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ok so its like this i talk to this girl online a lot
im talking like 60000 messages
and we like talking online
but in real life its like she hates me or some shit
she doesnt ever talk to me
doesnt want to hang out in real life
hugs are really awkward even though theyre not with other people
i feel like its a one sided friendship irl
i confronted her about it but she rejects it all
i dont really trust that desu
do you guys think its one sided or that im forcing it?
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>>18152701
...is this real? Cut contact immediately it's obvious she's just using you as an emotional sponge. And wants nothing legitimate with you whatsoever. Jesus have some self respect
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>>18152725
see ive had those thoughts
i know shes smart and manipulative cause i am as well bus obviously shell never admit to anything like this. i dont know how to cut her off were in the same class and sit close to each other
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>>18152734
Just gradually talk to her less. Make your messages shorter and take longer between replies until you're no longer talking to her. If she confronts you on it pretend like there's nothing going on.
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>>18152701
It's obvious she's just using you as emotional tampon.

If I were you, I'll go chase another. Not gonna waste my time being treated like shit. Cut contact with her.
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>>18152748
thing is ive known her for 2 years
i dont know if i really want to cut ties with her
yea beta as fuck i know
i think i should just not talk to her unless she talks to me
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>>18152758
>thing is ive known her for 2 years
You're having some kind of bias since you've invested your precious time on her, but man, have some respect to yourself. You obviously don't like the way she treated you, why bother going? You'll just end up whining more and nobody will like that, even yourself.

>i think i should just not talk to her unless she talks to me
That's a good start, now the next part is to invest your time on something that you like or at least giving you favorable returns.
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>>18152772
ill need some more opinions before i do anything drastic like that but for now im gonna back the fuck up if she comes to me ill talk but if not i wont.
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>>18152801
anyone else wanna throw in their 2 cents?
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>>18153161
The other posters already told you what you need to do. If you're too beta to take their advice then that's your problem. You're obviously being used and have no sense of self respect because you're still associating with her. Cut her off, whether it's gradually or not she needs to exit your life. If you don't, then you deserve to be treated like a dish rag the way you currently are.
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