My gf and I broke up a little over a month ago. She dumped me. I started doing the non contact rule hoping she would come back.
Someone I was interested in a long time ago suddenly became interested in me. We went on a date, but i realized I wasn't ready to move on.
My ex found out through a mutual friend, and she started posting a lot of out of character stuff like pics of her with guys and sexy selfies and stuff (she would never do this before, even before we started dating). I'm positive it's because of me.
I'm not sure if she misses me or if she's just mad at me. Did I mess up my chances of getting back with her? Or is she jealous (good for me)? Should I finally try and contact her to show her I actually haven't moved on?
>I started doing the non contact rule hoping she would come back
>I'm still stalking her on facebook tho
You're missing the point of "no contact". It's not to get back with someone who broke up with you, it's to help you get over them. She's gone, she wanted to terminate the relationship, she wants something else. Why do you still try to be with her after she made clear that she doesn't want to be with you? Accept it and move on. Stop obsessing about her and what she thinks. Delete her off facebook and everything else. Stop being needy.
>>18153631
Just move on faggot
Shes out there slutting it up now, its time to loose hope and find a few cumdumpster
You did the right thing. Give it time. If/when she reaches out avoid all small talk. Tell her you want to see her and make a date.
>>18153707
And then fuck her. No wasting time either. If you like this new girl better, then the ex doesn't exist to you or fuck both but still dump the ex
Hang in there bro. Be strong!