt, which I still wear to this day, was just a well fitting black shirt with a single white 2 dementional skull on it.
>>18355245
Learn not to give a fuck. Literally, don't give a fuck about anything. Now, that's not to say you'll break the law/be a cunt, just brush things off. Dress simple, plain coloured tees, Levi 501's and a decent belt/boot combo will leave you looking good. Talk to everyone the same, flirt with every woman and shoot the shit with every guy. It'll catch on.