How do I develop an actual work ethic? There are a bunch of things I want to do but I just cant push myself to do it and I just refresh 4chan for the rest of my day after work. I've had a job for a year now because I have to , and it seems to have made things worse.
I have a bunch of interests in a variety of random subjects but absolutely no expertise or "passion" in any field.
So essentially I know a bunch of useless crap, none of it is practical in anyway. Probably to do with the fact that I never finish anything I do.
So the question is, how do I develop a work ethic so I can push myself to learn something ACTUALLY useful?
ps sorry if my phrasing is shitty i'm a total scatterbrain
>>18155186
Are you me?
I want to get a good work ethic to learn a new language, meet a girl, join SF, finish reading The Divine Comedy. But I don't know how.
I think one way is to to what Based monkey once said to BoJack
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2_Mn-qRKjA
>>18155186
I could answer you but I can't be bothered.
>>18155186
just learn to resist things and be determined to get things done, can you resist that extra donut? if you care you will do it. you lack self discipline. if you can wake up to go to work. then you can work or study at home. you have to do whats good for you and not what you currently want. learning a new language is good for you in the long run instead of browsing porn.
>>18155375
How do I resist shit? I usually run out of willpower crash and waste the rest of my night on 4chan and shit. Wasted lots of precious weekends that can otherwise be used for studying.
>>18155398
don't stress and realise things take time , so try not to waste time but realise you cant do anything about the past and make the most of the present. also dont hate what you are doing and fing a way to enjoy it even if it is difficult . soon it wont seem so much of a chore and start with an hour or two a day and in a month you wont find it hard to consume your free time learning a new language or something .
>>18155398
also take breaks when you need to go to the bathroom or drink some water but try to keep them under 5 minutes and carry on doing your work. maybe have a cheeky wank to relive sstress